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I'm planning a repeat with a great escort and trying to compose an email to tell him what I want......and suddenly I'm shy. I can write about my sexual turn ons here on the Forum in vivid, graphic, exact detail, but suddenly I cant tell him? I don't know what is wrong. This is only my fourth time with a man and I am more anxious than the first time. I really like and desire this guy, and want to move towards a dom/sub (him/me) scene this time. I only sort of know what I want; I haven't played this way before, and can't seem to put it into words. Frustrating and juvenile.

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I'm planning a repeat with a great escort and trying to compose an email to tell him what I want......and suddenly I'm shy. I can write about my sexual turn ons here on the Forum in vivid, graphic, exact detail, but suddenly I cant tell him? I don't know what is wrong. This is only my fourth time with a man and I am more anxious than the first time. I really like and desire this guy, and want to move towards a dom/sub (him/me) scene this time. I only sort of know what I want; I haven't played this way before, and can't seem to put it into words. Frustrating and juvenile.

Well you can write and tell him you need five minutes to ask him about the appointment because writing it down has not been easy.

Or you could direct him to this thread and ask him to read it. There really is enough there for him to start and perhaps ask you a few questions.

Or you could tape yourself talking about what it is you need and when you listen back to it, cut out anything that made you laugh and keep in anything that made you hot. Well...keep in one thing that made you laugh, that sometimes works surprisingly well.

Good luck Glennnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn cause four Ns are nnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnever ennnnnnnnnnnnough

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Thank you for the pep talk, PK. Just growing pains, I think. I always just wanted m/m sex, now im feelng more particular about it. Look how far I've come since I found all of you.

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just tell him what you want!!.....honesty is the best policy, you know!.....for fun, preface it with your original post above!.....since it's a repeat, things should be pretty comfortable between you two......have fun and don't take it too seriously.....

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I think you just wrote your email to him right there:

 

I want to move towards a dom/sub (you/me) scene this time. I only sort of know what I want; I haven't played this way before, and can't seem to put it into words.

 

Trust, relax, enjoy!

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I'm planning a repeat with a great escort and trying to compose an email to tell him what I want......and suddenly I'm shy. I can write about my sexual turn ons here on the Forum in vivid, graphic, exact detail, but suddenly I cant tell him? I don't know what is wrong. This is only my fourth time with a man and I am more anxious than the first time. I really like and desire this guy, and want to move towards a dom/sub (him/me) scene this time. I only sort of know what I want; I haven't played this way before, and can't seem to put it into words. Frustrating and juvenile.

 

 

Perhaps you can find a pic showing the kind of activity you are interested in and send it to him ? A pic is worth 1000 words.

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I'm planning a repeat with a great escort and trying to compose an email to tell him what I want......and suddenly I'm shy. I can write about my sexual turn ons here on the Forum in vivid, graphic, exact detail, but suddenly I cant tell him? I don't know what is wrong. This is only my fourth time with a man and I am more anxious than the first time. I really like and desire this guy, and want to move towards a dom/sub (him/me) scene this time. I only sort of know what I want; I haven't played this way before, and can't seem to put it into words. Frustrating and juvenile.

 

Just say insert Tab A into slot B? :)

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:DAfter all it is just sex. Unbelievably expensive sex.

 

I don't agree, PK. When my son was born it turned out that THAT was unbelievably expensive sex! :rolleyes::p

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Thanks, people. I'm better today. Just some late night self-doubt. Sometimes I forget that I'm out of the closet and it is a good thing to ask for what I want, that it is not dirty. I'm sure the beautiful, loving man I'm going to spend time with will handle everything, and I do mean everything, with finese. As always, this forum is a blessing.

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A while ago, I wrote something down like that for myself. I'd had a few escorts ask in more detail what I was looking for and like you, always came up with a case of the shys when it came down to it. So I wrote it down just for myself, and it was pretty easy to get as detailed as I wanted, writing that way. So now if anyone asks again, I can just close my eyes, cut & paste that, and be done with it.

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I wrote to my escort with the rough idea of what I want and he was right on it. We are now agreed on the direction our sessions will go and he is large and in charge. I don't know now what I was worried about. Thanks everybody!

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A while ago, I wrote something down like that for myself. I'd had a few escorts ask in more detail what I was looking for and like you, always came up with a case of the shys when it came down to it. So I wrote it down just for myself, and it was pretty easy to get as detailed as I wanted, writing that way. So now if anyone asks again, I can just close my eyes, cut & paste that, and be done with it.

 

That is kind of what I did, too, at the suggestion of the very erudite, but practical @AdamSmith. Thank you for the support.

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I wrote to my escort with the rough idea of what I want and he was right on it. We are now agreed on the direction our sessions will go and he is large and in charge. I don't know now what I was worried about. Thanks everybody!

We want a full report, sweet man.

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