Strange interaction

[DaddyCub]

Sent this guy a text yesterday per the instructions in the ad. http://www.men4rentnow.com/ds/index.asp?cmd=view&id=278074&Login=LATINO4NOW

Asking about his availability for an overnight. He responded with a price almost four times the price noted in the ad. I expressed that was too rich for my blood and the inquired about a two hour appointment instead.

 

He responded with "Why do you need two hours? Are you on drugs?"

 

I replied that I liked a slower pace.

 

His next reply blew me away. "You don't need that much time. I fuck for money. I don' want to spend any more time with clients than I have to. I want you to get done and leave. You're probably some out of shape old fat guy. What a loser. You need to get a life."

 

Sadly, I responded (and I regret not ending it there): "Of course I'm an out-of-shape old fat guy. That's why I pay hot guys to fuck me. You're not nearly as nice as your reviews state you to be."

 

Last word from him: "Move on, trash"

 

Now the weird thing is, this is a guy I've wanted to hire for awhile but he never seemed to be in a convenient location for us to get together. All the reviews of him on escort and massage sites indicate him to be very friendly and professional. Not at all how he was presented today. One strange thing I noticed. On Hourboy, another Latino escort visiting Philly is using the same number and the number for "Aron" is different than the one he's been using in Florida. I don't know if perhaps it wasn't really him, or he was having a bad day, but it was certainly jarring.

 

Has anyone experienced something like this? Either with this guy or someone else?

[bigvalboy]

Sorry that happened to you DaddyCub, he sounds like a regular sweetheart. He is based out of Miami. I have seen his ad, but have not hired, not ever contacted him. Miami is a bit too far for a massage, but for those that want a heads up as to his whereabouts, his ad is here.

 

http://www.masseurfinder.com/members/latin.shtml

 

You should be aware that all the so called testimonials on Masseurfinders are always good, because the Masseur has the right to delete any negative review that is submitted. So take those testimonials with a grain of salt.

[rvwnsd]

Sorry to hear that you had this experience. Sounds like you dodged a bullet.

[+ azdr0710]

I think I once got a similar reply from a dude who asked why I needed more than an hour....I also like to hang out a bit and not rush thru what I like to have happen.....

 

many of these younger, inexperienced, unsophisticated, and possibly poorly educated thuggy types are looking for fast money and don't know how to operate as a "business".....the guy who replied to me seemed incredulous that I'd want to stay for more than an hour!!!

 

you did nothing wrong, Daddycub.....these types are out there all over

[dcguy20]

Thought I'd chime in. I saw this guy in DC last weekend for a massage. After a bunch of miscommunication on Friday, I was finally able to see him on Saturday. He was actually nice, kind of on the quiet side. When the massage was done he asked if I would write a review for him on massagem4m. Apparently he wanted to offset some bad reviews (only a paid membership can see those reviews). I usually don't post a review after seeing someone one time.

[mmk123]

well Daddycub, look at it this way. At least he did not say anything like "2 hours is good" and show up and rip you off. Sorry it happened to you but there are a lot more fish in the sea that would gladly take your money and deliver a good 2 hours worth of service.

[Steven_Draker]

The provider could indicate on his profile that he accepts only 'one hour' appointments.

[natmas02]

I actually had a similar interaction with him when he was in DC last year - I texted him asking about longer rates and his availability and then he did a 180 (literally after like three texts trying to set up a time and date - it would be another if it was a long text chain) and started accusing me of being a flake and then he went on a weird rant on how I pay money for massage/sex - even though he's an escort.

 

I didn't reply after that text - but he spent the next twenty minutes texting me insults. The guy is crazy.

[adriano46]

I had asked about this same guy for a massage in the SPA forum and enough chimed in to warn me to stay far away, which, thankfully, I did.

 

When I seek out a massage, I almost always set a time for 90 minutes to give adequate time for the masseur to do a decent job (and for this reason, I seek guys who are licensed and who have recommendations for their therapeutic skills). In recent weeks two guy in DC openly told me that they ONLY see clients for 60 minutes (one actually stated "50 minutes"), but there was no acrimony or name-calling. I appreciated them being up-front about it, and while both of them sparked a big interest in me to see them, the time element was a clincher so I moved on. Of course the problem for this particular escort/masseur is he seems to be unclear on what he is really doing and his social skills will not help him getting clients.