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I no longer do overnights. I now do "dailies" typically same rate as overnight. No need to worry about snoring, bodily functions, and how I look the morning after. My partners love it bc they get to have early morning (gym) and later eve (to do their own stuff or more biz). Selfishly, I also feel like I get a fully awake companion for the full time span. And, yes, breaks and time alone is often baked in to make sure it ain't grumpy time together.

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I no longer do overnights. I now do "dailies" typically same rate as overnight. No need to worry about snoring, bodily functions, and how I look the morning after. My partners love it bc they get to have early morning (gym) and later eve (to do their own stuff or more biz). Selfishly, I also feel like I get a fully awake companion for the full time span. And, yes, breaks and time alone is often baked in to make sure it ain't grumpy time together.

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I no longer do overnights. I now do "dailies" typically same rate as overnight. No need to worry about snoring, bodily functions, and how I look the morning after. My partners love it bc they get to have early morning (gym) and later eve (to do their own stuff or more biz). Selfishly, I also feel like I get a fully awake companion for the full time span. And, yes, breaks and time alone is often baked in to make sure it ain't grumpy time together.

 

Hmm -when I hired for overnights it was because I wanted companionship. I wanted sex too-don't get me wrong. But having sex can lead to La Petit Mort (sadness). If the guy stayed over, then I wasn't alone.

 

I can't remember any guy waking me up in the middle of the night for sex which I would have loved. On the other hand I usually planned a play or a movie. We often didn't start bedroom activities until midnight or so-and didn't finish until 2 or 3 AM. I guess the equivalent of waking up in the middle of the night for me would have been about 8 AM. :p

 

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I no longer do overnights. I now do "dailies" typically same rate as overnight. No need to worry about snoring, bodily functions, and how I look the morning after.

 

Interesting. Are we talking something like noon to 10 p.m.? With someone you have already vetted with a shorter appointment? Some kind of diversion/entertainment like dinner?

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Interesting. Are we talking something like noon to 10 p.m.? With someone you have already vetted with a shorter appointment? Some kind of diversion/entertainment like dinner?

Always vetted first with a 1 hr or such. I read my Daddy's religiously before hiring my first multi-hour. You guys have saved me from soooooo many possible mistakes!

Timing of arrangement has varied. I don't get too hung up on hours. I rather have 8 hours of bliss than 12 mediocre hours. I just believe firmly in entering arrangement with companions as equal partners. The better he and I feel about the arrangement, the better our time together.

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I can't remember any guy waking me up in the middle of the night for sex which I would have loved. On the other hand I usually planned a play or a movie. We often didn't start bedroom activities until midnight or so-and didn't finish until 2 or 3 AM. I guess the equivalent of waking up in the middle of the night for me would have been about 8 AM. :p

 

Gman

You wake them up in the middle of the night. I usually suggest to them that it may happen. If it does, fine. If I sleep through, well my loss.
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TR is onto something good. All day/afternoon appointments are excellent options. Plenty of time for fun, lunch or dinner or both, an activity, without the awkwardness of sleepy time, and usually at or sometimes less than the companion's overnight rate.

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TR is onto something good. All day/afternoon appointments are excellent options. Plenty of time for fun, lunch or dinner or both, an activity, without the awkwardness of sleepy time, and usually at or sometimes less than the companion's overnight rate.

 

The early bird special of the escorting world?

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I no longer do overnights. I now do "dailies" typically same rate as overnight. No need to worry about snoring, bodily functions, and how I look the morning after. My partners love it bc they get to have early morning (gym) and later eve (to do their own stuff or more biz). Selfishly, I also feel like I get a fully awake companion for the full time span. And, yes, breaks and time alone is often baked in to make sure it ain't grumpy time together.

Fully agree. I find overnights rushed, as it usually means 12 hrs ...so no matter how late you start, you feel rushed in the am. Full day or multiple days much more preferred.

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TR is onto something good. All day/afternoon appointments are excellent options. Plenty of time for fun, lunch or dinner or both, an activity, without the awkwardness of sleepy time, and usually at or sometimes less than the companion's overnight rate.

 

How much fun are we talking? Twice? Thrice? As much as I would like to keep my favorite guy naked and chained (metaphorically) to the bed, I would want to make sure he was otherwise entertained. Seems like a lot of dressing and undressing. ;);)

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I know this is a bit off topic but how does one handle some of the less sexy aspects of an overnight? The occasional fart in bed. I am fairly regular so I usually have to take a dump in the morning so a clean up would likely be necessary before a morning session. Stuff like that...

No it isn't off topic, I had the same fears when I had my first overnight about 12 years ago. I feared

about morning breath, and the unexpected gas in the middle of the night, etc; I found with my overnight

guests we learned about each other; if you've never met the guy and the first time, well I'd bee concerned.

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How much fun are we talking? Twice? Thrice? As much as I would like to keep my favorite guy naked and chained (metaphorically) to the bed, I would want to make sure he was otherwise entertained. Seems like a lot of dressing and undressing. ;);)

Interesting... I thought he was supposed to be entertaining you...

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You wake them up in the middle of the night. I usually suggest to them that it may happen. If it does, fine. If I sleep through, well my loss.

 

I don't really think I would have dared to do that.

 

Oh and I hired lots of guys in my time for overnights and weekends without meeting them first. When you live in an area without any escorts or none that appeal to you, you don't have a lot of choice. You have to bring them to you. Of course fees were a bit more reasonable then. Escort fees have shot up

way faster than inflation.

 

I would say I had decent times with most of them and great times with 10 to 15%. Of course the ones I liked, I had back for repeat performances. Except in one case I hired someone I didn't have a great time with twice lured by his great reviews. I was sure the first time must have been all my fault as I was a newbie at the time. After all surely fifty something reviews couldn't be wrong. But it turned out not to be me-or rather it was me. But ...while superficially the reviews were at fault because they all said the guy was superb, if I had read the reviews a little more critically, I would have seen that I had very little in common with 99% of his reviewers.

 

Gman

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I'll go fart to fart with you. Having been a CNA and LMT I've done the dirtiest of dirty things. Only two things freak me out okay 4 things.

 

1. Sounding.

2. vagina (continued from other topic)

 

3. Crawling Insects

4. Flying Insects.

 

OMG Brian Kevin, you are so hung up on the V aren't' you??? LOL It freaks me out a bit too actually.

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Random thought but I met the sexiest Married Black man today who had a Virgin butt....Hope I see him again

 

 

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How do you know it was virgin? Everyone (except my parents, sister, and nieces of course) has a past.

 

Gman

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