Legal counsel for a divorce

[klifhangar]

Wait---she remarried & you still pay alimony? Why does she still get your money when she is sucking someone else's dick & getting to be the beneficiary on their life insurance?

 

Because we live in Oregon.

[klifhangar]

Oh....I so love that last sentence. Would you two marry a dirty poor soldier?

If your avatar pic is you, I would.

[whipped guy]

Well, for every situation with which I am familiar the system is either rigged in favor of women or women are light years ahead of men as far as being cunning, clever, and calculating in terms of knowing how to work the system. For some reason to my ears it sounds better as the Italians reference it.... "le astuzie femminili".

 

An aquantaince aged 56 got married in February for the first time. He obviously waited for the right woman. The guy remodeled and refurnished the entire house to her liking. A month ago she said the she was no longer in love with him. He thinks that it will be a quickie and cut and dry divorce. I'll keep you posted on this one. She's Russian and was using him to get into the USA, but he blindly could not see what she was up to. I would hate to know how one says "feminine wiles" in Russian... I doubt that it would sound very encouraging for the guy!!!!

 

FF he is really a good and trusting guy, the perfect type to fall for such a scheme. He has cared for family members unselfishly and finally when he had some time for himself thought that he had found the love of his lifelong dreams. Others who are closer to him than I am tried to warn him, but to no avail. I did meet the then fiancée at Christmas. She was gorgeous, but you know what they say about beauty...

 

One of his best friends is a summa cum laude Yale graduate who went through a very nasty divorce himself. He is trying to talk some sense into him regarding getting a lawyer. I hope he takes the advice. He did take the friend's advice about keeping the wedding festivities rather low key. So there is hope.

 

I got an update on the Russian babe yesterday. It seems that she threw the guy out of his own home and is living in the house that was just newly remodeled and refurnished to her liking while the guy is living with his sister. Furthermore I was told that his best friend (the summa cum laude Yale graduate if you recall) did not offer the best advice. I don't know any further details, but as it was told to me being book smart does not guarantee that he would be giving the best practical or most sage advice when dealing with the "real" world. In any event, sorry to say, things don't look very promising for a simple resolution to the problem.

 

It certainly confirms my personal decision not to ever go a similar route. I know that many others here who have done so are enriched with children and even grandchildren. In a sense they have been able to experience the best of both worlds. Some (but obviously not all) have even kept their marriages intact. Consequently, while I feel that there is a void in my life, at the same time I also feel that I ultimately made the correct decision...

[wisconsinguy]

I got an update on the Russisn babe yesterday. It seems that she threw the guy out of his own home and is living in the house that was just newly remodeled and refurnished to her liking while the guy is living with his sister. Furthermore I was told that his best friend (the summa cum laude Yale graduate if you recall) did not offer the best advice. I don't know any further details, but as it was told to me being book smart does not guarantee that he would be giving the best practical or most sage advice when dealing with the "real" world. In any event, sorry to say, things don't look very promising for a simple resolution to the problem.

 

It certainly confirms my personal decision not to ever go a similar route. I know that many others here who have done so are enriched with children and even grandchildren. In a sense they have been able to experience the best of both worlds. Some (but obviously not all) have even kept their marriages intact. Consequently, while I feel that there is a void in my life, at the same time I also feel that I ultimately made the correct decision...

If you feel as if you missed out on a few life experiences, you can always adopt me! I would be very happy to call you DADDY!!! WG2

[whipped guy]

If you feel as if you missed out on a few life experiences, you can always adopt me! I would be very happy to call you DADDY!!! WG2

Well I certainly don't want to hijack this thread by channeling it into a different direction, but perhaps we can discuss things further in the Fetish Forum if you feel that you can handle the ride that is...

[Rudynate]

Consequently, while I feel that there is a void in my life, at the same time I also feel that I ultimately made the correct decision...

 

Nobody's life is perfect...yet somehow we all make it through.

[whipped guy]

Nobody's life is perfect...yet somehow we all make it through.

Exactly! My motto has always been that there is no such thing as perfection in this adventure that we call life!