I hope it's not me.

[jacobno]

I just had my first incall since I've moved to Boston. Well, sort of. The guy called today and said he'd be coming into town ad we scheduled to meet at my place at 7:30. He called saying he was having a little trouble finding parking, so I went downstairs and waited on my steps so he wouldn't have to call when downstairs. He passed by me while still looking for a parking place so I hopped in and helped out. While looking for a place he said that he could just come back tomorrow, which struck me as strange after driving for an hour into town. We found a place and walked back to my apartment. He excused himself to the restroom and when he came out I gave him a peck, asked him if he would like anything to drink, etc. He said he wasn't feeling it today and excused himself... I had just taken a shower, so I know I smelled aiight, I think I did an ok job tidying up, and my cats were well behaved. I guess I'm just nervous ad self conscious after being out of it for so long. :-(

[Spida]

It doesn't matter how good looking you are, some people just don't do it for others! Also when I first started hiring I was very very nervous, although unless the escort completely lied about himself then I would try or at least pay the escort since I was the one that decided not to follow through.

 

When I get back from Montreal this weekend we'll have to meet up and I can tell you personally if it is you or the other client }(

[jacobno]

I emailed him recent pics today, so I'm going to chalk it up to nervousness on his part.

 

[ready182]

"and my cats were well behaved"

 

Jake -- pussy can be a real turn-off!!!

 

P.S. This year I better get that xmas card ...

 

Ready

[Guest rohale]

>I just had my first incall since I've moved to Boston. Well,

>sort of. The guy called today and said he'd be coming into

>town ad we scheduled to meet at my place at 7:30. He called

>saying he was having a little trouble

 

Unfortunately these things happen, it's just part of life. Just hang in there and have faith. Keep going until you find someone that you are comfortable with. Eventually you will get there and more importantly dont give up because at the end of it something nice will take place. You will feel a lot better for having the courage to stay in there and keep your spirits up.

 

Rohale

[marc anthony]

>

>Unfortunately these things happen, it's just part of life.

>Just hang in there and have faith. Keep going until you find

>someone that you are comfortable with. Eventually you will

>get there and more importantly dont give up because at the end

>of it something nice will take place. You will feel a lot

>better for having the courage to stay in there and keep your

>spirits up.

>

>Rohale

>

 

Rohale: I think you misunderstood. Jake is an escort (a damn cute and good one too). He used to be the pride of New Orleans, retired, and now has started up again in Boston.

 

In his story, the client got the jitters...

 

If I am misunderstanding your apparent misunderstanding, then I apologize... I misunderstood! LOL

[Guest rohale]

>

>>

>>Unfortunately these things happen, it's just part of life.

>>Just hang in there and have faith. Keep going until you

>find

>>someone that you are comfortable with. Eventually you will

>>get there and more importantly dont give up because at the

>end

>>of it something nice will take place. You will feel a lot

>>better for having the courage to stay in there and keep your

>>spirits up.

>>

>>Rohale

>>

>

>Rohale: I think you misunderstood. Jake is an escort (a damn

>cute and good one too). He used to be the pride of New

>Orleans, retired, and now has started up again in Boston.

>

>In his story, the client got the jitters...

>

>If I am misunderstanding your apparent misunderstanding, then

>I apologize... I misunderstood! LOL

>

>

 

No, you;re absolutely right. I got it totally wrong. I should have been paying more attention. I created a blunder and I'm sorry for doing that. It's been a very long day. I just want to say thank you for pointing out my mistake. I should pay much more attention to what I'm reading and responding to. Thanks LOL.

 

Rohale

[FourAces]

Jake it would be impossible to blame yourself, you simply look too sexy :9

 

RT

[parks00003]

>It doesn't matter how good looking you are, some people just

>don't do it for others! Also when I first started hiring I

>was very very nervous, although unless the escort completely

>lied about himself then I would try or at least pay the escort

>since I was the one that decided not to follow through.

>

 

I think he was nervous. I am going to have my first incall meeting with an escort (Stonie) this weekend. I am so nervous about going to his home that I am thinking about changing are meeting to a hotel.

[bigguyinpasadena]

You will have no problems with Stonie,he is a total sweetie.

However,A NICE hotel(four star via priceline?)is not a bad Idea.

Just would make you more comfortable.

I have a very nice house,in a very beautiful neighborhood-yet I still enjoy seeng hookers more in a hotel.

[+ newatthis]

...

> He said he wasn't feeling it today and excused himself...

 

My reading of that statement is not just that he was nervous -- something that an experienced escort could probably alleviate -- but that nervousness (or conceivably even something else -- too large a lunch, a slight cold, ...) had killed all erotic feeling, and he just couldn't imagine being in a sexual situation. Hence the suggestion that he might come back tomorrow, and the subsequent contact (if I understood jacob's second post correctly).

[Guest zipperzone]

>I am going to have my first incall

>meeting with an escort (Stonie) this weekend. I am so nervous

>about going to his home that I am thinking about changing are

>meeting to a hotel.

 

I can understand why you would not feel comfortable about having an escort who is unknown to you come to YOUR home. That could reveal a little bit more of the personal side of you than you want to.

 

But I don't quite understand why you would be nervous going to HIS home. The personal side of him that it might reveal could be interesting (and perhaps a turn-on) and....... the escort might feel more comfortable being on his home turf which might equate to a better session.

[parks00003]

>

>But I don't quite understand why you would be nervous going to

>HIS home. The personal side of him that it might reveal could

>be interesting (and perhaps a turn-on) and....... the escort

>might feel more comfortable being on his home turf which might

>equate to a better session.

 

 

I am very shy, I get nervous every time I meet an escort for the first time, so I just feel more comfortable meeting at my home or Hotel.

[parks00003]

>You will have no problems with Stonie,he is a total sweetie.

 

Thanks Bigguy if you say he's ok I will meet him at his place.

 

P.S

Thanks for your help back in April with my meeting with Bobby Thompson. I had a grat time with him. I can't wait for him to get back to LA.

[+ deej]

Well, there's only one way to find out for sure.

 

Come on over to my place, Jake. We should know for sure in something like two hours. ;-)

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

My Pussy Kills

 

>"and my cats were well behaved"

>

>Jake -- pussy can be a real turn-off!!!

 

The one significant issue about living with a cat (or cats, as the case may be) and having a client over for an IN call, would be allergies, so I make the point to mention this prior to setting a session up. However, Jacob, I think in this case, the guy just had jitters. Whether he calls again, who knows. But I think all working escorts learn in this business is that (a) no one is the right escort for everyone and (b) someone else will be the right match with you and come along shortly.

 

 

http://www.gaydar.co.uk/francodisantis

[SoCal]

How did that incall with Stonie go? I sent you a private note, check your inbox?

 

>>It doesn't matter how good looking you are, some people

>just

>>don't do it for others! Also when I first started hiring I

>>was very very nervous, although unless the escort completely

>>lied about himself then I would try or at least pay the

>escort

>>since I was the one that decided not to follow through.

>>

>

>I think he was nervous. I am going to have my first incall

>meeting with an escort (Stonie) this weekend. I am so nervous

>about going to his home that I am thinking about changing are

>meeting to a hotel.

[BobbyB]

> He said he wasn't feeling it today and excused himself... I

>had just taken a shower, so I know I smelled aiight, I think I

>did an ok job tidying up, and my cats were well behaved. I

>guess I'm just nervous ad self conscious after being out of it

>for so long. :-(

 

Look, I've seen your pictures. It ain't you, babe. If he won't do you, I will. :9

 

- BobbyB