Demands

[intensive]

Even though I was going to hire him to travel and I should have some choice of selection. But in this case he demanded some stuff.

All those NYC young escorts are not much serious as in the past. Fake pics with no follow up. I had 3 experience in past 2 months.

When I visited first one, he never opened his main door with buzzer but never opened his apartment door as I waited for 5 min (means he was in there)

the 2nd one never showed up and after one month , he sends me email to meet again with usual sorry. He followed up and when I was ready for serious meeting , he never showed up again or pick up phone.

The 3rd one admits that, he is busy and can't make it that night. Then I saw him actively looking. I contacted him again and he responded well with possible availibility. I text again and he states that he felt I was not serious about it.

Next day i text him after seeing on line looking, he never responded.

4th guy I got email stating following:

 

What is your time frame looking like? Just a few things before we do this:

 

- Cash payment is due in full, at the beginning of our meeting.

- This would be for two hours. Anything else and we could negotiate a mutually agreeable price.

- I'd need a face pic before we meet.

- Safe sex always, no exceptions.

 

I hope this doesn't appear too rigid, I just like to get these things out of the way immediately.

I'm here to pleasure you in anyway I can. If there's something you'd like to try (within reason), let me know!

[+ azdr0710]

gee, sounds like stuff I've been reading here (and at hooboy's) for the past ten years!.....get used to it!.....

 

as always, never pay up front (and politely tell them that's what you'll be doing well ahead of time), communicate what you want to do thoroughly and nicely (and don't mention $$ in the same letter/call), trust your first instincts, take off if you don't like the way it's going (and say why).....

 

sorry it hasn't gone well....it's a fringe-y, dicey game sometimes....don't take it too seriously!!

[Decatur Guy]

Sounds like you need to start sticking with tried and true veterans.

[Xander]

If a provider doesn't make it easy for them to take your money, don't give it to them.

[Diverdan]

Who ever they were, they are not worth the time of day, let alone any fee... there are bigger, better and more delicious fish in this ocean !!

[smendez1942]

gee, sounds like stuff I've been reading here (and at hooboy's) for the past ten years!.....get used to it!.....

 

as always, never pay up front (and politely tell them that's what you'll be doing well ahead of time), communicate what you want to do thoroughly and nicely (and don't mention $$ in the same letter/call), trust your first instincts, take off if you don't like the way it's going (and say why).....

 

sorry it hasn't gone well....it's a fringe-y, dicey game sometimes....don't take it too seriously!!

 

 

 

this is all very sage advice