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hey guys. I'm new to the forums but have hired a bit. All of my sessions with escorts have been boyfriend experience but no anal. I've only bottomed twice and they were ok experiences with guys I met on grindr. The guys had average size penis. However I booked a session with a escort with a 9-10 fat inch cock and has really talked me into letting me bottom for him tomorrow. I trust him after our phone conversations to let me experiment bottoming for him. He said he will go nice and slow and I've booked three hours so we have time to go slow. Please please please give me advice for the best way to make sure I'm ultra clean for his cock. I'll be mortified if there is a mess and I don't want any awkwardness. By the time I'll meet with him I would of not eaten for 13 hours. So that should help, right? Should I get enema? Please inbox me. I'm really excited but nervous about being clean. Sorry this isn't the most glamorous of posts

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Oliver Lee Martin Newbie

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Multiple enemas especially if you're new. You can always practice with toys and fingers. Liquid diet or even better yet liquid courage to keep your energy. Try straddling him first cowgirl since you're more in control of the penetration and breathe.

Xenon79 Explorer

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Multiple enemas especially if you're new.

 

with the liquid that comes with it or dump it out and use warm water? My appointment is in 12 hours. I stopped eating an hour or so ago. I'm going to get the enema when I wake up in the morning

Oliver Lee Martin Newbie

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You could still run to a drug store and attach on of those hoses to your shower head since you probably will be bottoming more than once. You can always get to those refillable plastic red balls if you don't want that hanging in your shower forever. Whatever you do, rinse repeat, rinse repeat, etc.

purplekow Grand Master

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and whatever you do.. don't do what someone else on here did and say "just shove it in!"

HEY HEY HEY It seemed like a good idea at time. Now, upon further reflection, it probably was a bad choice.

Italiano Grand Master

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I feel that for a first timer those hoses can be too much.

A couple of hours prior to the meeting you should feel up a few times one of those "Fleet" plastic bottles with room temp water (I would not use that liquid, it can stimulate too much) and expelling it each time (don't put TOO much water inside, you could reach parts of yr bowls with water you don't need to!) until water comes out "clear" should be absolutely ok. After last bottle stay a bit more seated untile ALL liquid comes out. Starving for 12 hours sounds a bit too much for me but hey, you are comfortable with that go ahead, it will definitely make it even more secure.

Enjoy it! Let us know!

Jax92 Rookie

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with the liquid that comes with it or dump it out and use warm water? My appointment is in 12 hours. I stopped eating an hour or so ago. I'm going to get the enema when I wake up in the morning

Not sure if it's too late, but do not use the solution that comes in the enema. The solution is designed to soften stool for people that are having difficulty defecating. You simply want to clean yourself out. For most, a simple rinsing out (douche) is sufficient if you defecate beforehand. However, if you want a deeper cleaning, you will need to repeat it several times at least 2-3 hours beforehand.

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I also think that starving for 12 hours might be counterproductive. If your body goes into fat burning mode, or ketosis, it can cause bad breath. If you're starved, it could also effect your energy and enjoyment of your session. I'm thinking that eating something like a piece of toast or a few crackers an hour or two before your session would be better.

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hey guys. I'm new to the forums but have hired a bit. All of my sessions with escorts have been boyfriend experience but no anal. I've only bottomed twice and they were ok experiences with guys I met on grindr. The guys had average size penis. However I booked a session with a escort with a 9-10 fat inch cock and has really talked me into letting me bottom for him tomorrow. I trust him after our phone conversations to let me experiment bottoming for him. He said he will go nice and slow and I've booked three hours so we have time to go slow. Please please please give me advice for the best way to make sure I'm ultra clean for his cock. I'll be mortified if there is a mess and I don't want any awkwardness. By the time I'll meet with him I would of not eaten for 13 hours. So that should help, right? Should I get enema? Please inbox me. I'm really excited but nervous about being clean. Sorry this isn't the most glamorous of posts

 

Let him finger yourself with lubricant (a small dildo would better) and sit on his cock at first so you can control the process. KY generic is great for relaxing but that's just my experience...

 

Don't worry, it's not rocket science, make sure you clean and avoid eating vegetables or anything with fiber in excess or the cleaning process will take longer.

 

Have fun and post a review!

Oliver Lee Martin Newbie

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KY is your grandfather's baby boomer/silent generation era lube. Things have evolved since. For anal sex, silicone based lubes are better. You can't use it with toys though since it deteriorates toys eventually.

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If your going to bottom for a big dick clean out past your 3rd sphincter so you don't ruin the sheets. If you have trouble relaxing use a suppository called Spasphon it will really open you up.

Phil_musc Mentor

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Now this IS terrible news. What was the French government thinking? And what will they think of next? Really, these cost-cutting measures are just so- er uh, well - draconian. Is this the sort of thing that might spread beyond France?

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KY is your grandfather's baby boomer/silent generation era lube. Things have evolved since. For anal sex, silicone based lubes are better. You can't use it with toys though since it deteriorates toys eventually.
Silicone lube reacting with toys depends on the quality of the lube and the material of the toy. High quality lube will not react with pure silicone toys. However, it's always recommended to spot test any lube on a toy before use to be sure there's no reaction. You should also test each new bottle because lube formulations can change.
marylander1940 Grand Master

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Now this IS terrible news. What was the French government thinking? And what will they think of next? Really, these cost-cutting measures are just so- er uh, well - draconian. Is this the sort of thing that might spread beyond France?

 

I guess they're cutting the cost of their healthcare. I wonder if obesity is a national security threat in France as it is in our country.

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I don't know about you nasty ass people, but my bum is as clean as the purest driven snow, and it comes with a nice minty fresh scent. :p :P :p

 

by the way.. don't use cinnamon lube. :)

Xenon79 Explorer

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Hey everyone. Thanks all for the advice. The bottoming thing went well. I didn't even get an enema. Just emptied and cleaned out thoroughly a few hours before session. I also didn't eat 13 hours prior. The escort was nice but not the experience I was hoping for. But with that aside I was all clean and took his huge 9 inch with no problem.

sincitymix Mentor

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Hey everyone. Thanks all for the advice. The bottoming thing went well. I didn't even get an enema. Just emptied and cleaned out thoroughly a few hours before session. I also didn't eat 13 hours prior. The escort was nice but not the experience I was hoping for. But with that aside I was all clean and took his huge 9 inch with no problem.

 

Woot woot!! :) now we just need to find someone who will give you the experience you want :)

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