How much detail do you tell an escort in setting up an appointment?

[+ imagooddog]

As the title of this asks, just how much detail should you tell on first or second contact with the prospective escort? I mean detail about yourself, approximate age, what you are or are not into, any physical limitations. This could affect his interest in seeing you or turn him off completely. Seems like the more he knows the

better the possible outcome of a meeting.

[gregkidman]

If I give a laundry list of things to like and not to like to an escort, then the escort may be constrained by the list. I would give just broad generalizations of just two or three things:

1) boyfriend experience or porn-star experience?

2) top or bottom or both?

3) kissing or no kissing?

 

Which leaves all the other open areas to be just that -- open. That would allow the session to be organic and flexible.

As for physical limitations cumming/not cumming or age difference, let them be 'discoverable' as the session progresses. Sex should be a dance between two people with give and take. If everything was listed out beforehand, then the session may become mechanical and artificial.

[SteelFan]

I tend to be pretty detailed and specific about what I want. I believe it's best not to waste my time or theirs, and Id rather not pay $$$$ for an unsatisfactory experience.

[+ nycman]

"Are you available for an out call at XXXXX hotel on XXXXX date at XX pm?

 

Assuming he has a 1/2 decent ad up and I've done my homework.....that's it!

 

I'm a very simple man.

 

I've had guys tell me the brevity was how they knew I was serious...and I've had guys tell me the brevity scared them off.

 

You can't win...so keep it simple

[rvwnsd]

I typically send a guy an email outlining what I like to do, such as the following:

 

"Hi [name of escort],

 

I was browsing [name of site], came across your ad, and thought I would see if we are compatible. I love to kiss, suck, lick, rim, and occasionally bottom. I have a "thing" for a hot, well-dressed guy and enjoy "unwrapping" my gift. Let me know what you think."

 

I specifically avoid terms like "boyfriend experience" and "porn star" experience because they are very, very subjective. A forum member asked me about an escort one time and I described our encounter. He commented that the escort would not be a match for him because he wanted the boyfriend experience. My reply was that, to me, we HAD a boyfriend experience.

 

If you do not ask for what you want, chances are you will not get it.

[Andrew]

I typically send a guy an email outlining what I like to do, such as the following:

 

"Hi [name of escort],

 

I was browsing [name of site], came across your ad, and thought I would see if we are compatible. I love to kiss, suck, lick, rim, and occasionally bottom. I have a "thing" for a hot, well-dressed guy and enjoy "unwrapping" my gift. Let me know what you think."

 

I specifically avoid terms like "boyfriend experience" and "porn star" experience because they are very, very subjective. A forum member asked me about an escort one time and I described our encounter. He commented that the escort would not be a match for him because he wanted the boyfriend experience. My reply was that, to me, we HAD a boyfriend experience.

 

If you do not ask for what you want, chances are you will not get it.

 

Sorry to piggy-back on this topic, I'm new so don't hesitate to let me know if bad form.

 

My thing (well one of them) is an experience with someone not wearing deoderant. I mean I can't ask an escort to go about his life all day and expect him to not wear deoderant all day just for me.... can I? Hehe.

[SteelFan]

Sorry to piggy-back on this topic, I'm new so don't hesitate to let me know if bad form.

 

My thing (well one of them) is an experience with someone not wearing deoderant. I mean I can't ask an escort to go about his life all day and expect him to not wear deoderant all day just for me.... can I? Hehe.

You can always ask. The worst he can say is no.

[seaboy4hire]

Sorry to piggy-back on this topic, I'm new so don't hesitate to let me know if bad form.

 

My thing (well one of them) is an experience with someone not wearing deoderant. I mean I can't ask an escort to go about his life all day and expect him to not wear deoderant all day just for me.... can I? Hehe.

 

Yes you can ask. And maybe depending on the weather we can accommodate. Speaking for myself during late fall and throughout winter I often times go without wearing any.

 

Hugs,

Greg

[geminibear]

Yes you can ask. And maybe depending on the weather we can accommodate. Speaking for myself during late fall and throughout winter I often times go without wearing any.

 

Hugs,

Greg

Tease

[rvwnsd]

Sorry to piggy-back on this topic, I'm new so don't hesitate to let me know if bad form.

 

My thing (well one of them) is an experience with someone not wearing deoderant. I mean I can't ask an escort to go about his life all day and expect him to not wear deoderant all day just for me.... can I? Hehe.

I always do. In fact, that's one of the items I put in my little blurb and more often than not a guy can accommodate. In fact, the guy I mentioned in my post did just that. And he worked a professional job.

[+ Truereview]

Hey Ima. Sorry to take thread away from deodorant....call me true downer tonight I'm gonna go out on a limb here and over share (huddle around, boys!):

 

I'm a big believer in not pulling any surprises on companions. If I feel they should know something about me or what I want in that session -while not getting him or me in hot water- I tell it. For example, I have a "physical limitation" and I make a point to share it upfront. Why? Three reasons: 1. he should know what he is walking into, 2. I like embracing who I am and claiming it, and 3. by being upfront, you give him an opportunity to opt out. Yes, some guys have opted out and I'm eternally grateful for their honesty...far better than being with someone who claims to be fine with it and then can't deliver.

[seaboy4hire]

Tease

 

Maybe you should burry your face in my hairy pits, take a whiff and lick them clean.

 

Hugs,

Greg

[geminibear]

Maybe you should burry your face in my hairy pits, take a whiff and lick them clean.

 

Hugs,

Greg

Only if you return the favor. ;)Besides once my tongue is on your body I can't be held responsible for what other crevices and opening it might find it's way into.

 

It does seem to have a mind of it's own.

[mattr]

Maybe you should burry your face in my hairy pits, take a whiff and lick them clean.

 

Hugs,

Greg

 

Damn, now you're talkin Greg!

[+ sam.fitzpatrick]

I always include my age, height, weight - - just in case it bothers someone. I've had escorts that (1) tell me they were available, (2) respond that they were unavailable, but ask if another time was possible, and (3) respond that they were previously booked, but not ask for a different appointment time.

 

When I get response #3, I take it as we're not a match and go to the next guy.

[RussJohnson]

As the title of this asks, just how much detail should you tell on first or second contact with the prospective escort? I mean detail about yourself, approximate age, what you are or are not into, any physical limitations. This could affect his interest in seeing you or turn him off completely. Seems like the more he knows the better the possible outcome of a meeting.

 

I could go on at length about this but to keep it simple - Knowing more about you physically (unless it's a medical condition, or physical limitation) does not affect my interest. I can't speak for everyone but the only things that I even think about are safety concerns, financial concerns, or legal concerns. Most of my research on those happens after we are booked anyway so please keep it short, sweet, and serious for me - or as I tell those "chatters" lets get the business out of the way then we can talk pleasure.

 

 

"Are you available for an out call at XXXXX hotel on XXXXX date at XX pm?

 

Assuming he has a 1/2 decent ad up and I've done my homework.....that's it!

 

This always wins in my book! I'm surprised to hear this scares people off.

[bostonman]

Sorry to piggy-back on this topic, I'm new so don't hesitate to let me know if bad form.

 

My thing (well one of them) is an experience with someone not wearing deoderant. I mean I can't ask an escort to go about his life all day and expect him to not wear deodorant all day just for me.... can I? Hehe.

 

As a HUGE fan of armpits, I've had this conversation with both escorts and also dates/hookups. I'd say that many of the guys I've talked with have been happy to accommodate. Asking a guy if he'd be into working up some sweat scent can be a little more problematic, but even then I've been surprised by the number of guys who are specifically into that and/or very willing to try. And I have been with a few guys who have been willing to go the distance in that regard.

 

I also think that conversations about cologne, soap, etc, can be broached just fine. I tend to prefer a guy's natural scent, so I do often ask if he'd be ok with not wearing cologne, or maybe just a hint of it (instead of the kinds of guys that seem to bathe in it lol). Similarly, I'd prefer the clean scent of Ivory soap etc, versus "deodorant soap" like Dial. Basically, I think just a little dab of cologne or other scents can add to a guy's allure - but too much of it can be a huge turnoff.

[seaboy4hire]

As a HUGE fan of armpits, I've had this conversation with both escorts and also dates/hookups. I'd say that many of the guys I've talked with have been happy to accommodate. Asking a guy if he'd be into working up some sweat scent can be a little more problematic, but even then I've been surprised by the number of guys who are specifically into that and/or very willing to try. And I have been with a few guys who have been willing to go the distance in that regard.

 

I also think that conversations about cologne, soap, etc, can be broached just fine. I tend to prefer a guy's natural scent, so I do often ask if he'd be ok with not wearing cologne, or maybe just a hint of it (instead of the kinds of guys that seem to bathe in it lol). Similarly, I'd prefer the clean scent of Ivory soap etc, versus "deodorant soap" like Dial. Basically, I think just a little dab of cologne or other scents can add to a guy's allure - but too much of it can be a huge turnoff.

 

Scented soaps and many colognes make me want to gag! I only buy non scented dove soap non scented Tom of Maine pit stick and haven't woren cologne in almost 20 years.

 

Hugs,

Greg

[+ friendofsheila]

I agree with Russ. If it's a limitation, a service preference, or a preference for something physical that's not in the ad, I think it's important to tell the escort.

 

If the escort has any of the above, it's up to him to ASK, which will also clue you in if he only wants a certain type of client. (I remember one who seemed to have this preference, and seemingly cancelled an appointment because of it.)

[Guest]

For legal reasons, it's probably not a good idea to discuss too many details on the phone or in e-mails. The ad should pretty much tell what the escort is into. I do agree with a number of other posters about avoiding colognes, deodorants, and other scents. I do ask my hires to come in clean but unscented.

[BaronArtz]

I usually don't say too much - for the legal reasons that Unicorn mentioned above and because I know some of the guys are swamped with emails/texts. I just email/text a message saying something like 'hi, I looked at your ad and read some of your reviews. I think we are compatible. I am (age/weight/height). Are you available Tuesday afternoon for an incall? If not, weekday afternoons are usually good for me. Let me know please'. In 9/10 times I get a favorable response to this type of message and in some cases the escort will ask me 'what I am looking to get into'. The back and forth is never more than 2 or 3 emails/texts.

 

My preferred scenario is to give a lot of repeat business to guys I like, rather than chasing the new hot guy of the week. So it is fairly unusual for me to go through all of this with a new guy.