Straight Guys Checking Out Gay Websites

[Guest rohale]

I live with two roomates and both are very much hetersexuals and comfortable with who they are. Last Thursday I got home from work early in the evening. Since I had some spare time on my hands I decided to do a little catching up. In the process I was trying to do two things simultaneously. I had my computer on in my bedroom, I was trying to reply to a backlog of emails from the previous week along with checking out a few online sites. Within the same process I was working in our office on my lap-top. I have a hookup link to my place of work. Basically I was trying to finish off some work that I was unable to do in the daytime. I'm practically running back and forth like a yo-yo. I wanted to get as much done on both fronts as possible.

 

One of my roomates came home about an hour or so after I got home. He had just gone surfing for the afternoon. He hadn't seen me in two days and he wanted to show me an article from a surfing magazine that he was very much involved in. Since his computer was down, he was using my pc. I told him to go in my room, find the site and I would be upstairs in a few minutes. I go up to my room and found him checking out two gay websites that I had viewed a few minutes before he entered the house. I completely forgot to close the page and I realised my mistake. He looks up at me and I thought he would get angry at me. To my suprise he happened to be viewing this MC and he was curious to read some of the posts. He knows I'm gay and he couldn't care less. For him being a straight, it was like entering a totally different world than what he is accustomed to. I was somewhat nervous and I was half expecting him to shake his head with disgust or something close to it. He was completely the opposite. He was totally cool with what he saw and he was asking a lot of questions about the MC. I also showed him some of the other different gay sites that I check out from time to time. He was totally intrigued. He's a very close buddy of mine, we're more or less like brothers than anything else and it gave me a good feeling that he was able to see something that would be out of the ordinary for an average straight person. It became a learning experience for my roomate. I remember thinking that I wish the world could be openminded to gay people.

 

I'm not sure if anyone has asked this question before. This is a little bit tricky and I'm not even certain if this will make any sense but has anyone ever had a straight person ask or check out a gay online site and developed a better understanding of life from a gay person's point of view. I was hesitant to ask but I felt if I don't then it'll be my loss.

 

Rohale

[Rick Munroe]

>I go up to my room and found him checking out two gay websites

>that I had viewed a few minutes before he entered the house.

>I completely forgot to close the page and I realised my

>mistake. He looks up at me and I thought he would get angry

>at me.

 

Why did you think he would get angry at you if you are not in the closet, he knows you're gay and you are close friends? This doesn't make sense to me.

 

>I was somewhat nervous and I was half expecting him to

>shake his head with disgust or something close to it.

 

>He's a very

>close buddy of mine, we're more or less like brothers

 

Why would he shake his head in disgust if he knows you are gay and if you two are like brothers? Wouldn't you have already known what his reaction was going to be? And would you shake your head in disgust if you saw a straight porn site that he was checking out?

[Guest Mikel]

I agree....I mean, these are legitimate questions.

[Will]

I understand and identify with your gut reaction that he might get hostile. But I belong to a different generation, and in my youth no straight roommate would have thought it cool to be gay. Not, at least, one that I ever met.

 

On the other hand, now that I and my friends are all grown up, I can say that I have had experiences similar to yours, allowing for differences in circumstance. My three closest friends are straight and happily married. From time to time, each one of them has asked me something about gay sex, or the escorting world, etc. I've recommended that they check out this site. I don't know that they have, but I do know that I think it would be a good idea. Most important, each of them knows that I hire escorts and thinks it's a great idea. At the same time, each one wishes I had a man of my own. But that's because they love me, not because they disapprove of the way I manage my sexual life.

[Guest rohale]

>>I go up to my room and found him checking out two gay

>websites

 

>Why did you think he would get angry at you if you are not in

>the closet, he knows you're gay and you are close friends?

>This doesn't make sense to me.

 

 

Will, you nailed it on the head. For the most part a number of friends that I have told about being gay have been fairly angry at me. I can't really blame them, it comes with the territory. There are a lot of people in my life who I have yet to tell. I'll do it in time and I'm prepared to suffer the consequences of having severed friendships, if it reaches to that level then so be it.

 

As to you Rick, these are very good questions. I'll tell you why I felt he would get angry at me. First of all, my roomate doesn't hang out with gay people. Not because he has no interest but rather most of his friends are straight heterosexuals and he never thinks about people who are gay. It's just the way he is as a person. When I first told my roomate that I was gay, he simply asked me one question and that is if I still liked women and I said yes. He never asked in what way I like the opposite sex. It just became a dead issue. Now, I remember when I realised that I liked guys in a sexual way and I still recall a gay escort friend of mine who showed me some gay sites. I was shocked and baffled because I had never seen anything like it on the internet and coming from a straight world, it was just hard to fathom that such things existed online. There was that shock element and it took me a while to get used to it. With my roomate I felt a little deja vu. Could I have predicted how he would feel, absolutely not and for one reason alone. It's one thing to know a gay person, it them becomes something entirely different when that person sees something on screen that they have never seen in their entire lives. It would be impossible to predict what thoughts are running thru that persons mind when viewing something like a gay site on screen. When it comes to gay relationships and gay sex. It's just never really come up as a topic of conversation. In my case I got very lucky that he was more curious than anything else. I simply reacted according to his mood. His reaction could have easily gone the other way.

 

 

>>I was somewhat nervous and I was half expecting him to

>>shake his head with disgust or something close to it.

>

>>He's a very

>>close buddy of mine, we're more or less like brothers

>

>Why would he shake his head in disgust if he knows you are gay

>and if you two are like brothers? Wouldn't you have already

>known what his reaction was going to be? And would you shake

>your head in disgust if you saw a straight porn site that he

>was checking out?

 

Why would he shake his head because he is straight heterosexual. It's impossible to know a human being 100%, after all we're not mind readers. I wouldn't have known because like I said we've never really had a full conversation about gay issues. He has a very short attention span when it comes to listening. He's always been that way. No I would not be disgusted if I caught him checking out straight porn. For starters, I used to check out porn sites when I was straight, I got a good kick out of a lot of sites that I visited. As one grows older, one matures and tastes change over time. Everytime I had a new girl in my life, I stopped checking out straight porn. I'm sure my roomate checks out straight porn when I'm not around. When I'm in the house, I've never seen him do it. If he were to tell, I'd probably join him just to help pass the time and I'd probably egg him on until it becomes boring. I don't have a problem with anyone checking out gay or straight sites, but that's the way I'am as a human being. Not everyone is one the same page and that's just the way life is. I hope this answers your question, somehow I'd rather doubt that.

 

Rohale

[jack]

Will, a very thoughful and caring dialogue from you (not unusual).

 

I recently subscribed to a site that presents straight guys to gay situations. Its straightcollegemen.com

 

Very interesting. Tastefully presented. And difficult and startling to watch these guys doing things with each other that don't make them hard as axe handles. (I get hard just watching them not get hard doing things that I love to do to get hard, having sex).

 

I guess, however, it does demonstrate that straight guys these days are open minded and secure in themselves to test themselves -- the secret, Matt the site producer, pays them big bucks to do what they do.

[Guest zipperzone]

>I recently subscribed to a site that presents straight guys to

>gay situations. Its straightcollegemen.com

 

What a coincidence. I too have recently discovered this site and have been wondering if it is worth spending 40 bucks a month on. What is your take on this? Good value or no?

 

Matt the site producer, pays them big bucks to do what they do.

 

I've noticed he throws some big numbers around - in the thousands. I wonder if that is really the case or is he just saying that to try and justify his membership fees?

[scudman]

I think Seancody.com is a also a great website showing hot guys (many of them straight) getting off for a gay audience. You can sign up for seancody for a month for less than $25.

 

Most of the guys are extremely yummy!:9 And I especially love some of the raw Mardi Gras footage with horny drunk straight college boys showing off.

[nate_sf]

My experience is that a lot of straight people are interested in what we're all up to, not out of judgement but curiosity, especially if they don't know too many gay people. A number of times I've been asked by a straight person if I wouldn't mind answering some "embarassing questions," anything from what does it mean to be a top or a bottom (answer: exactly what you think it means), to "who is the wife," to cruising, porn, what have you. Often once we get talking it turns out he or she has a whole battery of questions saved up and I get the impression they've been wondering about some of these things for some time but never had anyone to ask.

 

So to have your porn site, or this site open, would probably be pretty intriguing, as would gay-themed magazines, books, or anything else. This message board is particularly interesting because there is a whole range of subjects being discussed, and most are not the kind you'd see on this week's "Will and Grace."

 

I can understand your concern about hostile reception from your roommate -- if all you've ever heard or been exposed to is negative reactions to gay life and gay people, it's hard not to expect that. But it sounds like your roommate is OK and accepting of you, and I'd guess you might be able to be more forthcoming with him about what's going on in your life.

 

OK, there's my armchair psychology for the day....

[jack]

Zip, I don't think the price is $40/month. There are choices for membership and with a $40 one time payment, it is then, I think $17 per month. This site is worth it -- however, after about a week, I've gone through the material and will cancel to rejoin when there is more new material.

 

In an e-mail I did applaud Matt for creating an Historic Gay Event. It happened on the Log Cabin Weekend (eight straights spend three days together,,,,doing things together,,,,,etc) when he pulls the blanket back from a spread out stud sleeping on his back and, get this, snips off his boxer shorts while he sleeps, pulls them appart to show his cock bouncing up and down slowly as he sleeps as we know we all do, get hardon's fifteen or sixteen times a night, but have never seen. A super presentation.

 

 

Straights doing gay things are curious --- like, how Dean can give Damon a massage, with waves of baby oil, both naked, while stroking Damon's hard cock, without getting hard himself.

 

Then, in one audition was Cal. I asked Matt if he could get him back to do anything -- particularly, a duo with fellow straight Marcus. That Cal -- all I can say is "succulent". Succulent cock and ball package on a nifty slendor hung guy who was the most unpretentious person naked I've ever seen. He gives me a pulse just thinking about him.

 

That Matt conducts a fun, entertaining, interesting, respectful auditions and grouping of truly staright guys who don't realize how fexible they could be in about two seconds. ......

[jack]

scud, just a thank you for your seancody site lead. Its hot with hot guys doing hot things themselves and together, all with excellent camera work and lighting. It provides excellent performances of what we do naturally. Sean himself is a keeper. Do you know how many additions he usually makes to the site each month.

[jack]

To tell the truth, these guys are so handsome and well put together and the cocksuckers suck them off so relentlessly, sincerely and deftly they made me proud to be a cocksucker, though I think I edge them out in rimming and mounting.

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Straight Guys Do

 

In college and in Fort Lauderdale, while at the Art Institute, I was pretty open in putting, for example, a Greg Louganis poster from Playgirl magazine or a men's calendar up by my desk. This was really no different then other guy's having a Playboy centerfold up on their wall (or, in some cases, a poster of a car!) and, while some of the men in my dorm wing were a little put off at first, eventually everyone became very accepting of it. Some of the guys would page through a copy of the Advocate and some of the more adventuresome would page through a male pictorial magazine. I do not, however, think they would have been very comfortable looking at an XXX hard core still periodical or a male/male adult video.

 

I think it all has a great deal to do with their own comfort level and, obviously, how well they know you. I agree with the concept that as more people get to know - I mean really know - someone who loves the same sex - they become more relaxed and accepting.

 

Also, as far as Sean Cody and some of those sites, I think the concept of "straight" is fairly elastic. All you need to do is watch what some people will do on some reality TV shows or even how they will reveal their deepest secrets on daytime talk shows to realize that a sense of decorum and discretion is not paramount among some of the younger set, whatever their sexual identity might actually be.

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Straight Guys Do

 

In college and in Fort Lauderdale, while at the Art Institute, I was pretty open in putting, for example, a Greg Louganis poster from Playgirl magazine or a men's calendar up by my desk. This was really no different then other guy's having a Playboy centerfold up on their wall (or, in some cases, a poster of a car!) and, while some of the men in my dorm wing were a little put off at first, eventually everyone became very accepting of it. Some of the guys would page through a copy of the Advocate and some of the more adventuresome would page through a male pictorial magazine. I do not, however, think they would have been very comfortable looking at an XXX hard core still periodical or a male/male adult video.

 

I think it all has a great deal to do with their own comfort level and, obviously, how well they know you. I agree with the concept that as more people get to know - I mean really know - someone who loves the same sex - they become more relaxed and accepting.

 

Also, as far as Sean Cody and some of those sites, I think the concept of "straight" is fairly elastic. All you need to do is watch what some people will do on some reality TV shows or even how they will reveal their deepest secrets on daytime talk shows to realize that a sense of decorum and discretion is not paramount among some of the younger set, whatever their sexual identity might actually be.