That occasionally awkward moment at the end . . .

[+ WhamIAm]

Met with a very cute, sweet boy -- first time with him. We had scheduled 2 hours while setting up. By and large we had great fun. Call it a 7 or 7.5 out of 10. After he came, we took a shower, came out, and he was hopping into his Hollisters getting ready to leave. All good. We were done. I'm pretty much on a huge endorphine buzz after a good roll in the sheets. But I noticed we'd only gone a little short of an hour.

 

I usually put the cash for the time I've scheduled with a guy plus usual tip somewhere where it can be seen, with a little more stashed nearby if we go long or I want to give him a more substantial tip. In any event, I'm wondering, given our early termination ( implicitly a mutual decision) what's the right move - (a) pay him for the two hours, (b) pay him for one hour with a sizable tip, © ask him what he thinks is fair?

 

Still new to the game, so appreciate opinions.

 

(And, yes, the long term solution is to not schedule more than an hour on the first meet. I know, and that's what I should have done. I'm just not a one hour guy (it's all about the foreplay) and this is only the second time that a good experience scheduled for a longer time has ended within an hour (first time the guy -- very stand-up dude -- told me he only expected an hour's rate).

[bigvalboy]

You should pay for the two hours, the agreed upon amount. The time to negotiate is in the beginning, not at the end. You go to the restaurant and eat the steak, you pay for the steak. If you generally don't last two hours, don't schedule two hours.

[+ purplekow]

You booked two hours you should pay for two hours. He should stay for two hours unless you tell him it is okay to leave. i have had one occasion with a retired escort, where I booked two hours and he thought we booked an hour and he pushed things to get me done in the hour. After I came, I asked if he realized i booked two hours and it was clear he did not. I offered to pay for an hour or have him join me for a second round. His clothes dropped off and he was back in bed in 15 seconds. He opted for a doubleheader and so he had to work a bit harder to get that second hour to be as satisfying as the first. He succeeded.

[Electra225]

One possible solution:

 

Book the escort for an hour and be prepared, on your part, to go longer (an extra hour). That way, if the appointment goes well and you both feel comfortable extending the session, you already have the cash/funds "in reserve" and the escort is pleasantly pleased. I typically book an escort for an hour (and ready to go for an extra hour if all is well and things work out), but will typcially book a masseur for 90 minutes to 2 hours (I love massages and feel that one hour is simply too short for me).

[leanbtm]

You booked 2 hours, you pay for two hours unless solely the controllable fault of the escort. He bases his schedule and income on that, he may have turned down booking another client due to blocking out 3 hours for your 2 hours ( figuring a half travel or so each way).

[maninsoma]

I'm confused by what I'm reading. Is everyone really of the opinion that this escort deserves pay for the full two hours when he was the one getting dressed to leave early -- after less than a full hour had passed? It would be one thing if the client was forcing the guy to leave, but it sounds like the escort assumed that since he had reached orgasm than the appointment was done.

 

I do think that the OP should have done what someone else did: Remind the escort that they had scheduled two hours, and ask him if he wanted to stay for the full two hours and get paid for that or if he was only expecting to be paid for one hour.

 

You cannot have it both ways, i.e., "I'm paid for my time, not for sexual services" yet consider an appointment finished, regardless of how much time has elapsed, just because orgasm has been reached.

 

My other comment: It's reasonable to leave the agreed upon amount out in view, but I wouldn't include a tip in that amount. What if you decide you don't want to tip the guy at the end because of poor performance? You're going to take money out of the pile before handing it to him, or you're going to ask for some of it back if he's already grabbed it? That would be awkward, to say the least. I always have the tip I intend to give somewhere else so I can easily grab it when I decide to tip.

[Amoco]

The only thing I would add is that it can be helpful to make a quick statement at the beginning of the session to the effect of "Really excited to see you and just want to confirm before we start that this is a two hour (or whatever) session, right?".

 

I agree that it would be appropriate to pay him in full for the two hours booked, but you would be well within your rights to expect him to stay the full time. Mani soma'so point that you can't have it both ways is well taken, but I liked Purple's style in asking him if he'd rather leave and get pain for an hour or stay and get paid for the scheduled two hours, was well done. At the very least, I wouldn't tip if I got one hour and paid for two.

[Nvr2Thick]

I'm confused by what I'm reading. Is everyone really of the opinion that this escort deserves pay for the full two hours when he was the one getting dressed to leave early -- after less than a full hour had passed? It would be one thing if the client was forcing the guy to leave, but it sounds like the escort assumed that since he had reached orgasm than the appointment was done.

 

The escort didn't necessarily try to leave early. The OP was satisfied and allowed the escort to leave the bed (or dungeon -- I don't want to assume) and shower and dress. He didn't notice for himself that they had finished early until the escort was dressing. My impression of the account is that the OP did not feel rushed or feel like the escort had tried to scam him out of an hour.

 

I've been in similar situations and have paid with no complaint. I book two hours based on what I want to have happen. I'll plan a session with a huge hung top, for example, and I arrange a couple hours because that's what it can take to get me comfortable and to the appropriate level of trust. Sometimes the physical logistics of penetration can take some time. I can think of two different sessions where an escort overwhelmed me and made it all go down quickly. I was thoroughly satisfied, and the escort had delivered on everything we had discussed with no sensation of trying to cut things short. I saw no point in keeping him around to satisfy an obligation. I paid full rate with a good tip each time.

 

I have been with escorts who will bring it in just over an hour. I can remember a guy who drew my attention to the fact that (barely) we went into the second hour, and that I therefore owed him for two. I had every intention of paying for what we arranged, but this one got no tip from me.

[BabyBoomer]

Hey Wham- As I post this you've gotten 9 responses, do.you intend to tell us how you handled the situation?

 

~ Boomer ~

[+ WhamIAm]

Hey, Boomer -- you are psychic -- just got settled in after getting home from business/pleasure trip where the curious incident in question occurred.

 

First, thanks for the many (and varied) responses!! Interesting to read and helpful to consider!

 

Soooooooo,

 

Filling in the gaps based on the comments

 

Like I said, we talked, we played, he reached the inevitable (well, not always) conclusion. I didn't, but that's hydraulics issues on my part. I'd have been perfectly happy to cuddle, chat, try for round 2, whatever. He invited me to shower with him. Sounded awfully good to me. We toweled off, then he immediately went straight for his skivvies and started dressing. I asked what time it was, just in my endorphin haze and with no other real purpose. He didn't respond, but by this time I'd found both my glasses and the alarm clock. As an aside, he'd said earlier that he was going to have a long night because he was going to a friend's birthday party afterwards. Again, at the time, that was lost in the haze to me.

 

What I did

 

I paid him for the full two hours, but surreptitiously removed the tip I'd usually give for a fun two hours from the stack. (Yeah, I have to reconsider that approach. Once again, though, I'm usually a bit goofy at the end. Started doing that because once I forgot to to tip a guy who was pretty damn awesome (yes, the haze again) and felt crappy about it afterwards.)

 

My takeaway

 

Looking back, I think I'd go something along T-Guy's approach -- if he's taking the initiative to leave significantly before the scheduled time (an hour or more), I'd wittily (well, limited by my wit) raise it and say "Do you want to call it an hour?" and go from there.

 

Since I've been hiring, I've thought a lot about what these guys do and the challenges of maintaining intimacy (conversationally or otherwise) with a stranger where the uniting element is, at least initially, cash. He's a human being, not a trained seal. So, the thought of insisting this guy stay the full time and "perform" some more never even occurred to me. If he wants to go, godspeed and no hard feelings.

 

OTOH,

 

You cannot have it both ways, i.e., "I'm paid for my time, not for sexual services" yet consider an appointment finished, regardless of how much time has elapsed, just because orgasm has been reached.

 

In my limited (but growing) experience, I've always considered the escorts I hire independent businessmen. I'm one as well. My commodity is my time and expertise. If I schedule a two hour meeting with a client and it only goes for an hour, I'm not going to charge him for two. One exception -- if the client has flown me to another city for meetings/whatever, and we get done early, I'll try to do takeaway work for him, work on another client's matters, or hit happy hour if I have a friend in town. Otherwise, I'm going to charge him/her for my full time and say so.

 

If you're going to run a small business, certain overhead is inescapable. Bad debts, no shows, loss of planned billable hours just due to circumstances. They're a cost of doing business. It's the businessman's job to figure out how to minimize them.

 

What really convinced me was a PM I got from a very prominent (and, for responding, very cool) escort. His take -- pay for an hour plus whatever tip you feel appropriate. His reasoning -- a skilled escort would manage the session to extend enough into the next hour where the time ending a little early isn't an issue. Makes a huge amount of sense to me.

 

As for me, I don't feel shafted, it is what it is. I write it off as a (perhaps exorbitantly) large tip. FWIW, I don't think I'd hire him again, but for reasons not related to this. Nice, hot guy, had a lot of fun, but not so much fun that it would keep me from trying other fish in the ocean.

 

Anyway, thanks for the input. I usually always learn something here.

[Nvr2Thick]

What really convinced me was a PM I got from a very prominent (and, for responding, very cool) escort. His take -- pay for an hour plus whatever tip you feel appropriate. His reasoning -- a skilled escort would manage the session to extend enough into the next hour where the time ending a little early isn't an issue. Makes a huge amount of sense to me.

 

 

That's a great way of looking at it. Many of our responses have been along the lines of "you booked two hours and you're obligated to pay for two hours", but it's true; if you book two hours with a professional escort he should be putting his best effort into giving you a two hour experience. A good escort should have skills in reading the client's cues and pacing the session so that it isn't a rush to the main event, but so the "break the ice" and foreplay is enjoyable and doesn't feel like killing time.

[Bargara Leatherboy]

If its a massage or a full service regardless of when the "moment" occurs, I will never rebook with someone who finishes up then. I don't hire for the moment but the whole time agreed.

[Juan Vancouver]

I got a little late to the party but I would like to share my opinion.

 

I wholeheartedly agree with this:

 

You booked two hours you should pay for two hours. He should stay for two hours unless you tell him it is okay to leave.

 

You booked 2 hours, you pay for two hours unless solely the controllable fault of the escort. He bases his schedule and income on that, he may have turned down booking another client due to blocking out 3 hours for your 2 hours ( figuring a half travel or so each way).

 

Many men book more than one hour because they want the freedom of knowing that there will be nobody rushing through the appointment and knowing that they can pace themselves however they want. This is of paramount importance for a few men, who would be unable to relax otherwise. Sometimes these sessions end earlier to the full satisfaction of the client and it is he who decides it's better to pack it up than to try to drag something and tar the session by forcing things. Sometimes they feel like they would actually love to lay in bed or have a drink together or just hang out, and they find this time debriefing helps them with the come down and helps them to assimilate the experience.

 

In both cases they pay for the scheduled time gladly.

 

The only situation in which it is acceptable to cut a session short and not pay for he allowed time is if the session is tanking because of the escort, if he is drunk, tired, rude, disconnected, you name it. But if you were careful to book with a professional escort and for whatever reason this happens, he will be the first one suggesting to cut things short.

 

One possible solution: Book the escort for an hour and be prepared, on your part, to go longer (an extra hour). That way, if the appointment goes well and you both feel comfortable extending the session, you already have the cash/funds "in reserve" and the escort is pleasantly pleased.

 

In my opinion, this is what works best. One caveat: if you are tempted about the possibility of extending for two or more hours, let your escort know and ask if his schedule will allow that at the time you book. He might be going to dinner with friends after that or might have scheduled a session with his trainer. If you tell him there might be a possibility to extend he will do his best to keep his schedule flexible.

 

In my limited (but growing) experience, I've always considered the escorts I hire independent businessmen. I'm one as well. My commodity is my time and expertise. If I schedule a two hour meeting with a client and it only goes for an hour, I'm not going to charge him for two.

 

I understand how you may think these two professions are similar but there is a huge difference. In your profession you are hired by the hour to share your expertise in order to solve a problem. You are hired to solve a problem, and as soon as the problem is fixed you are no longer needed. When you two schedule a session, it is with solving this problem in mind. The allotted time is an estimate of how long you think the problem might take to be solved. Superfluous time shouldn't be billable.

 

On the other hand when a client books a multi hour session with an escort, he books because he wants to spend all that time with the escort. There is no outcome, there is no problem, there is no solution. A client doesn't book three hours (or till he cums.) The only sign that the session is over is when the client decides that it is over. For that reason it is up to the client to decide beforehand how long he thinks he is willing to commit for a session with the escort. If resolution is reached before the allotted time it's up to the client to ask to stay together till the end or send the escort away.

 

It's the escort's responsibility to be present, able, willing and excited for as long as the scheduled time lasts or as long as the client requires his presence, whatever comes earlier.

 

Its the client's responsibility to honour the agreement by paying in full the agreed rate and to clearly let the escort know when he is ready to part ways.

 

 

Lastly, many contributors to this forum have openly suggested novice clients to book for two or three hours when it comes to busy escorts to make sure they won't be able to over book their schedule and show up tired or unable to perform. In a few occasions it has been these same clients who then advocate for the client's right to end whenever they are satisfied and only pay for the time they booked.

 

This seriously fucks with your escort's schedule and finances. It is possible some escorts will smile and let you do as you please, but I assure you that if you do this to an escort he will do everything in his power not to see you again. I think sometimes clients forget that this is the escort's livelihood and their choices seriously impact the escort's ability to subsist. This is not a hobby for your escort. If he deals with you in a professional way, he deserves to be treated the same way.

[maninsoma]

If its a massage or a full service regardless of when the "moment" occurs, I will never rebook with someone who finishes up then. I don't hire for the moment but the whole time agreed.

 

I don't know why so my posters are ignoring this. This escort decided to get dressed and leave after less than one hour of a two hour appointment had passed. And while the first posted hinted at this, the subsequent post indicated that the client hadn't even reached orgasm -- only the escort. Given that it's also sometimes difficult for me to reach orgasm, I don't fault the client for having the point of view that it was okay that that didn't happen for him during this appointment. But what sort of "professional" escort rushes away from a two hour appointment just because he came? Why would anyone think this guy deserves two hours pay or even put him in the category of "professional" escort? That's hustler type behavior. Maybe if the guy hadn't been so focused on his own needs, he could have spent the entire two hours with the client and, even if orgasm didn't occur, the client could have at least enjoyed another hour of intimacy.

 

Just like I don't like clock watchers as a client, I'm not a clock watcher as a client. It wouldn't diminish my opinion if someone left an appointment a few minutes early. But after less than half of the scheduled time had passed? That's behavior that's worthy of a negative review, even if the guy matched his description and was fun in the sack.

[BaronArtz]

I am a bit late to this party myself. An interesting thread! What is far more awkward to me is the opposite of what is discussed here, i.e. when you show up on time for an incall and the escort is not ready yet because he is running late with another client. It happened to me once with a guy I see regularly. I showed up on time, rang the doorbell a few times, no answer. I texted the escort to say I was downstairs. The escort came downstairs to the lobby, apologized and said his previous client was still showering up after the session - could I please wait outside for 10 minutes? It was a rainy night. As I am waiting, I see an elderly gentleman leave the building. Not that any of this matters, but I found him repugnant in appearance. For reasons that I still can't explain, I had a feeling of disgust and even jealousy. I met with the escort and asked him whether 'the gentleman with the blue top coat was his previous appointment'. He was. Talk about a mood killer!

 

If I didn't like this escort so much, and if he hadn't been somebody I see regularly, I would not have gone through with the appointment. I told the escort how painful an experience that was for me. Luckily, he is a pro and it never happened again.

[maninsoma]

I am a bit late to this party myself. An interesting thread! What is far more awkward to me is the opposite of what is discussed here, i.e. when you show up on time for an incall and the escort is not ready yet because he is running late with another client. It happened to me once with a guy I see regularly. I showed up on time, rang the doorbell a few times, no answer. I texted the escort to say I was downstairs. The escort came downstairs to the lobby, apologized and said his previous client was still showering up after the session - could I please wait outside for 10 minutes? It was a rainy night. As I am waiting, I see an elderly gentleman leave the building. Not that any of this matters, but I found him repugnant in appearance. For reasons that I still can't explain, I had a feeling of disgust and even jealousy. I met with the escort and asked him whether 'the gentleman with the blue top coat was his previous appointment'. He was. Talk about a mood killer!

 

If I didn't like this escort so much, and if he hadn't been somebody I see regularly, I would not have gone through with the appointment. I told the escort how painful an experience that was for me. Luckily, he is a pro and it never happened again.

 

I've had that happen to me a few times. While I think nothing of a doctor or other professional seeing clients back-to-back, one would think that both escorts and masseurs would at least have a half-hour in between appointments. Not only does one need to change sheets on either a bed or massage table, but one presumably needs to clean oneself up (wash off oil or cum) as well. A masseur or escort who schedules someone from 9 to 10 and then someone else from 10 to 11 isn't professional, in my opinion. One of the oddest occurrences of this for me was with a guy I didn't end up staying for. After making me walk around/wait outside because he wasn't ready, when he finally was ready and let me inside his apartment he was on the phone with another client. He was telling that client to arrive at a time that was only 40 minutes from the current time, and he had just let me inside for what was supposed to be a 90 minute massage. As soon as he hung up the phone, I told him that he obviously was more interested in having a high volume of clients versus actually providing what he was advertising and I told him I was leaving. He tried protesting, but I suggested that he check his watch and tell me how he was going to give me a 90 minute massage when he just scheduled someone else to arrive in 40 minutes. That stopped his protesting.

[Bart]

Dear What I am:

When I first started hiring, oh so many years go, 3 hours was my standard hire, sometimes 2. Sometimes I would get lucky and the gentleman could go two times, which is usually what I hope for but I think rude to ask for up front. As time moved on I developed that 2 hours for gentlemen I enjoy and spend time with, I really like bed conversation and even if the gentleman or both of us goes and cleans up I usually try to get us to lay back down. Most often the gentleman will say something like "Man I am close." I have been doing this long enough and my inner clock will usually be with in 5 minutes so I know we are early and a statement like this from the gentleman, especially experienced means "I can cum now and that will be all that is going to happen during our appt." Most of the time I am good with it, I would rather it cum at natural point rather than this frantic pace at the end. I am the unusual guy that does not really care if I cum or not during the appt.

So when he does cum I usually hop out of bed and while he is disposing of the accessories I get hot wash cloth and have him lay down while I do the clean up and then lay back down next him and enjoy the moment of connection. If it ends early but happily and fulfilled, if he leaves 30 min early okay I pay the full but like you the 30 min becomes his tip.

 

For new appts. I usually go 1-1/2 hrs. This is usually a good sweet spot. Most gentlemen are use to the 1 hour appt. This actually gives us plenty of time for a conversation get to know one another and time at the end with out that frantic got to cum pace at the end.

 

I think you did the right thing paying him, but I do like T Guys comment as good way to handle things.

[tom1980]

By getting dressed, the escort conveyed the message that he wanted to end the session early (especially when taken in conjunction with his comments about going to a party after the appointment). Since it was his choice to end things early, I would've paid him for one hour. If he wanted to stay for the second hour and get paid for it, he easily could have made that happen. For example, I had an appointment with AJ Irons a couple months ago, and things finished up a little early. After we got cleaned up a little bit, AJ told me to roll over and gave me a massage while we talked. I would've been content leaving 20 minutes before our allotted time was up, but AJ is such a professional that he had a plan to deal with the situation and make sure his client got the full amount of time paid for.

[Dave]

Quote Originally Posted by westernsyd: If its a massage or a full service regardless of when the "moment" occurs, I will never rebook with someone who finishes up then. I don't hire for the moment but the whole time agreed.

 

I don't know why so my posters are ignoring this. This escort decided to get dressed and leave after less than one hour of a two hour appointment had passed. And while the first posted hinted at this, the subsequent post indicated that the client hadn't even reached orgasm -- only the escort. Given that it's also sometimes difficult for me to reach orgasm, I don't fault the client for having the point of view that it was okay that that didn't happen for him during this appointment. But what sort of "professional" escort rushes away from a two hour appointment just because he came? Why would anyone think this guy deserves two hours pay or even put him in the category of "professional" escort? That's hustler type behavior. Maybe if the guy hadn't been so focused on his own needs, he could have spent the entire two hours with the client and, even if orgasm didn't occur, the client could have at least enjoyed another hour of intimacy.

 

Just like I don't like clock watchers as a client, I'm not a clock watcher as a client. It wouldn't diminish my opinion if someone left an appointment a few minutes early. But after less than half of the scheduled time had passed? That's behavior that's worthy of a negative review, even if the guy matched his description and was fun in the sack.

 

+1 to maninsoma's reply above.

 

Dear What I am:

Bart may not know what you are

but I do, Wham - and sure am glad of it.

[+ WhamIAm]

OP here. Thanks again for the comments. Very interesting.

 

It's the escort's responsibility to be present, able, willing and excited for as long as the scheduled time lasts or as long as the client requires his presence, whatever comes earlier.

 

Its the client's responsibility to honour the agreement by paying in full the agreed rate and to clearly let the escort know when he is ready to part ways.

 

Juan, I think we're on the same page here. Where we may differ is what constitutes "requiring" the escort's presence. If he makes preparations to leave half-way through, that makes clear to me that he's ready to end the session. He's a human being, not a trained seal. If he's made clear explicitly or implicitly that he's done with our time together, I'm not going to request/demand that he fulfill his time obligation. To me, at least, that would be disrespectful to him, kind of douchey, and it definitely dampens my interest in talking, cuddling, or doing whatever I might have wanted for the second hour. And, his getting ready to leave indicates (at least to me) that he's not "present, able, willing and excited" to finish the appointment.

 

For me, it's not about the cumshot, either his or mine. I'm compensating him for his time, whether we're playing Monopoly, watching Seinfeld reruns, or being more intimate. (OK, I've never done the first two during an appointment.) I've had appointments in the past where the escort and/or I have reached orgasm before the scheduled time but the intimacy continued in other ways -- talking, cuddling, going to the diner down the street and getting a cup of coffee, often at my companion's suggestion. They've not signaled any interest in immediately heading out the door.

 

If I were to decide to end a session early absent the kind of inappropriate behavior talked about above by the escort, of course I'd pay for the entire appointment. And, I'm not a clock watcher (clearly, he's not either). If he showed an interest in leaving or having me leave 20 minutes early or so, I'm okay with that. I'm not going to break out my calculator. Here, though, he decided to leave a full hour early.

 

This guy had a very positive review on Daddy's from 8 months ago. The reviewer had 5 or more past reviews. So I felt confident that he wasn't a hustler and had no sense otherwise during our time together. I do think he might have been somewhat inexperienced. Maybe he had the rest of his evening plans on his mind. Maybe he's not a cuddler. Maybe for some reason he became disinterested in spending more time with me. Whatever. I have no hard feelings, so to speak. Given his decision, though, I'm not inclined to pay for an hour he signaled no interest in completing.

 

tom1980 nailed it for me far more succinctly, as did the comments of my PMer noted above. To me, managing the session time is primarily the escort's responsibility. If I call it early, it's my obligation to pay for the escort's time. If he calls it early, given the length of time we're talking about, I don't think it's reasonable for him to expect payment for that time. Still, note to self: resist the desire to schedule more than one hour when meeting a new guy.

 

Finally, a somewhat off-topic question for any escorts still reading, then I'll shut up: how many appointments will you schedule in a day? I'd think it has to be mentally if not physically exhausting to see more than a couple of guys. Then again, I'm a lightweight.

 

Thanks for the discussion.

[Juan Vancouver]

I don't know why so my posters are ignoring this. This escort decided to get dressed and leave after less than one hour of a two hour appointment had passed. And while the first posted hinted at this, the subsequent post indicated that the client hadn't even reached orgasm -- only the escort. Given that it's also sometimes difficult for me to reach orgasm, I don't fault the client for having the point of view that it was okay that that didn't happen for him during this appointment. But what sort of "professional" escort rushes away from a two hour appointment just because he came? Why would anyone think this guy deserves two hours pay or even put him in the category of "professional" escort? That's hustler type behavior. Maybe if the guy hadn't been so focused on his own needs, he could have spent the entire two hours with the client and, even if orgasm didn't occur, the client could have at least enjoyed another hour of intimacy.

 

Just like I don't like clock watchers as a client, I'm not a clock watcher as a client. It wouldn't diminish my opinion if someone left an appointment a few minutes early. But after less than half of the scheduled time had passed? That's behavior that's worthy of a negative review, even if the guy matched his description and was fun in the sack.

 

If you read my post carefully you'll realize that we are saying the same. I will highlight what I said:

 

If the client asks me to leave because he is satisfied or if the allotted time is over, I can leave. During that time it is my responsibility to be present. engaged, focused and facilitating a good time.

 

If the escort is fulfilling this side of the bargain, then he is entitled to payment in full.

 

If the escort doesn't, that is a different story.

 

Is that clearer?

[+ WhamIAm]

If you read my post carefully you'll realize that we are saying the same. I will highlight what I said:

 

If the client asks me to leave because he is satisfied or if the allotted time is over, I can leave. During that time it is my responsibility to be present. engaged, focused and facilitating a good time.

 

If the escort is fulfilling this side of the bargain, then he is entitled to payment in full.

 

If the escort doesn't, that is a different story.

 

Is that clearer?

 

Yes. Thanks!

[+ WhamIAm]

Bart may not know what you are

but I do, Wham - and sure am glad of it.

 

Thanks, Dave :o We MUST get our schedules on the same page soon! xxoo

[Juan Vancouver]

Finally, a somewhat off-topic question for any escorts still reading, then I'll shut up: how many appointments will you schedule in a day? I'd think it has to be mentally if not physically exhausting to see more than a couple of guys. Then again, I'm a lightweight.

 

Respectfully, that has absolutely nothing to do with you and should not concern you.

 

I can't speak on behalf of all escorts since we all understand our profession in entirely different ways, but if I booked and confirmed a session with you, when I show up I will be fresh, strong, ready, excited and willing. This will be the case if you are my only client that day or if you are client number 35. All that you need to know is that for the allotted time that you booked, I will be fully present, absolutely clean, in full use of my skills and will be excited to be there.

 

In the past a few men have been turned on by the idea that they are the only men that will touch me during a certain period of time. In such cases, they have paid the multi day rate on the agreement that I will not have sex with anyone else during that time. This is a specific and very expensive fetish and I am assuming this is not what turns you on. If what turns you on is having a strong, participative, excited lover, then all you should focus on is the time that I spend with you, not the time I spend away from you.

 

And by all means, don't shut up. This is what makes this place exciting. At least for me. If you have any questions let us know. Only through this kind of dialogue we can better understand one another and set the foundations for having healthier, more fulfilling interactions with one another.

[BaronArtz]

Respectfully, that has absolutely nothing to do with you and should not concern you.

 

 

Actually it DOES concern me, as a client. I know YOU probably handle it professionally, but not everybody does. I have had my share of run-ins with other clients leaving or arriving, it was a total mood killer to me. And you always wonder how 'fresh' an escort really is when he has a good number of appointments in a relatively short period of time. You could have said instead 'it's none of your business', which technical speaking, it isn't, but as I client I am still concerned.