Hiring 2 escorts? Good experience?

[BottomGuy]

I'm thinking of hiring two escorts (both tops) on an upcoming vacation. I haven't done that before, or even been in a 3some in general, but have fantasized about getting spit roasted

 

Both are well reviewed on multiple sites.

 

Any comments/thoughts or good experience with something like that?

[Epigonos]

I have done a number of three-ways and all but one were extremely successful. I attribute that success to the fact that one of the escorts was always well know to me prior to the three-way and we selected the third guy together - someone we BOTH found appealing. The two of us also spent some time planning out what we wanted to have happen and how we wanted the get together to proceed. With this type of planning the actual three-way came off without a hitch and proved highly successful for all three of us.

The one three-way that was an abysmal failure was one in which I didn't follow the above. Both escorts were unknown to me though they did know each other. No specific plans were made prior to the meeting and the entire meeting was a struggle.

All successful get togethers with escorts require some degree of planning but it is an absolute necessity with three-ways.

[Becket]

I have done a number of three-ways and all but one were extremely successful. I attribute that success to the fact that one of the escorts was always well know to me prior to the three-way and we selected the third guy together - someone we BOTH found appealing.

 

That makes a lot of sense.

[liubit]

I used to do plenty of threesomes some years ago, and @Epigonos gives excellent advice in his post above.

 

One if my MO was to hire an "anchor escort" for a weekend, and then have him bring boys he liked for hourly appointments, or even overnights. Oh my, I had terrific times, simply terrific.....I still wonder how my dick, and my wallet, survived those frequent sexcapades.

[jawjateck]

+++ epigonos. Establish a passionate connection with one guy, then add the fantasy element of an unknown third. I have usually had a good time, and recently too.

 

I have never paired 2 or more unknowns for a fantasy frolic. Too much risk IMO.

[+ poolboy48220]

I did a three-way with a favorite for my birthday years ago - I picked another guy from the agency (yes, it was that long ago) that neither of us had met. it wasn't a disaster, but it wasn't great, the third was new to the business and was kind of overwhelmed by it all. My favorite was amused by it all.

 

Other three ways have been great. Blake Harper & Jason Branch together - that was pricey but worth it. A couple of guys who did a bondage duo in the early 90's. A couple that was travelling from Buffalo. All those, I didn't know either but they knew each other.

[+ purplekow]

I have had several three ways. All but one were good fun. In looking back at the one which was not fun, here are the take home messages for me:

1 You have to be willing to be an active participant and to keep everyone interested. While the escorts are there to please you, you have to be willing to be pleased and you have to feel worthy to be there. So if the guy with the massive cock is fucking the willing bottom, you have to be willing to say that you are going to go in there and fuck the hell out of that bottom in your own inimitable style or that you are going to get your flabby ass fucked even if you have to pull his massive cock out of that muscle ass and sit on it. You cannot say my dick is so much smaller that he will never enjoy it, or I don't have that kind of technique, or my hips never moved that way. Ultimately you need to bring confidence into this. In the one the was not fun, I did not act confidently.

2 You have to keep in mind that this is fun and exciting and not a contest. When you start thinking I need to keep up or outdo rather than just flowing with the rhythm, well you will wind up in a competition you cannot win and the price will be your enjoyment. In the one that was not fun, I felt like I needed to fuck hard and long rather than my usual slow and steady. As a result, I lost my rhythm, I lost my confidence and ultimately I lost my erection.

3 You need to relax and take a deep breath and really let the sensuality of the experience overtake you. In the one that was not fun, I was so busy worrying about what I should do next, that I did not enjoy what I was doing right there and then.

4 You need to speak your truth. If you are feeling left out, you need to say: Hey fellas, what about me??? Don't forget about the eager fat guy with low hanging balls and man boobs. We need hot sex too. In the one which was not fun, I was reluctant to ask for what I wanted and as a result I did not get what I wanted.

5 If you are hiring or arranging the three way, you need to make sure there is likely to be chemistry. So make sure your partners are compatible with you and it is also good if you know they are compatible with each other. Some things to lighten the mood may help the chemistry, whether those things are ambience (good music, an appropriate amount of time, a comfortable bed, great lighting) or chemical (some booze, or weed or other agents to decrease inhibitions) In the one that was not fun, two of the three participants were rushing to get there and one had to leave shortly after our time was scheduled to end. As a result, the whole encounter felt rushed and a sense of easy, sexy, lolling and rolling with two hot men was lost. A sexy marathon turned into a very unsexy 100 yard dash.

 

So Confidence

Chemistry

Collegiality

Cooperation

Commmunication

 

5 C's To use To avoid the one that is not fun.

 

Some may say, well you are hiring escorts so it is really their job to make sure you are having a good time. Good in theory, but ultimately, we are all responsible for our own good time and we should not be hesitant to act in a way that insures we have it.

[+ glennnn]

@purplekow

 

Right you are, as usual. Your comments are appreciated.

 

I don't know if I even want to participate in a 3 way. I just can't stop thinking about having one cock in my mouth and one in my ass at the same time! A lifelong dream.

[+ purplekow]

@purplekow

 

Right you are, as usual. Your comments are appreciated.

 

I don't know if I even want to participate in a 3 way. I just can't stop thinking about having one cock in my mouth and one in my ass at the same time! A lifelong dream.

It may not be exactly as you dreamed it, but you could have your partner put a vibrating dildo in your ass as you blow him. Close your eyes and let yourself drift into bliss. It is a start anyway.

[liubit]

I just can't stop thinking about having one cock in my mouth and one in my ass at the same time! A lifelong dream.

Yes, that, or getting rimmed while your dick is being sucked, or getting a blowjob while kissing passionately, or being "the ham in the sandwich", that is, fucking while getting fucked, or....

 

With a little imagination, the combinations in a 3-way are almost endless

[+ purplekow]

If done right, two is company and three's a mazing.