Should reviews about BB sex be published? Do the encourage guys to do it and sooner o

[Steven_Draker]

I often ask here and get references of those who will provide the services I enjoy.

 

Good for you that you find the "services" you're looking for, Rocky.

 

Can you confirm or refute that there's a lot of hypocrisy about escorts, safe sex and barebacking in general?

[sdvjm]

The whole reason that we read Daddy's Reviews is to get honest accounts of client experiences in order to make informed decisions about the escorts that we consider hiring. Censoring those reviews would going against the whole purpose of consulting Daddy's Reviews in the first place. Censorship is a slippery slope and I would prefer that we don't go down that path.

[marylander1940]

Couldn't the same be said about people that over eat, eat unhealthy, drink or drug too much, smoke, take too many risks, etc. Aren't they technically putting their hands on your pocket too?

 

yes, but obesity also has to do with genetics and it's not all about food choice.

 

If you BB, sooner or later you'll be infected. I lost so many friends to HIV, I know it.

[bomerrang]

Personally, I think it is great that Daddy publishes BB and un-safe practice escort reviews so I know which escorts to avoid.

 

Consider them PSA's! (Public Service Announcements)

[Decatur Guy]

I value the information as others have explained very well.

[Lohengrin1979]

Personally, I think it is great that Daddy publishes BB and un-safe practice escort reviews so I know which escorts to avoid.

 

Consider them PSA's! (Public Service Announcements)

 

This, this, and this some more. This is an information website. People who seek barebacking and people who wish to avoid barebackers both benefit from this information not being censured. People can make their informed decisions like adults after that.

 

 

Lohengrin

[BigAppleJay]

I don’t understand the logic used by those who say they will never hire an escort who barebacks. If you want to practice safe sex what difference does it make if the escort offers/has done barebacking before?

 

If you want to him to use a condom and/or use a condom on him state it beforehand and makes sure it happens. What does it matter what he does with others? Isn’t it more important what he does with you?

 

And for those of you who won’t hire an escort if there’s a hint of BB in his past or profile, do you have any issue hiring an escort who is positive but advertises as “always safe?”

[marylander1940]

I don’t understand the logic used by those who say they will never hire an escort who barebacks. If you want to practice safe sex what difference does it make if the escort offers/has done barebacking before?

 

If you want to him to use a condom and/or use a condom on him state it beforehand and makes sure it happens. What does it matter what he does with others? Isn’t it more important what he does with you?

 

And for those of you who won’t hire an escort if there’s a hint of BB in his past or profile, do you have any issue hiring an escort who is positive but advertises as “always safe?”

 

If he did play "always safe" (anal with condoms) he has a 99% chance of been negative and not positive. We also must assume that escorts lie about their age and why not about their status.

 

I think you're missing the point. "Don't feed them, because the breed". I won't hire an escort who BB because not because I think he's positive or he'll become positive very soon but simply for the fact that he doesn't give a F... about it.

 

Obesity is a national security threat, is HIV next?

[Nvr2Thick]

I think you're missing the point. "Don't feed them, because the breed". I won't hire an escort who BB because not because I think he's positive or he'll become positive very soon but simply for the fact that he doesn't give a F... about it.

 

This is an interesting and clear statement which helps me to understand yours and others' position. I've hooked up safely with escorts who are blatant barebackers because I admire their masculinity, and I am attracted to the way that they express themselves sexually. By "they" I mean those specific escorts, not barebackers in general. To me there's been logic in the idea that escorts who advertise as "safe only" could be just as irresponsible in private life, but that I would never know.

 

What you're saying is (I think) that once you know that a man chooses to bareback you lose respect for him and his attitude toward unsafe sex and HIV. Hiring him even for safe sex encourages him as an escort, and that's something you don't want to do. That makes sense to me. Thanks.

[rocky]

Safe sex, barebacking, well not exactly something I'd use in the same sentence. Same with "escorts"; sorry

escorts see multiple people and while they may play safe, you just never know where someone's mouth has

been, etc. So yeah, one might say safe sex and escorting is hypocrisy. There's an escort in Orlando that I

see is still out there who is very much only a top so he says and safe so he says; well I saw him with his

partner and there was no safe about it but his comment was "I only have anal BB with my partner." Well

gee they both escort what safety is that.

[adriano46]

Like so many here, I presume that more escorts than I am aware of have - at one time or another - had BB sex with someone. Just as I am aware that more gay men than would ever admit to it, have had bareback sex more than once, but kept it to themselves.

 

Some years back, hired two guys who both advertised as "safe sex only" for a 3-way. After nice dinner out, we were taking turns getting showered before the main event. Finally I was last to shower, and to my stunned surprise, came out of the shower they were in the midst of a very torrid, very hot bare-backing session. They did not seem to think anything of it; when one literally breeded the other, the bottom got up, went to wash up, while the other then "suited up" for the 3-way action. I have to say - I lost interest in any more anal action that night; came to discover 4 years later both have them are living with AIDS (and not together).

 

Are they the exception to the rule? I am not sure. Perhaps for this reason I pretty much abstain from any anal sex with escorts, but -- as many here know - who's to say where an escort's dick has been? Or mouth? And yet, as odd as it seems, I would be less hesitant to hire a guy who has AIDS than a guy who is notoriously bisexual or gay-for-pay escort and whose dick has been in the nether regions of his girl-friend/wife/other women. Go figure?!!!