Beware of Bo Dean!!!

[maxwellissmart]

Maybe in your world, certainly not in mine. One cannot and should not corral the bulk of amazing escorts out there, that provide countless memorable and rewarding experiences to so many of us, into one statement that encompasses an entire profession...Just my opinion.

 

This is not an opinion—it's a fact. The vast majority of escort/client interactions leave both mutually satisfied, and often in more ways than one. Burnsy had multiple warning signs and chose to ignore them, and so the appointment dragged on...

 

While I'm not one to say "HA, I told you so!" I'm also not going to join in the inevitable chorus of "There, there baby." We are all grownups here, and it's been well established that escorting is not for everyone or for the faint of heart.

 

If you smell smoke—there's a fire. Get out as quickly and as calmly as possible.

[robberbaron4u]

Prudent advice, in my opinion. . .

[BaronArtz]

I have much sympathy for 'Burnsy', but let's not forget that we have heard it from one side only. Not to be inconsiderate, but I find the entire episode as a whole and in its seperate aspects a bit ... shaky. Could it be that 'Burnsy' was under some influence himself? I am not ready to rule that out.

[bigvalboy]

Could it be that 'Burnsy' was under some influence himself? I am not ready to rule that out.

 

I think that might be a bit of a stretch. I saw no evidence of that in his review. I think he spoke clearly and candidly about the experience. I also am willing to take BG at his word that burnsy is very "truthful" and very kind, which could explain his extension of the encounter far beyond what he should have...

[Bosguy]

I think that might be a bit of a stretch. I saw no evidence of that in his review. I think he spoke clearly and candidly about the experience. I also am willing to take BG at his word that burnsy is very "truthful" and very kind, which could explain his extension of the encounter far beyond what he should have...

 

While it is a disturbing review, I believe that both sides should be heard before making a judgement because someone believes without proper knowledge that one of the parties is truthfull and kind.

 

Boston Bill

[BaronArtz]

While it is a disturbing review, I believe that both sides should be heard before making a judgement because someone believes without proper knowledge that one of the parties is truthfull and kind.

 

Boston Bill

 

Exactly. Especially when there are some really bizarre aspects to the review. Let's remember that this 'review' was announced with a lot of RA RA RA on this site way before it was even published, which makes me sceptical. Is this just an effort at self-justification, when the hang-over did finally set in?

[Walker1]

It is always easy to look at things in hindsight and judge. But this guy is a porn star and somewhat well known. So it might have taken some time for the sheen to wear off and to look at the reality staring you in the face. Good thing is Burnsy got away.

 

Perhaps escorts face the same issue-sometimes going to a strange home or hotel and finding a client very high or mentally off -or both- and then having to flee.

[burnsy]

Oh, I forgot to mention in my review that when we were in the restaurant the biatch next table asked him if he was in the prison gang because of the tattoos on his neck, maybe that's the reason he went crazy. Or he really hated the duck I ordered, or the poutine he ordered didn't have cheese curds on it so he freaked out in the car.

 

All jokes aside, seriously, I told what happened. Not looking for sympathy here. You can trust me or you don't. You can tell me what I should have done. I've put it to rest.

[bigvalboy]

It is always easy to look at things in hindsight and judge.

 

Exactly....

 

Good thing is Burnsy got away.

 

 

Exactly again....

[bigvalboy]

Oh, I forgot to mention in my review that when we were in the restaurant the biatch next table asked him if he was in the prison gang because of the tattoos on his neck, maybe that's the reason he went crazy. Or he really hated the duck I ordered, or the poutine he ordered didn't have cheese curds on it so he freaked out in the car.

 

All jokes aside, seriously, I told what happened. Not looking for sympathy here. You can trust me or you don't. You can tell me what I should have done. I've put it to rest.

 

I for one thank you for coming to the forum and discussing, then posting a potentially controversial review here, knowing that you would open yourself up to criticism. In the end I think you not only did the right thing but also learned a lot from the experience. I trust what you said, and am glad that in the end it worked out all right.

[rvwnsd]

This is not an opinion—it's a fact. The vast majority of escort/client interactions leave both mutually satisfied, and often in more ways than one. Burnsy had multiple warning signs and chose to ignore them, and so the appointment dragged on...

 

While I'm not one to say "HA, I told you so!" I'm also not going to join in the inevitable chorus of "There, there baby." We are all grownups here, and it's been well established that escorting is not for everyone or for the faint of heart.

 

If you smell smoke—there's a fire. Get out as quickly and as calmly as possible.

 

I completely agree with max.

 

While reading the review, I couldn't help but think "why invite someone to dinner when they behave like they are high or drunk" and "why on earth would someone get into the car with this man?" For that matter, why allow him to spend thirty minutes setting up an email account on his phone in the room? At first, it seemed like leaving the hotel with him was a ploy to get him out of the room and then bolt back upstairs or have a "change of heart" on dinner. But no, the car ride took place, as did ordering several expensive dishes and a car ride back to the hotel. If it had been me (and I would not have let the evening progress as far as dinner) at the restaurant, I would have called a cab.

[Okliehomo]

Can't win for losing....

 

Burnsy posted a warning.... Bad, bad Burnsy!!! Everybody screamed bloody murder and demanded a review.

 

Burnsy posted a review.... Bad, bad Burnsy!!! Still not quite good enough.

 

Rough room. As always, when it comes to clients.

 

You know, boys, believe it or not, sometimes the client isn't wrong. Sometimes, you do everything right and still get the wrong result and sometimes, you have to make the best of a bad situation. Especially, if it is an overnite and there ain't no place to go. Now, I know that the case in question was not. Burnsy could have left, but sometimes, it's like watching a car wreck and you can't believe it's gone so wrong. So, maybe you do take them to dinner to see if it gets better, in an effort to salvage the evening and make it all not such a waste?? I did it with Aiden Shaw and it still all went to shit. Sometimes, you can't stop crazy.

 

And some of you might be asking why these bad situations haven't been reviewed?? Hmmm.... Because of threads like this. The overall rush to bash the guys that really hire by a bunch of guys that don't.

 

So, I applaud Burnsy. He balled up and wrote a review and described the events of the evening. And such a shock that the escort in question didn't respond. No doubt, the voices in his head told him not to.....

 

Okie

[JackTwist]

Bravo Okie! I've always admired your voice of experience and reason.

[JT Brooklyn]

Burnsy posted a warning.... Bad, bad Burnsy!!! Everybody screamed bloody murder and demanded a review.

 

Burnsy posted a review.... Bad, bad Burnsy!!! Still not quite good enough.

 

Rough room. As always, when it comes to clients.

 

You know, boys, believe it or not, sometimes the client isn't wrong. Sometimes, you do everything right and still get the wrong result and sometimes, you have to make the best of a bad situation. Especially, if it is an overnite and there ain't no place to go. Now, I know that the case in question was not. Burnsy could have left, but sometimes, it's like watching a car wreck and you can't believe it's gone so wrong. So, maybe you do take them to dinner to see if it gets better, in an effort to salvage the evening and make it all not such a waste?? I did it with Aiden Shaw and it still all went to shit. Sometimes, you can't stop crazy.

 

And some of you might be asking why these bad situations haven't been reviewed?? Hmmm.... Because of threads like this. The overall rush to bash the guys that really hire by a bunch of guys that don't.

 

So, I applaud Burnsy. He balled up and wrote a review and described the events of the evening. And such a shock that the escort in question didn't respond. No doubt, the voices in his head told him not to.....

 

Okie

 

Totally Agree with Okie! A guy who knows a thing or alot about "The Wonderful World of The Working Guys"!

 

"Pure Crap" to lay any "Truthful" Bad Experience with a "Working Guy" on a Client! The NO RESPONSE says it all!

 

Sorry the "Bo Dean Fantasy" is now only for Video Watcher's... He's just another Name on a long List!

[bigvalboy]

You know, boys, believe it or not, sometimes the client isn't wrong. Sometimes, you do everything right and still get the wrong result and sometimes, you have to make the best of a bad situation.

 

Especially, if it is an overnite and there ain't no place to go.

 

 

but sometimes, it's like watching a car wreck and you can't believe it's gone so wrong. So, maybe you do take them to dinner to see if it gets better, in an effort to salvage the evening and make it all not such a waste??

 

Been there a couple of times in the 40 plus years of hiring. Okie is right, sometimes no matter what you do to try and save the hire, it still all goes to shit. You ALWAYS wake up the next day and say to yourself...

 

Shoulda, coulda, woulda...

 

 

The overall rush to bash the guys that really hire by a bunch of guys that don't.

 

 

More true than you know...

[Guy Fawkes]

You know it's time to fill the hole back in...

 

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