Escorts that use RentMen. Ever search for clients?

[+ Keith30309]

I don’t care if an escort looks at my profile or if he contacts me.

 

But lately I’ve had two clients check out my profile. Which, frankly, I find creepy.

I get that a bit... what’s creepy is when you start getting emails asking for explicit details of a meeting. One guy was getting a little persistent and so I found a Pornhub 90 minute compilation of cum shots and sent him the link and told him I videoed our session. He never emailed me again.

[Michael Paul]

They're just using your photo for some quality time with their hand

They're just using your photo for some quality time with their hand

I realize that there are those that like to use us as self gratification. One never knows if a "Personal Hello might open up a conversation.

[+ José Soplanucas]

They're just using your photo for some quality time with their hand

 

That is what escorts usually assume. However there are many reasons why a client may check your profile several times. One of them is double checking when pondering a hire. I do not jerk off at escorts profiles, I prefer porn; but I do check often a few guys profiles. I have a pool of guys I keep in my To Do List, and every time I am ready to hire I check again all of their profiles trying to make a decision.

[+ VictorPowers]

That is what escorts usually assume. However there are many reasons why a client may check your profile several times. One of them is double checking when pondering a hire. I do not jerk off at escorts profiles, I prefer porn; but I do check often a few guys profiles. I have a pool of guys I keep in my To Do List, and every time I am ready to hire I check again all of their profiles trying to make a decision.

I was making a joke. I definitely understand visiting a profile a few times. Clients shop around just like in other hiring scenarios in other industries.

[+ José Soplanucas]

I was making a joke. I definitely understand visiting a profile a few times. Clients shop around just like in other hiring scenarios in other industries.

 

I know you were making a joke. But other professionals not as smart as you are have opened whole threads in the past to bitch about clients jerking off at their pics, and even to suggest charging for watching at their pics.

I guess being hot and being self-centered are often together.

Again, I am not addressing this comment to you.

[+ VictorPowers]

I'd encourage that behavior Flattered really.. if someone said they did.

[+ GregM]

I don’t care if an escort looks at my profile or if he contacts me.

 

But lately I’ve had two clients check out my profile. Which, frankly, I find creepy.

 

Maybe it's fate telling you its time to switch careers?

 

Hugs,

Greg

[+ WmClarke]

Maybe it's fate telling you its time to switch careers?

 

Hugs,

Greg

Sure. I’ll get right on that.

[Michael Paul]

That is what escorts usually assume. However there are many reasons why a client may check your profile several times. One of them is double checking when pondering a hire. I do not jerk off at escorts profiles, I prefer porn; but I do check often a few guys profiles. I have a pool of guys I keep in my To Do List, and every time I am ready to hire I check again all of their profiles trying to make a decision.

You are most likely correct. I do believe some do indeed enjoy looking a pictures and videos. I have had a few ask me if I was going to be adding more videos. That they enjoy watching them.. Which does not bother me. Perhaps one day they will get brave and want to meet me for a real experience.

[Sandlapp]

I got an unlock today from someone I have never contacted, nor looked at their profile. I thought it was odd.............

I’ve gotten a couple of those.

[Sandlapp]

You are most likely correct. I do believe some do indeed enjoy looking a pictures and videos. I have had a few ask me if I was going to be adding more videos. That they enjoy watching them.. Which does not bother me. Perhaps one day they will get brave and want to meet me for a real experience.

I had an escort once contact me to ask if I was serious about setting something up or if I was just going to keep looking at his pictures forever. He seemed pissed. I had never contacted him. I stopped looking at his ad and never arranged a meeting.

On the other hand, I once had another escort contact me after I viewed his pictures. He was friendly and I appreciated the initiative. I followed through with a meeting.

[HotWhiteThirties]

I don’t care if an escort looks at my profile or if he contacts me.

 

But lately I’ve had two clients check out my profile. Which, frankly, I find creepy.

Same here. I don't mind at all if an escort does, but quite a few "clients" have done the same for me. Not sure how to take that, perhaps a new business opportunity ? ;-)

[HotWhiteThirties]

I had an escort once contact me to ask if I was serious about setting something up or if I was just going to keep looking at his pictures forever. He seemed pissed. I had never contacted him. I stopped looking at his ad and never arranged a meeting.

On the other hand, I once had another escort contact me after I viewed his pictures. He was friendly and I appreciated the initiative. I followed through with a meeting.

 

Provider #1 revealed his douche bag behavior up front and did you a favor. His loss and your gain by my estimation.

[instudiocity]

I'd encourage that behavior Flattered really.. if someone said they did.

AKA Hey, don’t knock masturbation, that’s sex with someone I LOVE!

[+ tristanbaldwin]

I've always had a more passive approach to reaching out to clients- always letting them message me first. The reason being- when you call or text someone(even email depending on what their notification settings on a smartphone might be....), you're running the chance that someone around them reads it or demands that they read it aloud. Have had it happen- pissed off wives or partners calling you back or on speakerphone in the background while you're with the client.

 

Bottom line....let the client drive the bus. He controls the communication, he controls the action. Just the safest course of events, and also one that shows you're not reeking of desperation tapping people for sessions. Most strong guys can't even keep up communication wise as is...let alone going looking for it.

 

And WmClarke....if you start escorting, I get to be your first client!!!!!

[+ WmClarke]

And WmClarke....if you start escorting, I get to be your first client!!!!!

Deal!

[+ freecahill1965]

I don’t care if an escort looks at my profile or if he contacts me.

 

But lately I’ve had two clients check out my profile. Which, frankly, I find creepy.

I have had clients check out my profile as well. It can't be for my looks. I assume they saw I hired an escort of their interest and they were checking my stats. I am a older and bigger guy. I have checked the clients of some escorts to see if they have escorted with guys of my type. I suppose it is part of the vetting process for me and I assume some others.

[Rudynate]

I turn off the feature where escorts can see if I visited their profile on RM. When I had it on, I would occasionally get messages (this happens more with PRO ads on A4A I find). It felt sort of awkward if an escort messaged me and I have no interest in hiring. I just wouldn't reply. Which seems rude but also it doesn't waste anymore of their time on someone who isn't interested.

 

 

It's no different from hookup sites. If you're not interested, thank them for saying hello and tell them you're not looking.

[+ BlueSky]

It's no different from hookup sites. If you're not interested, thank them for saying hello and tell them you're not looking.

 

Nope.

Edited November 30, 2017 by BlueSky

[Rudynate]

Nope.

 

Whatever.

[JTtorretto]

If I’ve noticed a prospective client has looked at my profile numerous times in a short period of time (approx more then 5-7 times), I’ll send a casual introduction / “hello” and sometimes it has resulted in getting booked for an appt.

[jawjateck]

I get hit up by providers occasionally. I don't mind. It happened this week, and the conversation between us was quite good. I can always ignore/delete a message, and I feel no compulsion to respond if I'm not interested. But I have scheduled a few successful meetings that began with a provider initiating contact with me on RM.

[TopTierTop]

Curious if any escorts have ever used the search tab and looked at clients ads. Would you ever contact them yourself first ?

 

To the client's, how would you feel if an escort contacted you first?

I send messages to potential clients who have looked at my profile multiple times, when I have time. Never had any complaints and it does lead to new clients.