Good time? Bad time?

[Jbdesc]

Well, I had my first escort experience last night. It was astounding, I won't go into too much detail as I know there is a place for reviews, the forum not being one of them. I may do a review, but I am going to ask the individual first if it's okay - as they do not have any reviews here at this time.

 

It was slated for two hours and ended up being closer to 3 after all was said and done. I loved how much he kept saying I was cute, albeit genuine or not I don't know but it was great time. Just breaking the 30 year old barrier that definitely helped my confidence. That being said, after all was said and done I gave him the money for his time, but he was very reluctant to take it. He said he doesn't like to take money when he genuinely has a good time. While he was extremely sweet, I insisted he take the money as I thought it was the fair thing to do. He even offered to give me a ride from my hotel to the casino, which I gladly took him up on.

 

My curiosity was piqued by this concept. As an escort do you have these experiences where you have an internal debate on whether you charge? How do you feel about them? On the flip side do you have experiences where you feel the client should have to pay more than originally agreed upon, or do you always stick to the amount agreed upon and say something before it gets to that point?

 

Cheers!

[+ poolboy48220]

Closest I've ever come was hiring a guy once, we had a great time, and he called a few days later to ask if I wanted to meet up again. I said I'd love to but couldn't afford it again that quickly, and he said he'd really enjoyed what I'd done, and would be willing to hook up for free if we did that again. I can't remember that happening before, or since.

[MikeBiDude]

I had a young masseur, chemistry was so good and we ended up doing so much together that one day he said "I'm not going to charge you anymore". After about 6-9 months of that, the honeymoon was over, he found various ways to relieve me of cash after that for a long time before I figured out that I was being taken advantage of. Hourly was a better value.

[feldersteve]

I was seeing an escort several years ago every 2-3 weeks. We had such a great time together, and one day he handed me back half of the fee - that I had become his favorite client, etc. and we continued on for another six months or so. I had to relocate, and gave him a generous going away gift. I tried to pay the "normal" fee, but he always refused. Pleasant memories, indeed.

[UpDownUnder]

Several years ago I hired an escort while on a business trip to southern California. Even though he was much younger than the guys I typically hire (he was ~25 years-old at the time) and not totally my type (he's extremely handsome and with a body that looks like it was chiseled out of stone, though I rarely go for guys with model good looks and/or killer bodies), we really hit it off and ended up having a fantastic time. The next night, he texted me to ask if wanted some company - off-the-clock. I was really surprised, but said "Sure." We had another great time. I ended up seeing him every night that week - including a couple of overnights. The day I was leaving town I said to him "What's up with this business model of yours? It seems to be flawed - at least in terms of generating income." He laughed and said "I don't typically do this."

 

Fast forward a few years and he's one of my closest friends - and a regular fuck buddy. He still escorts and claims he has never gone off the clock with any of his other clients (I believe him because God knows, he tells me every thing else about his non-escorting sexual adventures). Moral of the story: Given the nature of the business, sometimes unexpected stuff happens.

 

**Now let me throw some cold water on this otherwise heartwarming story... There were times - especially at the beginning - when I found it really awkward that I was *not* paying him. I'm not bad looking and I know what I'm doing in bed, but if I'm being honest, this guy is totally out of my league. Had I been paying him, I wouldn't have had any hesitation to call him up and ask if he wanted to hook up later that night, because it would have been a business transaction. But because I wasn't paying him, I often felt like I was attempting to do a Grindr-like hook-up with someone who was half my age and out of my league. It also caused me to worry that he might be developing BF-like feelings for me (thankfully, he wasn't). Over time, we managed to work through all of these issues, but going off-the-clock actually complicated matters (for me, at least) for the first several months after we met.

[Jbdesc]

Several years ago I hired an escort while on a business trip to southern California. Even though he was much younger than the guys I typically hire (he was ~25 years-old at the time) and not totally my type (he's extremely handsome and with a body that looks like it was chiseled out of stone, though I rarely go for guys with model good looks and/or killer bodies), we really hit it off and ended up having a fantastic time. The next night, he texted me to ask if wanted some company - off-the-clock. I was really surprised, but said "Sure." We had another great time. I ended up seeing him every night that week - including a couple of overnights. The day I was leaving town I said to him "What's up with this business model of yours? It seems to be flawed - at least in terms of generating income." He laughed and said "I don't typically do this."

 

Fast forward a few years and he's one of my closest friends - and a regular fuck buddy. He still escorts and claims he has never gone off the clock with any of his other clients (I believe him because God knows, he tells me every thing else about his non-escorting sexual adventures). Moral of the story: Given the nature of the business, sometimes unexpected stuff happens.

 

**Now let me throw some cold water on this otherwise heartwarming story... There were times - especially at the beginning - when I found it really awkward that I was *not* paying him. I'm not bad looking and I know what I'm doing in bed, but if I'm being honest, this guy is totally out of my league. Had I been paying him, I wouldn't have had any hesitation to call him up and ask if he wanted to hook up later that night, because it would have been a business transaction. But because I wasn't paying him, I often felt like I was attempting to do a Grindr-like hook-up with someone who was half my age and out of my league. It also caused me to worry that he might be developing BF-like feelings for me (thankfully, he wasn't). Over time, we managed to work through all of these issues, but going off-the-clock actually complicated matters (for me, at least) for the first several months after we met.

 

Love it! I imagine that the emotions can cause some stress in that type of situation. Luckily as you stated he wasn't developing those feelings. I was just a little taken aback by the concept but maybe it just all depends on how well you 'click' with the person. As I sit here in this lonely, empty hotel bed I wish I had hired for another night for some 'clicking'.

[+ poolboy48220]

Another thread jogged my aging memory. I'd hired a guy a few times, we always had a great time together. I offered to help with some computer project he was working on, and while we were working on his computer at his house he started reaching into my pants, and we put the project on hold for a while and fooled around. We ended up meeting several times later off the clock, just as fuck buddies, of which he had a lot - I ended up in a three-way, nearly a four-way, with him and a couple friends. Last time I saw him was late 90's, I think, whenever Moulin Rouge came out. He reminded me of a (much furrier) Ewan MacGregor, and I got in touch with him after not having seeing him for a while, and he was definitely up for fooling around again.

[N13]

Memories of other times..........Hired a young very good looking escort. We hit it off immediately! He had to go to another client but asked if he could come back after. It was easy to say yes. We had an affair for about a year until it just became too difficult to find time to meet and it petered out. No money was involved at his insistance. A couple of years later he showed up as the new boyfriend of my - at the time - go to guy. Small world!

[Bearofdistinction]

Well, I had my first escort experience last night. It was astounding, I won't go into too much detail as I know there is a place for reviews, the forum not being one of them. I may do a review, but I am going to ask the individual first if it's okay - as they do not have any reviews here at this time.

 

It was slated for two hours and ended up being closer to 3 after all was said and done. I loved how much he kept saying I was cute, albeit genuine or not I don't know but it was great time. Just breaking the 30 year old barrier that definitely helped my confidence. That being said, after all was said and done I gave him the money for his time, but he was very reluctant to take it. He said he doesn't like to take money when he genuinely has a good time. While he was extremely sweet, I insisted he take the money as I thought it was the fair thing to do. He even offered to give me a ride from my hotel to the casino, which I gladly took him up on.

 

Mywas piqued by this concept. As an escort do you have these experiences where you have an internal debate on whether you charge? How do you feel about them? On the flip side do you have experiences where you feel the client should have to pay more than originally agreed upon, or do you always stick to the amount agreed upon and say something before it gets to that point?

 

Cheers!

 

A gentleman caller who I had seen any number of times would occasionally call me and say "I am in your neighborhood, can be there in under five minutes if you are alone - I am - Good then answer the door hard and naked and ready to put on my hood leash and collar and the rest is up to you . . . "

 

Very HOT!!! Happened off and on between engagements for a couple of years until he met the love of his life ( a urologist - no joke) and retired to be a good suburban housefrau.

[Jbdesc]

Haha @Bearofdistinction I like when the stories are hot and then have a sweet ending.