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Has anyone ever had trouble getting in touch with or getting a reply from an escort after an initial contact? I've been trying for literally years to contact AF_Muscleboy, who now lists Seattle as his location. My initial attempts were when I was in Phoenix for an extended time and he listed Phoenix as his locale. I have tried using posted cell numbers to text or leave voicemail, I've tried to email using a posted email address, and have tried contacting through his ad on various platforms (m4rn, rentmen, rentboy when it was up, even backpage once I think), and have had maybe 2 replies. But after I respond to that reply, it goes dark. Should I assume that it's me? That this guy isn't interested? Hard to believe that though, since we've never actually spoken and have only that 1 or 2 exchanges. Most recent was when I contacted him through Rentmen, asking if he was now working in Seattle. He replied that he was and asked if I wanted to connect. My reply was within an hour or so of his response and I said yes I was, briefly outlined my interests, and asked a couple questions such as rate since his didn't list his fees. And once again - dark. Is it me? Is it him? Anyone care to offer up an opinion or suggestion? Has anyone actually been with the guy? He has some reviews here and they are actually pretty good. I'm inclined to think it's me honestly

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azdr0710 Grand Master

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I met him once when he was in Phoenix.....communication was also very bumpy in the beginning and I sorta gave up....a year later, we somehow started chatting again and I jumped at a meeting chance and had a good time......he was in school full-time 90 minutes outside Phoenix and that may've led to the snafus.....he had to drive into Phx for every meet, usually.....

 

he is a good guy, but just very busy.....sorry you're having trouble.....don't really have an answer, though.....he might get overwhelmed with contacts and some get lost?.....could be any logistical reason, I guess

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I met him once when he was in Phoenix.....communication was also very bumpy in the beginning and I sorta gave up....a year later, we somehow started chatting again and I jumped at a meeting chance and had a good time......he was in school full-time 90 minutes outside Phoenix and that may've led to the snafus.....he had to drive into Phx for every meet, usually.....

 

he is a good guy, but just very busy.....sorry you're having trouble.....don't really have an answer, though.....

Thanks! It gives me an idea of what goes on anyway. His ad always is spot on for me, and the ex-military / athlete angle is amazing. I know that most of the guys have other things going on, but it just struck me as odd that from so many attempts over such a long period of time I keep coming up empty. I appreciate your response though azdr!

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Some guys can be great to be with, but getting there is tough because they are inept handling communication. I think this guy is in a post-graduate full-time career now which makes connecting with him a longer-shot.

 

It's not you, and you persevere more than I would. When it's frustrating to communicate with a provider, I move on. Too many good guys will respond and offer a fun time to get hung up on one who just can't make it happen.

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Has anyone ever had trouble getting in touch with or getting a reply from an escort after an initial contact? I've been trying for literally years to contact AF_Muscleboy, who now lists Seattle as his location. My initial attempts were when I was in Phoenix for an extended time and he listed Phoenix as his locale. I have tried using posted cell numbers to text or leave voicemail, I've tried to email using a posted email address, and have tried contacting through his ad on various platforms (m4rn, rentmen, rentboy when it was up, even backpage once I think), and have had maybe 2 replies. But after I respond to that reply, it goes dark. Should I assume that it's me? That this guy isn't interested? Hard to believe that though, since we've never actually spoken and have only that 1 or 2 exchanges. Most recent was when I contacted him through Rentmen, asking if he was now working in Seattle. He replied that he was and asked if I wanted to connect. My reply was within an hour or so of his response and I said yes I was, briefly outlined my interests, and asked a couple questions such as rate since his didn't list his fees. And once again - dark. Is it me? Is it him? Anyone care to offer up an opinion or suggestion? Has anyone actually been with the guy? He has some reviews here and they are actually pretty good. I'm inclined to think it's me honestly

 

If I was you I would move on and let it go...

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Some guys can be great to be with, but getting there is tough because they are inept handling communication. I think this guy is in a post-graduate full-time career now which makes connecting with him a longer-shot.

 

It's not you, and you persevere more than I would. When it's frustrating to communicate with a provider, I move on. Too many good guys will respond and offer a fun time to get hung up on one who just can't make it happen.

I totally understand that, and it's pretty much what I had done, until I saw his ad in the Seattle section and thought, What the hell? Why don't I take another shot. Plus side, i did get a reply to my question, but I'd say that you're right - a long shot at best to actually connect.

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have a link for him?:)

I'm sorry - I tried, but I guess I don't remember how to post a link. I can tell you though, he's reviewed here as Aaron in Phoenix, and his ad is listed as AZ_Muscleboy on the second page of the Rentmen Seattle section.

Truereview Grand Master

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This is what I imagine jock123 looks like. ;)

 

I totally understand that, and it's pretty much what I had done, until I saw his ad in the Seattle section and thought, What the hell? Why don't I take another shot.

DonPat, I'm sensing you really wanna scratch that itch. I've used the following methodology with hard to get guys before and it has worked for me every time.

 

step 1: text or email him and say "your profile is exactly what I look for. When and where can I meet you? Let's make it happen." Do not communicate unless you get a reply.

Step 2 - Don't ask any further questions/details, just get a date, location and time.

Step 3 - Show up and take it from there.

Step 4 - if he blows you off, stop trying to connect...the guy is a flake or not worth your time. Instead, invest your energy on your EOY nominees. :D

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Thanks! It gives me an idea of what goes on anyway. His ad always is spot on for me, and the ex-military / athlete angle is amazing. I know that most of the guys have other things going on, but it just struck me as odd that from so many attempts over such a long period of time I keep coming up empty. I appreciate your response though azdr!

 

Not asking for details, but you say he always goes radio silent after you explain to him what you're looking for? Any chance you're looking for something that he just doesn't provide?

 

The classy thing would be for him to politely decline but maybe that's just not his way.

 

Not saying you have some unusual kink… Just a thought. :)

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Thanks for the links and for the suggestions. Actually, Trueview, that's pretty much what I have suggested. While I do have some kinks, I more often than not keep them to myself and IF a first session looks like it might lead to a second, I'll bring them up in person face to face. As for the moving on, for sure that's the best path, but again, look at those pictures and those abs and that body .... and - well, it's DEFINITELY an itch I want to scratch!

Moondance Grand Master

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Is it me? Is it him?

 

It's him.

 

I lack you patience, but I did try -- three times, I think -- to make contact with a former EOY. Less because I was all that enamored of him than because he was geographically convenient. And, also, because he is well-liked by another member of this Forum for whom I have great regard. I never received a reply. Not once. I can't say I was all that surprised; his scatteredness is as much a part of his reputation as the pleasure of being with him (for those who persevere and manage it).

When it's frustrating to communicate with a provider, I move on.

 

If I was you I would move on and let it go...

 

Yes indeed. You know what they say about other fish in the sea.

bigvalboy Grand Master

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I totally understand that, and it's pretty much what I had done, until I saw his ad in the Seattle section and thought, What the hell? Why don't I take another shot. Plus side, i did get a reply to my question, but I'd say that you're right - a long shot at best to actually connect.

 

My thoughts? I'd walk across broken glass for muscleboy, or Aaron, or Clark, or any name attached to that body. :D As Azdr mentioned, escorts have other lives, and sometimes getting in touch is difficult, so don't take it personally...That being said, I generally move on when several attempts to connect start out good, then go cold, however... I will admit to pursuing aggressively certain escorts when I really wanted to meet up, in fact Azdr helped to facilitate just such a meeting when the connection was initially made, but then went cold. The escort happened to be overwhelmed, and my emails just got set aside. The meeting eventually did occur, and it was one of the best escort experiences I have ever had...moral of the story? Play it by ear, go by your gut. If you feel he is purposefully ignoring you, then walk away, but if you feel it is just a matter of missed communication or an escort with a busy schedule, hang in there for awhile, it might really pay off in the end.

 

And if you are still a little confused about what to do, just follow the link, and take another look at his pics.. :D Good luck...

http://rentmen.com/AF_Muscleboy

marylander1940 Grand Master

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It's him.

 

I lack you patience, but I did try -- three times, I think -- to make contact with a former EOY. Less because I was all that enamored of him than because he was geographically convenient. And, also, because he is well-liked by another member of this Forum for whom I have great regard. I never received a reply. Not once. I can't say I was all that surprised; his scatteredness is as much a part of his reputation as the pleasure of being with him (for those who persevere and manage it).

 

Yes indeed. You know what they say about other fish in the sea.

 

One more thing... even if the escort is with a client for a week I'm sure he could find time to text, or email back to say: "I'm unavailable till...". If he's out of the country or in an area without cellphone coverage of his provider like Alaska, the moment he's back in the 48 lower states he'll get all his voice mails and text messages when he's back.

 

not replying to email, cell or text, it's a sign of not having his life together, lazy or else...

Mocha Mentor

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One more thing...

 

not replying to email, cell or text, it's a sign of not having his life together, lazy or else...

 

Replying escort here:

 

This thread can certainly go both ways, but from an escort POV, I want to ask what exact time length is given to reply to such correspondence?

 

I gave an example of a client in another thread who cancelled an appointment with me because I wasn't responding to my texts...but it was 1:30 am when he first texted, and then before 11 am subsequently. Friday night. Despite our planning all week, it was the 1 night I wanted to explore the Orlando nightlife, and our appointment wasn't until 2 pm the next day. Guy couldn't even wait until noon to get my confirmation, since my work phone had slid out my pocket in the car, and I was unaware of it. So quick to jump to conclusions. It's like, if you don't want the session, you have better things to do...then do them. Don't call me. Had he waited until 11 am, I would have (and did) reconfirm (again) the session, which I already did by giving the address the night before.

 

So, some guys are kinda pushy about things. Most business correspondence classes state to give atleast 24 hours to respond. Lately with texting, it's been amended to about 4 (business) hours. Some clients won't even allow that time, hence making it seem like we're unreachable.

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This is what I imagine jock123 looks like. ;)

 

 

Haha! I dont even know how to Respond to this without giving more...Clues;)

 

 

I hear about Escorts never responding to an Email...alot. One Client told me I wasnt even his Top pick(I should have been Offended...But Everyone has their "Type" Its Impossible to fit the Mold for Everyone) and He simply Hired me because I was the Only escort to Respond and he was on A Time crunch. Theres an Escort I know(Not personally but have Heard alot of) Who Will Schedule with You, Make the Appointment, Keep In contstant Touch without any Red Flags...and the Day Of...even Hours/Minutes...will Cancel. I dont understand why You guys put yourself through It. If an Escort isnt Responding In a Timely Fashion...showing some type of Respect...Stand on Your Dining Room Table(Or Toilet seat for some of You Kinkier folks)...Grab Your Balls...and as Loud as You can Yell "NEXT!"

Keith30309 Grand Master

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It is a little mystifying - why place an ad if you don't/can't respond to inquiries. I've sent emails and/or texts to three guys over the last few months with no response. The common thread is that they are all on HOURBOY. I'd chalk it up to disinterest but each has refreshed their profiles in the interim so they've not fallen off the face of the earth. Oh well.

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