Simon Dexter Back on Rentboy

[BasketBaller]

After following all the discussion(s) of him in the past, I was surprised a bit to see him advertising in NYC. He "guarantees you will enjoy your time with" him. I loved his Sean Cody videos but I doubt I'd risk it. I might inquire as to his rates, though...

 

http://rentboy.com/Listing.aspx?lid=428094&scid=113178477&sp=1&pos=3&locid=1569&iid=485683

[Bluray2]

After following all the discussion(s) of him in the past, I was surprised a bit to see him advertising in NYC. He "guarantees you will enjoy your time with" him. I loved his Sean Cody videos but I doubt I'd risk it. I might inquire as to his rates, though...

 

http://rentboy.com/Listing.aspx?lid=428094&scid=113178477&sp=1&pos=3&locid=1569&iid=485683

 

DON'T! He won't even touch you.

 

BR

[BasketBaller]

No fear, I was just curious. I emailed him about rates and availability- no response. Q.E.D.

[Bluray2]

No fear, I was just curious. I emailed him about rates and availability- no response. Q.E.D.

 

Your caution is sensible. Deter doesn't like physical contact with gay men. There are threads

about him elsewhere. Some guys may "get off" on a polite but disdainful "hire."

[hornytwells]

He sort of intrigues me-his Sean Cody videos were so hot, so he can't HATE contact with gay men, although admittedly Sean Cody guys are ALL hot-but after all the terrible press he gets, it amazes me he still advertises> Does anyone know of any positive experiences in hiring him? he was one of the first guys I read about having a gift wish list, which made me roar with laughter, as there were ludicrously expensive items on it. I guess my question is, are there really any guys out there would would lavish gifts on him for some diminished returns…? I guess it takes all sorts

[TruthBTold]

I have yet to read anything positive about the guy. There are gents that are better looking with better bodies out there. Why bother?

[Bluray2]

He sort of intrigues me-his Sean Cody videos were so hot, so he can't HATE contact with gay men, although admittedly Sean Cody guys are ALL hot-but after all the terrible press he gets, it amazes me he still advertises> Does anyone know of any positive experiences in hiring him? he was one of the first guys I read about having a gift wish list, which made me roar with laughter, as there were ludicrously expensive items on it. I guess my question is, are there really any guys out there would would lavish gifts on him for some diminished returns…? I guess it takes all sorts

 

I had the same initial fascination, and regretted it.

 

I lavished a few minor gifts on him ($200 total). It made

no difference to him. Maybe he does likes hot young 25-year old guys....

 

I think his wish list included $20,000 watches, etc., even a

house.

 

BR

[hornytwells]

I had the same initial fascination, and regretted it.

 

I lavished a few minor gifts on him ($200 total). It made

no difference to him. Maybe he does likes hot young 25-year old guys....

 

I think his wish list included $20,000 watches, etc., even a

house.

 

BR

Just to be clear, you lavished gifts on him as a tip after a hire, or for no particular reason?> one I understand maybe, but the other, why?????

[BRDude]

hornytwells, on rare occasion I've also given small gifts to escorts with whom I'm intrigued but have not met in person. I was very curious about how they might respond - I suppose to get an inkling of their character. In my situation, though, there was no info available for the escorts in Daddy's public forum.

[hornytwells]

Did he at least thank you, or even acknowledge receipt?

[Bluray2]

Just to be clear, you lavished gifts on him as a tip after a hire, or for no particular reason?> one I understand maybe, but the other, why?????

 

This was before I met him. I thought it would "smooth

the way" prior to an overnight.

 

BR

[Bluray2]

Did he at least thank you, or even acknowledge receipt?

 

The first time he did, via email. The second time he did not.

I note again he's very, very polite. He was just not "into"

contact of any kind. Not with me, anyway.

 

BR

[Great Northern P]

I wish someone would buy me a hot weekend with Kellan Lutz.

[BaronArtz]

He sort of intrigues me-his Sean Cody videos were so hot, so he can't HATE contact with gay men, although admittedly Sean Cody guys are ALL hot-but after all the terrible press he gets, it amazes me he still advertises> Does anyone know of any positive experiences in hiring him? he was one of the first guys I read about having a gift wish list, which made me roar with laughter, as there were ludicrously expensive items on it. I guess my question is, are there really any guys out there would would lavish gifts on him for some diminished returns…? I guess it takes all sorts

 

I don't get the gift list thingy either ... not at all. It reminds me a bit of what Junior Stellano said when I inquired about his 'fees'. What he said was 'the hourly fee is $300 but my repeat clients do of course pay a multiple of that'. Yes, a multiple - for the privilege of becoming a repeat client. In the case of this prospective client: no thanks. As you said, hornytwells, it takes all sorts ...

 

Although in the case of Junior, you would have gotten a real fuck.

[adriano46]

My small contribution to this -- there is something about the models at Sean Cody (and Corbin Fisher too for that matter) that really gets my engine revving. Many of them are fresh looking, nicely muscled, very handsome "guy-next-door" types I really wish DID live next door and without their parents hovering nearby.

 

Simon Dexter caught my eye years ago in his photo spreads and films, and yeah it would have been great to fantasize about a romp on a bed with him, but thanks to his forum site I learned early on he was strictly "gay-for-pay" but in the worst possible way - only willing to touch you if you appeared to be as hung and muscled as the guys he was PAID to have sex with on camera. And as many of us know from experience, it is very difficult to hire models for either Sean Cody or Corbin Fisher while they are working for the studio - something like trying to hire a Bel Ami model from Prague! If they walk away from the studio and make themselves available, 9 out of 10 times it seems they are damaged goods (petulant, cranky, big attitude problems and really not "into it" with older out of shape guys [which are or would be their income source].

 

In over 25 years or so of hiring, I have on occasion hired porn stars. The best in terms of what they gave in return for the hire were generally Europeans - Hungarians such as Mario Magabe (still a friend today although long ago retired), Rick Bauer (also still a friend, not seeing clients much anymore), Mad Stefano (a real sweet hairy young hunk), Valentin Petrov (now strictly only massage), Sergey (another Michael Lucas Russian actor now strictly doing massage), and my first porn hire, Mike Marino (which shows how far back I go!), and one of the all-time greats and a real national treasure, Brad Hunt (in the Windy City). The 3 Hungarians, two Russians and Brad would be the equivalent of Sean Cody models in looks (in their prime - as all of these guys are now late 20's and older).

 

Like a few here, I did in the past give small (and not so small) gifts to some escorts above and beyond the fee but only AFTER the date; never before. My one exception was once in Amsterdam I hired a very hairy Greek god who goes still by the name Kyper who I hired in my very first 3-way with my first ever Russian escort who went by the name Aleks (Aleks and I are still friends now 20+ years since that memorable 36 hours in my bed, with time outs for meals; lost contact with Kyper but he is still around in bi films). In a moment of excitement I purchased for them some fashion gifts (D&G sweaters, popular mod watches, nice dress shirts and small eclectic gifts to fit their personalities). They opened the gifts like kids at Christmas, and the ensuing dinner at a "gay-friendly" restaurant where they were hit on by waiters and other diners as well, and finally the first part of the overnight (10 hours of sweaty sex) and then another full day and night of more (Kyper went to work, Aleks and I hung out all day and Kyper came by hot and horny for the 2nd night). In the end I paid them their (very reasonable) fee and added a few more gifts as they went way above and beyond what was required.

 

But in a nod to Hornytwells, I learned too by being burned not to get carried away with the gift-giving. I experienced the "diminished returns" on a few occasions and it took a wise and very courageous escort to sit me down and do an intervention - stopping me from opening my wallet so much. I thank him every day since then.

 

So -- I now listen to the advice of many here - if someone raises a red flag on an escort I take notice and move on. For every Simon Dexter huckster, if you really put your mind to it, you can find an authentic escort who will give you your money's work and then some.

[bigvalboy]

Like a few here, I did in the past give small (and not so small) gifts to some escorts above and beyond the fee but only AFTER the date; never before. In a moment of excitement I purchased for them some fashion gifts (D&G sweaters, popular mod watches, nice dress shirts and small eclectic gifts to fit their personalities). They opened the gifts like kids at Christmas, and the ensuing dinner at a "gay-friendly" restaurant where they were hit on by waiters and other diners as well, and finally the first part of the overnight (10 hours of sweaty sex) and then another full day and night of more (Kyper went to work, Aleks and I hung out all day and Kyper came by hot and horny for the 2nd night). In the end I paid them their (very reasonable) fee and added a few more gifts as they went way above and beyond what was required.

 

But in a nod to Hornytwells, I learned too by being burned not to get carried away with the gift-giving. I experienced the "diminished returns" on a few occasions and it took a wise and very courageous escort to sit me down and do an intervention - stopping me from opening my wallet so much. I thank him every day since then.

 

So -- I now listen to the advice of many here - if someone raises a red flag on an escort I take notice and move on. For every Simon Dexter huckster, if you really put your mind to it, you can find an authentic escort who will give you your money's work and then some.

 

Spot on Adriano. I for most of my hiring years went way above and beyond the call of duty, so to speak, in my generosity. Even recently when tipping the dancing boys a forum member recently put his hand out and stopped the money flow. I get it, sometimes enough is enough, but I must say, that I have decided all of this is on a case by case basis. You mentioned giving gifts at the end of a hire, and I totally agree, however you also mentioned the time that in "the moment of excitement" you purchased gifts during the hire. The dancing boys aside (since I have a freindship with several of them now) I think long and hard about how generous I will get with escorts now.

 

On a recent hire, before we met I had decided that if things went well then I would take him shopping, needless to say he was wonderful, and as we sat at lunch, sipping margaritas (and no, alcohol was not a factor) I once again went over in my head whether or not a shopping spree was appropriate. When I arrived at the store to surprise him, much to my surprise he was dead against any gift giving. We battled over this for awhile, and my argument won the day of course, but his humility was a rare thing. At one point even negotiating a stopping point. My reward in all of this was an hour of laughter as every clerk in the store doated over him, but most of all, his continued appreciation even weeks after he was home safe and sound, and a suggestion on his part, that on future travel plans, the fee would be almost non-existent. Does this always work, probably not, but one of the points I am making is that there are so many outstanding escorts out there that are so worthy of our attention, and so appreciative of us, why someone would even think about wasting their time on an escort with a questionable reputation is beyond me, and why clients continue to entertain hiring escorts the likes of Mr. Dexter is a bit baffling.

 

Do your due diligence as Adriano mentions, and always think and rethink, your plans.

 

[Epigonos]

The flip side of this thread is how many of us have had an escort we hired pay for dinner or purchase some type of souvenir for us if we are traveling together? On my first get together with BN he paid for dinner while I was in the restroom and politely refused to allow me to reimburse him. On a number of other occasions I have had escorts insist on picking up the meal tab but that usually happened after our second or third meeting. Additionally a few other escorts have unbeknownst to me purchased a small souvenir, for me, as a remembrance of our trip and time together. All very classy!!!!!

[bigvalboy]

Indeed, and I am glad that Epigonos mentions this. Generosity and appreciation works both ways. I too have had escorts insist on paying for drinks and or meals. On several occasions I even have had escorts refuse to go into a bar or restaurant unless I allowed them to pay. It is often so appreciated that I am a little taken back. Yes "All Very Classy!!!" ....AND worth mentioning for all the truly professional escorts out there who in the end, are just a class act, period!

[big-n-tall]

I have been with 3 Sean Cody guys, each were fantastic in the sack (sadly all retired, but I still talk to one on occasion). So hearing that Simon is so opposite of what i have experienced with SC guys, comes as mild shock. Especially since he keeps advertising. He's making a living or getting something from somebody through escorting. There are people who just like to be cash slaves.

 

Although I think Mr Dexter is attractive, coupled with that fact he seems to not be into anything gay sex related... he just doesn't turn my crank. I don't think he ever has actually.

 

I definitely wouldn't send him gifts before meeting, even more so after reading things on the forum. Truth be told, I have never given an escort a gift before meeting. Now after meeting and becoming friendly I have given gifts, but nothing remotely extravagant. I usually give something I know the guy likes or appreciates. The look I get from giving someone something extremely personal and thoughtful, feels me we with a lot of joy (more than they know sometimes). In return, I have been given gifts, bought dinners, taken to the movies, etc.

[adriano46]

And what of those escorts who every now and then, unsolicited or unexpectedly, just bring us into the bed without a previous "hire" being proposed? On a few occasions I have had this (wonderful, amazing) experience. Most recently, was traveling through a town where one of more recent go-to guys lives, and phoned ahead as I had a small package for him (he knew of this and we spoke of it - so no surprise gift or anything). He was in so I proposed I stop by for a few minutes and drop off the package. I parked the car - told the attendant I would return in 25-30 minutes and carried the package to his apartment. Was met by him in the hallway in his usual sexy jeans and tight muscle t-shirt. He had the heat way up in the apartment. Invited me in and invited me to take off my winter coat, and started making a cup of coffee before I continued my drive. As he brought the coffee to the table, he stripped off his shirt and suggested I do the same "because of the heat in the apartment." (Gee I never thought of this line!!!!) As soon as the coffee was done and I went to use the bathroom before getting back on the road, I came out and he was standing there modeling a wrestling outfit and wanted my opinion; soon I was as naked as him and spent a time rolling around in sweat until he came all over me, washed up and FINALLY got in my car. I tried to leave him a gift - he refused. (BTW, the rest of the drive was a blur...)

 

Same has occurred with others, not often, but it does happen and some clients here have had this experience too - it is often what moves a good or excellent escort to the level of stellar, magnificent, 5-thumbs up etc...

[BasketBaller]

No fear, I was just curious. I emailed him about rates and availability- no response. Q.E.D.

 

Update- Mr Dexter responded, three days after my inquiry, and without answering any of my questions about availability or possible activities, but to say his rate was $1000 for two hours. As has been said elsewhere, his tone was polite, but really- does anyone actually hire him?

[hornytwells]

curious, is it minimum 2 hour appt? So $500 for one hour, or does he only do 2 hour minimum. I once paid Parker London $500 but it was an amazing interactive boyfriend experience and worth every penny for me……….

[adriano46]

I think that Mr. Dexter is delusional but then -- as many of us know here -- someone will cough up that $1,000 sometime and then write here to tell us how sorry he was to part with the money. Heck for $1,000 I can have one hell of a great party with two or three outstanding, interactive, horny guys for the same amount of time.

[hornytwells]

agreed adriano! I can understand someone parting with a lot if they can afford it, but not without getting value for money, what amazes me is that Dexter is still around, thats why i would love to hear from anyone who might have had a good time with him?

[+ Gar1eth]

The flip side of this thread is how many of us have had an escort we hired pay for dinner or purchase some type of souvenir for us if we are traveling together? On my first get together with BN he paid for dinner while I was in the restroom and politely refused to allow me to reimburse him. On a number of other occasions I have had escorts insist on picking up the meal tab but that usually happened after our second or third meeting. Additionally a few other escorts have unbeknownst to me purchased a small souvenir, for me, as a remembrance of our trip and time together. All very classy!!!!!

 

A Brazilian national that worked briefly for Man to Man- I scheduled him for a weekend. A shorter guy- but bodybuilderish and built like a brick firehouse. I scheduled him for a weekend. He brought me this little bird 'sculpture'. I say sculpture- the bird was made out of this crystal stone and attached to a rock by a metal wire/spring. He was very nice- unfortunately the weekend from a sexual standpoint didn't go as well as I would have liked. He really hated bottoming. He thought he could take it a bit. But I think my mushroom head defeated him.

 

And there was another escort - minor porn star who used to escort out of Columbus Ohio- I think he went by Mickey. He had a boyfriend named Tony who escorted for years. Both were muscular bearish type. Anyway 8 had hired Mickey for an overnight. After dinner we stopped at a Barnes and Noble because that's the kind of wild and crazy guy I am. It turned out we were both into fantasy/science fiction. He bought me a book he thought I would like.

 

Nick German also surrendered an article of clothing to keep me warm after an overnight.

 

 

 

Gman