Straight Escort?

[Scooter]

So should I be baffled when an escort advertises as straight, but is willing to escort with men? There are escorts who advertise as straight, whom I might wish to hire.

 

Just as an example, http://rentmen.com/trophyhusband

 

Am I just going to end up feeling disappointed? Your insights are appreciated.

[mattr]

So should I be baffled when an escort advertises as straight, but is willing to escort with men? There are escorts who advertise as straight, whom I might wish to hire.

 

Just as an example, http://rentmen.com/trophyhusband

 

Am I just going to end up feeling disappointed? Your insights are appreciated.

 

Check out this thread....

http://www.companyofmen.org/threads/411-on-trophyhusband.108989/

[rvwnsd]

Many will disagree with what I am about to say, but labels like "gay," "straight," and so forth are just that: labels. One of the things I have learned from working with men who are coming out as gay and/or wrestling with their sexual identity is that some men identify as "straight" because they form romantic bonds with women but enjoy the physical pleasure they derive from men. Other men who feel this way identify as "bisexual," and others don't know/don't want to label themselves.

 

My advice is to discuss what you want wit hthe escort, go with your gut, and allow yourself to have a good time. If you are compatible and have fun, it really doesn't matter whether he calls himself "straight," "gay," or "a Model T Ford."

[MikeyGMin]

I agree with @rvwnsd advice, but don't follow his practice -- based on my own experience. I have had less the fulfilling experiences with almost all men who advertise as straight, so I pass on them now. This is just my personal experience though and you need to form your own. There are too many people saying they have had a great time with "straight" escorts for a newbie to discount them completely, but their idea of great may not be your idea of great. So get out there and try a couple and decide for yourself!

[marylander1940]

Many will disagree with what I am about to say, but labels like "gay," "straight," and so forth are just that: labels. One of the things I have learned from working with men who are coming out as gay and/or wrestling with their sexual identity is that some men identify as "straight" because they form romantic bonds with women but enjoy the physical pleasure they derive from men. Other men who feel this way identify as "bisexual," and others don't know/don't want to label themselves.

 

My advice is to discuss what you want wit hthe escort, go with your gut, and allow yourself to have a good time. If you are compatible and have fun, it really doesn't matter whether he calls himself "straight," "gay," or "a Model T Ford."

 

"men identify as "straight" because they form romantic bonds with women but enjoy the physical pleasure they derive from men" sounds like the life of Plato in ancient Greece...

 

First of all those men who were hooking up with guys while dating women, were in the DL, closeted or possibly bi, some might have been in denial.

 

Yes, I disagree. They're not labels, they are not lifestyles either, but they're a very important part of who we are.

 

I agree with @rvwnsd advice, but don't follow his practice -- based on my own experience. I have had less the fulfilling experiences with almost all men who advertise as straight, so I pass on them now. This is just my personal experience though and you need to form your own.

 

And is my personal experience too, I wouldn't hire someone who's thinking of a woman while having sex with a gay man, I want a man (young and fit) who at least likes having sex with another man. We've talked on here before about "straight" escorts and how often they hate so much what they do that instead of being grateful with their clients they turn to murder and other forms of crimes against them. I know it doesn't happen often but when it does most of the times is a conflicted straight guy getting paid by gay men to have sex with them.

 

I'm aware there are places and situations where (young) straight men have sex with other straight men, I served in the Navy and I was the "sea pussy" of my boat, we all had a great time.

 

To each his own, if he can do have sex with men who hire him I hope he'll keep doing it.

 

There are too many people saying they have had a great time with "straight" escorts for a newbie to discount them completely, but their idea of great may not be your idea of great. So get out there and try a couple and decide for yourself! .

 

Good for them, maybe they just want to drop to their knees give head to a guy (watching straight porno) and get a facial, if that's their sexual fantasy a straight guy might be perfect for them I did it in the Navy countless times, but now when I'm hiring more into kissing and cuddling the bf experience.

[rvwnsd]

"...And is my personal experience too, I wouldn't hire someone who's thinking of a woman while having sex with a gay man, I want a man (young and fit) who at least likes having sex with another man. ...

 

I'm curious: how do you know what he is thinking and whether or not he likes having sex with men?

[marylander1940]

I'm curious: how do you know what he is thinking and whether or not he likes having sex with men?

 

I just assume straight guys like pussy and tits, when I sucking them off in the Navy in the late 60's early 70's they usually had a playboy magazine or were drunk, there weren't professional, it was for free, there was no Viagra back then either.

 

 

Please read the rest of my previous quote/reply too.

[+ azdr0710]

I've met with several "straight" guys....some were apparently very straight, others were very definitely not (it seemed....)

 

one also has to consider the definition of "straight": is it physical attraction to only women?....or, perhaps, only emotional attraction to women, but the guy likes to hang out and mess around with cool, like-minded dudes?.....or the guy likes everybody, but is afraid to admit it to himself?.....or is the escort capitalizing on some clients' preference for messing around with a true straight guy??....there may even be some internalized homophobia at play with one or more of the parties....

[playwrestler]

A young guy I met and came to know as a friend said that sex with men was fun and recreational but his heart didn't get engaged... that always happened with women. BUt he was quite happy playing around if a guy piqued his interest. He's been happily married to a woman now for 15 years with a couple of kids and is totally monogamous (and I totally trust him on this.) He didn't call it exactly bisexual... he said it was just the way he was wired. The second he met his wife he knew his "playground" years were done. We've always had wonderful talks about the nature "Am I gay or straight or bisexual" versus the ability to commit. In the end some people are just happy to find the "one"...and then the only true factor that matters is that ability to commit. Some people just aren't wired to commit... and that's okay too!

[MikeyGMin]

This is one of the really interesting aspects of the whole bisexual spectrum. There is who you can enjoy having sex with and also who you fall in love with. And like your friend, they aren't always equal. I have a friend who is on the flip side. Not big on commitment, but in the 25-years I've known him, in between boyfriends he will also hook up with women. However, he has never fallen in love with one. He is probably a Kinsey 4 when it comes to sex, but emotionally he's a Kinsey 6. Interesting stuff.

[+ sync]

So should I be baffled when an escort advertises as straight, but is willing to escort with men? There are escorts who advertise as straight, whom I might wish to hire.

 

I can't say that you should be baffled, however, it has always baffled me. If an escort or masseur advertises as straight, I pass. Perhaps I over simplify it, but my view is that when a man offers intimacy services to other men, he is either in or out.

[jjkrkwood]

Try to keep in mind that for many Gay men, "doing it" with a str8 guy is the ultimate fantasy. Or even simply the idea of it is a major turn on for many.... So a savvy guy in the biz "might" capitalize on this and advertise as such. Doesn't mean he's actually str8, but if its YOUR fantasy, who really cares.? Go with the flow.... If you learn only one thing in life, learn that people LIE. The lesson will serve you well !