Ignorance or Sarcasm on the part of the escort?

[Beancounter]

Without going into too much detail I will tell you that last week I had a meeting with a very highly rated guy on RM and to a lesser degree here at the Forum. After communicating my interests and him agreeing that he enjoyed those interests as well I thought I was in for a great meeting. It was the worst hire of my life and I was left dumbfounded. I've never had a guy jump up after 30 minutes of an hour long session and then go open a package that just arrived from Amazon.

 

I left a one-star review on his RentMen ad which was posted. However, I received a thank you note from him on RM about how much the review meant to him, how it would help his business and help put him through school. The thank you note appears to be sincere but I get the feeling he didn't even notice my review was less than flattering. When I went to pull up his RM ad it said it was unavailable. Me thinks my review is being deleted after he figured out it was a bad review.

 

My question to guys who advertise on RM is this....can you request a bad review be deleted? I had one other review deleted on RM with no explanation as to why.

 

And, guys! There is no reason to name the escort. This is between the two of us. However I am interested in the RM review process and how it functions. As a client I can only make guesses. As an escort I would expect you to know how the process works. Thanks.

[+ José Soplanucas]

There are plenty of cases shared in this forum about negative reviews being deleted from RM per the escort request. Do not trust RM, submit your review to Daddy.

[Beancounter]

Thanks latbear4blk. I've read several of those threads but I was wondering if escorts themselves can request that negative reviews be deleted. Is the escort in charge of reviews or is RM? If an escort is a premium member or a higher paying member does he receive certain privileges over a a basic membership?

[Jamie]

From the sounds of it, he doesn't have many reviews. Or he really feels that your review was unfair, or simply just illicit. What was the review like that you had left?

 

*Edit* Thats so unfair he ended the session. You deserve a full hour. I would have payed him half.

[Beancounter]

so did the session finished after he opened the package? Or did he return and you got your 1 hours worth?

Did something else go wrong in the session or was the package opening?

 

Maybe it was an important package that he was waiting for lol

Maybe it had a handcuffs and a whip he was dying to use on you

 

Anyways on a serious note. It sounds like the thank you note was sarcasm on his part. The part about the review being deleted I didnt realize you can do that. I thought once someone wrote a review on someone it was permanent and all the escort could do was follow up with the last word .

 

The session ended after 30 min. I didn't think anything was going wrong. I think is was a bag of vitamin supplements or a bag of dog food (I'm being serious). I just chalked it up to another live and learn experience. Maybe I'm just not attractive to escorts.

[+ José Soplanucas]

Thanks latbear4blk. I've read several of those threads but I was wondering if escorts themselves can request that negative reviews be deleted. Is the escort in charge of reviews or is RM? If an escort is a premium member or a higher paying member does he receive certain privileges over a a basic membership?

 

Maybe you should open a thread in the forum "ask an escort". Of course they know better how that relationship works.

[+ WmClarke]

Maybe I'm just not attractive to escorts.

Then *he* is in the wrong business. Part of his job is to make you feel attractive. And great escorts are very good at that!

[Beancounter]

From the sounds of it, he doesn't have many reviews. Or he really feels that your review was unfair, or simply just illicit. What was the review like that you had left?

 

*Edit*

 

The review was the standard RM questionnaire review. If you're not familiar with a RM review then I would encourage you to visit RM and take a look at one.

 

And Jamie...do you really think it's appropriate to stop a session and tell your client "Oh by the way We need to stop for thirty seconds. I need to open a package that was delivered earlier in the day?" I have higher expectations than that from a highly reviewed guy....seven 5-star RM reviews. There is no cliffhanger here. It was awful sex. Period.

[Beancounter]

So did you still pay him the hours worth for 30 minutes? After he got his package he just told you to leave or what? How did you respond? Sorry that happened to you, maybe contact him and ask him if you really want to know. Hope it was all a misunderstanding from both parties. Wishing you all the best

 

I always remunerate the agreed upon price regardless of the outcome. As it turned out I ended up tipping him $15 simply because I didn't have exact change. Not a big deal. It's not like it's the national debt.

 

Then *he* is in the wrong business. Part of his job is to make you feel attractive. And great escorts are very good at that!

 

Yes, and I have met several of the best escorts around. And I appreciate every one of them and I reward them accordingly. This particular one though just took me by surprise. I'm done ranting guys. Thanks for listening.

[mattr]

Maybe I'm just not attractive to escorts.

 

As long as you practiced good hygiene (recently showered, fresh breath, etc.) and were respectful, then you should be made to feel attractive by a professional escort. Part of the reason the I hire is to feel desired and attractive and if that doesn't happen then the session is not great. You should have the same standard for yourself. The success or failure of a session should have nothing to do with your looks.

[rvwnsd]

I agree with the posters who stated the guy is in the wrong business. An escort should never stop a session to open a package. You mentioned it was a case of bad sex, but you also said you didn't think anything was wrong. Was it good sex up until the time he stopped to open the package? The situation is just so hard to fathom I can't wrap my head around how it came about.

[Jamie]

The session ended after 30 min. I didn't think anything was going wrong. I think is was a bag of vitamin supplements or a bag of dog food (I'm being serious). I just chalked it up to another live and learn experience. Maybe I'm just not attractive to escorts.

 

Dont say things like that! Maybe he didnt think you were attractive, but i'm sure plenty of us would!

 

 

The review was the standard RM questionnaire review.

 

And Jamie...do you really think it's appropriate to stop a session and tell your client "Oh by the way We need to stop for thirty seconds. I need to open a package that was delivered earlier in the day?" I have higher expectations than that from a highly reviewed guy....seven 5-star RM reviews. There is no cliffhanger here. It was awful sex. Period.

 

I missed the part where you had mentioned RM.

 

I dont know, it sounds really odd that he would stop in the middle of something like that to open some package. Have you talked to him about it?

It's not that it's a cliffhanger, sorry. I just meant that I wish we had more details, it's particularly confusing for me and feels vague. I'm just a drama queen, don't mind me; I like to know everything

 

I'm sorry you didn't have a good time, and I hope you have better luck

[+ WmClarke]

Then *he* is in the wrong business. Part of his job is to make you feel attractive. And great escorts are very good at that!

 

Yes, and I have met several of the best escorts around. And I appreciate every one of them and I reward them accordingly. This particular one though just took me by surprise. I'm done ranting guys. Thanks for listening.

Glad it was just an isolated incident.

[josh282282]

Beancounter,

 

Sorry you had this experience. I would be unhappy, too.

 

But after reading the posts and your genuine answers on this thread I kept asking myself, and now I'm asking you:

are you or are you not going to submit a review to Daddy?

[+ Keith30309]

Agree about the need to post a Daddys review - RM reviews don't mean very much.

 

The best advice I've seen here about this type of scenario was related to cell phone calls and texts. The poster said that as soon as an escort he was with picked up his phone he got up and started getting dressed (if necessary) and headed toward the door. That isn't the most helpful thing in sustaining a mood and I'm not sure I wouldn't keep walking regardless of how sincere the apology was.

I think I'm pretty tolerant of "our time" but this is pretty extreme.

[Beancounter]

I want to thank the Forum member who sent this to me in a private message. This answers a lot of the questions I had about RentMen reviews and why a couple of my reviews were deleted. And just a quick update on my most recent unfavorable review on the guy in question in this thread.....the one-star review has been posted and still there on his ad. We shall see how long it stays there.

 

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[instudiocity]

My Roommate told me a story just this week of his most recent boyfriend-candidate. They had been dating for about 3 weeks and finally got naked. Everything up to that - kissing, touching, dating, dining, petting had been pretty wonderful.

 

After rolling around for about 30 minutes, his new guy post orgasm, got up and started playing video games while my roomie laid their full boner wondering, "What happened?"

 

I suggested his now boyfriend-ex-candidate is Attention Deficit Disorder. When he asked, the guy said, "How did you know?"

[Beancounter]

After rolling around for about 30 minutes, his new guy post orgasm, got up and started playing video games while my roomie laid their full boner wondering, "What happened?"

 

LOL...I would have settled for the escort just getting a hard on. You win the prize for coming up with the best answer, though....Yea, it must have been A.D.D. and the box he was opening contained Ritalin (sic). Problem solved, instudiocity! Thanks.

[Beancounter]

Just a quick follow up to my recent "worst hire ever" encounter. After explaining what happened to me in detail to a clinical psychologist it was indicated to me that that the escort in question exhibited classic crystal meth characteristics. Who knew? As a side note the RM review I posted has been deleted and the escort in question has blocked me from viewing his ad. Beware Chicago! I've learned a valuable life lesson here. RentMen reviews are worthless.

[rvwnsd]

Crystal meth is not a nice drug. A friend of mine met his demise thanks to it and another relapsed into using it several times and I finally said "enough is enough" and cut him loose.

[BryanKnight]

If an escort receives three bad reviews, they all get posted at once.

 

Prior to that, the review remains hidden.

[Beancounter]

If an escort receives three bad reviews, they all get posted at once.

 

Prior to that, the review remains hidden.

 

That's not been my experience with RentMen reviews but it's all water under the bridge now. I simply assume all RM reviews are bogus.

[BryanKnight]

That's not been my experience with RentMen reviews but it's all water understand THE bridge now. I simply assume all RM reviews are bogus.

 

If you feel that way, tell the rentmen staff. It is in their best interest to be better. It will pressure them to step up their game, or they will lose advertisers when the next better site comes along

[Beancounter]

They have been notified.