Meet as good as the anticipation?

[LivingnLA]

@LivingnLA You're an incredibly insightful person. Thank you for passing along so much advice.

 

Well, I'm not sure if this is strange or not but, I gave my first blow job with a condom on his cock. I just didn't feel comfortable going raw since I didn't know him (at all).

 

The day I go raw with someone, I'll need to know who he is (you know?). I'm also reading up on how "safe" oral sex is (I'm dying to feel a man's bare cock in my mouth but I really just want to play it safe) since I'm still having sex with my wife, yes (not as often but, yes, I am).

 

Huge thanks for the rent.men share!! Wow, very nice!! You were spot on. I'll need to really plan this out — that is, finding the time and planning the finances so that $300 isn't obviously "missing" — ugh, I hate it! But, I really like what I see on rent.men, incredible.

 

Thanks. I try to be helpful when I can. Sometimes I succeed and sometimes I don't. Such is life.

 

It's not strange nowadays with the big jumps in anal, oral, and throat cancers and the research that suggests HPV is behind these jumps. If you're over the CDC's age cutoff for men, your insurance won't pay for the HPV vaccine, but it's worth paying for yourself if you want to suck or be fucked without condoms. The HepA and HepB are very important too because they're fairly prevalent in men who have sex with men. The same goes for meningitis in the outbreak area or anyone who travels in and out of it (like escorts).

 

You're welcome. I'm glad I guessed correctly about your interests.

[big-n-tall]

@LivingnLA thanks for this response! You're spot on. Since I'm an expert in gay porn (watching for so many years!) I've had enough time to think about the type of guy I like: Not young/mature (even young guys can be mature), hairy (I find myself turned on the most when watching a hairy man top a seemingly innocent guy), I find myself loving huge cocks but, in the real world, I may not be able to handle it so soon. I'm very open to smaller cocks too, actually. As for my first lucky top, I'd definitely want him to be verbal with me and definitely demand that I suck his cock (and yes, I will need lots of guidance).

 

As for my first encounter, yes, it was a random hookup (found him on Craigslist, I really don't know where else to find guys other than a gay bar and I haven't felt comfortable enough to check out that scene). He wasn't my type but I reasoned "cock is a cock right?" But, that isn't true. I wasn't into his look nor his cock.

 

For me, I'm not the athletic type but, I'm far from unattractive. I'm straight so, I'm really counting on a very good second try and if you have any recommendations for an Escort, I'd try I guess. I live in NYC (Chelsea area of all places) so, should be easy huh? Then why is it so difficult?

 

Argh!

 

I think you should contact @Eric Hassan. He is a member of this forum.

 

Eric kind of/sort of looks like the guy in vid you posted. Not only do I think Eric is sexy as hell... his responses and postings on this forum suggest he'd be an exemplary hire.

 

One day he shall be mine!!! oops did I say that out loud. Lol!

[+ glennnn]

@Cure694u

Our journeys are similar in terms of our marital status and need for exploration of gay sex. Please feel free to PM me with any questions or musings. A dialogue between us might be helpful.

 

I came out to my wife just a year ago and have used the resources of this forum extensively for support and advice. My progress is well documented in my postings here and the responses I received from the wonderful members. It might help you to review them, since our circumstances are similar. I'm not sure how you search out those threads from the past, but perhaps someone else can guide us.

[LivingnLA]

I think you should contact @Eric Hassan. He is a member of this forum.

 

Eric kind of/sort of looks like the guy in vid you posted. Not only do I think Eric is sexy as hell... his responses and postings on this forum suggest he'd be an exemplary hire.

 

One day he shall be mine!!! oops did I say that out loud. Lol!

 

Yes! I'm so ashamed. I only searched on RM and didn't think to recommend the always impressive @Eric Hassan. I too haven't hired him before, but his wit, humor, and helpfulness on the forum are sexy as hell. @big-n-tall is correct. You should definitely contact Eric as well, @Cure694u. His website: http://thedudenextdoor.com/

 

Teaser:

http://thedudenextdoor.com/main/wp-content/uploads/2016/06/IMG_1293.jpg

[Cure694u]

@Cure694u

Our journeys are similar in terms of our marital status and need for exploration of gay sex. Please feel free to PM me with any questions or musings. A dialogue between us might be helpful.

 

I came out to my wife just a year ago and have used the resources of this forum extensively for support and advice. My progress is well documented in my postings here and the responses I received from the wonderful members. It might help you to review them, since our circumstances are similar. I'm not sure how you search out those threads from the past, but perhaps someone else can guide us.

Hi @glennnn , thanks for reaching out. I've been all over this forum a d the information I've been able to collect has been a tremendous help. Also, I'd love to stay in touch, sure. I'll send you a PM so we can continue to stay in touch.

 

I don't know if I will ever come out to my wife, though. I feel like I'm not ready for that. I do love her and care for her but, I also know that I've been attracted to men for a very long time. I'm tired of watching gay porn and I feel like I'm ready to put into practice what I've always been feeling.

[Cure694u]

Yes! I'm so ashamed. I only searched on RM and didn't think to recommend the always impressive @Eric Hassan. I too haven't hired him before, but his wit, humor, and helpfulness on the forum are sexy as hell. @big-n-tall is correct. You should definitely contact Eric as well, @Cure694u. His website: http://thedudenextdoor.com/

 

Teaser:

http://thedudenextdoor.com/main/wp-content/uploads/2016/06/IMG_1293.jpg

By the way, @LivingnLA , @Eric Hassan looks hot, yes. I'd go down on him any day (if he's willing to guide and teach me that is), mmm!

[Cure694u]

I think you should contact @Eric Hassan. He is a member of this forum.

 

Eric kind of/sort of looks like the guy in vid you posted. Not only do I think Eric is sexy as hell... his responses and postings on this forum suggest he'd be an exemplary hire.

 

One day he shall be mine!!! oops did I say that out loud. Lol!

@big-n-tall , woops! I attributed your recommendation to @LivingnLA — you guys are awesome. But, yes, he's super hot and wouldn't mind getting a little training from @Eric Hassan ;-)

[+ Eric Hassan]

Thanks for all the kind words!

 

@Cure694u - I will PM you

 

E xo

[mike carey]

Hey, @Cure694u I haven't met @Eric Hassan yet but we've traded info enough for me to know that he is a great guy. One day soon I'll be able to speak with greater authority, but for the time being, go for it and meet him.

[Cure694u]

@mike carey thank you for the friendly nudge. I've been looking at his profile and will give this definite consideration. I'm heading out to Seattle tomorrow and I've been given a couple recommendations out there so, it'll be my first go around and I'm very excited. Thanks again @mike carey .

[LivingnLA]

@Cure694u, please don't forget your vaccinations. You really want to protect yourself before you start having alot of sexual activity outside your marriage.

[Cure694u]

Hi @LivingnLA , thank you (sincerely). I will definitely do this first thing next week when I return to NY from Seattle. I so appreciate your advice. Right now, I'm 32,000 feet in the air on my way to Seattle and I'm so excited for an experience. I'll follow the advice another member mentioned, "just have fun"! But, I promise to be safe and I actually plan on using condoms when going down on anyone in the Bath at Seattle. (If I do!)

[instudiocity]

Yes, it takes 2 to tango.

 

 

 

Yes, no doubt, but for some folks no matter what happens:

 

http://www.teamhughesrealestateschool.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/GlassHalfEmptyHalfFull.jpg

 

 

And yet you omit the:

"Not only is it half full, but it's dirty, too, G-d Damnit

[marylander1940]

And yet you omit the:

"Not only is it half full, but it's dirty, too, G-d Damnit

 

[LivingnLA]

Hi @LivingnLA , thank you (sincerely). I will definitely do this first thing next week when I return to NY from Seattle. I so appreciate your advice. Right now, I'm 32,000 feet in the air on my way to Seattle and I'm so excited for an experience. I'll follow the advice another member mentioned, "just have fun"! But, I promise to be safe and I actually plan on using condoms when going down on anyone in the Bath at Seattle. (If I do!)

 

Ok, have fun and be safe. Please remember, it's not just your safety at risk. And remember, some STIs are transmittable just by physical contact. Be well.