Sugguestions On How To Make Right Of Questionable Misunderstandings!!

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[+ SundayZip]

I've remained silent throughout this thread, but now feel the need to defend one of the few people who has responded openly and honestly to JD's public plead for feedback. Thank-you Juan. My own interactions with JD validate the tone and character of the interaction that you describe.

[bigvalboy]

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Too soon?

[+ WilliamM]

BVB: Perhaps we can wait a bit:

 

My own mother is hip deep in senile dementia and still in complete denial about it; I don't think my interactions with her would have earned Steven's "Spoonful of Sugar" certification, but I'm attempting to do the right thing and at least have the approval of my sister, uncle and his wife.

 

Thank you for posting. Your post and Steven's many posts made reading this complete thread worth it. I had the same situation with my mother, with one huge difference. Before she slipped into senile dementia, she told me something was very wrong. That did not make the next years easier -- they were awful. But, my mom warned me about what was about to happen. So honcho, this is post to the other members of the board and you. We are all getting older.

 

My heart goes out to you, honcho. You are an amazing person.

[JDXXX]

I've remained silent throughout this thread, but now feel the need to defend one of the few people who has responded openly and honestly to JD's public plead for feedback. Thank-you Juan. My own interactions with JD validate the tone and character of the interaction that you describe.

 

Yeah, but this is coming from someone who sent me private PM of apology, but you gonna comment like this? Hmmm..ok. Guess the email you sent me wasn't as sincere as made it to be.

[big-n-tall]

I like what Truereview has writen, although I haven't discounted meeting with people just yet. We're human... smart people do dumb things sometimes and sometimes dumb people do genius level things.

 

First a little background...

I haven't met either Juan or JD. I had a polite, extremely brief exchange with Juan during a PM conversation. From this brief exchange he and I followed each other. Without prompting, JD followed me (as he seemed to do with many). I wasn't bothered by this. I did PM JD once to thank him for being one of the first people to give me a "like". That was the only thing I have ever sent him.

 

So I have read the mini novel that is this forum post. I'm now going to add my too bits in, as others have. I'm not trying to pick sides here, but JD did open the topic up for discussion and as with anything you offer up for opinion (public and otherwise) you have to take the good with the bad. JD by "being JD" has won fans, turned people on, and, yet ruffled feathers and turned people off.

 

I can't say what exactly happened between Juan and JD that fateful phone call, but If I'm being honest, what Juan has said rings partly true. I'm not the only who has received unsolicited contact from JD. (People have complained publicly in this forum and behind the scenes about it.) Although JD was polite, and in no way did it reach the level it seemed to between JD and Juan, the last (unsolicited) PM JD sent me, put a notch in the turning people off column for me. JD a word of advice, you can't claim to be friends with someone you barely met or have talked to briefly. Most friendships/relationships take time to grow. You can't force one to happen, no matter how much you want it to happen. Doing so makes (some) people feel awkward, angry, and turns them off. Talking to someone in the extreme familiar, that you have never met... also not a good look. This is were I'm guessing, in part, where people have labeled you phony.

 

Look there is nothing wrong with self-promotion. It's how you do it that matters. Ultimately, I think Juan is satisfied with the person he is and whatever lot in life is was given (or went after). I get this from reading his post and responses to various topics. JD I think you are a nice guy. I don't think you mean to be malicious in anyway. However, I think you want to be liked/approved of so much, the manner in which you do it... well, you don't seem to realize it's abrasive to some.

 

Anyway, Mr. Kessler, I'm truly sorry to hear what you are going through. It sucks dealing with family that don't act they way you hope they would. Especially when you're put in the middle in any way. Which is made all the worse by the various health issues you and your family have to deal as well. Buck up. Things will work themselves out for the better.

 

I'll end this by saying... learn from your good and bad experiences and grow from it. That goes for myself and everyone who wants to listen.

 

Can we all get some pizza now?

[JDXXX]

I too have been on the receiving end during some of JD's less attractive moments. An email thread that occurred between he and I only a few weeks ago would be very revealing. Had I reported it to Daddy, I suspect it might have earned him a time-out, giving him some time to reflect on his promotional methods.

 

No disrespect here, but I felt the same about Rudy's correspondences to me as his comments towards me in those responses and his personality wasn't too comforting, and intensely cold-blooded to say the least.

 

So, yes I think both of us are on the same page when it came to each other's "less attractive moments". . .

 

I appreciate your honesty, and do wish you well as your input and commits are very helpful to hear you admit to here on the forum I must say. . I'll take what you said, and use it for future reference as I'm sorry to have gave you such a bad impression based on good intentions.

 

I apologize!!

 

Now - can we break bread and start fresh offering you a slice of pizza, and if so, what would you like??

[MiamiLooker]

Someone should certainly consider firing their PR manager, or he should consider quitting.

[+ SundayZip]

Can we all get some pizza now.

 

Yeah. Let's all do a group hug and then go for some pizza.

 

[bigvalboy]

Someone should certainly consider firing their PR manager, or he should consider quitting.

 

I don't know...this thread has gotten over three thousand views and over one hundred comments. Is that a good or bad thing?

[MiamiLooker]

I don't know...this thread has gotten over three thousand views and over one hundred comments. Is that a good or bad thing?

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[+ WilliamM]

I don't know...this thread has gotten over three thousand views and over one hundred comments. Is that a good or bad thing?

 

Benjamin Nicholas is still a huge success as an escort. In past years some pro-and- anti BN threads went on longer. I am not saying all gossip/conversation is good for business, just a comment.

 

Is it finally time to order pizza now? Please say yes......

[+ stevenkesslar]

Many Thanks to Steven for being an amazing confidant, friend, and one I can turn to for anything, even special advice when needed.

 

Thanks, JD. Here's my special advice, from the bottom of my heart.

 

 

That is how it is done, JD. Short, simple, sincere.

 

We both like to talk. A lot. In this case, though, it all boils down to two words: "I'm sorry."

 

First off, Juan - I want to sincerely apologize for any misunderstandings, confusion or drama you've encountered in our past "communication/interactions" in the past back in December of last year. Never was my intention in any way to make you feel uncomfortable by reaching out getting to know you as my reaching out was ALL under good intentions that were truly sincere.

 

I know you well enough to know you meant those words. You should have stopped there.

 

Now, it really is time for you to listen to Renee and shut up. You have my hugs. But mostly I think it's time for you to shut up and to reflect on what you can learn about yourself from this. Not about Juan, or about racism, or about the people who've made you one of the most financially successful and respected escorts in the United States. About you. Right now, this is all about you.

 

With all due respect to Steve Henson, BVB - I can't tell you how many times I jacked off to that video - I'll go with pizza.

 

[+ Truereview]

Benjamin Nicholas is still a huge success as an escort. In past years some pro-and- anti BN threads went on longer. I am not saying all gossip/conversation is good for business, just a comment.

 

Is it finally time to order pizza now? Please say yes......

PIZZA IS IN! MEATlovers delight and VeggieORGY. my pumpkin cookies just popped too

[AdamSmith]

Thanks, JD. Here's my special advice, from the bottom of my heart.

 

 

That is how it is done, JD. Short, simple, sincere.

 

We both like to talk. A lot. In this case, though, it all boils down to two words: "I'm sorry."

 

 

 

I know you well enough to know you meant those words. You should have stopped there.

 

Now, it really is time for you to stop talking and to reflect on what you can learn about yourself from this. Not about Juan, or about racism, or about the people who've made you one of the most financially successful and respected escorts in the United States. About you. Right now, this is all about you.

 

With all due respect to Steven Henson, BVB - I can't tell you how many times I jacked of to that video - I'll go with pizza.

 

 

+1000

 

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PIZZA MAN!

[bigvalboy]

NOW y'all want to order pizza?. I tried ordering pizza over an hour ago....Y'all do what you want. I'm going to pop in a copy of that video. I don't generally give advice unless I think the person receiving it will seriously consider what I am saying. In this case, when all is said and done, Mr. Kessler is right, this is not about Juan or Miami, or racism, or anyone of your detractors out there, it is about you JD. Step away from the key board, go get some fresh air, and take a nice long walk, think about what has transpired in this thread, think of what was accomplished by it, if anything at all. Go back and re-read Steven's posts, and then read them again and again, and think about what Steven is trying to tell you. That's my advice. ....Wishing you all the best.

 

And yes Mr. Kessler, that might be hands down one of the best videos of all time.

 

Thanks, JD. Here's my special advice, from the bottom of my heart.

That is how it is done, JD. Short, simple, sincere.

We both like to talk. A lot. In this case, though, it all boils down to two words: "I'm sorry."

I know you well enough to know you meant those words. You should have stopped there.

Now, it really is time for you to listen to Renee and shut up. You have my hugs. But mostly I think it's time for you to shut up and to reflect on what you can learn about yourself from this. Not about Juan, or about racism, or about the people who've made you one of the most financially successful and respected escorts in the United States. About you. Right now, this is all about you.

 

With all due respect to Steve Henson, BVB - I can't tell you how many times I jacked off to that video - I'll go with pizza.

 

[+ Truereview]

NOW you y'all want to order pizza?. I tried ordering pizza over an hour ago....Y'all do what you want. I'm going to pop in a copy of that video. I don't generally give advice unless I think the person receiving it will seriously consider what I am saying. In this case, when all is said and done, Mr. Kessler is right, this is not about Juan or Miami, or racism, or anyone of your detractors out there, it is about you JD. Step away from the key board, go get some fresh air, and take a nice long walk, and think about what Steven is trying to tell you. That's my advice.

Isn't offering pizza a form of advice?

[+ stevenkesslar]

Isn't offering pizza a form of advice?

 

Isn't offering Steve Henson (the porn star in The Pizza Boy He Delivers) a form of prostitution?

 

I'm just trying to keep this all on the up and up.

[bigvalboy]

Isn't offering pizza a form of advice?

 

LMAO...Indeed you are correct sir.

[bigvalboy]

Now, let's all go back down to the Political Forum, BOZO is getting lonely, and surely must be wondering where the hell everyone went ?

[+ Chris Eisenhower]

To sum up...

 

Don't cold call clients. Especially ones that you've never met.

Asking for advice means actually wanting it.

If the Forum has turned against you, make them a cake in the shape of a free blow job.

EOY means something for about ten minutes—or until the first person posts that you didn't deserve it. #thenitmeanseverythinghahafuckers

If choosing between [your escort name here] and [your escort name here]™, most people will pick the first one. Quit being a product and be a person.

Please don't use the word "sweetie." Ever again. It's about as sexy as "tallywacker."

 

That is all. Now get out there and make it look good. And Raquel—take that fucking jacket off.

 

 

#irealizenoneofthesethingswereactuallysaidbutperhapstheyneededtobe

[+ WilliamM]

Now, let's all go back down to the Political Forum, BOZO is getting lonely, and surely must be wondering where the hell did everybody go

 

Bozo ????? Oh yes, he's the clown (literally) who hangs in the political forum. Nice guy, but lonely over the last few days!

 

Hi Bozo T. Clown, if you are out there, and perhaps married by now.

[+ stevenkesslar]

And we wouldn't be fair if we didn't let Mary Poppins get a last word in.

 

You know, JD. All we want is for you to be practically perfect in every way. That's all. Take it as a compliment. Because we know you can be.

 

And when you think about it, that's not the same as saying you should be perfect. Nobody is.

 

Case in point, I think we all just fucked up, BIG TIME.

 

All this talk about porn and pizza and black bitches and all.

 

We forgot all about the children.

 

It's a beautiful day in Palm Springs. I know what I'm gonna do.

 

[mike carey]

Asking for advice means actually wanting it.

This comment more than the others!

[+ Chris Eisenhower]

I was really only looking for a reason to post a link to that Truck Turner video without it seeming like a non sequitur.