Escorts' Daily Rates

[Guest skywalker]

I'm planning a trip for later this year. Most escorts of any repute are quoting me daily rates of about a grand per day. Since I'm planning the "date" to be a few days duration, it's not gonna be cheap, especially when you add in necessary expenses (food, lodging, transportation, entertainment, etc.). I would be interested to hear the opinions of frequent posters to the MC: do you feel a grand a day for multiple days is a reasonable rate? I hope both escorts and clients will chime in with their viewpoints. I realize that this subject has been discussed before- just looking for some current opinions.

 

In the past, I have hired some good-quality guys for significantly less than a grand a day, for multiple days. And they were happy with their compensation and with the date itself, as was I.

[bigguyinpasadena]

Skywalker just put it out there to a few of the guys you are interestesd in.If the trip is nice and the accomodations grand then maybe one(or more)will negotiate with you-It happens all the time.

Now the question for you is-do you really want to be stuck on a trip with someone you have never met before?

[LovesYng]

For some of the well known escorts that I have met for weekend trips or just day trips $1,000.00 per day is way to much. Unless you hiring that guy from Texas then your getting fucked without the lube and maybe bareback also. Good luck on your hunt.

 

When in doubt I whip it out :+

[Guest 2004]

I have contacted several escorts who quickly reduced their daily rate when I informed them that 1,000 - 1,200. was simply too much money. Afew are name brands and a few are not. The not so name brand escorts were the most fun to be with.

 

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People can get carried away over time.

[Guest skywalker]

Thanks for the smart advice, Big Guy.

 

< Now the question for you is-do you really want to be stuck on

a trip with someone you have never met before? >

 

A very pertinent question. It has worked well for me in the past (knock on wood). I find the whole process exciting: doing the searching, selecting my guy, making the necessary arrangements, and then finally setting eyes on each other for the first time, when the big day finally comes. I do my homework as best I can, to try to ensure good compatibility. I don't hire guys on an hourly basis, just not my thing.

[Retired Fly Boy]

$ 1,000 per day is out of the question, no matter how rich you are. These guys think they are Harvard Law School material. Set up some dates in advance for each city you plan to visit. Just like men in the Navy, you can have a boy in every port. Hire some local talent for the day. You will sample some new young stud all during your vacation. Why sleep with the same one each night, plus you have to feed him 3X a day. Then buy him a plane ticket, this is going to be a small fortune my good man. When I travel, I always hire a local boy and most of the time it works out just fine. To pay someone to take a vacation is a waste of money in my book. Then you have to take him out to some club each night and buy his drinks, wait till you see the room service and mini bar tab. This will be some hefty total just to schlep some boy along. My motto is, travel alone and travel lite !

[JT Brooklyn]

Retired Fly Boy Has said it all very well. Paying 1200 to 1500 to watch a "Workin Guy" get his Beauty Sleep, REALLY is a waste of Money and Time. A hot Guy before "Bedtime" and a Hot Guy for "Breakfast" is Definitely more Fun and Definitely Less Exspensive..LOL :+

[Guest skywalker]

I can see your viewpoint, Fly Boy.

 

I have enjoyed spending a few days' time with the escorts I've selected in the past. Gives us a chance to get to know each other, and spend some time enjoying the area we're in, which is important to me. "Sampling" a different hottie each night could be fun too, no doubt about it. Just a matter of personal preference (and finances of course).

 

I hope some 'scorts will contribute to this thread. I'm curious to know what their daily rate for multiple days is, and what factors might influence that rate.

[Guest]

First of all, never do a long-term hire without having a short session first. Secondly, rates for long-term hires are extremely negotiable. If you're someone the escort enjoys being with, and are going somewhere he'd like to go, most escorts would probably accept much less than $1000 per day. Bear in mind that escorts very rarely average two one-hour hires per day. I've hired half a dozen escorts for trips, and have generally paid them their hourly rate plus all expenses. Of course, we enjoyed eachothers' company, the escorts were taking trips they enjoyed, and I didn't expect the escort to be at my beck-and-call 24 hours a day.

[DelawareGuy]

>I've hired half a dozen escorts for

>trips, and have generally paid them their hourly rate plus all

>expenses.

 

At an average hourly rate of $200, that's $4,800 for a 24 hour period. Plus expenses?

[Guest skywalker]

Thanks for the suggestions Unicorn.

 

<I've hired half a dozen escorts for trips, and have generally paid them their hourly rate plus all expenses>

 

Are you saying you're paying $200 - $300 per DAY (plus expenses), for multiple days? That sounds too good to be true.

[Juan Vancouver]

Hey Skywalker,

 

In my personal experience there are two types of daily rates. If someone wants to spend 24 hours with me, either by extending an overnight, or booking 24 hours directly, my rate is 1200.

However if someone is wanting to spend several days with me, I always ask as much information as I can, and based on that I quote a rate that I feel comfortable with. As an example, a nice guy asked for a three days rate, I quoted something, and after that he wrote back saying that I would sleep alone everynight, and I would get as much sleep as I wanted. That inmediately made me lower my rate, considering that I would have to be "on duty" less that than if sleeping together. (And of course, considering that I do need to sleep enough, otherwise I feel grumpy.)

On the other hand, I received an enquiry by another gentleman clearly stating that he wanted to have me fucking him "during three days as non-stop as possible, and if I had to rest for a little while, he would be caressing my hot body" (and so on...) Needless to say that if I ever felt tempted to say yes to such request, my rate would be much higher than 1200 a day.

 

I often feel like an old record, but I have to repeat it again: Be as specific as you can when communicating with your escort of choice, and let him know what are your preferences, fantasies and expectations of the time you might spend together. Let him know where you might go, for how long, what are the activities that you normally enjoy and what are the things that you try to avoid, what food you prefer and so on. (You smoke or not, drink or not, snore or not, etc.) If he thinks that you two are compatible, if he feels tempted by the trip in itself, and he feels that you two are communicating freely and nicely, -and- if his schedule is open for the dates that you are requesting, he might be tempted to give you a totally different rate altogether.

 

As a disclaimer, I am sharing only my personal experience and I am being totally open about the way in which I conduct my personal business. I am aware that for some escorts a request to negotiate anything might be offensive or simply innapropiate. (I never negotiate my rates for a short session, for example).

 

So ask away... and I hope that you find the hot, delicious, entertaining guy that will make your trip an unfogettable experience. :7

[ted]

Longer term rates are definitely negotiable, but I think the escort feels more comfortable negotiating with someone he's at least met. I don't do trips with anyone I haven't met before and feel totally comfortable with. With that said, I would think most engagements of 3 days or more would work out more in the $400 to $800 range per day depending upon the desirability of the destination and how much the guy likes to travel. One of my regular's really doesn't like to fly, so he really doesn't reduce his daily rate that much for long trips. Another really enjoys the travel and is much more willing to negotiate.

[Guest skywalker]

What a thoughtful post Juan. Thanks a lot for taking the time to share your experience-honed viewpoints on this.

 

 

I can see it makes great sense to communicate fully with the escort about how the time will be spent, what is expected both in and out of the sack, even personal preferences relating to food and drink should be discussed- especially when multiple nights are involved. I'll be sure to bring up these things with the guys I communicate with regarding my trip.

 

< As an example, a nice guy asked for a three days rate, I quoted something, and after that he wrote back saying that I would sleep alone everynight, and I would get as much sleep as I wanted. That inmediately made me lower my rate, considering that I would have to be "on duty" less that than if sleeping together. (And of course, considering that I do need to sleep enough, otherwise I feel grumpy.)>

 

This is an interesting point. The quality and quantity of sleep an escort can look forward to might even have an impact on his rate.

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Another Escort Answers

 

>What a thoughtful post Juan. Thanks a lot for taking the time

>to share your experience-honed viewpoints on this.

>

>I can see it makes great sense to communicate fully with the

>escort about how the time will be spent, what is expected both

>in and out of the sack, even personal preferences relating to

>food and drink should be discussed- especially when multiple

>nights are involved. I'll be sure to bring up these things

>with the guys I communicate with regarding my trip.

 

I have never opend the mini-bar when it was my own motel bill and I have never opened one when it was someone else's motel room, even when it was my parents or another close relative. I was raised better than that. I only have one client who regularly likes to go "clubbing" when he hires me, he also happens to be younger and, frankly, in his case, the cash outlay is rarely the concern. Once he simply wanted to see male strippers and then the entire evening became a production since he wanted a particular experience and after 3 bars (New Orleans) we had not quite found it. I personally found the whole thing boring and told him that after the first drink at Oz, but that is the relationship he and I have.

 

This particular gentlemen does not "pay" me my typical daily rate, which happens to be close to Juan's (in my own case, $1000) and which happens to be close to many other guys, but I have also seen some guys quote $1,500 to $2,000 for a 24 hour period. On the other hand, this client also pays for first class airfare and otherwise spends money like it is burning the proverbial hole in his pockets. Our rate is a negotiated rate that comes from a long established history.

 

I also tend to negotiate lower rates with established clients or otherwise provide what I feel is a quality experience. A client recently hired me for two evenings, which is generally 3 hour for which I have an advertised rate of $500. We actually spent more that 3 hours together each night and, while I do not wish to speak for someone else, I am sure he felt quite satisifed with the way things turned out.

 

I think this is the important key in any arrangement, whether it be for an hour, three hours or 24 hours and, as Juan suggests, communication is key. I also have had clients hire me who wanted a lot of sex.

 

In one instance, a client wanted non-stop sex. I normally say no, but in this instance, I knew the client was celebrating a promotion and a birthday and, again, was also generous. He paid for a room at the Bellagio in Las Vegas, was willing to pay for a massage (he paid for his own even though I indicated I would have been happy to give him one as part of my fee), and was willing to give me gambling money. I did not take him up on the massage or the cash, we had a very nice dinner and breakfast. I paid for my own lunch and I bought one round of drinks and he bought another. I had two hours to myself (pre-negotiated) to workout (which happened during his massage) and I was paid less than my normally 24 hour rate and he had sex 7 times, not all of which lasted one hour in duration. I also got a tip, so I did essentially get my normal rate, plus he reimbursed me for airfare, however, I booked it and it came out to $76 round trip on couch from Los Angeles. I paid for my own cab to and from the airport to the hotel.

 

However, this is also a client who has spent a lot of money on money on 3 hour hires in San Francisco and we also frequently meet for lunch or breakfast when he either cannot hire or I am too booked in advance to free up a three hour block, without shortchanging someone else. So, your needs, what you expect, what you feel is fair, all of this needs to be discussed with the escort and I think, as many clients suggest, you will both be mutually satisfied.

 

Good luck.

[Guest skywalker]

RE: Another Escort Answers

 

Thanks for your input FrancoDi.

 

Based on what you and the others have said in this thread I can see that there's a great deal of variety in all aspects in dates lasting a few days (or more), and that there's no substitute for thorough communication between potential client and escort before making a choice.

 

I would be curious to hear from other escorts and clients who have gone on dates of several days length. What has worked well, and what not so well?

[Guest]

Yes, that's what I'm saying.

[Guest skywalker]

<I've hired half a dozen escorts for trips, and have generally paid them their hourly rate plus all expenses>

 

Are you saying you're paying $200 - $300 per DAY (plus expenses), for multiple days? That sounds too good to be true.

 

<Yes, that's what I'm saying.>

 

Wow, that's amazing. I've never been offered rates anywhere even approaching that.

[rocky]

This is an interesting discussion for me since I'm

one of those who always feels I haven't done enough

for my paid companion, at the same time I feel I've

done too much. Juan, I love ya, you've often

responded with thoughtful and respectful comments.

But I'd say aboe $1200 per day is excessive (and I

see your reasons). Here's some of my logic; I take

someone I've been seeing on a frequent basis for a

vacation, a long weekend, I pay for hotel, food,

etc, etc, etc. I'm not asking for sex all that time,

but yes some companionship. I don't expect, as generous

as I am, to pay hourly or daily rate. I've figured

as a return customer I can be cut some slack, if not

then I might move on. For example I having been

seeing a former escort of an agency often named as

the number one in the east coast; his comment to me

was, you take me, I won't think of charging you (and

this was from someone with class). It depends on

the situation and the desparateness of some of our

contacts..Rocky

[Guest Marathon Man]

I'd say that for more than one night or day, you should be able to negotiate. For one night or day, $1,000 seems fair.

 

MM

[Txpaytoplay]

I have always paid for sex and not time spent. I have never hired anyone for an overnight that I did not know or had not had at least two to three sessions prior. I took an escort to Vegas with me paid all his expenses and gave him $100 for gambling/spending each day. Each time we got together he also got $250....by the time the 3 days were over he received over $2k...to me that was worth it. I can have sex 24/7 this way it was up to him on how many times he wanted to perform. Again, I thinks it goes back to knowing your escort/client and knowing you will have a great time. Just my take on it.

[SAdler]

>I hope some 'scorts will contribute to this thread. I'm

>curious to know what their daily rate for multiple days is,

>and what factors might influence that rate.

 

Hmmm, I already have four threads about me. Dare I post what my weekend rates would range and get a fifth

 

But I can respond pretty generally without inciting rage and a new Fees thread .... I hope.

 

I've agreed to a degree with everyone's posts so far. If finances are a question you are FAR better off hiring a boy for breakfast and dinner etc. sessions rather than paying for a whole day and the fees attached. Gentleman, you have forgotten hotel spa bills....THOSE are the REAL killers But it's not like I'm demanding a first class ticket

 

But seriously. As someone who only used to deal with session appointments as a minimum, I totally respect and understand your desire to spend time with someone longer than a casual meal at the different poles of their body

 

Frankly, and this is where I get unpopular, $1000 and up for a 24 hour period doesn't sound even the least bit unreasonable to me. Maybe I was reading your message out of context and you meant breakfast till dinner days together? But from what I gathered you wanted someone to spend the weekends with and that translated to $1000/day or something to that degree.

 

My system is a rather large principle first 24 hours and then it lessens with each additional day. I'm known on these boards for being anti negotiation, the one thing I do agree that negotiation is fair on are long trips like this.

 

I'll wait for you to say that's too much because you're getting airfare and hotel, which I'll agree with. I'll counter with something considerate of the airfare of hotel and hope that works better with you.

 

But yeah. That's the best answer I can give from my POV while being COMPLETELY vague about my apparently out of the ballpark rates

 

OK. Back to studying.

 

GOOD LUCK!

[Guest skywalker]

Thanks for taking the time to respond to my inquiry Scott. I appreciate the input particularly from experienced escorts such as yourself and Juan and FrancoDi.

 

Based on what you guys have said there are myriad factors that could influence the rate for appointments lasting several days (or longer). Everything from the desirability of the location, to "how demanding" is the client and what does the client expect "performance-wise," to whether the client is new or a repeater, even to things such as food (dining) and sleep are all factors that could impact the rate an escort might charge.

 

I feel it's reasonable to look at what other professionals make for 24 or 48 or 72 or 96 hours of their time, in considering what might be equitable compensation for a companion's time. An escort is spending a full day or days with a client; the flip side is that the client is providing the companion's food and lodging and oftentimes paid entertainment as well. I feel this should be taken into account when settling on a rate for longer appointments.

 

<But seriously. As someone who only used to deal with session

appointments as a minimum, I totally respect and understand

your desire to spend time with someone longer than a casual

meal at the different poles of their body >

 

Yes, I'm more interested in a quality date of a few days duration than a torrid romp in the sack for an hour. That's just me. Though I'd hope one or two of those might just be on the docket during our time together <EG>

 

<My system is a rather large principle first 24 hours and then

it lessens with each additional day. I'm known on these

boards for being anti negotiation, the one thing I do agree

that negotiation is fair on are long trips like this. >

 

Wasn't exactly sure what you meant by "My system is a rather large principle" but the bottom line is you feel there is room for talk when considering appointments of a few days which I feel is only right.

[rocky]

I'm sorry, is there any escort worth more than $500 per night? Not only paying room and board. And if after you have a relationship with someone shouldn't you expect the not per night rate? I'm asking you all, I don't know. You spend money on someone on a regular basis, you know take this person to a fantastic place, should I have to spend the same daily rate??? HELP

[Epigonos]

Rocky the one thing one MUST always keep in mind in ones dealings with escorts is that ones relationship with them is a business relationship -- it is NOT a traditional friendship relationship based on equality. One is paying an escort for a service and most service providers, one utilizes, do not generally provide discounts so why should one expect escorts to do so. Some escorts, who enjoy traveling, will offer a discount, to a client they know and trust, because they like to travel and others will not, not even to a client they know and trust, because they hate to travel. There is most definitly NO hard and fast rules regarding this type of situation. Futhermore it is next to impossible to arrange a discounted travel fee with an escort one does not already know. Look at it from the escorts side. He is being asked to travel with someone he does not know. Unless he is stupid he must have concerns about being paid and even possibly being stranded somewhere. This entire question is one that MUST be dealt with on an individual basis between escort on client and how it is arranged depends on a multitude of factors that are determined by the specific situation at the time. The only certain thing is that there are NO easy simple answers regarding this matter.