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Yes there is! Opening up your 2nd and possibly 3rd sphincters is key for being able to comfortably take length. Unlike your first sphincter these are involuntary muscles so it takes time but its well worth it. There is FANTASTIC brand of butt toys called Square Peg.

 

When my boyfriend found my collection of Square Peg toys a few of them disappeared and ended up in his apartment. This toy in particular is his favorite and mine too

 

http://www.squarepegtoys.com/shop/sigmund/

 

If your going to buy any of these toys I would suggest the bronze because they are squishy over the firm black ones.

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Yes there is! Opening up your 2nd and possibly 3rd sphincters is key for being able to comfortably take length. Unlike your first sphincter these are involuntary muscles so it takes time but its well worth it. There is FANTASTIC brand of butt toys called Square Peg.

 

When my boyfriend found my collection of Square Peg toys a few of them disappeared and ended up in his apartment. This toy in particular is his favorite and mine too

 

http://www.squarepegtoys.com/shop/sigmund/

 

If your going to buy any of these toys I would suggest the bronze because they are squishy over the firm black ones.

Thanks! I'd heard of a 2nd sphincter, never a third. I'll certainly look at this toy.

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I would also suggest your position matters... if you find pain when he is in deep with you on your hands and knees, try flipping over on your back or vice versa Or re-position your legs... having them hiked up with your knees to your ears (while fun) may allow for him to penetrate too deep. Typically the most "comfortable" position is also the one that lets you relax and enjoy it. Personally for me, that is with me on top for at least the begining until I get used to my partner's size. Once used to it, then I am good with him pounding away....

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Wow - $149.00 + shipping!

 

I don't suppose they ever have a sale?

These toys are medical grade silicon and if you take care of them they will last forever. There are a few places where you can get them on sale but you have to keep your eye out. I usually buy my toys when they are 30% off at my local fetish store.

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These toys are medical grade silicon and if you take care of them they will last forever. There are a few places where you can get them on sale but you have to keep your eye out. I usually buy my toys when they are 30% off at my local fetish store.

Some of those toys look as though they could put your eye out, from the inside. Perhaps one of the porno houses would like to do a remake of Christmas Story, the ChrisW Story with all of his partners warning him that he is going to put his eye out with that thing.

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Some of those toys look as though they could put your eye out, from the inside. Perhaps one of the porno houses would like to do a remake of Christmas Story, the ChrisW Story with all of his partners warning him that he is going to put his eye out with that thing.

 

...or "The ChrisW Story", a remake with a dildo lamp in the front window, perhaps? :D

 

TruHart1 :cool:

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Yes there is! Opening up your 2nd and possibly 3rd sphincters is key for being able to comfortably take length. Unlike your first sphincter these are involuntary muscles so it takes time but its well worth it. There is FANTASTIC brand of butt toys called Square Peg.

 

When my boyfriend found my collection of Square Peg toys a few of them disappeared and ended up in his apartment. This toy in particular is his favorite and mine too

 

http://www.squarepegtoys.com/shop/sigmund/

 

If your going to buy any of these toys I would suggest the bronze because they are squishy over the firm black ones.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/External_anal_sphincter

I think there is also a cartilaginous ring in addition. I love Wiki :) the things you can find :)

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Yes there is! Opening up your 2nd and possibly 3rd sphincters is key for being able to comfortably take length. Unlike your first sphincter these are involuntary muscles so it takes time but its well worth it. There is FANTASTIC brand of butt toys called Square Peg.

 

When my boyfriend found my collection of Square Peg toys a few of them disappeared and ended up in his apartment. This toy in particular is his favorite and mine too

 

http://www.squarepegtoys.com/shop/sigmund/

 

If your going to buy any of these toys I would suggest the bronze because they are squishy over the firm black ones.

When one cleans out does it typically clean all 3 sphincter areas or does one have to go in deeper with the cleaning hose to reach those areas? Please all chime in!

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When one cleans out does it typically clean all 3 sphincter areas or does one have to go in deeper with the cleaning hose to reach those areas? Please all chime in!

 

It depends on how clean you want to be. I am often astonished when I play with bottoms who only use a bulb to clean out. The clean it gets you doesn't come close to a shower head attachment. When fisting or doing a night of shenanigans typically you do a deep clean out that involves getting water past your 3rd sphincter, on me thats about 10.5 inches in (see CutlerX or Rocco Steel).

 

What a lot of guys don't realize is if you do a clean out that deep you should be clean for about 24 hours. On an event weekend like folsom or IML I will typically do this kind of clean out once a day because I know I will be topping and bottoming every day. You don't have to go more than a few inches in with the hose to get that kind of a clean out but you do have to let yourself fill up with water. There are also attachments you can buy that are about 8-10 inches long do help get a deep clean out. Everyone is a little bit different so it takes practice to learn how to clean yourself out properly. If your doing deep clean outs remember to take probiotics it makes a HUGE difference in quality of life.

 

If you don't feel like traveling with a pair of pliers like I do you can always get a attachment that collects water from the shower head. This is what I travel with and it was a great investment.

http://static.wixstatic.com/media/283a79_fecef66c313847e2ac50dd5cf8997de1.jpg_srz_723_964_85_22_0.50_1.20_0.00_jpg_srz

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Thank you Chris W. I have one that collects water but I should replace soon as it's plastic and there is already a hole in the tube. How long does it take you when you clean all these sphincters? It takes me at least an hour, I would do it till it's clean and then continue some more just to be sure and then I'm dirty again. Lol. So I start over.

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It generally takes me about an hour at the longest and I have found using a attachment thats longer expedites the process

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Thanks for your insights Chris. As a newbie bottom on this site I'm interested in anyone's thoughts. Early on, when I had not cleaned up enough I had reactions from 'shit happens' to total rejection from guys I was paying (no-one in this forum). (One guy thought that douching was a bad idea in that that sort of cleaning was unhealthy.)

 

It depends on how clean you want to be. I am often astonished when I play with bottoms who only use a bulb to clean out.

 

Now you've made me nervous. I use a bulb but two or three charges before I let it out, and repeat several times. I never thought being a bottom would be so difficult!

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Thanks for your insights Chris. As a newbie bottom on this site I'm interested in anyone's thoughts. Early on, when I had not cleaned up enough I had reactions from 'shit happens' to total rejection from guys I was paying (no-one in this forum). (One guy thought that douching was a bad idea in that that sort of cleaning was unhealthy.)

 

 

 

Now you've made me nervous. I use a bulb but two or three charges before I let it out, and repeat several times. I never thought being a bottom would be so difficult!

Regardless of paying or not its polite to do a proper clean out. No one likes shit on there dick...well maybe some but thats a whole different thread. If your unsure of how to do a good clean out always feel free to ask your escort they should be more than happy to give you some tips. I would much rather have a client ask how to clean out than have the maid say a prayer to jesus when she walks in the room the next day. There is no embarrassment in asking for tips to clean out or asking to do a touch up once you get to your escorts place. If you do clean out at your escorts home or hotel remember to close the bathroom door, it may seem obvious but you would be surprised how many people leave it open and try to carry on a conversation while they hose out.

 

FYI if your playing with someone who won the genetic lottery down there make sure to clean out past your 3rd sphincter.CBpDHbmUIAEPolE.jpg:large

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