I'm super new to this world

[rvwnsd]

...I did recognize one escort who has been escorting for years. When he first started, he wasn't bald (although he was receding). As far as I know he's always gotten stellar reviews- Matt Stevens- https://rent.men/MattStevens

 

You should be able to YouTube him. He's done some porn. He does or used to do interviews.

 

I hope this helps.

 

Gman

 

Matt Stevens is great! Hired him several years ago and he was a LOT of fun. I can see him being a great first hire.

[Jose305]

Glad I joined these forums (and found them in the first place) Like the man who started this post it's a nervous/exciting feeling - actually more nervous lol. Gotta overcome my own insecurities too - cmon look at these men they're drop dead gorgeous- you suddenly feel old, fat & ugly just looking at their pics! Anyways going to look into you guys recommendations, hopefully will have some good news to report sometime soon

[+ nycman]

you suddenly feel old, fat & ugly just looking at their pics!

 

Baby...I understand you're feeling that way.....but when they look at your wallet....you are not old, fat, or ugly.

[Jose305]

Baby...I understand you're feeling that way.....but when they look at your wallet....you are not old, fat, or ugly.

Hahaha makes perfect sense

[+ Gar1eth]

Glad I joined these forums (and found them in the first place) Like the man who started this post it's a nervous/exciting feeling - actually more nervous lol. Gotta overcome my own insecurities too - cmon look at these men they're drop dead gorgeous- you suddenly feel old, fat & ugly just looking at their pics! Anyways going to look into you guys recommendations, hopefully will have some good news to report sometime soon

 

That was why I hired to begin with-I was fat, old, ugly, didn't want to be gay (we won't discuss that in this thread), and was a total virgin. I figured if I didn't want to die without ever experiencing sex, then I'd better do more than just look at the escort sites as I had done for the previous 6 years.

 

Gman

[Jose305]

That was why I hired to begin with-I was fat, old, ugly, didn't want to be gay (we won't discuss that in this thread), and was a total virgin. I figured if I didn't want to die without ever experiencing sex, then I'd better do more than just look at the escort sites as I had done for the previous 6 years.

 

Gman

I'm gay, middle aged now, single but had gay sex before in my younger years but sadly the gay world has an almost pathological obsession with age (young) and perfect looks so I'm totally ignored now...I can walk in a gay bar steal their alcohol and they wouldn't notice I was there lol. The likelihood of any man that looks like these escorts - without "donations" - giving me the time of day is negative zero! So what are options...hiring those men lol. I'll be honest and admit (in my mind anyways) that's sometimes I feel like a sleaze-bag looking into escorts ( my angel side) meanwhile my devil side says fuck it they're there for a purpose wtf why not :rolleyes:

[MikeBiDude]

I'm gay, middle aged now, single but had gay sex before in my younger years but sadly the gay world has an almost pathological obsession with age (young) and perfect looks so I'm totally ignored now...I can walk in a gay bar steal their alcohol and they wouldn't notice I was there lol. The likelihood of any man that looks like these escorts - without "donations" - giving me the time of day is negative zero! So what are options...hiring those men lol. I'll be honest and admit (in my mind anyways) that's sometimes I feel like a sleaze-bag looking into escorts ( my angel side) meanwhile my devil side says fuck it they're there for a purpose wtf why not :rolleyes:

Well I'm middle-aged+ and I couldn't disagree more. Maybe it's my attitude/confidence and my expectations. But meeting younger guys say early twenties to mid-thirties not at all a problem for me.

[Jose305]

Well I'm middle-aged+ and I couldn't disagree more. Maybe it's my attitude/confidence and my expectations. But meeting younger guys say early twenties to mid-thirties not at all a problem for me.

Awesome for you!

[MikeBiDude]

Awesome for you!

I hire too!! Lol

[+ Gar1eth]

I hire too!! Lol

 

Since this is not the way my life turned out, I'll never know. But I have this fantasy that if I had accepted being gay, had had anything approaching a normal sex life, and hadn't still been a f-cking virgin (it's an oxymoron ) at the age of 41, I might not have ever hired.

 

Gman

[big-n-tall]

I'm gay, middle aged now, single but had gay sex before in my younger years but sadly the gay world has an almost pathological obsession with age (young) and perfect looks so I'm totally ignored now...I can walk in a gay bar steal their alcohol and they wouldn't notice I was there lol. The likelihood of any man that looks like these escorts - without "donations" - giving me the time of day is negative zero! So what are options...hiring those men lol. I'll be honest and admit (in my mind anyways) that's sometimes I feel like a sleaze-bag looking into escorts ( my angel side) meanwhile my devil side says fuck it they're there for a purpose wtf why not :rolleyes:

 

I hire and have friends with benefits.

 

I guess technically I would be considered overweight or obese, but because of my height and body structure I don't look it. And I'm not old by any means... well maybe to a toddler to teenager. LOL! I've been cruised by younger guys (and older women), but I rarely do one night stands.

 

But to my point... yes, there are a lot of young and old gay men who are all about the beauty. However, there are "pretty ones" who find the average guy, bear, or whatever attractive, just maybe its not as prevalent. Don't give up on finding/hooking up with someone for free... even in this ever increasing vapid selfie driven age.

 

I can tell you first hand that although I'm no where near a physical adonis... apparently, I have a lot of qualities working guys seem to favor. Sometimes these escorts, who in most cases can have men just as pretty or sexy or built (or any combo of the previous) as they are, end up developing an attraction to the you and me types. As told to me by a popular escort on this forum, he has become more attracted to some of his "average joe" (my phrasing, not his) clients than some of the other working guys he works with. Furthermore, although I have never had a free session, two of the guys I see only ask for the cost of the room, gas, or other travel cost (even for an overnight). These particular two enjoy my company so much they practical give me every incentive to see them. Both these guys are younger then me (one by a few years and the other by over ten).

 

So don't feel like you're a "sleaze-bag". Know that some of the working guys you'll meet get into the sex with the client just as much as the client is into the sex with the escort. You may find one that clicks with you so well unexpected things may happen between you.

[+ PapaTony]

i apologize in advance if I'm posting this in the wrong place. I've always been so curious to hire an escort but I'm too nervous and downright scared. However, the urge to hire continues to grow. What are the ins and outs to hire someone successfully and to have a blast? What are red flags, what are the Do's and dont's on the client and on the escort sides? Ps: any recommendations for someone a first timer should hire in vegas? Thanks everyone!!!

.

I think I'd like to introduce a "buddy system" to help you through your first time.

I'm in Vegas next week for 2 nights!

[30somethingnewbie]

You had me at Papa. IM me. Lol

[TruHart1]

It's easier if I write what I don't like lol - definitely not into twinks, skinny guys, blond guys and ultra smooth guys. What I definitely like is facial hair ++++ husky guys, built guys, bear guys, cub men, muscular men, dark feature, African American men, Latino men (I speak Spanish fluently)

There you go

I'm more bottom, kissing a HUGE plus for me as well as chemistry I'm all about chemistry. I can't fake I like you and I hope you the same.

Weeeeel then... you're in luck. Our very own @Maarrkk recently joined the Forum and I can affirm that he meets your requirements.

@Jose305, here is @Maarrkk's RM ad: https://rentmen.com/Maarrkk

 

TruHart1

[+ Gar1eth]

@Jose305, I'm sorry, had a senior moment forgetting you are in Vegas and recommending @Maarrkk, who is in Miami. Anyway should he ever get to Vegas, he does seem perfect for you. Here is @Maarrkk's RM ad: https://rentmen.com/Maarrkk

 

TruHart1

@TruHart1 -it's easy to get confused as there are two naifs in this thread.

 

@Jose305-is in Miami-

 

@30somethingnewbie is in Vegas (but don't tell:p)

 

Gman

[TruHart1]

@TruHart1 -it's easy to get confused as there are two naifs in this thread.

 

@Jose305-is in Miami-

 

@30somethingnewbie is in Vegas (but don't tell:p)

 

Gman

Oops, wow! Senior moments on top of each other. Sorry guys. Thanks Gman. I just edited to correct and clarify.

 

TruHart1

[+ Gar1eth]

Well I'm middle-aged+ and I couldn't disagree more. Maybe it's my attitude/confidence and my expectations. But meeting younger guys say early twenties to mid-thirties not at all a problem for me.

 

Or maybe you are very handsome and in good shape?

 

Gman

[BabyBoomer]

Or maybe you are very handsome and in good shape?

 

Gman

 

And look like Alec Andrews.

 

~Boomer ~

[+ Gar1eth]

Well I'm middle-aged+ and I couldn't disagree more. Maybe it's my attitude/confidence and my expectations. But meeting younger guys say early twenties to mid-thirties not at all a problem for me.

 

Or maybe you are very handsome and in good shape?

 

Gman

 

And look like Alec Andrews.

 

~Boomer ~

 

You know @BabyBoomer Alec is so handsome that you'd probably have an incredible success rate if you were only 50% as handsome/50 % the physique of him.

 

Gman

[Maarrkk]

Hopefully he likes bear guys like me

I do!

[Jose305]

I do!

I would hire you in a heartbeat only glitch is that you look almost exactly like a good friend of mine and it would get creepy quickly LOL

[Maarrkk]

I would hire you in a heartbeat only glitch is that you look almost exactly like a good friend of mine and it would get creepy quickly LOL

Take your time, but I'm sure I'm not like your friend LOL.

I can be better than him and also when you say "almost exactly" is too exagerating 'm sure if you show him to me I will defeintely tell I don't looks like

 

Mark

[Jose305]

Take your time, but I'm sure I'm not like your friend LOL.

I can be better than him and also when you say "almost exactly" is too exagerating 'm sure if you show him to me I will defeintely tell I don't looks like

 

Mark

Hmmm how do I respond to this besides with the evil devious smirk I have now. I definitely don't know my friend - that way You can blind fold me and show me how you're different - that's an idea (quite brilliant idea I think;))

[TruHart1]

Take your time, but I'm sure I'm not like your friend LOL.

I can be better than him and also when you say "almost exactly" is too exagerating 'm sure if you show him to me I will defeintely tell I don't looks like

 

Mark

Hmmm how do I respond to this besides with the evil devious smirk I have now. I definitely don't know my friend - that way You can blind fold me and show me how you're different - that's an idea (quite brilliant idea I think;))

For Pete's sake, get a room guys! My guess is that once @Jose305 and @Maarrkk meat up, Jose will most likely forget about any resemblance to his friend!!!

 

TruHart1

[Maarrkk]

For Pete's sake, get a room guys! My guess is that once @Jose305 and @Maarrkk meat up, Jose will most likely forget about any resemblance to his friend!!!

 

TruHart1

agree! any similarity is just a coincidence. Mark is Mark hihihihihi (Devil Emoji)