Having an overnight

[rocky]

Hello again, sorry to post two questions one right

after the other. I'm having my first stay over

with an escort (he's staying with me). We've been

seeing each other for 4 years. I'm a bit nervous

about what I look like first thing in the morning;

should I be sure to get up earlier brush teeth and

clean up? I wouldn't want him to wake up and scream.

Any advice?? Thanks, Rocky

[Luv2play]

I'm an early riser so when I have someone sleep over, I am invariably the first to awake. I usually check the condition of my partner's morning "wood" and am usually delighted to find it has already arisen before me LOL. So without further ado, I give it some loving attention, proceeding very gently so as not to cause a rude awakening. I am usually pleased with the reaction of my "sleeping" partner, as he is with me. I say, forget what you look like and get his mind on other things!!!}(

[Rick Munroe]

Before he wakes up, you should definitely remove the cold cream and curlers and slip into a purple lace teddy.

 

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[Guest DevonSFescort]

I'd say that much more important than what you look like is knowing what he's like in the morning. Some escorts like to go right at it first thing; others need a little while to wake up, have a cup of coffee and/or get a little food in them. I'd ask him about this the night before, or even before the date. I think it's easier for a lot of escorts to be "on" the night before when they've been preparing themselves for their date than it is when they've just woken up, especially if they're not morning people. You're more likely to have a disappointing AM experience if your escort feels "caught off guard" or badgered in any way. (Another good thing to check in on is sleeping styles -- are one or both of you cuddlers, or do you tend to need your own side of the bed, etc.; are you light or heavy sleepers, that kind of thing. I've had overnights where we slept "Rob and Laura" style so we both got our rest. There's no right or wrong way but talking before hand can avoid a clash of expectations.)

 

Regardless, it can't be a bad idea to rinse your mouth with mouthwash, but (repeating what I said in the healthy mouth thread), you should not brush your teeth right before oral sex or deep kissing as the cuts it creates in the gums can facilitate STD transmission.

 

Have fun. Since you've known this guy four years, hopefully you can feel comfortable communicating your hopes for both the night before and the morning after to him, and finding a pace that works for both of you.