AJ Irons

[kaboom35]

Does anyone know if AJ Irons is still escorting? I don't want to bad mouth him at all as I heard he's a great guy but we did have an appointment booked two weeks ago and he was a no show/no call. Emailed him twice and texted him and still haven't heard back from him. Just wondering if maybe he suddenly quit? I just find it strange since he really is talked up alot around here.

 

thanks

[big-n-tall]

He is a good guy. Anyway he's ok and is still escorting. He misplaced his phone. So if you've been texting the number he uses on rentboy, he probably doesn't know you've been trying to contact him. I can't say how often he checks his email.

 

He's a member of this forum. Did you pm here?

[loverboy95]

I do hope he is okay. I sent him an e-mail to try to set up a meeting and after his first response, he didn't continue to reply.

[kaboom35]

I never saw his rentboy ad. I texted him the number that is on his daddy reviews page. Before that it was all email communication. Is it possible he's just not writing me back?? I guess i can try him on this site...i've never seen him post.

[+ azdr0710]

according to his posted plans here, he's in DC now and may be very busy.....was last on the board yesterday, but no posts......

 

http://m4m-forum.org/threads/washington-dc-6-24-6-29.105477/

 

after a great first meet very early in his career, he, unfortunately, made a couple late cancellations on me, too, and I've heard others have suffered the same.....he's a decent guy, though

[BabyBoomer]

Hi everyone!

 

I'll be visiting Washington, DC in a couple of weeks. Arrival date will be on Wednesday, June 24th, and Departure on the morning of Monday, June 29th. I'll be available for incalls and outcalls within city proper. If you'd like to spend some time together please phone call or email message me. Minimal texting is okay. Thank you all for your time and consideration and I look forward to my DC visit.

 

Cheers,

A.J. Irons

ajirons09@yahoo.com

714-743-5652

 

Rentboy Ad:

http://www.rentboy.com/Listing.aspx?lid=990434&scid=162054122&sp=2&pos=33&locid=1433&iid=518197&type=escort

 

Daddy's Reviews:

http://www.daddysreviews.com/search/Active/aj/aj_orangecounty

 

Kaboom, FYI.

[big-n-tall]

I do hope he is okay. I sent him an e-mail to try to set up a meeting and after his first response, he didn't continue to reply.

 

As I said he's ok. It's not my place to tell all his business. However, letting people on the forum know he is without his phone... the one he uses for contacts, I believe is acceptable.

 

To the op, I wouldn't assume he's not answering on purpose. I'm sure he will clear up whatever once you reach him.

[kaboom35]

I just emailed him through this site. Thank you. I do know he's in DC at the moment from what I found out on his rentboy ad. thanks

[bobchitown]

It takes 10 minutes to get a replacement phone complete with the old number. If contact by phone is how you make your money is think that would be a priority.

[LookingAround]

I had always heard good things through this message forum and every time he has come to my city I've emailed him about an appointment. He either never responded or on the occasions he did reply said he was booked up for the whole trip (really? Two weeks in advance)? I just figured I was on his "bad" list even though we have never met or had an appointment before.

[dcguy20]

I received an email from him today saying he was without his phone. He didn't respond to an earlier email from two weeks ago as he said he never received it.

[JDXXX]

I just figured I was on his "bad" list even though we have never met or had an appointment before.

 

Hi Looking,

 

Just out of curiosity, why would you be on his "bad list" if you never met with him or had a scheduled appointment with him before? Did you possibly do something to offend or upset him? Reason I'm asking because I know sometimes escorts would only put potential client on a "bad or black list" if the client has done something offensive in some form of way to the escort before possibly meeting in person face-to-face.

 

Do you recall if something went wrong during the course of your booking a session with him or said something that may have nub him the wrong way? Just curious as it doesn't sound like AJ to not get back to a client right away as he's usually quite good at being prompt and professional in getting back to people one form or another. That's from what I've witnessed and have heard from fellow clients of mine who have hired him know of him of being reliable of getting back to people in a timely fashion.

[dcguy20]

Sorry, but that sounds like you're putting the onus on Looking, when he wasn't the only one who had that happen recently. I, too, had this same thing happen with AJ, but he sent me an email last night saying he had been without his phone. But he didn't respond to an email I had sent to him two weeks ago (and this is from someone who has seen him before). Initially I thought it was something in my communication, but in rereading my email there wasn't anything in there out of the ordinary. He was extremely responsive the first time around. It doesn't sound like the usually professional and responsive AJ, but it isn't necessarily the fault of the client or prospective client. When someone doesn't respond as they have in the past, I chalk it up to something must be going on, on their end.

[JDXXX]

Sorry, but that sounds like you're putting the onus on Looking, when he wasn't the only one who had that happen recently. I, too, had this same thing happen with AJ, but he sent me an email last night saying he had been without his phone. But he didn't respond to an email I had sent to him two weeks ago (and this is from someone who has seen him before). Initially I thought it was something in my communication, but in rereading my email there wasn't anything in there out of the ordinary. He was extremely responsive the first time around. It doesn't sound like the usually professional and responsive AJ, but it isn't necessarily the fault of the client or prospective client. When someone doesn't respond as they have in the past, I chalk it up to something must be going on, on their end.

 

I see. Makes sense, but again - it was out of curiosity as I didn't mean no harm by my question or targeting asking just one person. I do know escorts will possibly not respond if something didn't go right or something may have happened between the two parties where things didn't pan out or mesh well, so that's why I thought maybe I would ask. No biggie. If this is something that's happens from time-to-time with AJ, then it must be he isn't getting the email in time or just late in responding which happens.

 

I pray he replaces his phone soon if it is lost. Hate to see him lose business due lack of phone access. .

[kaboom35]

I see. Makes sense, but again - it was out of curiosity as I didn't mean no harm by my question or targeting asking just one person. I do know escorts will possibly not respond if something didn't go right or something may have happened between the two parties where things didn't pan out or mesh well, so that's why I thought maybe I would ask. No biggie. If this is something that's happens from time-to-time with AJ, then it must be he isn't getting the email in time or just late in responding which happens.

 

I pray he replaces his phone soon if it is lost. Hate to see him lose business due lack of phone access. .

 

Your question posed no harm. I wouldn't worry about that. However I want to make it clear since I started this threat, i'm not mad or upset that AJ did a no show on our meeting. It was more of a disappointment. These things happen. Maybe i'm just a bit annoyed there was no follow up. I emailed him several times and I texted him. He didn't lose my business because of a lack of phone. It was because he forgot OR intentionally did not show up to my place for the in-call. Our only communication was through email and he never initiated us to ever exchange phone numbers. I still do very much would love to meet with him and have nothing bad to say. I don't comment on professionalism of escorts because I don't know what was or is happening on his end. I just hope we get to meet.

[killianjamesnyc]

I had always heard good things through this message forum and every time he has come to my city I've emailed him about an appointment. He either never responded or on the occasions he did reply said he was booked up for the whole trip (really? Two weeks in advance)? I just figured I was on his "bad" list even though we have never met or had an appointment before.

 

It's pretty believeable he could have been booked up. It's not uncommon to go on a two or three day trip and reach out to your regulars first to make appointments. I've heard good things, He is probably at that level.

[ajirons09]

Hello everyone. A few things I'd like to say...

 

1. I had a 6 night NYC private engagement with a long term client who's also a dear friend commencing on June 20th and concluding on the morning of Thursday, June 25th. As I was about to leave the hotel room I did one last sweep to make sure I wasn't leaving anything behind, but somehow failed to notice I was missing my "professional/business phone" (the escort phone). I didn't realize I was missing it until I was en route to JFK to catch a flight bound for DC. The NYC Hotel I stayed at contacted me late evening of Thursday, June 25th and informed they had located my mobile device. They asked if i wanted the device FedEx overnight delivery. I said, "yes". Unfortunately, the person who filled out the delivery form failed to check the fine print box that states "Saturday delivery acceptable". My device is now scheduled to arrive tomorrow, Monday, June 29th, but I return home tomorrow. The Donovan hotel (where I'm currently staying in DC) will be FedExing my phone on Monday, June 29th to Newport Beach and I'll probably receive by Tuesday, June 30th or Wednesday, July 1st. I don't know who's texted or called the "business phone" and, yes, it's been somewhat kind of crippling, but I was able to keep most of my appointments as some of my "regulars" rely on text message communication only. For those of you guys that know me very well you clearly are aware that I have a private phone that I solely use to communicate with my family, friends, and clients that are dear friends to me. I like to keep my escorting life and private life compartmentalized/seperate. I did reach out to a few of my DC guys through my private phone because there is trust and respect with these guys. Anyways, if you've tried contacting me on the 714-743-5652 number between this past Thursday, June 25th to present day...this is why you haven't heard from me.

 

2. Yes, I have cancelled on a few clients before and I've had a few clients cancel on me last minute too. I understand that canceling is sometimes necessary...Things happen...Shit happens. Some times there are unforeseen circumstances and situations that I have no control over and I have no other choice but to cancel. It could be my health, family, etc. Also, let me make it very clear that if I'm feeling tired or rundown before an appointment I'm going to reschedule (if client's schedule permits) or cancel. Reason being is that it's important to me that I deliver a high quality meeting and not half ass or me going through the motions or being robotic. Just as it's important to me that the person I'm spending time with has a great time it's also important to me that I have good time. Real people understand this and not so real people don't understand this.

 

3. I'm a one man operation...I don't have a secretary or personal assistant to take or return my phone calls, respond to my e-mail and text messages. I do this entirely on my own and do my best to respond to everyone...I do the best I can!!! That's all I can do. I do the research for my flights and hotels and determine if an overhead is reasonable and a good business move or cost prohibitive. I don't do as many tours as I used to early in my career because most of my time is now taken up by long term private clients. I believe this gradually happens to any good escort. When i'm with a client on a private engagement I don't have the amount of free/private time that I normally have when i'm doing a tour. My longterm clients will always come first and have priority over someone i've never met or a 1 hour romp in the sac. Quite frankly I've become particular of who I decide to spend my time with. I understand that clients hire for a wide variety of reasons, but for the past couple of years I enjoy spending my time with real people...people with substance and who treat me like a person and not a possession. I have many clients that have been hiring me by the hour or multi-hours for years and I continue to visit with them because they're good people. Just as I'm particular with the type of client(s) I take on there are clients who have preferences and particulars of what kind of escort they are looking to hire. My professional escorting career's success depends on interpersonal relationships. How I relate to people who engage my services and how they relate to me.

I could b financially much more successful if I were willing to deal with every person who was interested in engaging me. However, I chose to be more selective and always approach a new client with the stated or unstated dictum that it was a two way decision. I have turned down very profitable engagements because I knew or felt in my gut that the person was none I related to. They had questionable values or treated “service people” badly. If Donald

Trump called me tomorrow I would tell him my book was full…Call someone else! When I choose to bring my professional escorting career to a close (I'll retire not because the phone calls, email and text messages are no longer coming, but because I'll be ready to create a new chapter in my life) to enjoy well earned time to travel and pursue other interests I will have few regrets because I know I have added happiness and pleasure to the lives of many people who have engaged my services!!!

 

4. Kaboom. I received your email messages...We've both had some communication issues. Also, I simply haven't been home since June 1st. I'm finally returning home tomorrow...sick too! I'll call you once I retrieve my "business phone". If memory serves right I did include my number in one of our email messages that we exchanged. I may be incorrect. Either way, I'll get in touch soon. I do sense your frustration and disappointment and I'll touch base with you soon. Thank you for being patient.

 

5. I became very ill earlier today and cancelled my appointments for today. But, yet, I was still okay with my client who's also a friend, "Big-N-Tall" coming over to visit (off the clock). He was kind enough to bring me some Thai food (he knows i'm a fan of Thai food) and we enjoyed our food and chillaxed watching TV and catching up. I started dosing off (due to the prescription I started taking today) and then he politely said, "go to sleep bud" and excused himself.

 

Anyways, I don't really post much on the forum unless it's something positive or humorous. I like to avoid drama and arguments. Seems there's some times a lot of heated flareups on the forum with emotions flying and people misinterpreting or taking things the wrong way. Clearly, I understand that we all have different points of views too. I've never been a fan of negative people and energy... Only positive. I'm certainly not perfect, but I do the best I can...it's all I can do. If anyone has any questions, comments, or concerns feel free to send me an email. I've said everything I needed and wanted to say. Thank you all for your time.

 

A.J. Irons

714-743-5652

ajirons09@yahoo.com

 

Schedule:

6/29 - 7/9: Home base

7/10 - 7/12: Minneapolis, MN (private engagement)

7/13 - 7/15: NYC (private engagement)

7/15 - 7/16: NYC

7/17 - 7/19: Home base

7/20 - 7/21: Miami (private engagement)

7/22 - 7/24: Tampa, FL (private engagement)

7/24 - 7/26: Tampa

7/27 - 7/29: Home base

7/30 - 8/3: San Francisco

8/4 - 8/6: Miami (private engagement)

8/7 - 8/18: Home base

8/19 - 8/24: P-Town (private engagement)

[ajirons09]

I do hope he is okay. I sent him an e-mail to try to set up a meeting and after his first response, he didn't continue to reply.

If you'd like please resend your email message to my inbox at ajirons09@yahoo.com

[+ azdr0710]

excellent post, AJ.....nice to get some clarification and "behind the scenes" explanation.....do what it takes to feel better and rest.....looks like you're home until the 9th, so sleep in and then go hit the surf!

[ajirons09]

I had always heard good things through this message forum and every time he has come to my city I've emailed him about an appointment. He either never responded or on the occasions he did reply said he was booked up for the whole trip (really? Two weeks in advance)? I just figured I was on his "bad" list even though we have never met or had an appointment before.

"Looking Around"-When I firm up dates to do a tour I contact my regular guys exactly 2 weeks prior to my arrival date through an email message and text message informing them of my visit. By the time I arrive to the city my schedule has been filled up by early bookings. First come first serve basis and I prefer advanced bookings as I'm a fanatic of advanced planning and scheduling. Also, We've never met so why would you be on my blackball list. If I don't like someone's sexual particulars I'll let them know too. I don't want to waste anyone's time as I don't want anyone wasting my time either as it's my most valauble commodity.

[ajirons09]

Sorry, but that sounds like you're putting the onus on Looking, when he wasn't the only one who had that happen recently. I, too, had this same thing happen with AJ, but he sent me an email last night saying he had been without his phone. But he didn't respond to an email I had sent to him two weeks ago (and this is from someone who has seen him before). Initially I thought it was something in my communication, but in rereading my email there wasn't anything in there out of the ordinary. He was extremely responsive the first time around. It doesn't sound like the usually professional and responsive AJ, but it isn't necessarily the fault of the client or prospective client. When someone doesn't respond as they have in the past, I chalk it up to something must be going on, on their end.

DC Guy-As I stated in an email communication I sent to you yesterday...I did not receive the email you sent me 2 weeks ago. Technology isn't 100% reliable and there are technology gremlins.

[JDXXX]

Hey AJ,

 

Loved your post. Well said, buddy. Total Class Act, sweetie. . Must say, I'm very happy you responded as I too was wondering what happened to why a lot of awkward situations were happening, but knew it's not like you to just not respond or get back to people unless something unusual and unforseen happened, and it looks like my suspicions were right on the mark.

 

Glad you're okay, baby, and hope your feeling better as I'm sorry to hear your sick. Get some rest, baby boy, and I'll try and call you later in the week to see how your doing. .

 

HUGS,

[+ WhamIAm]

. Also, let me make it very clear that if I'm feeling tired or rundown before an appointment I'm going to reschedule (if client's schedule permits) or cancel. Reason being is that it's important to me that I deliver a high quality meeting and not half ass or me going through the motions or being robotic. Just as it's important to me that the person I'm spending time with has a great time it's also important to me that I have good time.

 

This. So much this. I wish all of your colleagues would take this approach. I'd much rather have the brief disappointment of having a guy cancel and/or reschedule than have him checked out or distracted during the entire appointment. The latter is much more disappointing (and much more expensive). Kudos to you, AJ. Feel better soon.

[kaboom35]

4. Kaboom. I received your email messages...We've both had some communication issues. Also, I simply haven't been home since June 1st. I'm finally returning home tomorrow...sick too! I'll call you once I retrieve my "business phone". If memory serves right I did include my number in one of our email messages that we exchanged. I may be incorrect. Either way, I'll get in touch soon. I do sense your frustration and disappointment and I'll touch base with you soon. Thank you for being patient.

 

Sorry for the trouble I caused. Didn't know this thread would get out of hand. I sent you an email to your yahoo account and hope we can clear this up. I'm sorry guys.

[Vato Loco]

I do hope he is okay. I sent him an e-mail to try to set up a meeting and after his first response, he didn't continue to reply.

 

That's the same thing that happened with me and Benjamin Nicholas.