When specific dislikes occur....

[LaffingBear]

Im wondering

 

Individuals all have specific preferences.

 

Examples: a client may detest smoking, any evidence, smell, etc. Some guys love ink, some guys can't handle it. Some guys think metal and piercing is hot, and it freaks others out.

 

I'm not trying to start a debate regarding these attributes. And I've never had any bad exeriences.

 

We frequently opine regarding age or fitness not remotely matching advertisements.

 

What would a client do if you showed up, and your rentguy smelled like an ashtray?

 

For guys who dislike tattoos, what would you do if you met your scort, and learned his photos are from 2 years ago, and hes added serious ink?

 

If you chose your hire because all of the metal was a turn on, and he showed up with none, saying he was just changing his look, would you send him away?

 

If you hired because you loved his long flowing mane in his pics, and he showed up sporting a buzzcut, or you liked his bearish body hair, and he showed up waxed.... etc. etc.....vice versa and etc.

 

I never screened down to that level of detail... nor do I think I would. But I wonder how I'd respond if a guy showed up with some particular attribute which just happens to turn me off.

[+ Tarte Gogo]

My main dislike is facial hair, and I often have issues with guys having pictures both with a beard and without, and I have to ask and agree all the time if he is going to be shaved on that day when i meet him, or not. There are already so many things to agree on, that is just one more annoying thing that I cannot filter out in rent men. I wish I could rely on the description about facial hair (like they have on Romeo).

 

But if all the pictures are fully shaved and I in that case I do not usually confirm, and he turns out to have a beard, I would walk away, absolutely.

[+ WmClarke]

But if all the pictures are fully shaved and I in that case I do not usually confirm, and he turns out to have a beard, I would walk away, absolutely.

If you have a deal-breaker like that, you should tell the escort when you schedule the session. How is he supposed to know what you want if you don't tell him?

[+ José Soplanucas]

I guess if you are so picky about one single detail and it happens it is not what you expected, you do not have a choice and have to walk away from the appointment.

 

I do have some things I prefer not to deal with, like facial hair, body hair, masculine voice and manners, and piercings. But my attraction or lack of depends on a combination of things and I can perfectly find attractive a guy who does hold one of those characteristics. For instance, my adorable Elii has facial hair and I fucking love him.

 

There is only one thing that is an absolute for me: body smell. I am very sensitive and smells are a huge turn on... or off. If I open my door, I hug the guy, and his smell turns me off, there is nothing I can do. I have to cancel. Fortunately never happened to me with escorts, but with hook ups.

[MikeyGMin]

My only real deal-breaker, and I know it makes me a superficial bitch and will not amuse the follically challenged, is hair on the head. I like it dark (usually) and present (always.)

 

I don't hire bald guys, no matter how buffed and sexy they can be, so it would be a real boner killer if he showed up with a shaved head. A buzz cut is a completely different matter. That's how shallow I am -- 1/2 inch of hair.

 

I wouldn't slam the door in his face, but I would be pretty disappointed and would not hire again.

[+ Tarte Gogo]

If you have a deal-breaker like that, you should tell the escort when you schedule the session. How is he supposed to know what you want if you don't tell him?

Only once I forgot to ask. He was 21, in London and all his pics on the Web were clean shaven! I could not imagine he would grow a beard, and not update his profile pics.

 

Anyway I manage to fuck him from behind, and I did pay, but I would not do this again.

 

I guess if it is his or my place, I can always ask him to shave beforehand as part of the deal if I forget to ask again.

[LaffingBear]

Interesting. I tried thinking back over my experiences

 

I twice ran away from sessions that had already started due body issues. Not really the type of concern I was exploring with this post.

 

The closest thing I can think of was a visit with a guy named Ridge in Chicago. Late 90s. He was shredded. The session went great for about 30 minutes, with one repeated distraction. He had a navel piercing with a dangling asian symbol cut from flat metal. Maybe 0.5X1.0 inch. It kept stabbing me. Also, while the kissing was super hot, i realized at one point, he had gum in his mouth while we were making out. I asked to remove the gum and he complied... and within a couple of minutes, it was like kissing an ashtray. I asked, soooo... and we were more than 30 minutes in. I might have asked him to leave if I'd noticed the smell at arrival.

 

Ive had guys who didnt meet my hopes based on their ad, but nothing so extreme I felt justified in cancelling.

[+ oldNbusted]

I don't feel I should have to ask if the photos someone has chosen to put in their profile are an accurate representation of what I will see.

 

While I'm not going out of my way to get up on my hind legs over something I don't care too much about, a lot of people have a deal breaker or two, so it just shouldn't be considered ok for someone to surprise clients. I would be wondering what was going through their mind that they thought it was ok to do that. Respect is a two way street, I want to be respectful and I want to be respected in turn.

[+ WmClarke]

Only once I forgot to ask. He was 21, in London and all his pics on the Web were clean shaven! I could not imagine he would grow a beard, and not update his profile pics.

 

Anyway I manage to fuck him from behind, and I did pay, but I would not do this again.

 

I guess if it is his or my place, I can always ask him to shave beforehand as part of the deal if I forget to ask again.

I think sometimes guys just don't think about their beard. They shave it off or grow it on a whim.

 

It's good that you bring it up! We all forget stuff once in a while.

[+ José Soplanucas]

I don't feel I should have to ask if the photos someone has chosen to put in their profile are an accurate representation of what I will see.

 

While I'm not going out of my way to get up on my hind legs over something I don't care too much about, a lot of people have a deal breaker or two, so it just shouldn't be considered ok for someone to surprise clients. I would be wondering what was going through their mind that they thought it was ok to do that. Respect is a two way street, I want to be respectful and I want to be respected in turn.

 

I do ask. Not because I think real pictures are a must but because I want to verify I am attracted to the guy. I have had a couple of surprises. The last one was with the guy using Ace Rockwood pictures. I had a FaceTime call with him and the guy in the real guy behind the ad is actually hotter than Ace. Unfortunately something happened and I could not hire him.

[+ Funguy]

Smokers . . . NO SMOKERS . . .I don't care how much they try, they cannot disguise it.

(and, BTW MikeyGMin, damn I love bald/shaved heads!!!!!)

[LADoug1]

As ALWAYS communication is king!

[MikeyGMin]

Smokers . . . NO SMOKERS . . .I don't care how much they try, they cannot disguise it.

(and, BTW MikeyGMin, damn I love bald/shaved heads!!!!!)

We are apparently polar opposites and that's a beautiful thing for the working guys. There is a client out there for almost anyone.

 

Neither of my regulars smoke, but I don't mind it at all when someone has just a faint smell or taste. Something about the faint taste of cigarettes mixed with toothpaste reminds me of my youth when smoking with so prevalent. There is some kind of Pavlovian response going on there I'm sure.

[BasketBaller]

I have some preferences, certainly, but apart from hygiene, I don't really have any dislikes that would make me refuse to proceed. Bad breath or body odor would drive me away, but things like facial/body hair, tattoos, etc might not be to my liking but I've been with guys who gave me a good time without perfectly aligning with my ideal. Given a choice I'd go for a tall, lean guy with a smooth body, blond or red hair, clean shaven. But I've had great times with short guys, muscular guys, hairy guys, dark guys. But having said that, none of those were surprises, something about their ads appealed enough to interest me.

[+ poolboy48220]

One local guy that I'll never repeat with showed up with a stubbly chest. It was very uncomfortable. I definitely prefer hairy guys, but I've had fun times with smooth guys, but stubble? Ick.