Do you believe being solely an escort is a job enough?

[Mocha]

Mocha I'm glad we have you on this board. I may not agree with you but damn you express yourself and I think it's awesome for the board. Keep it coming. And yes I would love the opportunity to meet one day I you get to NYC. We all come from different places and your views are coming from a different perspective than mine and your candor on this board is very welcome. Cheers babe.

 

Thankyou, so much. But honestly I'm tired of having to defend myself on here everytime I talk about something. I'm just too busy and beautiful and successful to sit around and prove myself to a bunch of non MF factors. All the mean Ogers here just make it an unfriendly environment to express oneself freely. Unless one plays the safe card, and uses the "you go girl" like button when a member criticizes and demeans another...it's probably hard for others to feel comfortable about being transparent.

 

So the end result is just a lot of facades and fakery, and although it keeps things neutral and breezy...it gives newbies the impression that you're only welcome here if you don't talk about anything remotely confrontational, and MUST say only agreeable things to placate the eyes of people who "might" someday schedule a visit with you.

 

People try to say I'm improperly utilizing the forum. I don't come here to market. However, this headline of this forums title and the title of the Lounge says nothing about, "a place for escorts to market/flirt4free with clients." So I'm not doing anything wrong. It says "a place to discuss what makes a good encounter with an escort". And if a client is trying to persuade an escort into getting into a regular job, does that not fall under the category of that?

 

If a John walked up to a Las Vegas prosititute and said, "hey honey, I can get you a real job in Florida", do you think that bitch is going to feel grateful if he then tells her she has to pay to move there all herself? No. He/She would say things far worse than the 7 years I've been posting here. Yes, I had to use a very black and white vulgar scenario here to get my point across. Therefore the logic of these people getting all pent up and angry at me is absolutely unfounded.

 

P.S. MartyB, only the first paragraph was directed to you. Don't feel I'm rebuffing you, I'm on your side and I know you're on mine!

[BryanKnight]

Can you add to that, if were you referencing any comment in particular? Not to nitpick, but it almost seems too vague to be deciphered.

 

Evolve meaning to add skill sets and knowledge to be relevant and meaningful to visitors.

 

For example, a professional becoming healthier, learning new languages to better communicate, learning sports or history to connect better as the interests of their visitors change too.

 

This wisdom is communicated directly to me from professionals who work full time as escorts for 20 years or longer

[Mocha]

Evolve meaning to add skill sets and knowledge to be relevant and meaningful to visitors.

 

For example, a professional becoming healthier, learning new languages to better communicate, learning sports or history to connect better as the interests of their visitors change too.

 

This wisdom is communicated directly to me from professionals who work full time as escorts for 20 years or longer

 

Well said. It's definitely good to have knowledge expanded to other areas.

 

Interesting you mentioned sports. I know baseball seems to be a popular one. However, though at different points in my youth I followed various sports, I'm content with just being in the gym for the most part. One of my former clients commented that by not watching baseball I'm missing "a great part of American pastime"

 

But at the same time, I think America as whole forces people to be into sports teams and such like football etc. I go to a "sports" barbershop in Nashville and all they ever have on tv is ESPN. Nothing else.

 

I like football, I've played football. But there's a lot of people who watch it religiously every Sunday during playoff season simply because there's this unspoken mandate that you SHOULD be watching it. I've thought of joining some gay sports leagues, but I'm just not into getting all gritty and dirty like that though. And then attending weekly and dealing with some of the different personalities of it all and such.

 

That said I have a few interests and talents in things outside of the business. Ask me anything about car maintenance, ask me how to create a room by design, ask me about fitness, ask me how many major cities you pass crossing from Atlanta to San Francisco. Just don't ask me how many innings the Red Sox had lol. Most just natural stuff I've naturally been into.