411 on MuscleVIP---RM in NYC

[socurious]

Does he rim???

[+ azdr0710]

Does he rim???

 

as with many providers, it's probably on a case-by-case basis......which is only fair......as always, client attitude, hygiene, chemistry, discretion, respect are all important factors that go into a successful meet for both client and provider.......

 

(do I really need to periodically clarify this??!!)

[TruthBTold]

as with many providers, it's probably on a case-by-case basis......which is only fair......as always, client attitude, hygiene, chemistry, discretion, respect are all important factors that go into a successful meet for both client and provider.......

 

(do I really need to periodically clarify this??!!)

 

No but you so love to.

[zboss]

tried to meet up with him talked for a bit, after initially seeming to lock in meeting with either that night or next day pending, i asked if he was seeing anyone that day and if so id prefer to be first the following day as I like to be the first of the day, don’t think theres anything wrong with that at all. guess he did not like that and blocked my number. not a nice guy in my book.

[former lurker]

tried to meet up with him talked for a bit, after initially seeming to lock in meeting with either that night or next day pending, i asked if he was seeing anyone that day and if so id prefer to be first the following day as I like to be the first of the day, don’t think theres anything wrong with that at all. guess he did not like that and blocked my number. not a nice guy in my book.

 

First, you may well have come off, based on what you've said, as not set on meeting and thus wasting his time. Second, while I get that many folks like to be the first of the day, that could also come off as trying to micromanage his business. I wouldn't be so quick to join your conclusion that he's "not a nice guy". You're entitled to ask for what you want, he's entitled to interpret that as you being a difficult client. There's no formula here, just interpersonal communications and different perspectives of the same exchange.

[zboss]

oh yeah no I hear ya there, ur right about that for sure... my sentiment was more based on straight up blocking me afterwards, could have easily responded with that and I would have tried to work it out as I was very interested and not wasting time at all. Probably enough to see him afterwards regardless of my prefered preference to be first in line of the day at that...

[former lurker]

oh yeah no I hear ya there, ur right about that for sure... my sentiment was more based on straight up blocking me afterwards, could have easily responded with that and I would have tried to work it out as I was very interested and not wasting time at all. Probably enough to see him afterwards regardless of my prefered preference to be first in line of the day at that...

 

It's his loss if he forms quick judgements rather than getting a fuller reading of the dynamic. I find that's a common problem these days, especially when so much of the communication is via text or messenger rather than on the phone. At least with the phone, you get more of a sense from hesitation, tone, etc, and can react in real time to clarify if needed.

[zboss]

Yup... and I was also waiting on him to FT where id have cleared that up as well as I always make a FT necessary in order to meet to verify everything is as it should be and the guy is real....

[PDR]

tried to meet up with him talked for a bit, after initially seeming to lock in meeting with either that night or next day pending, i asked if he was seeing anyone that day and if so id prefer to be first the following day as I like to be the first of the day, don’t think theres anything wrong with that at all. guess he did not like that and blocked my number. not a nice guy in my book.

maybe just by accident. he’s really nice

[PDR]

VIP has public social media accounts?

sent u the link

[zboss]

aaaand on queue he just texted me back.... lol disregard...

[DMICS]

aaaand on queue he just texted me back.... lol disregard...

 

He probably saw the thread or a regular from here gave him a heads up lol.

 

sent u the link

 

Thanks bud <3

[FunGuyUS]

Had a chance to meet last week. Amazing and friendly guy

[thetruth]

Musclevip is definitely lurking the forum. That's for sure hahaha

[Dwalker]

Haven’t been able to get a reply for him

[builder boy]

I have tried for a while to meet him.