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rvwnsd Grand Master

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Yes... as long as you have the $$$, any escort would be thrilled to be with you.

While I agree that the OP is over-thinking this, a quick read of the Forum will reveal plenty of escorts that do not follow this principle.

 

Greg,

 

Now I feel horrible. I didn’t mean to offend anyone with my post. I was just being honest, which very often gets me in trouble. I’m ignorant to all this and apologize for making you feel uneasy or hurting your feelings. I don’t feel good about myself, and I was probably looking for someone to tell me I was all wet in my thinking. Again, so sorry if my post upset you.

There's no reason to feel horrible. One escort's lack of a filter opinion is no reason to feel bad about yourself. You asked a legitimate question and have received many legitimate answers.

 

To echo the sentiments expressed by many of the folks who responded to your query, the best thing to do is to ask lots of question be clear with what you are looking for (to both yourself and the escort), and set forth getting it. Additionally, I advise you to search the ads and see who strikes your fancy, inquire about them in The Deli, and take it from there.

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Am I just being stupid to worry about how an escort would feel being with me?

I have had the good fortune to be with some breathtakingly beautiful escorts. The truth is that it can be a little intimidating, but it is so worth powering through and losing yourself in the moment. It's also worth taking a moment, pulling back and just taking it all in. Really look at the male beauty displayed in front of you and appreciate your good fortune. Then get back to licking it all up! ;)

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I’m a mature gay male who is healthy, HWP and gifted in the penis department. However, in the gay world, my age group is often treated with disrespect, so I don’t date and am pretty lonely. I’m totally in the closet because of my job. I’m considering contacting an escort, but am afraid I would be so intimidated by his attractiveness. I would make us both very uncomfortable. Am I just being stupid to worry about how an escort would feel being with me? From what I’ve read in this forum, some of these escorts are unbelievably nice and respectful.

Have you tried dating guys your own age?

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Have you tried dating guys your own age?

I want to answer your question, but am I might come off sounding conceited and shallow. I have been “approached” by men close to my age, but try as I might, I couldn’t go through with it. Most have been extremely overweight or otherwise unattractive to me. Doesn’t that make me a perfectly awful person? I think so, but I can’t help it. If I’m not physically and mentally atttracted to a guy, I might as well keep watching porn and making love to my fist.

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I want to answer your question, but am I might come off sounding conceited and shallow. I have been “approached” by men close to my age, but try as I might, I couldn’t go through with it. Most have been extremely overweight or otherwise unattractive to me. Doesn’t that make me a perfectly awful person? I think so, but I can’t help it. If I’m not physically and mentally atttracted to a guy, I might as well keep watching porn and making love to my fist.

 

 

Most people hire because they are Shallow, and want that God-like Fantasy man.... Nothing wrong with it. Noones being hurt. You like what you like.

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I want to answer your question, but am I might come off sounding conceited and shallow. I have been “approached” by men close to my age, but try as I might, I couldn’t go through with it. Most have been extremely overweight or otherwise unattractive to me. Doesn’t that make me a perfectly awful person? I think so, but I can’t help it. If I’m not physically and mentally atttracted to a guy, I might as well keep watching porn and making love to my fist.

I assume like most people, you do not control your erections. So if you are not attracted to him, you are not getting hard, which means it is going to be a real disappointment for him anyway. So you are right to say no and save everybody time.

 

You cannot control your preferences. They may be shaped by your genes, your childhood, your culture... we don’t really know, but we know that preference is not something we control. I don’t blame myself for preferring hot young Latinos and hot young Asian guys rather than older white guys like myself.

 

Blame my ageist culture if you want, but not me, I didn’t choose it, I was born in it.

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I assume like most people, you do not control your erections. So if you are not attracted to him, you are not getting hard, which means it is going to be a real disappointment for him anyway. So you are right to say no and save everybody time.

 

You cannot control your preferences. They may be shaped by your genes, your childhood, your culture... we don’t really know, but we know that preference is not something we control. I don’t blame myself for preferring hot young Latinos and hot young Asian guys rather than older white guys like myself.

 

Blame my ageist culture if you want, but not me, I didn’t choose it, I was born in it.

I wished I had joined this site years ago. I’m getting quite an education, not to mention a big ego boost. Thanks everyone.

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I want to answer your question, but am I might come off sounding conceited and shallow. I have been “approached” by men close to my age, but try as I might, I couldn’t go through with it. Most have been extremely overweight or otherwise unattractive to me. Doesn’t that make me a perfectly awful person? I think so, but I can’t help it. If I’m not physically and mentally atttracted to a guy, I might as well keep watching porn and making love to my fist.

There's a lot of ageism perpetuated by older guys, as Tarte Gogo said in a later post.

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I want to answer your question, but am I might come off sounding conceited and shallow. I have been “approached” by men close to my age, but try as I might, I couldn’t go through with it. Most have been extremely overweight or otherwise unattractive to me. Doesn’t that make me a perfectly awful person? I think so, but I can’t help it. If I’m not physically and mentally atttracted to a guy, I might as well keep watching porn and making love to my fist.

Nope. You have the right to be attracted to any type of man you want.

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I’m a mature gay male who is healthy, HWP and gifted in the penis department. However, in the gay world, my age group is often treated with disrespect, so I don’t date and am pretty lonely. I’m totally in the closet because of my job. I’m considering contacting an escort, but am afraid I would be so intimidated by his attractiveness. I would make us both very uncomfortable. Am I just being stupid to worry about how an escort would feel being with me? From what I’ve read in this forum, some of these escorts are unbelievably nice and respectful.

 

I’m a mature gay male, who was not HWP, a face only a mother could love, and most certainly not gifted in the penis department. Two years ago I made the leap and hired an escort. He was much younger than me, and incredibly beautiful (yes, I know, WTF was I thinking?). He was also incredibly kind, sweet and understanding. And while I felt like the most disgusting thing on earth, he made me feel otherwise when I was with him. You’re not being stupid at all. Look for someone who seems genuine, has multiple positive reviews both on Rentmen and Daddy’s, and take the plunge.

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I want to answer your question, but am I might come off sounding conceited and shallow. I have been “approached” by men close to my age, but try as I might, I couldn’t go through with it. Most have been extremely overweight or otherwise unattractive to me. Doesn’t that make me a perfectly awful person? I think so, but I can’t help it. If I’m not physically and mentally atttracted to a guy, I might as well keep watching porn and making love to my fist.

 

 

Biggin, is THIS you ? :p:p

 

https://78.media.tumblr.com/9f5498c9ec8e1ae62cb743add1d39538/tumblr_or7kg1WPGy1tl4ueso1_500.jpg

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I’m a mature gay male who is healthy, HWP and gifted in the penis department. However, in the gay world, my age group is often treated with disrespect, so I don’t date and am pretty lonely. I’m totally in the closet because of my job. I’m considering contacting an escort, but am afraid I would be so intimidated by his attractiveness. I would make us both very uncomfortable. Am I just being stupid to worry about how an escort would feel being with me? From what I’ve read in this forum, some of these escorts are unbelievably nice and respectful.

 

Hey Boo Welcome

 

Just Pick a Couple of guys - reach out - tell them you are a first timer

and what you are interests are -- And see how you feel by the reaction

 

pick one - make an appt. And go have fun! If you don't like the first guy - then try another one!!

 

And if that Pic is of you in a jock you will get lots of smiles from Gentle Callers and Gay/Bi men wherever you go

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Hey Boo Welcome

 

Just Pick a Couple of guys - reach out - tell them you are a first timer

and what you are interests are -- And see how you feel by the reaction

 

pick one - make an appt. And go have fun! If you don't like the first guy - then try another one!!

 

And if that Pic is of you in a jock you will get lots of smiles from Gentle Callers and Gay/Bi men wherever you go

 

 

I'm already smitten, will have sex with HIM for free, and have a Big 401K..... :D:D

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Hey Boo Welcome

 

Just Pick a Couple of guys - reach out - tell them you are a first timer

and what you are interests are -- And see how you feel by the reaction

 

pick one - make an appt. And go have fun! If you don't like the first guy - then try another one!!

 

And if that Pic is of you in a jock you will get lots of smiles from Gentle Callers and Gay/Bi men wherever you go

 

Thanks man. Sounds like a plan. An expensive plan, but I’ve spent money on things that brought me no pleasure at all. And thanks for the compliment. Yes it’s me (blush).

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