A Public Apology for Nick, Rick, and Derek (JB Needs Help)

[JB85]

I want to just clear up a few things. I've been making posts here on this site as JB and I want to publicly apologize to three escorts: Nick German, Rick Munroe, and Derek Ross.

 

These three men did not deserve what I did to them. I wanted to meet them and I had no money. Escorts aren't new friends that come into your city to meet lonely people. They are business professionals and unless you have the money for an hour, even if you just want to talk to them, you must have the money to pay them.

 

I did not. I knew I did not and I still went ahead with making the appointment. I won't speak of what happened between me and these men, but I will tell you they are lovely men, all of them, and completely deserving of any client's time and money even if you just want to talk to them for an hour or take them out to dinner.

 

I am not an evil, malicious person. I do however have a mental illness which I am receiving treatment for.

 

Today, I am going to ask for help. I have an addiction and I am going to go back into group therapy.

 

I publicly am offering my apology and payment for the time spent with these three men. I received a credit card just yesterday and can pay any of these escorts through Paypal with a credit card.

 

Let me say that again: I am publicly - here on this site - offering apology and payment immediately. Today.

 

I recognize I have a problem and I'm going to get help.

 

These three escorts are all hard not to fall in love with. They are wonderful men.

 

This personal problem of mine reflects in no way on them. I'm the one that needs help and I'm going to get that help.

 

To "Daddy": Please post so that my public apology and payment offers are received by the community here. You are free to take away my membership to this site and ban me from it.

[sdvjm]

Wow!

[Tighty]

[TruHart1]

I want to just clear up a few things. I've been making posts here on this site as JB and I want to publicly apologize to three escorts: Nick German, Rick Munroe, and Derek Ross...

 

I am not an evil, malicious person. I do however have a mental illness which I am receiving treatment for.

 

Today, I am going to ask for help. I have an addiction and I am going to go back into group therapy.

 

I publicly am offering my apology and payment for the time spent with these three men. I received a credit card just yesterday and can pay any of these escorts through Paypal with a credit card.

 

Let me say that again: I am publicly - here on this site - offering apology and payment immediately. Today.

 

I recognize I have a problem and I'm going to get help.

 

These three escorts are all hard not to fall in love with. They are wonderful men.

 

This personal problem of mine reflects in no way on them. I'm the one that needs help and I'm going to get that help...

 

JB, this is a great apology. However, getting a new credit card and using it to pay off large debts when you only earn $10 a day seems like fiscal self-destruction. If you are completely dedicated to getting the right help, privately or through group therapy, and you are actually able to learn to handle your addiction, you certainly might be smart enough to pay these 3 great escorts what you owe, then pay off that new credit card in a steady and timely way (never depend on credit to live on) and then destroy the credit card for now and until such time as you have the financial means to pay off any credit within a month after a debt is incurred.

 

I am taking your apology as a sincere public gesture so I want to wish you the best of luck here. I am a bit addicted to some of these wonderful men myself but I certainly wouldn’t over-extend my finances to support that addiction and I would NEVER not pay an escort who did his best to make me feel like his lover while I was with him!

 

TruHart1:cool:

[rocky]

I'm sorry, I don't think JB's apology is sincere for a second. This is someone who is an addict of some kind and prey's on good people and hopes someone will feel sorry for him. And he posted this was all new to him, oh come on. I don't know why daddy permitted this person to post such fiction.

[+ purplekow]

Yeah, I am not buying it either but, i am glad I had a small part in slamming the cookie jar lid on the hand of this particular user.

[Michael Wayne]

In all my life with the thousands of clients I have seen there has only been one who actually did not have the money. I accept payment AFTER the session so it is surprising it hasnt happened more often. A young newbie escort protege of mine recently asked me what to do if that happens. I told him that most guys get paid up front but if there is substantial travel involved you still get burned that way. the one time it happened to me I got really angry. The client was VERY CUTE and i guess he figured I would comp him cause he was so hot but it does not work that way! lol! For a few moments I kind of felt like a gangster or a loanshark would feel and was tempted to forceably get the money but I quickly came to my senses. I mean what can u really do? I just let it go.......

[gp0560]

In all my life with the thousands of clients I have seen there has only been one who actually did not have the money. I accept payment AFTER the session so it is surprising it hasnt happened more often. A young newbie escort protege of mine recently asked me what to do if that happens. I told him that most guys get paid up front but if there is substantial travel involved you still get burned that way. the one time it happened to me I got really angry. The client was VERY CUTE and i guess he figured I would comp him cause he was so hot but it does not work that way! lol! For a few moments I kind of felt like a gangster or a loanshark would feel and was tempted to forceably get the money but I quickly came to my senses. I mean what can u really do? I just let it go.......

 

I know I'm wandering from the subject of the thread, but what the heck. How about paying travel costs up front, on the grounds that that service has been delivered. Then pay the escort fee at the end? Escorts, your thoughts? Too silly?

[BgMstr4u]

Well, I wrote a serious and I hope helpful and thoughtful response to the OP to his thread about becoming an escort. Not sorry that I did, but....

 

To this? I hope what you write is true. If it is, my advice is deal with your problems. Step number one is to get real about who you are and what you really can do. Step two is to learn to distinguish between fantasy and reality. In this case the fantasy is gorgeous wonderful guys who get paid for sex. The reality is you can't afford them. So learn to enjoy the fantasy without crossing the line into doing what is inappropriate. I am guessing that will probably help in other parts of your life as well.

[leigh.bess.toad]

I'm sorry, I usually try to be forgiving, but I'm going to have to side fully with Rocky and PK. I'm just not buying this in any way, shape or form. He's obviously been lying to us since the first post here. Obviously he pulled this stunt with Nick German long before he joined the forum and he knew he was going to do it Rick and Derek when he joined. In a sense, he may have been using membership on the forum to give a patina of credibility to himself. Face it, escorts who know the forum and regular forum members tend to be a bit more trusting of guys like us who frequently post here. What he did casts all of us in a bad light, in addition to hurting 3 very good escorts. I just don't understand for the life of me why in the world Daddy hasn't revoked his membership and placed this guy in a permanent time out. Anything short of that just won't make sense to me at all.

[+ sf westcoaster]

Add me to the list of "doubting Thomas's"

[bigvalboy]

How about an apology to the members. I haven't posted until now, because basically this thread has had zero affect on my life. What he did to the escorts was despicable, and OK, clearly the man has issues, real or imagined. Either way he is one sick puppy, but after his lengthy apology to the escorts, I would think that an apology to the members here is certainly in order. Many people came forward, in numerous threads that he started, not knowing anything about him, and in good faith put themselves out there in the way of advice. Good and decent people who wanted nothing more than to try and help.

 

I haven't a clue if this guy is laughing or crying right now, but either way, the forum members who tried to help, deserve an apology as well....and until that happens.....

[Guest Starbuck]

You know ... it may just be that JB is gone from the forum, even if Daddy has not seen fit to forcibly boot him out. Trying to discern Daddy's reasoning, I wonder if it's a matter of treading cautiously with someone who appears to have a mental health issue. If so, it's not a bad example to follow.

[+ azdr0710]

everybody has a story....

 

many here know that if you click on a username, his or her profile will come up with, among other things, their last login here....JB was last here yesterday, the 3rd, at some point during the day....not a long time and I think we can let him come back and post if he wants....we certainly did try to help him out in the beginning and maybe he'll thank us for that along with offering some further explanation of what he's doing to deal with himself....as BVB said, I'm not really affected by his actions, so am not worked up over this drama.....there are a bunch of characters here at the forum and now we have a new one....ultimately, we have to take responsibility for our own actions, so let's hope JB does that....

[bigvalboy]

everybody has a story....

 

there are a bunch of characters here at the forum and now we have a new one ....

 

How very true....

[leigh.bess.toad]

And yet, all I am recalling is Noah Driver and the repeated promises to repay everyone from his "transgressions". I think he may have repaid one person, but not everyone. Until it is confirmed that Nick, Derek and Rick have been paid in full, I will think it is but another lie. Everything that the OP has told us is a lie so far. How would someone earning $10/day (which is inconceivable to begin with) get a credit card to repay them to begin with? And pay for therapy? It doesn't add up. I love a good redemption story. I fell for Noah Driver's first couple of apologies too. By the 3rd and 4th one, nope. This has the same ring to it. Maybe I'm wrong. But my gut is telling me it is all more lies.

[+ FreshFluff]

And yet, all I am recalling is Noah Driver and the repeated promises to repay everyone from his "transgressions". I think he may have repaid one person, but not everyone.

 

That was exactly what I thought when I read the apology. JB's apology made me wonder why he didn't simply PM or email the escorts, Paypal the money, and then let everyone know he had paid. I wondered if the "new credit card" line is simply a tact for getting sympathy (and perhaps a discount) from the escorts.

 

I hope I'm wrong though and that JB has already started paying these men.

[Lookin]

Good and decent people who wanted nothing more than to try and help.

 

 

A simple folk, with little more than a C-note and a dream.

 

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[bigvalboy]

A simple folk, with little more than a C-note and a dream.

 

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lmao.... I just spit up my more morning coffee....God I miss you round here lookin. So what? "Good and Decent"...... That was just a little too much 'fluff'.....lol lol. Yeah you're probably right.

[adriano46]

LOL - HAD THE SAME REACTION AS BIGVALBOY with my coffee -- but then had a damn hunger for donut holes.

[bobchitown]

LOL - HAD THE SAME REACTION AS BIGVALBOY with my coffee -- but then had a damn hunger for donut holes.

 

Plain - no chocolate!

[+ azdr0710]

excellent, Lookin.....I hope you hang around and continue to keep this place grounded....none of these melodramatic "picking up my marbles and going home" departures like some of the members have done, please

[seeker630]

excellent, Lookin.....I hope you hang around and continue to keep this place grounded....none of these melodramatic "picking up my marbles and going home" departures like some of the members have done, please

 

+1

[+ FreshFluff]

Something made me remember this thread.

 

Did these Derek, Rick, and Nick ever get paid? If not, I hope the escorts have communicated JB's details to all the escorts they know! (In case JB is lurking: If he does pay, then maybe some escorts might give him a chance after he gets help.)

[Guest]

In all my life with the thousands of clients I have seen there has only been one who actually did not have the money. I accept payment AFTER the session so it is surprising it hasnt happened more often. A young newbie escort protege of mine recently asked me what to do if that happens. I told him that most guys get paid up front but if there is substantial travel involved you still get burned that way. the one time it happened to me I got really angry.

 

No, most escorts do not get paid up-front. I've hired well over 100, and when an escort asks to be paid up-front, it's usually a sign of trouble and I usually will abort the session there. The fact that you've only been ripped off once is proof that getting the money up-front isn't necessary. As with almost any service provider (including myself as a physician), the standard is to pay at the conclusion of the service. If you've only been ripped off once, consider yourself lucky. Even restaurants get "dine and dash" from time to time. Often when physicians get dead-beat patients, their only recourse is to send a certified letter to the patient dismissing him from care, offering the customary (required?) 30 days of emergency care in order to give the patient time to find another physician to rip off. Even with, and especially with, trips/extended hires, I pay at the end. The fact that I've fronted the money for the plane tickets, etc., is proof enough that I'm serious (I will send only whatever advanced money the escort needs for the trip, such as a ride to the airport).