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[+ purplekow]

For me, too much.

[+ Oliver]

??? What am I missing? I don't understand.

[Epigonos]

I'm also obviously out of the loop!!!!!!!

[+ José Soplanucas]

??? What am I missing? I don't understand.

 

I am a newbie, but I've been online a lot lately because I got a surgery and I am on rehab. Based on the little bit I know, I would say that purplekow and safe westcoaster find that the number of postings complimenting JD Daniels is excessive. And they are probably having right now a private conversation.

[JDXXX]

I am a newbie, but I've been online a lot lately because I got a surgery and I am on rehab. Based on the little bit I know, I would say that purplekow and safe westcoaster find that the number of postings complimenting JD Daniels is excessive. And they are probably having right now a private conversation.

 

You know - it's amazing to me when other escorts who are well liked are complimented and praised to death like crazy, it's not excessive, when people are complimenting me in the sameway - it's too much for "certain" people to deal with. WOW. Talk about hypercritical and such brutal behavior. I can't believe this. Just makes you wonder what the motive is behind all this really for someone to create such a mean-spirited thread like this. . Unbelievable.

 

If the compliments are too excessive, fine, we'll deal with it, fix it, and move on, but no need to put down what good people want to write that is positive. If it was an escort these people were rooting for(which I've seen in previous threads in the past about one person getting a lot of compliments and accolades on different threads) - no word of them getting excessive compliments would be even mentioned. I can assure you of that as I have seen it happen before, but when it happens to me - it's a bad thing for some reason.

[TruHart1]

I am sorry to say this is the sort of mean-spirited "in joke" thread that is best ignored, (so it will die a natural death) which I will do following this post, being only my humble opinion, BTW!

 

Additionally, these are the sorts of threads that make escorts who are active on the forum decide to stop sharing their opinions, causing some of the same people who start these to bemoan the lack of escorts we see contributing here. Why not just ignore those threads (about particular escorts) you disdain instead of making things personal. I am sorry but I'm always baffled by this sort of behavior here, myself!

 

TruHart1

[+ WilliamM]

JD is an extremely positive participant in this site. I can not remember one negative remark by JD. So I guess a backlash was inevitable -- sad and totally unjustified as it is.

[rguer]

Perhaps it's not the number of postings about him, but the number of separate threads - at least 7 with his name in the title this month, and we're only halfway through. Can't blame JD for someone else starting a thread about him, but the original poster didn't blame anyone.

[+ José Soplanucas]

You know - it's amazing to me when other escorts who are well liked are complimented and praised to death like crazy, it's not excessive, when people are complimenting me in the sameway - it's too much for "certain" people to deal with. WOW. Talk about hypercritical and such brutal behavior. I can't believe this. Just makes you wonder what the motive is behind all this really for someone to create such a mean-spirited thread like this. . Unbelievable.

 

If the compliments are too excessive, fine, we'll deal with it, fix it, and move on, but no need to put down what good people want to write that is positive. If it was an escort these people were rooting for(which I've seen in previous threads in the past about one person getting a lot of compliments and accolades on different threads) - no word of them getting excessive compliments would be even mentioned. I can assure you of that as I have seen it happen before, but when it happens to me - it's a bad thing for some reason.

JD, I apologize if you think I am being mean spirited. I was just guessing what was going on in the thread, I was not agreeing with or complaint about anything or anybody. I am actually glad to see that so many forum members think you are so good, and I'm actually sorry you are 100% top. ;-)

[+ WilliamM]

JD, I apologize if you think I am being mean spirited. I was just guessing what was going on in the thread, I was not agreeing with or complaint about anything or anybody. I am actually glad to see that so many forum members think you are so good

 

Whatever the motive, the thread did not go as they planned. I can not speak for JD or anyone else, but I do not think you need to apologize. And JD did receive a lot of praise. Take care.

[BabyBoomer]

I am sorry to say this is the sort of mean-spirited "in joke" thread that is best ignored, (so it will die a natural death) which I will do following this post, being only my humble opinion, BTW!

 

Additionally, these are the sorts of threads that make escorts who are active on the forum decide to stop sharing their opinions, causing some of the same people who start these to bemoan the lack of escorts we see contributing here. Why not just ignore those threads (about particular escorts) you disdain instead of making things personal. I am sorry but I'm always baffled by this sort of behavior here, myself!

 

TruHart1

 

JD is an extremely positive participant in this site. I can not remember one negative remark by JD. So I guess a backlash was inevitable -- sad and totally unjustified as it is.

 

+1

 

Hey JD, you knew I had to say something before we put this to rest. You're always so enthusiastic & supportive when there's a thread by or about your fellow escort brothers/friends.... I'd like to know where they all were to support you in this thread? I realize some of them might have feared a backlash if they posted here. However, if you didn't get a shit load of PM's, texts, or phone calls from your fellow escorts about this thread, that would be a real kick in the balls!

 

~ Boomer ~

[+ sync]

JD, you can easily take the high road on this one...you are much closer to it.

[JDXXX]

I am sorry to say this is the sort of mean-spirited "in joke" thread that is best ignored, (so it will die a natural death) which I will do following this post, being only my humble opinion, BTW!

 

Additionally, these are the sorts of threads that make escorts who are active on the forum decide to stop sharing their opinions, causing some of the same people who start these to bemoan the lack of escorts we see contributing here. Why not just ignore those threads (about particular escorts) you disdain instead of making things personal. I am sorry but I'm always baffled by this sort of behavior here, myself!

 

Not to worry, Tru baby, I'm not going to let this get me down nor being an active participate here on the forum. I know other escorts have vanished off from the forum site altogether due to what you've mention, but won't such harsh negativity this stop me for one bit from being a loyal and active member. If out of anything, this will only make me stronger and wiser. I love the forum, and plan to stay no matter what. I'm baffled by this situation too, but gonna keep my head up high, and move forward to bigger and greater issues that the forum has to offer that is positively beneficial.

 

JD is an extremely positive participant in this site. I can not remember one negative remark by JD. So I guess a backlash was inevitable -- sad and totally unjustified as it is.

 

You're absolutely right, William, I plan take this thread from a negative impact to a positive impact as a learning lession by moving forward and not let it get the best of me. You just can't give "certain" people that sort of power to try and ruin you're good natured spirit. Regardless of what all has happened with this thread being posted from the OP, I don't have no hard feelings, and just walk away from it by coming out of a sticky situation like this(As Sir Steven Kesslar would say) smelling like a rose as I have done nothing wrong for someone to create such a thread to be posted. As far as I'm concerned, walk away from this matter with a positive, and but yet cheerful attitude. .

 

It's always best to remain in harmony with those who may be against you with a smile on your face then react in anger acting a fool for which I'm not gonna give anyone that sort of reaction or satisfaction in knowing they offended me by reacting in a unruly way. I'm a Gentleman who's a "Class Act", and gonna conduct myself as such, and leave the thread with this quote which is very easy to understand my theory to this whole issue.......

 

Need I say more.......

 

HUGS AND PEACE,

[JDXXX]

JD, I apologize if you think I am being mean spirited. I was just guessing what was going on in the thread, I was not agreeing with or complaint about anything or anybody. I am actually glad to see that so many forum members think you are so good, and I'm actually sorry you are 100% top. ;-)

 

Hi Latbear4blk,

 

Baby, I completely understand were you're coming from as your still a wonderful person in my book. I know you didn't mean any harm by what you said unlike "certain" other individuals we may know on this thread.

 

I'm grateful to have you along with other members on the forum be such positive influences in being by my side regarding this thread for which I am extremely appreciative and grateful to have such members of the Realm to be so caring and supportive to have my back like you all have been doing. .

 

Thank You!!

[JDXXX]

JD, you can easily take the high road on this one...you are much closer to it.

 

Hey Sync,

 

Already there! In the car, and heading to the road of harmony, my friend.

 

 

HUGS,

[JDXXX]

+1

 

Hey JD, you knew I had to say something before we put this to rest. You're always so enthusiastic & supportive when there's a thread by or about your fellow escort brothers/friends.... I'd like to know where they all were to support you in this thread? I realize some of them might have feared a backlash if they posted here. However, if you didn't get a shit load of PM's, texts, or phone calls from your fellow escorts about this thread, that would be a real kick in the balls!

 

~ Boomer ~

 

Thank You, Boomer.

 

Trust me, sweetheart, I have received over 40 correspondence by via text, phone, and emails/PM's on the forum about the craziness of this thread, and let's say - just wasn't wise for the OP to have done this thread in most people's eyes, and regret that PK couldn't have expressed this issue with me on a more private level. I hold no grudges or hard feelings over the fact as what's said is said, and what's done is done at this point, but will again, take the "High Road", and walk away from this with my head above water knowing things have a way of working itself out in the end.....

 

;););););););)

[JDXXX]

Whatever the motive, the thread did not go as they planned. I can not speak for JD or anyone else, but I do not think you need to apologize. And JD did receive a lot of praise. Take care.

 

I agree 100 percent. If anyone who needs to apologize is the OP who created this awful thread to begin with.

[JDXXX]

JD is an extremely positive participant in this site. I can not remember one negative remark by JD. So I guess a backlash was inevitable -- sad and totally unjustified as it is.

 

Always will remain upbeat and positive as I have nothing to be negative for, and want to Thank You, Sir William for pointing those special characteristics about me out to the members of the forum here which you hit right on the nose regarding my personality, and how I carry myself in general, and on this Realm.

 

[JDXXX]

I'd look at it as free publicity. I think the last few negative comments made about me I didn't even acknowledge. Defending yourself to someone that hasn't even had the pleasure of your company to make a judgement seems a bit silly to me. I'm sure you'd get an apology if you offered a free session Someone is a little pissy over you being on threads? They should start savig their pennies and find out why. Some are sitting home and trolling all day while you're in a new city every week doing your thing. Keep on doin!

 

Hey Killian,

 

You are SOOOOOO right, baby. What's funny about this whole thing is - the OP has met me(not for a session), but in person at 2 forum events. That's why this all seems bizarre on how someone who I thought really like me, and think I'm a great guy would do such a mean-spirited thread like this. Just doesn't make any sense to me either, but again, this is a learning lession of who's for me, and who isn't. Looking at this as free publicity is another "High Road" sort of attitude to go, huh?

 

Thanks baby for all the kind words of encouragement, love, and support you always give. Truly means a lot and well appreciated. .

 

HUGS,

[TruHart1]

I'd look at it as free publicity. I think the last few negative comments made about me I didn't even acknowledge. Defending yourself to someone that hasn't even had the pleasure of your company to make a judgement seems a bit silly to me. I'm sure you'd get an apology if you offered a free session Someone is a little pissy over you being on threads? They should start savig their pennies and find out why. Some are sitting home and trolling all day while you're in a new city every week doing your thing. Keep on doin!

 

Killian, this is an excellent observation!!!

 

TruHart1

 

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[JDXXX]

Killian, this is an excellent observation!!!

 

TruHart1

 

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[+ stevenkesslar]

Hey JD, you knew I had to say something before we put this to rest. You're always so enthusiastic & supportive when there's a thread by or about your fellow escort brothers/friends.... I'd like to know where they all were to support you in this thread?

 

I know other escorts have vanished off from the forum site altogether due to what you've mention, but won't such harsh negativity this stop me for one bit from being a loyal and active member.

 

I was up in SF when all this was posted, and I am not sure who is being vaguely referred to in the statements above, but I'll weigh in.

 

I have been silent for a while partly because a number of people whose judgment I trust said a number of things, including that I am saying too much, particularly about JD. I think you probably expressed this the most indirectly but succinctly, Boomer, when you used a certain word to describe my relationship with JD. Let's see, what was it? Oh, I know. "Fluffer." Geez, what a colorful and kind and purposeful use of the English language. Bravo!

 

Everybody on this site knows that I am all about giving a guy a hand, even more so when it is a fellow escort that I am friends with and admire, like JD. There are also certain escorts I am friends with and will defend to the death. Having said that, when somebody calls me somebody's fluffer it does underscore the point that everything positive I have to say has in fact been both said and heard, and I've reached the point of diminishing returns.

 

With that in mind, I'll take the contrarian point of view on this one and say this. JD, why don't you consider following my lead, and just completely shut the fuck up for a while? The way I figure it you have over 100 exemplary reviews as well as various testimonials from fans and friends like me spelling out that you are a wonderful human being. It doesn't get better than that. If people like what you have to say and how you say it, which I believe they do, one way to let people experience your positive energy and warmth is through its absence. Just a thought.

 

Meanwhile, as I said, I was up in SF at the Money Show and as always there is no shortage of geniuses claiming that they have worked out an algorithm that will tell you when you should get into the stock market, and when you should get out. Assuming this is possibly true, I figure there must also be some algorithm that could tell escorts like me and JD when to talk, and when to shut the fuck up. Could one of you engineers or mathematicians work that out for me? I am just a dumb fuck, and to state the obvious I go between these bouts of silence and then verbal diarrhea. There is a fine line that separates when escorts appear distant and unengaged and even just plain dumb, and when they appear to be patronizing and self-promoting. I can't figure out where that line is. Maybe you guys can give me a hand.

 

The irony is - spoiler alert! we are going back to the white twentysomething thing - the people who are the loudest critics on the site are also generally the ones who do the best job promoting the interests of the white twentysomething escorts who simply have to shut up and sit back and let their clients suck their cocks and propound on their many virtues and lack of human flaws, without saying a word. Silver Dollar is not one of these people, but I will never forget when he said to me over a decade ago: that the best escorts should in fact say little or nothing on this forum. They should act, and be viewed, like the best vintages of wine, and should simply be quietly and privately enjoyed for their captivating perfection. He was specifically referring to an actual escort that was based in NY at the time who I happened to know and have had sex with, and who did in fact epitomize everything great that can be said about the beauty and innocence of being a perfect white twenty something escort with hard muscles and a hard cock. Except, of course, they are hardly innocent. I have been acquaintances or friends or fuck buddies with a number of them, and actually several of them shared Silver Dollar's views and had what I would call an almost paranoid belief that they had to maintain an air of mystique about them, and the last thing they wanted to do was reveal any element of their personal lives or internal emotional world that might make them seem like something less than the perfect vintage wine, sitting there naked with a dripping erection, achieving their purpose in life by simply being savored and enjoyed in all their male glory.

 

For those of us who suffer from being less than the finest of vintages of wine, whether it is due to the pigmentation of our skin or the age on our driver's licenses or the details of our sexual turn ons or the genetics of our facial construction or physiques or whatever, there is a chance that we might use sites like this to promote ourselves - egads! - and then we will suffer for it. I say the best option might be to just avoid backlash when people start whispering or attacking by shutting the fuck up for a while and letting the reaction subside. If you care to say anything at all, that is. I have plenty of other useful things to do with my time. My garden has benefited from the fact that I shut the fuck up, put on my iPod, and just started playing in the dirt, instead of throwing it around at other people.

[+ WilliamM]

With that in mind, I'll take the contrarian point of view on this one and say this. JD, why don't you consider following my lead, and just completely shut the fuck up for a while? The way I figure it you have over 100 exemplary reviews as well as various testimonials from fans and friends like me spelling out that you are a wonderful human being. It doesn't get better than that. If people like what you have to say and how you say it, which I believe they do, one way to let people experience your positive energy and warmth is through its absence. Just a thought.

 

Good advice to everyone here. I missed you during your self-imposed time away from here. I asked you to come back by PM.

 

Your response: I will when I get some other things resolved. Makes sense to me, and likely everyone else.

[Lookin]

Hard to imagine the Forums if all of us 'overposters' suddenly decided to dummy up. http://illinoiscarry.com/forum/public/style_emoticons/default/faceless.png

 

I guess Daddy could turn the place into a Meditation Garden. http://bb.bbboy.net/moods/hayseed.gif

 

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[bigvalboy]

Hard to imagine the Forums if all of us 'overposters' suddenly decided to dummy up. http://illinoiscarry.com/forum/public/style_emoticons/default/faceless.png

 

I guess Daddy could turn the place into a Meditation Garden. http://bb.bbboy.net/moods/hayseed.gif

 

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It could get a bit quiet......

 

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