Devon's Diary entries on Bottoming

[axebahia]

I have found Devon's recent diary entries on his struggling with the physical and pychological dimensions of bottoming to be very interesting. I wanted to put another aspect out their for general consideration. Could it be that some guys who do not like bottoming with "regular" sized dicks, do like bottoming for guys with "over-sized" dicks? It sounds counter-intuitive but reading about Devon's experience with Justin recalled what I have been told from time to time by some self-styled top or versatile top escorts. As they put it, there is greater discomfort with something too small, and more pleasure with something really big. Thoughts?

[Guest Tampa Yankee]

>As they put it, there is greater discomfort with something too

>small, and more pleasure with something really big. >Thoughts?

 

Traveller eschews the dinky dicks in favor of the donkey dicks!! Enough said.

 

:+

[Karl-G]

Could you please give the website address for Devon's Diaries? Thank you.

[jackhammer91406]

Karl,

Look at the top bar on any Hooboy page and a direct link to Devon's Diarys is there .

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Rec Pharms

 

Under the most optimum of circumstances, which in Traveler's own self-described manner, includes a large amount of substances that leave him both altered and potentially numb, perhaps Traveler requires more sensory input in order to be certain he has a certain tactile experience....

[pierrot]

Usually the tightest spot is the opening to the anus, the sphincter muscles. A small dick can sometimes be painful if it's so small that each time the fucker pulls it out, the tip re-strikes the sphincter. That constant pounding of the opening can hurt.

A bigger cock that only slides past the sphincter once then rubs against the prostate will give pleasure without traumatizing the sphincter.

The really big ones may be painful if they stretch the sphincter more than usual. This depends more on how relaxed the fuckee is.

At least that's been my experience, although I haven't done this much lately. I'd like to get back into, but once out of practice, you have to take it gradually.

[Guest Tampa Yankee]

>Usually the tightest spot is the opening to the anus, the

>sphincter muscles.

 

That hasn't been my experience as a top. The rectum, past the anal sphincter, is one long muscle that can squeeze down pretty intensely. That is where I encounter the greatest contstriction, though it is not constant. The anal sphincter is pretty easily 'romanced' with TLC to accept a lot of,shall we say, 'forward behavior' . Just remember, dont rush but make it a 'labor of love' :9

 

A small dick can sometimes be painful if

>it's so small that each time the fucker pulls it out, the tip

>re-strikes the sphincter. That constant pounding of the

>opening can hurt.

>A bigger cock that only slides past the sphincter once then

>rubs against the prostate will give pleasure without

>traumatizing the sphincter.

 

 

All the above applies to small and big alike it seems to me.

 

>The really big ones may be painful if they stretch the

>sphincter more than usual. This depends more on how relaxed

>the fuckee is.

 

Work it right honey... and it begs for attention and much more. I've had ass start off shy and suck it up like a magnet after some TLC -- the measure of a true bottom whether he is versatile or top or whatever. }(

[MscleLovr]

Romance in Bottoming

 

OK, for us novices, can you tell us just what is the "romance" and TLC that you apply to get a tight bottom to open up?

[Guest Tampa Yankee]

RE: Romance in Bottoming

 

Time, tongue, and a little teasing for starters ... oh, and a glass of wine or two applied to the other end may be helpful though not always necessary. Breathing properly helps too -- 'Waiting to Exhale' is more than the name of a movie. It should be a Labor of Love and patience, not a fire drill. And yes, there are some locks that can't be picked and safes that can't be cracked, short of a little C-4. The key to these chastity belts often lie in the mind. You just might have picked a tight-assed top :+

 

...well, that's my take on it anyway. I'm sure others know much more.

[axebahia]

RE: Romance in Bottoming

 

>The key to these

>chastity belts often lie in the mind.

 

Never a truer word was spoken!:-)

[Rick Munroe]

>Work it right honey... and it begs for attention and much

>more. I've had ass start off shy and suck it up like a magnet

>after some TLC --

 

Sounds like me, TY. With a patient, tender top who uses his mouth and/or fingers to work my ass into a cock-hungry frenzy, I can really turn into "super-bottom." Otherwise, I'm not usually so eager to get mounted.