Is it safe to hire and escort off of rent men

[+ Keith30309]

True, but there have been instances where a negative review stirred up enough controversy that the reviewer later regretted it. Of course, it's also worked the other way, where someone didn't post a review and later regretted it.

I had always been reticent to post a negative review - at first because I was a newb but then for the reason you mention. My calculus changed after a particularly unpleasant meeting with a guy who was a clear rip-off artist.

 

I'm a bit more comfortable writing "satisfactory" reviews but take a couple of days to mull my opinions: did I have unrealistic expectations, is there some emotional element that is the true cause of the negative experience, is it simply a matter of chemistry, etc. When I do write the review I try to include only facts - no inferences - and be clear about the effect of what occurred.

For example "John met me in his hotel lobby 10 minutes after the start time. I stepped on a used condom beside his bed. John ushered me out of his room 15 minutes before the end of our 2-hr time." (This actually occurred.) You can infer and assume lots of things but including only facts in a review that isn't going to be glowingly positive can help diffuse conflict, or at least keep any ensuing dialogue from degrading into a bitchfest. "John treated me like crap" isn't particularly helpful or likely to go well with John's 500 best friends.

 

If a session wasn't good but there are no facts then there's likely an emotional element to my reaction and I do not write a review (but perhaps make a Forum comment that John's pictures are accurate and that he is who he says). There simply wasn't any chemistry.

In the vast majority of cases I'm excited about penning a glowing review and add to the usual facts lots of inferences and opinions. Given that we're moving away explicitly detailed descriptions of physical encounters ("John rimmed me like a jackhammer in a chuck roast") I've begun describing how the companion made me feel emotionally: valued, desired, cared-about, elated, fulfilled, etc., This is basically answering the question I always ask myself before meeting someone new: how am I likely to feel after meeting this person.

 

If someone takes exception to one of the handful of negative reviews I've submitted then we'll be discussing facts rather than opinions.

[Sandlapp]

Just curious. Seems like the OP got his question answered, so let me ask this.

 

For people who have had experience, how would you rate the REVIEW section of Rentmen? How reliable do you think they are? How easy do you think they are to fake? Several people have said above that it makes sense to crossreference profiles there with reviews here. Should that be taken as a vote of no or less confidence in Rentmen's reviews?

 

My very very very limited dabbling into it; i.e. The traveling pack of escorts, suggests that some of the reviews are real, because there were some bad reviews, but others sounded fake. One review about an escort that was alleged to scam essentially said this: "It was an incredible experience. I paid a lot of money to gawk at how beautiful he is. We didn't have sex, and I felt honored to buy him a meal." Sounded like total BS.

I once met a guy with ten 5 Star reviews on RM. He was a total dud. After the fact, I found this message board and posted a query about him. I got several responses from other guys who had met him and had negative experiences. Since then, I use RM as a starting point, and then do my homework on this site and Daddy's. If he isn't well-reviewed, I move on.

[+ quoththeraven]

I once met a guy with ten 5 Star reviews on RM. He was a total dud. After the fact, I found this message board and posted a query about him. I got several responses from other guys who had met him and had negative experiences. Since then, I use RM as a starting point, and then do my homework on this site and Daddy's. If he isn't well-reviewed, I move on.

 

Which also suggests that a query in the Deli is more likely to produce helpful responses than reviews alone, even here.

[Sandlapp]

Absolutely.

[+ José Soplanucas]

Which also suggests that a query in the Deli is more likely to produce helpful responses than reviews alone, even here.

 

Hell yes. Not many people is willing to write a positive review. Even less a negative one. But open a thread in the Deli and the info starts pouring in your inbox.

[+ Keith30309]

Hell yes. Not many people is willing to write a positive review. Even less a negative one. But open a thread in the Deli and the info starts pouring in your inbox.

 

I've noticed the same thing - I've wondered if that is because it's easier to dash off a couple of sentences than to sit and think thru the contents of a review. I get lots of PM's inquiring about guys for whom I've submitted a review and it's really odd. I enjoy writing (positive) reviews - it allows me to relive the experience and think about all the wonderful elements of being with someone.

[+ VeryHappyCustomer]

I have greatly curtailed my review writing in the last year. Too many constraints. I would rather respond to conversation requests.

[+ José Soplanucas]

I have greatly curtailed my review writing in the last year. Too many constraints. I would rather respond to conversation requests.

 

For me is like a civil duty, one more way to act upon my commitment to this community. It is discouraging that after the rentboy raid you have to be very careful with your wording or your review will be heavily edited. Those are the rules of this game. But I still feel the obligation to add to our reviews bank.

[+ José Soplanucas]

I've noticed the same thing - I've wondered if that is because it's easier to dash off a couple of sentences than to sit and think thru the contents of a review. I get lots of PM's inquiring about guys for whom I've submitted a review and it's really odd. I enjoy writing (positive) reviews - it allows me to relive the experience and think about all the wonderful elements of being with someone.

 

I do meet my duty and submit the reviews, but I enjoy much, much more the private conversations where there are no constraints other than the good character of the participants.

[+ Kufrol]

From where do you hire now?

 

 

 

you just mentioned all the site I know... are there any others?

Apollon21 I've never used them, but I get emails from them occasionally.

[Blacknoir]

Hello all. I need your help. After reading these posts about how safe is rent.men, I got a little concern about using this place and how safe it would be to get an escort from this site. I thought it was very safe

Does any body knows or have any reference about mrgoodbody? He is listed as a hold escort and has many good reviews.

 

https://rentmen.com/mrgoodbody

 

Thank you very much for your help. This is my first time and I am very nervous about it.

[+ Gar1eth]

Hello all. I need your help. After reading these posts about how safe is rent.men, I got a little concern about using this place and how safe it would be to get an escort from this site. I thought it was very safe

Does any body knows or have any reference about mrgoodbody? He is listed as a hold escort and has many good reviews.

 

https://rentmen.com/mrgoodbody

 

Thank you very much for your help. This is my first time and I am very nervous about it.

 

I hate to break this to you. Nothing is 100% safe. Rentmen, however, is a reputable site, but not all who advertise on it are reputable. Unfortunately you can't always trust Rentmen reviews either. The best source of reviews is Daddys-but even that is not 100%. To be as safe as possible - would be to pick a guy who has multiple non-first time reviewers from Daddy-or to pick a guy that several long time Forum members are familiar with.

 

Gman

[BabyBoomer]

Does any body knows or have any reference about mrgoodbody?

 

 

https://rentmen.com/mrgoodbody

 

Thank you very much for your help. This is my first time and I am very nervous about it.

 

Forum member @Nycbuilder met the escort last November & gave him a 5 star review. Why don't you PM @Nycbuilder and ask if he'd be willing to share details of the meeting.

 

~Boomer ~

[+ MostlyLurking]

Hello all. I need your help. After reading these posts about how safe is rent.men, I got a little concern about using this place and how safe it would be to get an escort from this site. I thought it was very safe

Does any body knows or have any reference about mrgoodbody? He is listed as a hold escort and has many good reviews.

 

https://rentmen.com/mrgoodbody

 

Thank you very much for your help. This is my first time and I am very nervous about it.

 

1. As Gman says, nothing is 100% safe. I often hire guys from Rent.Men for whom I do not find reviews. I am often disappointed but have never felt unsafe. I seem to have a protective bubble, but that's my experience - FWIW.

 

2. You'd have better response to your inquiry about MrGoodBody by asking the The Deli, the forum especially for that kind of inquiry.

 

3. Nervousness is common but not justified by the amount of risk - particularly if you do your research.

[Blacknoir]

Thank you so much guys! These forum is great, makes me feel more comfortable. I will contact Nycbuilder.

Thanks again

[+ Funguy]

I have always used Daddy's reviews and this forum to vet whomever I am going to hire. i don't really care about the RM reviews.

In fact, now that i think about it, RM itself is a secondary source. First source is this Forum, then Daddy's Reviews. And, I have an abundance of guys to choose from in this matter and no reason at all to go to RM as a first choice: everybody does it for me!

As far as safety, I would say probably safe but again, I do it the opposite way. And NOTHING is 100%, as Gman says, but there are checks and balances.

[Blacknoir]

Hey guys, how often or how risky is to get involved in a police entrapment and get arrested. I can't get that risk at all. I have. Ever done this before and I am kind of scared about it. Thank you

[+ Gar1eth]

Hey guys, how often or how risky is to get involved in a police entrapment and get arrested. I can't get that risk at all. I have. Ever done this before and I am kind of scared about it. Thank you

 

While it's happened, it's rare. The police are usually more concerned with female and underage escorts. The best you can do would be to stick with well-revieed escorts. Also while it might not help much, during contact with the escort-always pose things hypothetically about what you both might like to do. Don't ask questions like 'what will you do for blank blank amount?'

 

Gman

[Mike_Manceni]

On 9/1/2016 at 12:41 PM, GeneKlein said:

Wow. Have I been using the wrong site? I thought they were on that up and up. Is the general consensus to stay away from rent men?

You can’t really review properly on Rentmen. The masseurs seem to be more professional ands better value for money.