Remember Your First Time?

[Cure694u]

Only bottomed 2 x - both in the 1970's. Did not care for the experience. The first dude was hung like a racehorse and re-routed my large intestine. Since that time I focus on the hood ornament, not the exhaust pipe.

"Hung like a racehorse"? Ouch!

[Cure694u]

I was barely 17, and so innocent about the actual mechanics of having sex with another male, that until we started, I had no idea that anal sex was even possible. Therefore, I was unprepared, physically and mentally, and I really didn't enjoy it that much. However, because I was so young, all of my sex partners at that time were older men (someone in his 20s was an "older man" to me then:D), so they usually expected me to bottom for them.

Where were the 'older guys' when I was 17! :'(

[LADoug1]

My first experience was simply kissing a guy I met at Kimo's in SF. I even remember his name. One of my most cherished memories.

[MassageDrew]

I was a late bloomer. Being raised in a very sheltered, religious lifestyle I felt like I was under a radar all the time. I was a good kid, studied, blah, blah, blah. Of course I've always been curious but never acted on it until my dad's friend came to visit with his family. It was a first time for everything for me - first time out at a gay bar, first time with any alcoholic beverage, and first encounter with a man (not that I've been with girls - gross). After dinner their son wanted to hangout and apparently he was pretty familiar with the Chicago gay scene. Anyway, he took me to one of the gay bars. We danced which I enjoyed and he bought me my first few drinks. The night ended and I ended up in his hotel room. He started kissing me and hugging me which I loved very much. The he started to get more aggressive but I didn't stopped him. It's like the true me was being released. He wanted to fuck me and I let him, sort of. It was so painful when he put it in that I kicked him off the bed. He didn't pursued it again that night so we just cuddled. It happened, all the way, a few days later. LOL

[Caddy33]

I was 62 and a virgin. On a trip to Vegas, I reached out to Zeb Atlas because I've always been attractive to big guys. He came, he conquered, and he took my ! Subsequent trips also became regular meetings with him. He's everything a bottom would envision. I don't think he escorts anymore, but he's expensive but worth it.

[Guy Fawkes]

Yes, I do. However, a part of me wants to say: "That didn't count."

 

Back of a camper with about a half-dozen boy scouts that decided to talk me into sucking dick. The problem is that none of them had anything to write home about; Except for the one really cute guy that pulled out really fast when it started to get hard.

 

However, it did launch my life of debauchery. By the end of my junior year, I could recognize the dicks of every Senior about to graduate. Everybody knew I was a cocksucker, but none were willing to talk about it as I was very much a red-neck.

 

Got to love the Southern Baptists that can't say the word: "S. E. X."

 

It took me several more years to figure out that I was Gay. Portland was wonderful for a barely legal newbie. They had Dirty bookstores with the video arcades in back, and <gasp> a Gay Bathhouse.

 

Hi guys!

First, I'd like to say this message forum has helped me in many ways. (Love it here)

 

Next, I'd like to ask if you remember your first time with a man. How did it feel? I'm in my mid 40's and married to my wife but, I am looking for my first gay experience.

 

What was it like being a bottom for the first time? Did it hurt? Did he go slow? Any tips? (Based on how I've been feeling, I know I'd be a bottom probably near 100% of the time).

[mr.brief]

Aaron Mark in Las Vegas after dinner at the SW in Wynn Hotel... The finest escort I have ever met.... Class was the finest and it was the most memorable night of my life... and we continued to do it until he left for Germany ---and then telling me that I had to go to Peter Hung.... and another fine guy.... these two have really spoiled me and I will never meet their class in any other escort. If I were still traveling ---I would go for Peter again..... or even Aaron when he makes his semi-annual trips back to the US....

[+ azdr0710]

even though he was like 5 or 6 inches it hurt like hell

 

HEY!......

[Despardo]

Aaron Mark in Las Vegas after dinner at the SW in Wynn Hotel... The finest escort I have ever met.... Class was the finest and it was the most memorable night of my life... and we continued to do it until he left for Germany ---and then telling me that I had to go to Peter Hung.... and another fine guy.... these two have really spoiled me and I will never meet their class in any other escort. If I were still traveling ---I would go for Peter again..... or even Aaron when he makes his semi-annual trips back to the US....

Great guys both of them. I totally agree. I met up with Peter in Vegas and with Aaron in Hamburg which is a wonderful city and worth a visit.

[Despardo]

I was a college kid home for vacation in New Jersey. Took the bus across the river to NYC with the express purpose of losing my virginity. I believe this was in 1969. I was very insecure and shy, but determined. I went to a seedy gay bath house. It was notoriously shabby and none too clean. Met a 40 year old shoe salesman from Newark. I wasn't attracted to him, but he was kinda pushy and we wound up sharing a cubicle for an hour. Not a great experience, but there it is.

[Cure694u]

I was a college kid home for vacation in New Jersey. Took the bus across the river to NYC with the express purpose of losing my virginity. I believe this was in 1969. I was very insecure and shy, but determined. I went to a seedy gay bath house. It was notoriously shabby and none too clean. Met a 40 year old shoe salesman from Newark. I wasn't attracted to him, but he was kinda pushy and we wound up sharing a cubicle for an hour. Not a great experience, but there it is.

Yikes. That was quite an adventure.

[Cure694u]

Yes, I do. However, a part of me wants to say: "That didn't count."

 

Back of a camper with about a half-dozen boy scouts that decided to talk me into sucking dick. The problem is that none of them had anything to write home about; Except for the one really cute guy that pulled out really fast when it started to get hard.

 

However, it did launch my life of debauchery. By the end of my junior year, I could recognize the dicks of every Senior about to graduate. Everybody knew I was a cocksucker, but none were willing to talk about it as I was very much a red-neck.

 

Got to love the Southern Baptists that can't say the word: "S. E. X."

 

It took me several more years to figure out that I was Gay. Portland was wonderful for a barely legal newbie. They had Dirty bookstores with the video arcades in back, and <gasp> a Gay Bathhouse.

"Cock sucker?" You're my hero! That's what I want to be when I grow up! :-) true.

[handiacefailure]

First time in college was in a car. Was at a gay bar and ran into someone I knew from college and he was with a cute friend, friend said to me "I want to go for a short ride want to drive" and we did it in a parking lot behind an abanonded building (was just oral).

 

Bottoming hurt the first time and still does and I've been doing this for almost 30 years but don't do it a lot. Recommendations are to make sure you are good and cleaned out, trying fingering yourself for a while and/or using toys so you are a little loose for the real thing. And use LOTS of lube, the lube shooters work great for getting plenty of lube up there. It's not going to be like the scene in brokeback mountain LOL. Even a real experienced bottom would be yelling if he got fucked like that with no lube.

[Racketjock]

Age 10, physically mature for my younger age. At boy scout camp with an older soon to be Eagle scout. Cabin was too stuffy, not air conditioned, so went outside for fresh air. My fellow scout and I sat by the dying fire, looking up at the stars. I looked at his crotch. He looked at mine. We started rubbing each other's legs, then thighs, then on to our tented pants. He pull my cock out, then we were off to the races. Pretty sure I lasted all of about 11 seconds before I creamed in shock. I gladly returned the favor, then we moved on to round 2!

[+ poolboy48220]

I still remember my first trip to a gay bar - I'd had a few experiences with guys but was still very closeted. I worked at an aerobic studio and one of the other instructors bartended at a gay dance bar, so a bunch of us went there one night to see her and to dance. I went from "Oh, god, what if a guy tries to dance with me" to "Hell, why hasn't any guy tried to dance with me?"

 

funny, one of the other guys who taught at the studio and came along that night laughed about thinking the same thing, and we BOTH came out of the closet a couple years later.