Am I Missing Something?

[+ Keith30309]

you still have to give your full address when you are about to meet them though. Thing is you can never be 100 percent sure they are serious in meeting or will show. I think best scenario is give them the address but not the actual apt your in. Tell them you'll meet them downstairs in your lobby, do clients get annoyed at this? Or what about meeting them somewhere near your area like a block from your residence?

 

{All in the context of having no awareness if the individuals meeting}

Giving me the address of your building but not apartment number is expected but please don't send me on a scavenger hunt of going to location A, then B then C. I don't mind meeting at an adjacent Starbucks or whatever if it's close but beware that is a 2-way street. The last meth addict I stumbled across had me jump thru 3 hoops before meeting face to face - I regret not spotting that and leaving.

If I get a premature bad vibe because of an awkward public meeting then it's quite possible I'm going to tell you that I don't think it is going to work and scram. I believe that you are trying to verify that I'm safe and not a creep; I'm going to be verifying that we can create some kind of emotional connection - a much higher bar.

 

Regarding requesting a photo: I'm really unlikely to want to do that... Why does someone want a picture of me? What measure of safety does that provide? Are you filtering for guys who meet physical appearance standards? What's going to happen to my picture once it is on your phone?

[Epigonos]

It will be a very, Very, VERY cold day in hell when I send an escort my photograph. I have been asked to do so only once and from that point all further communication came to screeching halt. Eventually the escort got the message by my silence and emailed me stating that not sending the photograph was not, for him, a deal breaker. Call me a jerk if you like but I didn't even both to answer.

[down_to_business]

http://41.media.tumblr.com/29e59d58b6b38c6dbe23eb262423b446/tumblr_mudatsgDPT1qz7tcio1_500.jpg

 

It will be a very, Very, VERY cold day in hell when I send an escort my photograph. I have been asked to do so only once and from that point all further communication came to screeching halt. Eventually the escort got the message by my silence and emailed me stating that not sending the photograph was not, for him, a deal breaker. Call me a jerk if you like but I didn't even both to answer.

 

I mostly don't reply to that either. If I am in a rather good mood, and really want to see him still, I send this. (or this) http://cx.aos.ask.com/question/aq/700px-394px/many-100-bills-bundle_77cd5d9b9ae7847a.jpg

 

It is a huge turn-off in general and I have walked away from quite a few possible meetings over such a request.

[OneFinger]

I never gave out my number (did everything by emails, all successful encounters) until a wise California escort taught me all about google voice. Been using that for this hobby ever since without problem although one or two escorts have stated an issue with the whole google thing. I also use google voice for all my texting needs for this hobby too. Great program!

 

That's exactly what I do, too.

[+ Travis69]

Hmm who needs a face pic anymore, the only face i need to see is bejamin's

And the more of them there are the merrier it is.

[Brian Kevin]

I wish I would get texted pictures from Jock :,(

[Jock123]

I wish I would get texted pictures from Jock :,(

 

 

Oh Please. Mister In a new City every other day. Sounds like You have way more of a Life than I do. I'm sure You're keeping busy sexy;)

[jjkrkwood]

But escorts time is valuable and yours don't mean shit. Jeez jj... haven't you learned anything yet

 

DTB, I "learned" that nothing is ever gonna change. EVERYONES time is valuable, but people will be people. Some people are serious, and some people will waste your time. You can usually detect the timewasters early on in the conversations. People cancel appts all the time, even with doctors, and I think treating people that are "sick" is a more important function of a doctor than an escort providing you "sexual healing"... Jeez, what's up with you people ???? I agree with treating ALL people with the utmost respect and consideration, but this ideal of escorts on some pedestal is really getting ridiculous.... Opinions on this site are usually skewed against the client, until an escort does some fucked up shit to YOU, then your claws come out. Let's just agree that there's Bullshit on BOTH sides.... and stop whining about it. It comes with the territory.

[Brian Kevin]

Oh Please. Mister In a new City every other day. Sounds like You have way more of a Life than I do. I'm sure You're keeping busy sexy;)

 

Haha I mean yes. I caught the eyes of some other escorts who thought I had a sugar daddy. Like no, I work hard everyday in every city. I don't like feeling walls close in on me being home for too long, or at all actually. Although I might go home, kinda nervous about Indianapolis etc etc. I might go thru cleveland, Boston, NYC. Not sure yet though.

 

Don't call me sexy without letting me take you to dinner

[Brian Kevin]

good luck, jock wouldn't even text me back what state he's from.

He's one tough cookie to crack

 

 

I let jock come to me, he's a sweet guy actually who has come out of no where to support mAny of my threads, although I have been curious-- I am a gentlemen and keep it professional

 

I'd rather a really good friend than aimlessly trying to hookup with someone. Especially in this industry it's hard to find friendly guys so I treat them right when they treat me right

[Jock123]

DTB, I "learned" that nothing is ever gonna change. EVERYONES time is valuable, but people will be people. Some people are serious, and some people will waste your time. You can usually detect the timewasters early on in the conversations. People cancel appts all the time, even with doctors, and I think treating people that are "sick" is a more important function of a doctor than an escort providing you "sexual healing"... Jeez, what's up with you people ???? I agree with treating ALL people with the utmost respect and consideration, but this ideal of escorts on some pedestal is really getting ridiculous.... Opinions on this site are usually skewed against the client, until an escort does some fucked up shit to YOU, then your claws come out. Let's just agree that there's Bullshit on BOTH sides.... and stop whining about it. It comes with the territory.

 

 

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[Nvr2Thick]

I agree with @bigvalboy about lookie-loos. And some guys just don't know how to disengage when they're just looking. I find that with my Craigslist hookups there are guys who will just go silent when they're not interested, or actually say "no thanks", but there are others who are not interested but will continue to respond as long as you do and will follow your lead conversationally if you suggest a time and offer up your address.

[jjkrkwood]

http://i0.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/newsfeed/001/021/460/ac3.jpg

 

 

A man of the cloth would NEVER say bitch, so your post was not believable. Oh, and BTW jock123, the only man I have is GOD !

[Brian Kevin]

A man of the cloth would NEVER say bitch, so your post was not believable. Oh, and BTW jock123, the only man I have is GOD !

 

 

Is your God Pee Wee Herman??

[jjkrkwood]

Is your God Pee Wee Herman??

 

 

No, it's DIVINE

 

http://klauslucka.com/celebrities/960x640/devine.jpg

[LADoug1]

Well, I've been called many thing in my life but this is the first time I've been called a troll. I ALWAYS start my communication with an escort by email. In the initial email I explain what I'm looking for and also describe myself and then ask him to respond if he is interested. If I get a positive response I email him my telephone numbers and suggest he call me at his convenience. If that approach makes me a troll SO BE IT!!!!!

I don't consider you a troll at all.

[LADoug1]

It will be a very, Very, VERY cold day in hell when I send an escort my photograph. I have been asked to do so only once and from that point all further communication came to screeching halt. Eventually the escort got the message by my silence and emailed me stating that not sending the photograph was not, for him, a deal breaker. Call me a jerk if you like but I didn't even both to answer.

Funny, I usually send the escort my picture on my own once the conversation has started. Call me naive but I want to think the escort will want to be with me based on my appearance. I've never been ASKED for a photo up front by an escort. If that happened I probably would move on to someone else. Hope this makes sense!

[LADoug1]

Soooo about TWO Weeks ago someone Hit up my Ad. Nothing out of the Ordinary. And made plans with me for Yesterday(This was all through Email). We had a Set Time, I would be Hosting and told Him I would Text an Hour Prior to confirm. Heres how the text when Down:

 

(Me) ---Hey! Its (My Escort Name) I'm just making sure we were still on for 3PM today. Where would You be coming from?

(Him) ---Hi

(Me) ---Where would you be coming from?

20 Minutes Later (Him) ---West

(Me) ---Ok Great! My Address is (Gave Address) We had plans for 3PM but It looks like You may be running late. Whats Your ETA to my Address?

(Him)--- Send Pics

(Me) Sure! Heres the link to my Ad and some Pictures taken two weeks ago(I sent a few through Text)

40 Minutes Later (Him) Cool. Into?

(Me)---(Gives Likes, Dislikes)

52 Minutes Later (Him) I cant afford Your rate. How about I pay you half. Lots of Hot studs are lowering their rate these days so should you. If you dont want to negotiate the rate Ill keep looking. Let me know!

 

 

At this point I stopped texting all together.

Key things here: We made plans WEEKS ago and he's just now asking Likes/Dislikes literally as we're suppose to meet, Pictures etc. And the biggest thing Is the Conversation...Or lack thereof. He failed to give me a Time AFTER taking multiple times to Take his Sweet Ass time Responding back.

 

I dont mind being Reasonable on my rate but the way He came off...I had to pass(And didnt even respond).

 

NOW(The Day after we were to meet) He Texts me saying He's Interested and willing to pay my full rate.

 

I am so confused...Is this a Gameplayer/Troll or is this Normal?? Really I've dealt with Trolls In the past but Maybe I'm just thinking to much Into it?

I'm surprised you were as generous and considerate with your time. I think you were very professional and kind. But I would have bailed when he said "send pics".

[Mikegaite]

Funny, I usually send the escort my picture on my own once the conversation has started.

 

Having clients send out pics of themselves isn't that rare. Numerous RM client profiles have pics, including face pics, posted for the whole world to see.