Too Much Info on Escort Makes Me Hesitate to Hire Again

[Frequentflier]

Yes, both parties are "criminals." There's quite a difference between this "criminal" activity and assault, though.

 

Never said people shouldn't be wary of someone who has a conviction for assault. But overly judgmental people are usually living in glass houses. And shouldn't the escort be able to do the same online investigation of the client? Both are equally at risk when it comes to their safety. In fact, the escort is more at risk given he likely meets more strangers as clients than the client meeting new escorts.

[AdamSmith]

In fact, the escort is more at risk given he likely meets more strangers as clients than the client meeting new escorts.

 

And even without Googling his phone #, images etc., you the client already know a lot more about the escort than he does about you.

[caliguy]

I'm sure that some people here have "gotten into a fight with a GF or BF that got out of hand," but many of us haven't. You might try to minimize that behavior and belief it's "normal," but my perspective is that while many people are raised in families where violence is present and end up having adult relationships that include physical violence, it is NOT acceptable behavior.

Never said it was "normal". However, sometimes running from a fight isn't an option and sometimes people just make mistakes. Try bringing the holier then thou judgement down a few notches.

[buckguy]

And even without Googling his phone #, images etc., you the client already know a lot more about the escort than he does about you.

 

Not necessarily. Depends how much gets disclosed from your email, phone number, etc. And they have the same option of saying "no".

[maninsoma]

Never said it was "normal". However, sometimes running from a fight isn't an option and sometimes people just make mistakes. Try bringing the holier then thou judgement down a few notches.

 

I'm sorry. I'm not being holier than thou. It does sound to me like you make excuses for domestic violence. Unless you're being held against your will, it is possible to leave a fight. It's people's desire to fight (and win) that keeps them engaged with someone else who's fighting them.

[+ goosh69]

Sounds like someone is here is WAY TOO defensive of those with violent criminal records. Count me amongst those who has NEVER been arrested for ANYTHING and agrees that you should stay away from this previously violent escort.

[caliguy]

Sounds like someone is here is WAY TOO defensive of those with violent criminal records. Count me amongst those who has NEVER been arrested for ANYTHING and agrees that you should stay away from this previously violent escort.

Get real. I think we can differentiate between a "violent criminal background" and a bad night with your lover/the cops, and some traffic violations.

[+ Truereview]

Take cover everyone! Caliguy is about to blow!

[caliguy]

Take cover everyone! Caliguy is about to blow!

That's just dumb. Try it with some real humor next time. I'll even give it a like.

[+ Truereview]

Ok, I'm sorry, Caliguy. I was simply trying a little humor to diffuse the heat. It was not my intent for you to lose face publicly. You already did that all on your own.

 

That's just dumb. Try it with some real humor next time. I'll even give it a like.

[caliguy]

Ok, I'm sorry, Caliguy. I was simply trying a little humor to diffuse the heat. It was not my intent for you to lose face publicly. You already did that all on your own.

Oh I see. Lame humor attempt with follow up lame attack disguised with more lame humor just because you disagree. Yawn.

[+ Truereview]

Oh I see. Lame humor attempt with follow up lame attack disguised with more lame humor just because you disagree. Yawn.

 

If you want to be a smart ass you have to do better then that. I've been made fun of many times before and I'm ok with that. Just let me know when it's actually funny though. I need a good laugh today.

....and he blew all over....sigh. That was easy.

[caliguy]

....and he blew all over....sigh. That was easy.

Oh you sure got me. Touche!

[corndog]

When it comes to domestic violence, I believe "one strike and you're out."

[seaboy4hire]

People are bickering back and forth about privacy. Guess what folk?! In this age of digital techie stuff, there is no such thing as privacy. Especially if you post pics online. Once its posted its there pretty much forever. Sure it might get pushed to page a billion on Google but it's there. Also, theres a lil government agency called the NSA that collects all kinds of data on you whether you say it is ok or not.

 

Hugs,

Greg

[Bargara Leatherboy]

definitely don't mention it to him (you are absolutely sure he's the same guy as has the rap sheet?)....

 

willing to bet many of us have had meets with dudes who have long, tough arrest records....and we never knew it......

 

and I do know several well-revered, much-loved escorts who post here have records with arrests for far more than parking violations

 

on occasion, I've left info on a piece of paper in the middle of my living room floor, so when my friends break down my door to see why I haven't been answering their calls, they will know who killed me

 

I always send my self a text with the details of a meet, and the address phone number of the dude etc. I also keep my phone on in silent mode.

 

I know enough about law enforcement these days, to know that the first thing they will look at is where is my phone, (it is called a triangulation) and also check out the call and text history.

 

Does not help you if you are dead BUT it does lead the investigators direct to the scene.

[Brian Kevin]

My pussy clean, my pussy squeeky. So is my name.

 

The only dirt on me is my credit LOL

[+ goosh69]

"One bad night with your lover..." = the one night too many.

[John]

I wouldn't and don't. Sometimes with great regret.

Such a pattern of arrests often indicates an unmanageable life and a pattern of substance use/abuse. You never know when something like that will turn around and hit you upside the head, literally or figuratively. Also some find the unmanageability very sexy. In which case you are not attracted to the guy, but to the drug.

Been there, done that.

[geminibear]

I always send my self a text with the details of a meet, and the address phone number of the dude etc. I also keep my phone on in silent mode.

 

I know enough about law enforcement these days, to know that the first thing they will look at is where is my phone, (it is called a triangulation) and also check out the call and text history.

 

Does not help you if you are dead BUT it does lead the investigators direct to the scene.

 

As someone who enjoys a good mystery I want them to do the leg work.

 

It would make my day if my murder was featured on an episode of Unsolved Mysteries or 48 Hours. (I know I would be dead but still I would feel like I finally made it)