BAD experience - what now?

[TUOT89]

In the OP's case, it was as easy as calling the agency as soon as he realized there was a problem with the time he was having with the escort.

 

And, what would Dave have done then?

 

What he is not doing now?

 

In other words, I doubt calling the agency would have accomplished anything.

 

(The escorts don't work for Dave. He's as much a victim of what they do or do not do.)

[+ Funguy]

I have always thought that it would be safer and more fun to pay for my own tickets, go to the escort's city, pay for my own hotel for a weekend or what have you and make a trip out of the experience than to pay everything for the escort to come to me. Alas, I have not done either so that is why I say, "thought".

 

My own feeling entirely but I guess there are those that do either/both.

What do you all say?

[rvwnsd]

And, what would Dave have done then?

 

What he is not doing now?

 

In other words, I doubt calling the agency would have accomplished anything.

 

(The escorts don't work for Dave. He's as much a victim of what they do or do not do.)

 

He could have spoken with the escort. Of course, so could the OP. In terms of what Dave is vs isn't doing, we don't know. Like I said, we don't have all of the facts about what has transpired.

 

I do agree with you: not much Dave can actually do.

[BaronArtz]

 

I do agree with you: not much Dave can actually do.

 

For starters, he could offer to refund his commission to the client. That assumes, of course, that he feels it is warranted after speaking with the escort. If it was anything serious, he could also decide to no longer represent this escort. If he decides to keep representing this escort, he could update the pictures of him on his website ... these are just a few random examples of what he CAN do.

[+ Axiom2001]

I hope that you'll write a review. If he is well recommended here, there is a good chance that you'll get some blowback from his fans, but don't let that deter you from doing the review. I know that this is not the first time that someone here has had a disappointing experience with a well-reviewed escort, and it usually goes unreported. That doesn't really help anyone.

 

When writing the review, try to keep it objective and factual. It sounds like he wasn't all bad, so include his good points also (i.e. matched his description, was nice, etc.). It also seems that he showed some integrity when agreeing to cut his fee in half; that will definitely help him. It's possible that the two of you failed to "click" because he just wasn't comfortable with a laid-back low-activity weekend of snuggling on the couch. (I'm just guessing here.) If you write a review, you'll help him, and future potential clients, understand where his strengths lie... perhaps not in low-key bfe weekends.

 

The escort will get the final word in his response to your review. If he is truly a professional, and as good as his recommendations suggest, he'll write a well worded response with humility and candor. His stellar reputation may be dinged a little, but not destroyed.

 

I. for one, wholeheartedly concur with "Corndog's" worthwhile and highly practical suggestion. That's all that you can do at this point in hopes that others will not have to endure what you encountered. The failure of this escort hurt you "in the pocket" as well as emotionally, and it is hoped that a candid, negative review will prevent this from happening in the future!

 

And guys, I know! I know! I know "chemistry varies," but this was too much of a variance from what was anticipated and expected contrasted to what was rendered in return, discount or not discount!