Is it more likely that the escort has a good attitude if his physique is less attractive?

[Mydavid]

Is it more likely that the escort has a good attitude if his physique is less attractive? Especially for those who have worked for a long time, because he hardly survives in business if he doesn't have a very good attitude.

[Mydavid]

For those escorts I have met, the least attractive one has the best attitude.

[+ TheBigO]

Interesting thought; not sure graphing Attractiveness versus Attitude really works especially when specific individuals and sessions are considered.

 

I have had some experiences for sure where the prettier the guy; the more lack luster the session; but the not as pretty group has also had some poor attitudes and poor skills. Both of those sessions and encounters felt more like an ATM transaction and impersonal.

 

When first hiring, I found myself surprised when I carried that assumption about attitude and appearance. I'd say I came to realized that regardless of appearance, it really comes down how much someone enjoys his work and feels appreciated when he takes good care of his client. I have been generally able to find the right balance reading through profiles.

 

Also attractiveness can be very subjective. There are some escorts that others seem to find beautiful, extremely attractive, handsome, etc., and I am ah; just not seeing the attractiveness. I generally find guys with longhair super attractive; however, there are not many men wearing longhair even with the man bun craze. I am guessing that is because many men dont care for longhair on themselves or others.

 

Then again, when asked what my type is...a buddy responded that I like them artistic, edgy, creative, etc., which is as true now as it was 10+ years ago. I guess a man's attractiveness to me is filtered through his attitude.

[+ nycman]

It's a very broad generalization, but classically beautiful people...tend to be assholes.

 

Nonetheless, for me it's more about chemistry. With some men it just clicks.

With some men it just doesn't. In my experience, chemistry isn't as tightly

tied to looks as attitude, but obviously they still correlate.

 

I hope that makes sense.

[bigvalboy]

Is it more likely that the escort has a good attitude if his physique is less attractive?.

 

I don't see the correlation...

 

...and that hasn't been my experience. Some of the hottest escorts that I've hired, have come with best attitudes. Just came back from Montreal, and the most beautiful bodybuilder I've seen in a long time, was the most accommodating, most interactive, and by far the most fun to be with. I gave him twice his going rate. Escorts like that should be rewarded.

[LaffingBear]

Profiling! Profiling!

Please alert the PC Police!

[+ purplekow]

If a man is not classically attractive he may still have a niche market, but someone who would generally be considered to be unattractive physically has to have something going for him, if he is going to be an escort. Great attitude is one. Big cock is another. Great skills is yet another. But if the eye is not pleased, you best believe a popular escort is doing well pleasing other body parts.

[MikeyGMin]

It's a very broad generalization, but classically beautiful people...tend to be assholes

Too pretty and it's hard to avoid a sense of entitlement from being fawned over all their life.

 

Now, take a generally handsome man who has built his body into something special, then you get a super hot guy who has worked for it. And it always seems to show in their personality.

[+ Keith30309]

I've wondered the same thing.

I think that most men and women who are very physically attractive by general societal standards know it.

 

I think I've met perhaps 5 escorts who I would consider to be "drop dead gorgeous", by my preferences. Three are genuinely nice guys, one is a little distant (though English is his second language which makes connecting difficult) and one struck me as being "difficult to get to know".

I thought perhaps a young age might correlate to being less than pleasant but two of the nice guys above are under 24.

 

None of these 5 guys are among the group of who I would consider to be stellar companions, stellar being defined as an extraordinary ability to 1) understand, 2) care, and, 3) give.

I think that's just an ability that someone either has or doesn't combined with a willingness to work hard at it. (I've observed that being an escort is easy but being a good escort is very difficult.)

 

I struggle to correlate anything to anything. I think 'attitude' is just several elements of someone's personality.