Escort or masseuse

[Tighty]

I only had 'real massages' - no happy ending, masseur fully cloth, I was covered. (Aka unhappy massages? ). In other words, I'm totally clueless about happy massages. Lol.

 

Who provides thie service described below? Escort or erotic masseur?

Deep tissue massage followed by getting naked and kiss/cuddle/grope each other. No cumming required on both parties.

 

I'm kind of thinking it falls under escorting but just want to confirm.

[+ Funguy]

Sure hope you mean "masseur"! Could be either but with erotic masseur you will most likely get all but possibly kissing. You want all plus a happy ending, go with escort, tho I do know some masseurs who do all.

 

Good luck!

[Tighty]

Sure hope you mean "masseur"! Could be either but with erotic masseur you will most likely get all but possibly kissing. You want all plus a happy ending, go with escort, tho I do know some masseurs who do all.

 

Good luck!

 

Ahahahaha damn ipad.

 

I'm actually not comfy with the idea of only me getting a happy ending. It seems so awkward.

[Keenan]

I only had 'real massages' - no happy ending, masseur fully cloth, I was covered. (Aka unhappy massages? ). In other words, I'm totally clueless about happy massages. Lol.

 

Who provides thie service described below? Escort or erotic masseur?

Deep tissue massage followed by getting naked and kiss/cuddle/grope each other. No cumming required on both parties.

 

I'm kind of thinking it falls under escorting but just want to confirm.

 

An escort should be able to provide what you describe.

 

Keenan

[seeker630]

An escort should be able to provide what you describe.

 

Keenan

 

No offense, but I would not assume that every escort can provide a decent deep tissue massage - as with all the other aspects, it pays to do some research & ask questions beforehand.

[+ sam.fitzpatrick]

There are trained masseurs that will provide the type of service you are looking for, but not all of them. On masseurfinder.com or Massagem4m.com, look for the erotic ads (sometimes sensual) and look for ads that state mutual touch is allowed/encouraged.

[Tighty]

There are trained masseurs that will provide the type of service you are looking for, but not all of them. On masseurfinder.com or Massagem4m.com, look for the erotic ads (sometimes sensual) and look for ads that state mutual touch is allowed/encouraged.

 

I actually just ventured to massurfinder.com for the first time today. What the heck is the difference between sensual and erotic? And I want to kiss him tenderly! If i ust touch I can't help but feel like a dirty old man touching vulnerable young girls (that's my in grained impression of dirty old man). I know kissing might make me even dirtier in their eyes but I'm a hopeless romantic.

[cokimstr61]

Tightly. Maybe if you let us know where you are located and the type of man you're attracted to we could help you find what you're looking for.

I have had many erotic massages, some have unexpectedly turned into more than I bargained for, some have been less massage and more play. Communication of exactly what you are looking for is Key. And I mean more than once, some of these guys are so busy they tend to forget your specific requests and need to be reminded right before.

Don't be afraid to ask:

Will the massage be mutual nude

Are you trained and certified

Is mutual touch allowed

Could we extend the massage a half hour for some playtime after

Kissing is important to me will you accommodate

Don't be afraid to ask for what you need or want, you are paying for the session and if the escort/masseur isn't willing to accommodate then move on to the next. This is a business transaction.

If you went shopping for a car and the lot only had a pink model and you wanted blue, the guy across the street has a blue model...where do you buy the car?

[Tighty]

Tightly. Maybe if you let us know where you are located and the type of man you're attracted to we could help you find what you're looking for.

I have had many erotic massages, some have unexpectedly turned into more than I bargained for, some have been less massage and more play. Communication of exactly what you are looking for is Key. And I mean more than once, some of these guys are so busy they tend to forget your specific requests and need to be reminded right before.

Don't be afraid to ask:

Will the massage be mutual nude

Are you trained and certified

Is mutual touch allowed

Could we extend the massage a half hour for some playtime after

Kissing is important to me will you accommodate

Don't be afraid to ask for what you need or want, you are paying for the session and if the escort/masseur isn't willing to accommodate then move on to the next. This is a business transaction.

If you went shopping for a car and the lot only had a pink model and you wanted blue, the guy across the street has a blue model...where do you buy the car?

 

I'm on the east coast and can travel, particularly to nyc. I like muscular white guys 30 to 40ish preferably 6' and up (particularly since guys tend to add a few inches on their profile) and who are friendly and like to kiss and cuddle. And of course I like deep therapeutic massages. I don't need full blown sex. His hole and my hole can be off limits. Lol.

 

Don't use the car analogy. The last time I bought my new car I got cheated big time. We agreed on trade in value of $1800 for my old car. I knew it was worth more but I was tired and not good on haggling. They sent me the contract and bill. I signed and left. A few days later I realized they only paid me $1000 for my old car. I have the bad habit of paying without looking at the price.

[maninsoma]

From a client perspective -- one who has hired many more erotic masseurs than escorts, though I've hired many escorts as well:

 

If you want kissing and full body contact (cuddling), you should hire an escort. Just make sure that if a decent massage is essential to you as well that you ask about that in advance. While I have occasionally hired someone for massage and ended up getting an experience of the sort you described, most often an erotic massage will be a massage followed by you touching a naked guy and them jerking you off. Very rarely does anything beyond that happen though when it does it's either a nice surprise or something I've negotiated in the moment by asking if the masseur also escorts and, if so, what their rate would be to add (fill in the blank) to the experience. I usually only ask this question if I already know the guy also escorts or if his massage ad indicated an openness to various possibilities.