Overnights

[Cannon]

To escorts, Have you ever done an overnight with a client? If so, what was it like? Do you enjoy doing them?

[Brodney]

I did it once and it was awesome. had dinner with the client, chatted, had sex, got in his jacuzzi, more sex, slept, woke up more sex, breakfast and then I headed out.

[BabyBoomer]

I did it once with and it was awesome. had dinner with the client, chatted, had sex, got in his jacuzzi, mores sex, slept, woke up more sex, breakfast and then I headed out.

 

That's what I call an overnight. Check-in 3PM to check-out 12 Noon.

Some escort consider that a full day, I consider it an extended overnight.

 

~Boomer ~

[wklucas]

Long time ago on 1 of my 1st overnite hires, the escort said to me (on his own initiative) that he was there to be "used & abused".....he was (of course, per my usual hire) a total top.....from the beginning of our time together (late afternoon) until the next morning, I recall fucking 5,6 or 7 times....each time to "completion" by both of us....around 3am or so, with him soundly sleeping, I was just climbing on top of him to simply "play" with his bod....he woke up & must have thought that I was getting ready to top him....he rolled me around under him & did "his thing".....final sex in the morning was at his suggestion as a nice/great way to start the day.....long time ago - San Luis Obispo, CA....hot, hot STUD....semi-pro athlete (baseball)....VGL......150 for the nite

[+ VictorPowers]

I did it once and it was awesome. had dinner with the client, chatted, had sex, got in his jacuzzi, more sex, slept, woke up more sex, breakfast and then I headed out.

I have had many. Some end up like the above here ^^. Some are more laid back with sex only once. Every client is different. I thoroughly enjoy them as we both are not rushed and we can enjoy our time at a good pace.

[BabyBoomer]

kind of a dumb question for an overnight/weekend session, either incall or outcall, is it expected for the client to provide/pay for all the meals?

 

Yes.

 

~Boomer ~

[+ oldNbusted]

I'm not an escort, but my understanding is the extended timeframe makes managing expectations and agreeing on the ground rules more important. Is the client expecting the escort to stay up and play all night, (which is not very realistic)? What are the allowances for checking email and such?

 

I have to say that having read some of the overnight commentary in my time here, from both sides, it seemed that unless the client is specifically looking for the experience of actual slumber with another person in the bed, both parties are better off setting an extended daytime meeting, but maybe I'm reading between the lines too much. I did take apply that to my next session, so it's a 12 hour daytime session.

[+ VictorPowers]

@oldNbusted I have done a daytime "overnight" we were together 8 hours or so. It was pretty fun and it opened up my evening for potential clients.

[ncc1701d]

Having done mostly days and only one overnight, I find it more rushed as most involve a 6pm to 6am stay type of schedule, so unless you are starting at midnight, the escort is usually up and running first thing in the morning , unless they are free and agree to stay longer off the clock. I admire mu Lukas above......wow that's packing a lot of activities !!

[Guest]

Curious how much overnights do you guys get/hire? I haven't had an overnight in a while. Most people just see me for an hour or two but on a regular basis.

 

Just asking as I met this gentlemen during pride weekend and we had a good time and now he wants to have an overnight next weekend. Any tips, ideas to make it a great time as I'm used to hourly sessions Muah thanks papis

[+ TylerandAce]

Overnights or extended sessions are our preferred form of interaction with a client. This formula seems to apply well:

time + familiarity = increased intensity.

 

The things that work best in an overnight are what already work best for short sessions:

1. be yourself...no gamesmanship

2. be what he wants...this is not in conflict with #1 if you do it right.

3. be others focused...you're not the important one

4. be kind...golden rule applies

5. be focused...do what you say you will and keep other distractions away

6. be inquisitive...get to know him and ask questions about likes dislikes (not all sexual)

7. be patient...things unfold differently in an overnight and there is usually more "activity"

8. be respectful...this is their time, but make yourself at home. We try to be relaxed in the space with him.

9. be gracious...show appreciation and acknowledge this is important time together.

10. be horny...goes without saying, but you need to want it whenever he's ready.

 

Enjoy. They can be a lot of fun.

[+ purplekow]

Overnights or extended sessions are our preferred form of interaction with a client. This formula seems to apply well:

time + familiarity = increased intensity.

 

The things that work best in an overnight are what already work best for short sessions:

1. be yourself...no gamesmanship

2. be what he wants...this is not in conflict with #1 if you do it right.

3. be others focused...you're not the important one

4. be kind...golden rule applies

5. be focused...do what you say you will and keep other distractions away

6. be inquisitive...get to know him and ask questions about likes dislikes (not all sexual)

7. be patient...things unfold differently in an overnight and there is usually more "activity"

8. be respectful...this is their time, but make yourself at home. We try to be relaxed in the space with him.

9. be gracious...show appreciation and acknowledge this is important time together.

10. be horny...goes without saying, but you need to want it whenever he's ready.

 

Enjoy. They can be a lot of fun.

I believe if you are going to do an overnight with Tyler and Ace that the most important thing for the client to do was omitted. Make sure your life insurance premiums have been paid. 12 hours with those two might darn well kill a mere mortal.

 

In my case, just the thought of the encounter led to my having a heart procedure the day before the scheduled event. But then again, we all have to go sometime and I cannot think of a better exit than the little death followed by the big one.

[+ TylerandAce]

I believe if you are going to do an overnight with Tyler and Ace that the most important thing for the client to do was omitted. Make sure you life insurance premiums have been paid. 12 hours with those two might darn well kill a mere mortal.

LOL...nah, but maybe a low deductible for health insurance would be good

[+ Steve yabsley]

Curious how much overnights do you guys get/hire? I haven't had an overnight in a while. Most people just see me for an hour or two but on a regular basis.

 

Just asking as I met this gentlemen during pride weekend and we had a good time and now he wants to have an overnight next weekend. Any tips, ideas to make it a great time as I'm used to hourly sessions Muah thanks papis

 

I generally do more overnights than shorter engagements - maybe 6-10 overnights/year (ok, maybe 10-12.....no judging). I prefer overnights and even do them on first meetings (sometimes....depends on the vibe I get). That said, I have ended them by midnight on occasion, paid the full fee and sent them home, and some guys are not 'great' at overnights but still great hires and on future engagements I have moved to 3-4 hours.

Like for everything, good communication is the key - try to align on your expectations (in general terms) beforehand or at least when you meet.

 

That said, @TylerandAce gave super advice. Kudos and thanks. Well said.

[+ purplekow]

LOL...nah, but maybe a low deductible for health insurance would be good

And it has been a bit more than a year and I am still counting on a raincheck for that missed golden opportunity.

[+ purplekow]

I generally do more overnights than shorter engagements - maybe 6-10 overnights/year (ok, maybe 10-12.....no judging). I prefer overnights and even do them on first meetings (sometimes....depends on the vibe I get). That said, I have ended them by midnight on occasion, paid the full fee and sent them home, and some guys are not 'great' at overnights but still great hires and on future engagements I have moved to 3-4 hours.

Like for everything, good communication is the key - try to align on your expectations (in general terms) beforehand or at least when you meet.

The most common payment schedule would have a 4 hour session and an overnight session with about the same cost. So I would rather book the overnight and cut it short than to watch a hot man walk out the door just as my cock is coming up for air again.

[+ Steve yabsley]

The most common payment schedule would have a 4 hour session and an overnight session with about the same cost. So I would rather book the overnight and cut it short than to watch a hot man walk out the door just as my cock is coming up for air again.

Exactly! And some guys are great to sleep with and morning fun.....

[Guest]

Thank u @TylerandAce for the very detailed tips... plus you two guys are sexy too

 

I will try to do lots of foreplay (cuddling, kissing, touching each other) just to build up and edge up our emotions, plus don't want us to cum in the first hour or two of course I will make him work for it

 

He was passive in our first meeting, so Im thinking I should switch things up as its a long amount of time... and not just be the dominant one but maybe throw some passive moments in an overnight, he said he just wants to just please me but I want to arch my back and please him as well Hopefully he likes it :D

[Michael Paul]

First off I would like to inform everyone I have never done an overnighter yet .... I have this one potential client that has contacted about 4 weeks ago for an overnighter. He will be traveling in from Alabama. We discussed what it was that he was interesting doing once he got here. He wants to go out to dinner first, then to a club then back to his hotel room where we can get really get down to business. Which all sound perfect to me. At least this give us time in the beginning to get to know each other before thing move to the pleasure zone.. After his initial contact, I found out I had to have surgery. I told him that we would have to postpone our time together. He was totally fine with that, he said he was in no hurry. He has stayed in contact with and he will text me at least 3 or 4 times a week. Goes into long details about what he want us to do and how he cannot wait to be with me. He will also tell me about some of his adventures with other guys. Which I am cool with. He is a very sweet gentleman who is older than me. He told me that he normally only hires young escorts. Someone that had hired me once when they were in Atlanta told him that he need to contact me because I was good at what I do. (Huge Ego boost for me I will admit) He told me that he has never been with an older Escort and he wants to see what it is like to be with guy that is older that has more life experiences. That is why he choose me to have that experience with and the fact that he was told I was good at what I do.

I am very thank full that he is waiting on my to recover from my surgery before we plan out overnighter together. What I want to know it normal for a potential client to stay in contact this long and go into extreme detail about our time together?....Would like to hear your thoughts on my situation ...

[+ OliverSaks]

Goes into long details about what he want us to do and how he cannot wait to be with me. He will also tell me about some of his adventures with other guys. Which I am cool with. He is a very sweet gentleman who is older than me. He told me that he normally only hires young escorts

The above stuff, the extensive back and forth, I've found to be a troublesome sign. I can't say that this guy is a flake/fake, but if he can get a lot of "stimulation" from the back and forth (for free), then there's the chance that he doesn't follow through in person.

 

I generally recommend keeping firm boundaries over text convos, at least until you've actually met him, because your time is valuable.

[Michael Paul]

The above stuff, the extensive back and forth, I've found to be a troublesome sign. I can't say that this guy is a flake/fake, but if he can get a lot of "stimulation" from the back and forth (for free), then there's the chance that he doesn't follow through in person.

 

I generally recommend keeping firm boundaries over text convos, at least until you've actually met him, because your time is valuable.

 

As time went one I was kind of thinking about the same thing but was not sure ...I have to say in first first initial contact, he was ready to set something up at the same time. That's when I found out I was having surgery. Then I had to postpone everything. I was worried and I felt like I needed to keep him interested at the same time. Does that make sense?

[+ OliverSaks]

As time went one I was kind of thinking about the same thing but was not sure ...I have to say in first first initial contact, he was ready to set something up at the same time. That's when I found out I was having surgery. Then I had to postpone everything. I was worried and I felt like I needed to keep him interested at the same time. Does that make sense?

I totally get that, too - sometimes, something like this does works out, and I hope that it will for you. There are some really great people out there.

 

I was just sharing another perspective.

[Michael Paul]

I totally get that, too - sometimes, something like this does works out, and I hope that it will for you. There are some really great people out there.

 

I was just sharing another perspective.

 

I really do understand what your saying ...I guess it will be a wait and see if anything does go forward.... Just for the record...I am not offering him much back as far as what it will be like ...He does most of the texting... I just give the simple ... "wow ...that sound like a lot of Fun" type answers.

[+ GregM]

To escorts, Have you ever done an overnight with a client? If so, what was it like? Do you enjoy doing them?

 

I have done a number of over nights and a few weekends. I love doing over nights. It allows time for getting to know one another, lively discussion over a good meal and plenty of time to play. All without the feeling of being rushed. My last over night was unexpected but very enjoyable as the awesome guy and I were familiar with each other but on a non sexy time basis. We were going to carry on into the afternoon but unfort I was having tummy issues the next day and I had to cut it short. I am looking forward to when our scheds match up and we can start off where we left off cause he and I have unfinished business. I will say though I do prefer to do over nights with guys who've seen me before. But on occasion I have done over nights with a guy I have not seen or know. I kinda find these hard because I tend to worry about my personal safety and belongings. The way my day job work sched is right now, over nights are very doable since I dont start work till 10 am.

 

Hugs,

Greg

[+ TylerandAce]

And it has been a bit more than a year and I am still counting on a raincheck for that missed golden opportunity.

I know!! We are definitely "up" for a repeat any time, my friend!