Greetings

[BobA6v3]

Bob here. New to the forums. I'm an old white guy who has been with a couple of transgendered women and a crossdresser, but never a mans man, but I'm seriously considering it. I was totally straight until about 5 years ago when I saw my first TS woman escort. I ended up seeing her off and on ever since, whenever I could afford it. I grew very fond of that woman, but she's no longer available to me for various reasons. Earlier this year I had a nice visit with a crossdresser. I think I'm about ready to take the next logical step. About 6 months ago I began watching some gay porn once in a while and really enjoyed it, something that I never thought would have been possible 5 years ago, but my sex life really changed for the better since I began this alternative journey back in 2011. I am certain of one thing, if/when I do this it will be with a black man. I have great sexual fantasies about them, so that's where I think I'll explore. I have some specific ideas about the type of black man I'd like to see and what I'd like to do with him. Perhaps I'll tell you about them in another post. Thanks for your time.

[MikeyGMin]

Welcome Bob! Hiring an escort is an excellent way to test the water or jump right nn. When you find someone you like, search the Forum to see what kind of Intel you can gather. And then don't hesitate to ask the group for current information.

 

Good luck on your journey.

[+ azdr0710]

welcome....as MGM suggests, spend time looking over all the threads in the various subforums here and get a feel for the whole thing.....don't take it too seriously and ask here about specific guys you may be interested in....do your research and follow the basic little rules (pay at the end of the meet, communicate well, be discreet, have fun, stay in control, be safe......)

[Zman]

Great introduction. Welcome to the forum.

[Guest]

I don't know where you are, but an escort is a great way to test the waters. Try someone well-reviewed here, and let him know you're new at this. I'm sure he'll be flattered to know he's the first!

[Guy Fawkes]

http://www.daddysreviews.com/venue/usa/oregon may be of use to you.

[jawjateck]

Welcome to the village, Bob.

[BobA6v3]

Hello again. Haven't been here in a long while. Thanks for all the responses. No, I haven't been with another man(not counting the crossdresser) yet, but it's still an itch I'd like to scratch. I mentioned in my original post that I would really prefer to be with a black man in my first foray, but I'm changing my tune. I've been watching a lot of twink videos and have really enjoyed them, I mean REALLY enjoyed them!! BTW: What does "emo" mean? That word is used in a lot of twink video descriptions, but I'll be damned if I know what it means. A young, smooth, cut, long-haired twink would be outstanding(white or black). There's some twink pay sites and I've thought about joining one of them, but I don't know if I'll go that far, although it is tempting. There's plenty of free stuff around, but most of those sites don't allow you to download the videos unless you join and pay for the privilege. Thanks for reading my ramblings. Later.

[JayCeeKy]

Bob - are you asking for suggestions for a possible escort or just processing your feelings? I remember my first experience with an escort back in the late 1800's (or so it seems) and I was just as confused about these things as you seem to be. Jump in, the water's fine - but be careful as there are some sharks in the water, too.

[BobA6v3]

I'm just ventilating Jay. I have many different feelings about this aspect of my life and I'm just throwing them out there. Like you said, one day I'm going to jump into the water and have the experience. I don't know when, but it's coming soon. It might pop into view just over the horizon any day now.

[+ poolboy48220]

I remember poring over the ads in the back of the bar rags (pre-internet) for months before I finally Did It. You won't regret it.

[N13]

BTW: What does "emo" mean? That word is used in a lot of twink video descriptions, but I'll be damned if I know what it means.

 

I must confess I have no idea what it means either. Anyone? Someone? Answer please.

[MiamiLooker]

emo is sort of preppy goth

[MikeyGMin]