411 on Escorts into Breath Play?

[pubic_assistance]

Erotic asphyxiation is indeed an amazing way to orgasm. I find it most interesting that you pay to be the Dominant, rather than the Submissive. The main problem you are going to find with most everyone is that of TRUST. If you are turned on by full submission bondage during the session, there are very very few people who are going to trust a perfect stranger to put himself in such a vulnerable position. I would suggest an in-tandem hire of two kink professionals, so there is a monitor to provide a level of security to the submissive.

[+ m_writer]

I would suggest an in-tandem hire of two kink professionals, so there is a monitor to provide a level of security to the submissive.

 

Oh, I see. So hire two kink escorts (most likely a duo) and inform them that one will be smothered and the other will just watch to give the assurance that nothing bad would happen.

 

As expensive as that is, if it makes the escort happier and more at ease, then I don't see why not, if I can find two kink professionals who would be willing to work in tandem. The problem is that I would need more time to save up the seed money.

 

And yeah, it's rare, but I want to dominate a muscular guy bigger than me because the thought of a bigger and beefier guy being forced to submit to my will via a pillow and feeling him fight and struggle against the ropes and muffled shouting as I lie on top of him and apply pressure to the pillow over his face kinda gets me going.

 

But again, the trust is a big factor and the previous escort I hired was completely open to it (hence why I was honored and would not betray his trust for anything).

 

Hmmm...know any kin professionals who work as a due or would be up for this sort of arrangement and breath play @pubic_assistance?

[whipped guy]

@m_writer While I'm not into your activity the way you describe it as the dominant force with a beefy muscular guy as the sub "being forced to submit" is soooo hot. I now totally get where you are coming from as I didn't initially quite get the whole scene from your perspective. Yeah, it really makes you feel like a superhero when a hot guy is begging for mercy and you are in control! Of course I enjoy switching things up and being on the other side of the equation as well...

 

Have you ever been the sub in such activities? My theory is the the best S&M doms have had experiences as subs along the way. Analogous to the best CEO's having learned the ropes from working their way up the ladder by begining in the mail room... literally learning the job from the bottom up.

[pubic_assistance]

@m_writer While I'm not into your activity the way you describe it as the dominant force with a beefy muscular guy as the sub "being forced to submit" is soooo hot. I now totally get where you are coming from as I didn't initially quite get the whole scene from your perspective. Yeah, it really makes you feel like a superhero when a hot guy is begging for mercy and you are in control! Of course I enjoy switching things up and being on the other side of the equation as well...

 

Have you ever been the sub in such activities? My theory is the the best S&M doms have had experiences as subs along the way. Analogous to the best CEO's having learned the ropes from working their way up the ladder by begining in the mail room... literally learning the job from the bottom up.

I completely agree with that statement. All my BDSM skills were learned by "submitting" when I was young. Breath control play provides the biggest orgasm you can imagine. It's an intense ride...but I repeat: TRUST TRUST & more TRUST are key.

[+ DrownedBoy]

I've had to just hold my own breath. The escorts I've had weren't willing to hold my head underwater, even for 10 seconds. I did have a good headlock once, but that's way more dangerous than the bathtub, IMHO.