Haggling with Escorts?

[Kenny]

When I go to Macy's, I always haggle over the price of Fruit-of-the-Looms. They never, ever give in, but one of these days - who knows?

 

And someday, maybe there will be a sale.

[KennF]

While I agree with most of the comments, I do want to add one piece that might give a different perspective.

 

Some people like the thrill of negotiating and the feeling of winning a good deal. It gives them a rush.

 

This doesn't sound like that, because he agreed to your rate on the front end. Having concluded the deal, he's pulling his leverage that you don't want to lose the deal and are willing to forgo your profits in order to keep a client. (A very Trumpian thing to do.)

 

I personally find that kind of wheeling and dealing sets the wrong tone for the encounter, as that behavior sets up a winner and a loser. What I prefer is a win-win feeling. And someone who feels they gotten the bad end of the deal isn't going to give it their best.

 

Just my tuppence and a different perspective.

[NavyChief]

Haggling is tacky, just like upcharging.

[instudiocity]

Rude is not a feeling here, it's a FACT!

 

The road with this client only goes further downhill, time to look for other clients.

 

I think No Response responses are appropriate for him.

[BabyBoomer]

When I go to Macy's, I always haggle over the price of Fruit-of-the-Looms. They never, ever give in, but one of these days - who knows?

 

And someday, maybe there will be a sale.

 

A going out of business sale.

 

~Boomer~

[Deadlift1]

Quite a bit of drama.

[+ kov78]

I barely have enough balls to actually hire, let alone haggle with price. If I can't afford the listed price (for time), I don't even contact the provider. To be honest, I think it would be insulting to the provider. If it was me , I would be insulted. I would never do that to someone.

[Mydavid]

I barely have enough balls to actually hire, let alone haggle with price. If I can't afford the listed price (for time), I don't even contact the provider. To be honest, I think it would be insulting to the provider. If it was me , I would be insulted. I would never do that to someone.

same here

[bigvalboy]

Sometimes I haggle up...

[+ kov78]

Sometimes I haggle up...

 

You want the EXTRA extras huh? Lol

[+ freecahill1965]

Funny, I have haggled up before. I have one regular who offered to charge me 50 less due to repeat business. I always give him 50 more. I very much appreciate the service. The fact that they would be so kind makes me feel they are worth the extra. The great oral sex helps too.

[+ kov78]

I've done that once before. The situation got a little weird at first. Accommodations issue. Ending up paying

For his room and he was going to deduct from his time price, I gave him the full amount anyway. It was a very nice time. And he was super nice.

[handiacefailure]

Funny, I have haggled up before. I have one regular who offered to charge me 50 less due to repeat business. I always give him 50 more. I very much appreciate the service. The fact that they would be so kind makes me feel they are worth the extra. The great oral sex helps too.

 

The pro dom I used to play with in Chicago (who had reasonable rates to begin with) used to give me 90 minutes for his one hour price, that was always nice.

[LaffingBear]

I don't haggle. And if I decline, and then the rentguy offers a fee reduction, I never change my mind. Right or wrong, it establishes some distrust for me; if he's willing to cut fees in order to get the appointment, how will actual services compare to those promoted?

 

And, I find it annoying when, on occassion, an escort uses a little guilt or reverse psychology.... "well, if you can't afford it....." I always reply "Oh, I can afford it, I'm just not willing to pay it."

 

Lastly, these posts about haggling and negotiating price appear from time to time. They always remind me of Bette Midler in Ruthless People exclaiming "I've been marked down.....I've been kidnapped by KMart!"

 

[rvwnsd]

I don't haggle. And if I decline, and then the rentguy offers a fee reduction, I never change my mind. ...[/MEDIA]

An escort once quoted me a fee that was higher than I wanted to pay. Upon me saying that I was sure he was worth the fee but it was more than I wanted to pay he offered me a half hour at half the hourly rate. I declined.

[+ BigRic]

I don't haggle. And if I decline, and then the rentguy offers a fee reduction, I never change my mind. Right or wrong, it establishes some distrust for me; if he's willing to cut fees in order to get the appointment, how will actual services compare to those promoted?

 

And, I find it annoying when, on occassion, an escort uses a little guilt or reverse psychology.... "well, if you can't afford it....." I always reply "Oh, I can afford it, I'm just not willing to pay it."

 

Lastly, these posts about haggling and negotiating price appear from time to time. They always remind me of Bette Midler in Ruthless People exclaiming "I've been marked down.....I've been kidnapped by KMart!"

 

 

LOL, @LaffingBear. Super "Like." Every paragraph's point/comments.

 

IMO a savvy escort doesn't adjust rates after a client passes. It seems to me that communicates that the escort's initial stated rate was inflated or not justified.

 

"Oh, I can afford it . . ." Ouch but an escort is asking for it if they go there with the passive-aggressive condescension.

 

And yes, Bette. From a similar vintage: "Who me, jealous? I'm a Material Girl, too! I've been on MTV . . . once."

[+ Tygerscent]

Haggling creates conflict thru inquity~ When you start honoring discount fares to some Clients, you are, in effect, devaluating and disrespecting the Clients who do not receive a discount~

Keep it equal and honest for each and every Client~

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[+ Keith30309]

For me, anything resembling negotiating turns what I want to be an intimate, trusting encounter into a mercantile one driven by self-interest and creates the implicit mistrust where one party "wins" and the other "loses".

If I were a professional companion I imagine that being asked the question would feel vaguely insulting. I'd never think of asking my dentist to reduce his fee for rebuilding a problematic tooth - I'd look like a jackass.

[Chuckball]

I suspect there are many guys who review RM photos of escorts of the city where they will be visiting. In the good old days you could then look at rates and simply eliminate selections who were too pricey. Now that rates are not posted I suspect that haggling will be more persistent. The escort should state his rate and if it is above the budget of the client, both parties should leave no hard feelings. I realize that this will be a waste of time for both parties. The only thing I can suggest is that rates be the first topic of conversation.

[BaronArtz]

I am always interested in a good 'deal' in other areas of my life, but I have never haggled with an escort. It sort of created a bad vibe from the beginning. And even if he agreed to lower the rate, I would expect the level of 'service' to go down as well. I like it when a guy is enthusiastic about seeing me.

[bigvalboy]

For me, anything resembling negotiating turns what I want to be an intimate, trusting encounter into a mercantile one driven by self-interest and creates the implicit mistrust where one party "wins" and the other "loses".

 

+1

[Sandlapp]

I don't haggle. And if I decline, and then the rentguy offers a fee reduction, I never change my mind. Right or wrong, it establishes some distrust for me; if he's willing to cut fees in order to get the appointment, how will actual services compare to those promoted?

 

And, I find it annoying when, on occassion, an escort uses a little guilt or reverse psychology.... "well, if you can't afford it....." I always reply "Oh, I can afford it, I'm just not willing to pay it."

 

Lastly, these posts about haggling and negotiating price appear from time to time. They always remind me of Bette Midler in Ruthless People exclaiming "I've been marked down.....I've been kidnapped by KMart!"

 

That Midler clip is perfect. It reminds me of my comment, these are men we're talking about, not products.

[MikeSinz]

Being in the business is taught me one thing that I am person and I am worth what I set my donation at. But I will agree that there will always be tension when haggling starts. I want to give what my clients want. That's why I have different rates for like if somebody knows they won't be here long iOffer quick visit donation, I half hour donation, and an hourly donation. I believe I have something for everyone. Let's be honest if someone says they want a quick visit a client shouldn't have to donate full price I'm just saying. But I do understand that everyone has it like everyone else and I work with you.

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[Nvr2Thick]

If you were painting the client's house I think it would be fair to cut your rate in half and hire a second painter, splitting the job between the two of you. If he wants you to split your rate with another provider maybe you should offer to accept the deal if you can be there for half of the session, and then tag in the second escort as you leave.

[Mike Monkevicz]

I honestly don't do it! To me I find it rude! Like any where else the fee is the fee! Don't haggle at the Dr. Your not at a flea market