What is there a market for MORE of?

[CoolNChillGuy]

I'm curious to hear from the point of view of clients....are there any specific fetishes that you feel there is not a lot of Escorts that offer said fetish? Also, "Scenes" or roleplay?

Mind you, I'm not talking about detailed specifics here (i.e. yellow socks on a Arabian Man who dances to Madonna's Express Yourself while pissing himself in leather chaps and you watch as you shave your balls) I mean more general categories. Roleplay? Bondage? Scenarios? Etc?

 

I provide numerous clients with roleplay scenes which I often find a lot of fun and interesting. I consider it my specialty but am interested if there is more opportunity. Also, I have recently gotten more and more in to bondage/dominant scenes. One client in particular I have evolved with...learning and enjoying more exploration of that side of me. Tying him up, whipping him, spanking, ball torture, etc....

I have also done other fetishes, like water sports or couples (str8 & gay) and various roleplay scenes (dom, passive, family, coach, worker, etc) but want to hear what else is out there....and maybe find something I can market to.

 

I expect that the answers will be as diverse as the people there are in the world, but I would love to hear!

 

THANKS IN ADVANCE

[ErieBear]

Domination without S&M.

[bigvalboy]

Domination without S&M.

 

Agreed 100%...but I have yet to find an escort willing to patiently teach me. When I have asked through initial contact, they are always up for it, but once the session starts, I get the feeling that they are less interested in going slowly. The other part is roll play / oops I mean role-play.Thanks HT and T. I love role-play, but again every time I discuss on the phone or through emails what I want them to wear when they open the door, they never do. Sometimes it is close, but with (roll) play the right shirt sometimes is critical in the fantasy. If I want the fantasy of starting out with unbottoning a mans shirt, then coming to the door with a long sleeve t-shirt on is not going to work...lol

[ErieBear]

Agreed 100%...but I have yet to find an escort willing to patiently teach me. When I have asked through initial contact, they are always up for it, but once the session starts, I get the feeling that they are less interested in going slowly. The other part is roll play. I love that, but again every time I discuss on the phone or through emails what I want them to wear when they open the door, they never do. Sometimes it is close, but with roll play the right shirt sometimes is critical in the fantasy. If I want the fantasy of starting out with unbottoning a mans shirt, then coming to the door with a long sleeve t-shirt on is not going to work...lol

 

Yea, I've noticed that happening a few times as well. Of course, I've had a couple fantasies that didn't work out quite the way they did in my head. I had one fantasy of being manhandled in an elevator. I met the escort downstairs and we went up in the elevator together. He pushed me up against the wall and started fondling my ass. Unfortunately, the wall he pushed me up against had all the buttons and somehow they all got pushed simultaneously and alarms started going off. Of course, once I jumped back the alarms stopped. But it definitely killed the fantasy, lol.

[hornytwells]

Hi BVB-I am sorry, but couldn't resist being pedantic-unless your fantasy involves being wrapped in a bun, its "role-play" not roll play! my apologies for correcting you!

[tyro]

Eh...you just beet me too it!

My saucily pedantic self just couldn't resist...

T

PS Although, to be fair, I must concede that B does seem to enjoy a nice pair of buns...

[bigvalboy]

Hi BVB-I am sorry, but couldn't resist being pedantic-unless your fantasy involves being wrapped in a bun, its "role-play" not roll play! my apologies for correcting you!

 

Not a problem...you gave me a good laugh this morning. Of course being wrapped in a bun, isn't a bad idea either. lol lol "T" does seem to know what I like.

[hornytwells]

Glad you laughed! I have heard of weirder things than being wrapped in a bun......

[playwrestler]

I like to be dominated also... though gently. My fantasy role-play is a cross between a gentle wrestling session and massage. Needless to say this has been difficult to explain to escorts and I have come close a few times. The best by far was with Tristan Baldwin (incredibly sexy guy!) and I'm sure it would get better and better with repeated visits to the same escort (Tristan doesn't come to NYC that much, alas)

 

I'm sixty and in good shape, but obviously don't want to risk injury or bruising. I like a scene where the escort could definitely overpower and hurt me if he wanted, but as long as I play along and follow instructions he'll go easy. Say he puts me in a body scissors hold from behind and starts to slowly, slowly increase the squeeze. I might say "okay, that's enough." and he could respond "let's keep it there for a while until you get used to it, and then let's push your limits a little." With that he might ease up a little and start massaging my shoulders while telling me to relax. At a certain point he might say "okay, it's time to take it up a notch." and start increasing the squeeze again. Or, he might stay behind me and gently pull back my head into his armpit, saying "why don't you worship that for a while." as he tweaks my nips.

 

There are endless variations to this scenario and obviously some are sexier to me than other... but you get the picture.

[Irish69]

I like to be dominated also... though gently. My fantasy role-play is a cross between a gentle wrestling session and massage. Needless to say this has been difficult to explain to escorts and I have come close a few times. The best by far was with Tristan Baldwin (incredibly sexy guy!) and I'm sure it would get better and better with repeated visits to the same escort

 

LOVE IT!! *Big Bear Hug* To You Playwrestler From Me & Tristan :-)

[+ beethoven]

Playwrestler, I've sent you a PM asking for recommendations.

[Decatur Guy]

Here are a few niches worth exploring:

 

Specializing in threeways, either with another escort you like working with a lot or with another one the client chooses.

 

SAFE-SEX escort to places such as bathhouses and sex clubs. (I have done this before. I like it because I like semi-public/semi-sleazy slide of it without having to worry about who I'm with, what's his agenda or a bare cock trying to get in my ass, etc.)

 

You could play up specific activities: foot worship, pits, nipple play, etc.

 

The aforementioned domination without S&M or B&D.

[whipped guy]

Well how about this:

 

I like to mix it up with S&M type scenes. One of my hottest experiences occurred when an escort suddenly decided that he wanted to be on the other side of the equation and begged me to torture him. (The joke was that I should have charged HIM!) Other scorching experiences occurred when I was able to initiate a give and take where we both tortured each other and sought to see who would cry uncle first. Of course finding an escort willing to play such games is not exactly the easiest prospect... but they are out there... If not exactly a dime a dozen. Incidentally my selling point concerns the fact that to be a good S&M top one needs experiences as a bottom along the way. A fact that is indeed true. Also entering into the equation is the fact that the top must respect the bottoms limits and wishes. When those parameters are in effect it always results in a satisfying experience for all involved.

[+ g56whiz]

I like to be dominated also... though gently. My fantasy role-play is a cross between a gentle wrestling session and massage. Needless to say this has been difficult to explain to escorts and I have come close a few times. The best by far was with Tristan Baldwin (incredibly sexy guy!) and I'm sure it would get better and better with repeated visits to the same escort (Tristan doesn't come to NYC that much, alas)

 

DAMN!! Damn! You stole my fantasy which is to lose to Tristan in one naked round on NakedKombat.com. Although I'm fairly fit, I'm a decade older than you so it should take only a few moments, just enough moments for me to grab his monumental pecs and paw his naked butt before he plows mine!

[diggme23]

I've hired a number of escorts claiming to do fetish, and been disappointed with all of them. Of course I've only had the escorts to work with in the cities I've been in, and next time I'm in LA, you are on my list. Usually I'm trying to reenact the relationship I had with my college roomate, who would jump my, wrestle me down, manhandle me, tie me up, and have his way with me. I understand why escorts would be reluctant to play this out, but to me it was always a pretty hot scenario. Reinacting something from straighthell.com or bound gods would be awesome as well, but everyone I've booked has claimed that the scenario would be cool, including one I booked for an overnight, and then when I show up they tell me to strip, get on the bed, get tied up, get slapped around for 15 minutes, and then it's done. I would love to find an escort who wants the client to fight back a little.

[whipped guy]

I've hired a number of escorts claiming to do fetish, and been disappointed with all of them... everyone I've booked has claimed that the scenario would be cool, including one I booked for an overnight, and then when I show up they tell me to strip, get on the bed, get tied up, get slapped around for 15 minutes, and then it's done. I would love to find an escort who wants the client to fight back a little.

Hey diggme... Sorry to hear about this string of bad luck!! Most dominant type escorts enjoy a client who wants "to fight back" as that only helps them assert themselves more. With any luck the pendulum will swing in the other direction. In any event, only 15 minutes of fun would be unacceptable by any standards. Still, like most things today certain standards have been lowered... Plus there are a lot of guys who advertise that they do it all just to grab the business and then can't deliver. Here's wishing you better luck in the future!!!

 

PS: In some respects I share your frustrations. Even in NYC it is difficult to find a reliable S&M type escort. Though I am told Sir Tony (Bishop) is quite good. Plus there are options in Chicago with Raul and Romann. Hopefully your travels will result in a successful hookup or two... or more!!!

[Guest verymarried]

This is not n SM fetish but on the opposite side of the market. One of my things is the boyfriend fantasy. I find few escorts willing to go out in public like to gay bars, and kiss, hold hands and other boy friend type actions. Some of us are from closet situations where public display of affection is totally out of the question. For example, on most nights I would rather hold hands on Bourbon Street than slide between the sheets back at the hotel. For every dozen escorts I approach about such activity when I travel for biz, I may get one willing to do this if I am lucky.

[bigvalboy]

Plus there are options in Chicago with Raul

 

Just wanted to throw my 2 cents in for Raul of Chicago. Saw him when he came to SoCal, and he was traveling mind you, but still showed up with 2 suit cases full of (ahem) equipment. We had a good laugh about how he gets through security. Very patient teacher, and came prepared with almost everything you can imagine. So it is totally up to the client as to what direction they want to go in. Good luck...

[whipped guy]

Just wanted to throw my 2 cents in for Raul of Chicago. Saw him when he came to SoCal, and he was traveling mind you, but still showed up with 2 suit cases full of (ahem) equipment...

Well let me throw in two more cents as Raul's "equipment" is mostly home-made and quite beautifully made too boot!! I recall going to the Leatherman in NYC with Raul and a couple of other forum buds and we all remarked how Raul's accoutrements were of a much higher quality... and especially his finely crafted wooden paddles. Definite works of art... and functional as well!

[bigvalboy]

especially his finely crafted wooden paddles. Definite works of art... and functional as well!

 

lol lol...I told him the paddles were to stay in his suit case. Not ready for that yet.

[whipped guy]

lol lol...I told him the paddles were to stay in his suit case. Not ready for that yet.

Yes, but they are so beautifully varnished and polished that there is no way that you would get any splinters!!!

[bigvalboy]

Yes, but they are so beautifully varnished and polished that there is no way that you would get any splinters!!!

 

;)

[scatphilly]

Shortage of serious raunch tops

 

I'm curious to hear from the point of view of clients....are there any specific fetishes that you feel there is not a lot of Escorts that offer said fetish? Also, "Scenes" or roleplay?

Mind you, I'm not talking about detailed specifics here (i.e. yellow socks on a Arabian Man who dances to Madonna's Express Yourself while pissing himself in leather chaps and you watch as you shave your balls) I mean more general categories. Roleplay? Bondage? Scenarios? Etc?

 

I provide numerous clients with roleplay scenes which I often find a lot of fun and interesting. I consider it my specialty but am interested if there is more opportunity. Also, I have recently gotten more and more in to bondage/dominant scenes. One client in particular I have evolved with...learning and enjoying more exploration of that side of me. Tying him up, whipping him, spanking, ball torture, etc....

I have also done other fetishes, like water sports or couples (str8 & gay) and various roleplay scenes (dom, passive, family, coach, worker, etc) but want to hear what else is out there....and maybe find something I can market to.

 

I expect that the answers will be as diverse as the people there are in the world, but I would love to hear!

 

THANKS IN ADVANCE

 

Lots of talk, little action

[BaronArtz]

I have this fetish of having sex with a priest. The escort would be stark naked under his black cassock. The scene in a church (or similar), with gregorian chants playing in the back ground. Sort of like what Rafael Alencar performed in 'Gored'. Unfortunately, I haven't yet found an escort yet who could do it. I live in NYC. Any recommendations would be welcome!

[Guest verymarried]

I once pre-arranged to meet an escort in the second row of St Louis Catherdral in the French Quarter. I would be kneeling with my head down. It was like a Hitchcock movie somehow. Of course nothing happened in the church but kneeling in this amazing space, touching this very hot guy was very erotic.