Tellmitchnow of Los Angeles

[Kyle Clinton]

I might get run out of town on a rail for this-- I don't know if responding to this thread constitutes breaking protocol-- but HI!

 

I'm Mitch. Thanks to the users who have left positive feedback on this thread and elsewhere on the site. To the rest-- and to anyone else who might come across this thread with a similar gripe about radio silence from me-- my apologies for the lack of responsiveness. As some of the users have pointed out on this thread and elsewhere, the work advertised accounts for a small fraction of my time. When I'm in my home city, I'm often attending to business that pulls me away from the work advertised in my profile. So if your message has gone unanswered, I'm sorry! Unanswered messages usually mean I'm unavailable or otherwise engaged. I'll do better about that for the rest of the time my profile remains up on the site.

 

Now... About my private album... 99% of the private album requests that aren't accompanied by a message are ignored-- this is especially true for requests from out-of-town profiles. If you want to meet me, your chances will be a lot higher if you simply respond to the questions in the body of my ad. If you're just "browsing" with no intention of meeting, well... I'm not a pornstar (despite being labeled as such on the site) and I'm not as comfortable as other are with having images of my face floating around the internet. I know, I know, some of you could be sharing my private photos without me ever knowing (@Bullakaun, I appreciate your discretion) but if I can help it, I try to reserve revealing my face for clients with serious inquiries.

 

The vast majority of the experiences I've had with clients have been awesome. The few instances when I've been blackmailed, stood-up, ripped off or assaulted have led me to move through this pocket of the world with as much caution as possible. So... there you have it.

 

See you soon, maybe?

 

M

I am one of the fortunate recipients of those Mitch private face pics he allowed me access to a few months back. I can also vouch for his rugged, handsome good looks. We have yet to schedule a first “maiden voyage” appointment but his looks, body, and most importantly, good natured personality (albeit online messages) have won me over. Since we didn’t schedule within a couple weeks my access to the privates was later removed. Not an offensive move to me either. It’s clear he is trying to be as careful as possible about his online presence. I can respect that and look forward to meeting him sooner than later. BTW Mitch...Welcome to the Forum!

[+ harey]

Last month I sent him a note with my request to unlock just like he asks on his profile. He responded a week later apologizing for delay and asked me when I would like to make arrangements to meet. I responded and never heard back from him. He also did not unlock his pics.

Somewhat similar experience for me, except good initial response. Ignored request for pics. I don't feel like tap dancing or saying pretty please, so not a good match.

[adventurous old guy]

Somewhat similar experience for me, except good initial response. Ignored request for pics. I don't feel like tap dancing or saying pretty please, so not a good match.

I had a very similar experience -- or deficit of experience I guess -- with Mitch about a year ago. Mitch, you've explained here how you do you, and I understand. But factor in the fact that when Harey, I or others hit non-responsiveness we don't chase. If I get silence, I take that as an answer and move on.

Edited August 9, 2018 by adventurous old guy

[Mitch]

I had a very similar experience -- or deficit of experience I guess -- with Mitch about a year ago. Mitch, you've explained here how you do you, and I understand. But factor in the fact that when Hare, I or others hit non-responsiveness we don't chase. If I get silence, I take that as an answer and move on.

 

Fair enough!

[+ easygoingpal]

Hi all, to help even things out... I had a prompt response from Mitch when he was visiting San Francisco recently. I also had a great time meeting him and spending time with him. Best to all...

[kaboom35]

I met with Mitch and it was a completely positive experience. He’s the type of guy I could fall for on a personal level. We chatted for about 20 minutes or so before anything else we did and he’s so easy to talk with. I’m sure you may have questions and you can PM me but don’t ask me to send you his photos. I won’t do it.

[Kyle Clinton]

I don't know, this might not need to be said but I'll say it at the risk of offending others. Please know it's not stated in the spirit of offensiveness...

 

Maybe I'm going out on a limb but an unswered request might—just might—be unanswered due to the tone of the request. Like a first impression. It matters and a rewind and do-over is almost never going to happen. In this age of digital connect and personal disconnect, in an initial meeting the care in which conversation begins and the thoughtfulness, respectfulness and politeness used can set the tone for everything that follows. In the case of Mitch, one already senses a cautious hesitation to put himself "out there" fully until trust of some sort is established. It might be mentioning something you see stated in his profile that you like or that you thought was funny or creative. His face pics are private and establishing some trust first will show him that you're serious and you've read and considered everything about his profile other than..."Hey, hot body and profile! Can you unlock your private pics for me? Serious here."

 

When reaching out to an advertiser—especially for the first time—I always remind myself of the risk they take putting themselves online in that way but also, that this guy is a person. He is someone's son, someone's brother, uncle, friend, etc. I'm selling myself to him. It's a dance.

 

Kindness goes a very, very long way these days and toss in a little light humor and the world pays attention. Now, I'm NOT accusing anyone of not being that who didn't get those pics unlocked. Mitch could have a million reasons for doing what he does. But, those are his and he's allowed them. Even though it's a business, ALL good business relationships are just that...relationsips between people who usually connect on a personal level as much as a business level.

 

I apologize if I get too wordy from time to time here.

[MikeBiDude]

I don't know, this might not need to be said but I'll say it at the risk of offending others. Please know it's not stated in the spirit of offensiveness...

 

Maybe I'm going out on a limb but an unswered request might—just might—be unanswered due to the tone of the request. Like a first impression. It matters and a rewind and do-over is almost never going to happen. In this age of digital connect and personal disconnect, in an initial meeting the care in which conversation begins and the thoughtfulness, respectfulness and politeness used can set the tone for everything that follows. In the case of Mitch, one already senses a cautious hesitation to put himself "out there" fully until trust of some sort is established. It might be mentioning something you see stated in his profile that you like or that you thought was funny or creative. His face pics are private and establishing some trust first will show him that you're serious and you've read and considered everything about his profile other than..."Hey, hot body and profile! Can you unlock your private pics for me? Serious here."

 

When reaching out to an advertiser—especially for the first time—I always remind myself of the risk they take putting themselves online in that way but also, that this guy is a person. He is someone's son, someone's brother, uncle, friend, etc. I'm selling myself to him. It's a dance.

 

Kindness goes a very, very long way these days and toss in a little light humor and the world pays attention. Now, I'm NOT accusing anyone of not being that who didn't get those pics unlocked. Mitch could have a million reasons for doing what he does. But, those are his and he's allowed them. Even though it's a business, ALL good business relationships are just that...relationsips between people who usually connect on a personal level as much as a business level.

 

I apologize if I get too wordy from time to time here.

Excellent post @Kyle Clinton

[+ azdr0710]

I don't know, this might not need to be said but I'll say it at the risk of offending others. Please know it's not stated in the spirit of offensiveness...

 

Maybe I'm going out on a limb but an unswered request might—just might—be unanswered due to the tone of the request. Like a first impression. It matters and a rewind and do-over is almost never going to happen. In this age of digital connect and personal disconnect, in an initial meeting the care in which conversation begins and the thoughtfulness, respectfulness and politeness used can set the tone for everything that follows. In the case of Mitch, one already senses a cautious hesitation to put himself "out there" fully until trust of some sort is established. It might be mentioning something you see stated in his profile that you like or that you thought was funny or creative. His face pics are private and establishing some trust first will show him that you're serious and you've read and considered everything about his profile other than..."Hey, hot body and profile! Can you unlock your private pics for me? Serious here."

 

When reaching out to an advertiser—especially for the first time—I always remind myself of the risk they take putting themselves online in that way but also, that this guy is a person. He is someone's son, someone's brother, uncle, friend, etc. I'm selling myself to him. It's a dance.

 

Kindness goes a very, very long way these days and toss in a little light humor and the world pays attention. Now, I'm NOT accusing anyone of not being that who didn't get those pics unlocked. Mitch could have a million reasons for doing what he does. But, those are his and he's allowed them. Even though it's a business, ALL good business relationships are just that...relationsips between people who usually connect on a personal level as much as a business level.

 

I apologize if I get too wordy from time to time here.

 

Amen, brother! But I shudder to think this even has to be explained! Thanks, Kyle!

[Mitch]

I don't know, this might not need to be said but I'll say it at the risk of offending others. Please know it's not stated in the spirit of offensiveness...

 

Maybe I'm going out on a limb but an unswered request might—just might—be unanswered due to the tone of the request. Like a first impression. It matters and a rewind and do-over is almost never going to happen. In this age of digital connect and personal disconnect, in an initial meeting the care in which conversation begins and the thoughtfulness, respectfulness and politeness used can set the tone for everything that follows. In the case of Mitch, one already senses a cautious hesitation to put himself "out there" fully until trust of some sort is established. It might be mentioning something you see stated in his profile that you like or that you thought was funny or creative. His face pics are private and establishing some trust first will show him that you're serious and you've read and considered everything about his profile other than..."Hey, hot body and profile! Can you unlock your private pics for me? Serious here."

 

When reaching out to an advertiser—especially for the first time—I always remind myself of the risk they take putting themselves online in that way but also, that this guy is a person. He is someone's son, someone's brother, uncle, friend, etc. I'm selling myself to him. It's a dance.

 

Kindness goes a very, very long way these days and toss in a little light humor and the world pays attention. Now, I'm NOT accusing anyone of not being that who didn't get those pics unlocked. Mitch could have a million reasons for doing what he does. But, those are his and he's allowed them. Even though it's a business, ALL good business relationships are just that...relationsips between people who usually connect on a personal level as much as a business level.

 

I apologize if I get too wordy from time to time here.

 

I just got chills reading this. Thank you, this is a bullseye.

[+ harey]

I don't know, this might not need to be said but I'll say it at the risk of offending others. Please know it's not stated in the spirit of offensiveness...

 

Maybe I'm going out on a limb but an unswered request might—just might—be unanswered due to the tone of the request. Like a first impression. It matters and a rewind and do-over is almost never going to happen. In this age of digital connect and personal disconnect, in an initial meeting the care in which conversation begins and the thoughtfulness, respectfulness and politeness used can set the tone for everything that follows. In the case of Mitch, one already senses a cautious hesitation to put himself "out there" fully until trust of some sort is established. It might be mentioning something you see stated in his profile that you like or that you thought was funny or creative. His face pics are private and establishing some trust first will show him that you're serious and you've read and considered everything about his profile other than..."Hey, hot body and profile! Can you unlock your private pics for me? Serious here."

 

When reaching out to an advertiser—especially for the first time—I always remind myself of the risk they take putting themselves online in that way but also, that this guy is a person. He is someone's son, someone's brother, uncle, friend, etc. I'm selling myself to him. It's a dance.

 

Kindness goes a very, very long way these days and toss in a little light humor and the world pays attention. Now, I'm NOT accusing anyone of not being that who didn't get those pics unlocked. Mitch could have a million reasons for doing what he does. But, those are his and he's allowed them. Even though it's a business, ALL good business relationships are just that...relationsips between people who usually connect on a personal level as much as a business level.

 

I apologize if I get too wordy from time to time here.

Thanks for posting that. I completely agree. My regular guys are all very different from each other but have some things in common. One common trait is that they don't like time wasters or being treated like meat for sale, and that's what I like to see. Why would I spend my time with a man who doesn't respect himself ? Most of my repeats are also very discreet, and some don't even advertise openly, so a desire for privacy doesn't surprise me.

 

For new hires or first contacts, I try hard to get an accurate "read" on the guy based on his profile and ad text, as well as any information I've gathered from the forum. Then I contact him. Based on my impressions, I might be more businesslike, or quite casual in tone, or go out of my way to offer a compliment as an icebreaker. Email and text are limited, so my goal is to choose wording that will let an escort know that I'm considerate, serious, and (hopefully) fun. Or at least a harmless old man who is not completely insane and will be reliable about meetings and money.

 

I made a decision to build out my RM profile with more details, even though that's against my own instincts for privacy. There is enough information, including several reviews I've submitted, so at a glance someone can tell I'm not just a poseur, lurker, or pic collector. I even included my favorite Sappho quotation, hoping to find someone who takes the time to translate and actually understands.

 

But that extra time isn't required, and I don't have any problems with an escort who doesn't give himself away to strangers. I wasn't coming down on @Mitch or anyone else, simply stating that I don't always connect with someone interesting despite my best efforts to be respectful in my communications.

[rvwnsd]

I don't know, this might not need to be said but I'll say it at the risk of offending others. Please know it's not stated in the spirit of offensiveness...

 

Maybe I'm going out on a limb but an unswered request might—just might—be unanswered due to the tone of the request. Like a first impression. It matters and a rewind and do-over is almost never going to happen. In this age of digital connect and personal disconnect, in an initial meeting the care in which conversation begins and the thoughtfulness, respectfulness and politeness used can set the tone for everything that follows. In the case of Mitch, one already senses a cautious hesitation to put himself "out there" fully until trust of some sort is established. It might be mentioning something you see stated in his profile that you like or that you thought was funny or creative. His face pics are private and establishing some trust first will show him that you're serious and you've read and considered everything about his profile other than..."Hey, hot body and profile! Can you unlock your private pics for me? Serious here."

 

When reaching out to an advertiser—especially for the first time—I always remind myself of the risk they take putting themselves online in that way but also, that this guy is a person. He is someone's son, someone's brother, uncle, friend, etc. I'm selling myself to him. It's a dance.

 

Kindness goes a very, very long way these days and toss in a little light humor and the world pays attention. Now, I'm NOT accusing anyone of not being that who didn't get those pics unlocked. Mitch could have a million reasons for doing what he does. But, those are his and he's allowed them. Even though it's a business, ALL good business relationships are just that...relationsips between people who usually connect on a personal level as much as a business level.

 

I apologize if I get too wordy from time to time here.