Unprotected Oral

[Realalist]

First time poster who needs some advice. I enjoy giving oral pleasure however if I had to do it with a condom I'd never do it again. Out of the 20 or so escorts I've met only one has required me to use a condom and only one made it optional. Is there a way to tell an escort about my preference without scaring them away? If feels like if I tell them they would then probably prefer to wear a condom but that's just my thinking.

[rvwnsd]

First time poster who needs some advice. I enjoy giving oral pleasure however if I had to do it with a condom I'd never do it again. Out of the 20 or so escorts I've met only one has required me to use a condom and only one made it optional. Is there a way to tell an escort about my preference without scaring them away? If feels like if I tell them they would then probably prefer to wear a condom but that's just my thinking.

I've never had an escort request or even mention using a condom when engaging in oral. If I were you I would not even mention it.

[Realalist]

I've never had an escort request or even mention using a condom when engaging in oral. If I were you I would not even mention it.

What I'm afraid of is the escort getting there and me having a terrible time.

[liubit]

Oral with a condom is like sucking a balloon. No way. I have NEVER mentioned it to an escort, I don't want to give him any ideas.

 

If memory serves me right, in all my years of hiring I have been requested to wear a condom for oral only once or twice, and have never sucked an escort's covered cock....

[beachboy]

Oral with a condom is like sucking a balloon. No way. I have NEVER mentioned it to an escort, I don't want to give him any ideas.

 

If memory serves me right, in all my years of hiring I have been requested to wear a condom for oral only once or twice, and have never sucked an escort's covered cock....

No way. Sucking a hot guy's cock is so amazing that nothing should get in the way-especially yuck tasting latex. Love tha taste of pre cum!!

[LADoug1]

I think it's okay to ask an escort almost anything if it's done with respect. Asking about condom use with oral is within the realm of discussing the escort's position on safe® sex. Nothing outrageous about that.

[jjkrkwood]

If you are paying, you should have what you enjoy. Simply try to find an escort that allows oral au Natural, or else your session will be a total Letdown.....

[+ Robster]

I once had sex with a guy who, before he blew me, put TWO condoms on me. I can't imagine how he could have enjoyed it, but I know I didn't.

 

Rob

[beachboy]

I once had sex with a guy who, before he blew me, put TWO condoms on me. I can't imagine how he could have enjoyed it, but I know I didn't.

 

Rob

No fun there then! I presume you didn't meet him again!

[MikeyGMin]

I have only been asked to wear a condom once and that was one of my lousy "straight guy" engagements. I have never had an escort require a condom to receive oral. You can ask about anything that's important to you, but the odds are high that it is not an issue.

[+ Robster]

No fun there then! I presume you didn't meet him again!

That's correct.

 

Rob

[beachboy]

I have only been asked to wear a condom once and that was one of my lousy "straight guy" engagements. I have never had an escort require a condom to receive oral. You can ask about anything that's important to you, but the odds are high that it is not an issue.

In theory I can understand but what the f...k! I' rather he didn't bother. Skin on skin is when its hot & sexy which would seem to be the point!

[Realalist]

If the only way I could have oral was with a condom I would simply never do it.

[caliguy]

I find oral with a condom actually hot. Mind you it's only for putting it on for other business.

 

As far as oral alone we talked about this recently on another thread. The guy wrote about it in his review. Although, the escort defended himself by saying the reviewer smelled bad.

 

My feelings are it's fine as long as you tell the other beforehand. Springing it on them is unfair because it's such a rarity. They damned well know that news will go down like a lead balloon though so they don't say anything.

 

I think it's an age factor thing too. Like I've only seen it in the younger twenty somethings still wet behind the ears of gay sex and all the issues around it. After 30 most have worked through allot of their misconceptions.

[+ saminseattle]

As I mentioned in another thread, I usually insist on protection for oral out of an abundance of caution. http://www.companyofmen.org/threads/when-you-hire-or-hook-up-do-you-give-or-get-head-with-a-condom.112340/ While the experience is less than ideal, I find that it is good enough for me, particularly for a short period of time and with the flavored variety.

[+ sam.fitzpatrick]

Only once have I had someone put a condom on my before blowing me and that was during a massage. He did mention that it was flavored, and he was clearly doing the oral for my pleasure, not his. It was fine for me, but not someone I would ever insist on.

[caliguy]

As I mentioned in another thread, I usually insist on protection for oral out of an abundance of caution. http://www.companyofmen.org/threads/when-you-hire-or-hook-up-do-you-give-or-get-head-with-a-condom.112340/ While the experience is less than ideal, I find that it is good enough for me, particularly for a short period of time and with the flavored variety.

Just out of curiosity is that both ways? Like if I wanted to suck you would you still insist a condom be used?

[caliguy]

Only once have I had someone put a condom on my before blowing me and that was during a massage. He did mention that it was flavored, and he was clearly doing the oral for my pleasure, not his. It was fine for me, but not someone I would ever insist on.

I've had it done putting a condom on. Something I advice for everyone. Very hot. You're experience only once. Made no difference whether you were receiving it or giving it. He insisted a condom be used. He had a girlfreind so I can understand that probably being a ground rule of their relationship.

[+ Axiom2001]

No way. Sucking a hot guy's cock is so amazing that nothing should get in the way-especially yuck tasting latex. Love tha taste of pre cum!!

 

A couple of months back, I had an escort tell me that he liked the taste of my precum: said it was sweet!

 

I've had it done putting a condom on.

 

I liked feeling his mouth on me via use of a condom, especially when I could feel a little teeth. So fuckin' hot!

[+ saminseattle]

Just out of curiosity is that both ways?

 

Yes. Some risk of STI runs both ways, and I am a risk averse person.