Marc Dylan

[wayout]

One thing interesting about the review is that it is very specific about acne. No other reviews state that and not sure from his vids if that is something soneone would pick up on. Perhaps bvb, who very recently met Marc, could say something if that is true or not. I have no idea if the reviewer is fabricating things or not, but just thought this one detail would be somewhat telling one way or the other (but certainly not conclusive either).

 

Also, bvb, curious if when you met Marc whether he knew ahead of time that you are a member of the forum?

 

I personally find Marc someone I would love to meet. I respect his views and his right to determine how to operate his business.

[Marc Dylan]

One thing interesting about the review is that it is very specific about acne. No other reviews state that and not sure from his vids if that is something soneone would pick up on. Perhaps bvb, who very recently met Marc, could say something if that is true or not. I have no idea if the reviewer is fabricating things or not, but just thought this one detail would be somewhat telling one way or the other (but certainly not conclusive either).

 

Also, bvb, curious if when you met Marc whether he knew ahead of time that you are a member of the forum?

 

I personally find Marc someone I would love to meet. I respect his views and his right to determine how to operate his business.

 

My back is not broken out, also Im never freshly shaven, unless im filming i always have a little scruff. Yes , i knew BVB was a member of the forum. Thats how we connected.

[jimboivyo]

Today's review of Mr. Dylan is difficult to comprehend when you read his other reviews, however, I wonder why he did not respond when given the chance. Unfortunately, I will never get the chance to judge his performance for myself because I am not,, on this day or any other day, going to pay an escort $300 much less the $400 the reviewer payed for his experience. More and more escorts list themselves at these levels but I have a hard time believing they get that much.

 

escorts who have multiple good write ups can charge these kinds of rates and get them. they are worth the splurge as long as they keep a high level of interaction

 

escorts who bank on a porn name have an uphill battle from the start. Would have liked to see marc respond to the review. an escort not getting his chance to respond to an ill review is not the norm

[jimboivyo]

And we see how Marc reacts when I've never slammed him. All I've ever done is relay accurate information from Marc himself. I also wanted to give an accurate representation of myself. Most escorts say it doesn't matter. But I wouldn't want to lie about my appearance. Just like I wouldn't want him to lie about his. Ok it's a business. He doesn't want my business. But I was never cruel about him in a public forum. So let the renter beware.

 

Gman

 

I'd hire him. He was up front with you and that's rare in this business. I'm fine with that.

 

I wouldn't call anything he said cruel. It sounds as if you painted a very lonely picture to marc and he didn't fall in line with what you wanted. it happens.

[Marc Dylan]

Hey there, I did not get the chance to respond . Never got an email about it. Here is my response , that review is fake. Im NOT SORRY since it never happened . The entire world knows Im gay , so for him to say im "Mostly straight" is idiotic. ANYONE on here who has met me will tell you i NEVER have asked for money upfront. Im not in my 30's . The only time im freshly shaven is for a video, other than that i like a little scruff which all my rent boy pictures show. My back is not terribly broken out. Also , i love to chat with people , so saying he tried to make small talk with me and i didnt engage is a total lie. I think its either someone who was upset because they not want to pay my escorting rate or they booked me for a massage and tried to turn it into more and i said no. I think its just someone who did not meet me. I keep very detailed records of all my trips I never had a 1hr $ 400 escorting appointment there, so i know it didnt happen. The person who wrote that is one bitter Pill. Shadowcatzxxx, OperaLover, Bigvalboy have all met me i person I think they would be willing to agree this review is not reflective of how i comport myself

[corndog]

Forgive me for taking this thread a little off-topic, but I think there are two interesting things brought up here:

 

1. Marc apparently turned down an appointment with gman because he described himself as ugly. I'm guessing that Marc never saw gman to make that determination for himself. So, in effect, he wasn't turning down a client based on their looks, he was turning down a client based on their self image and/or self confidence. I think that a truly professional escort has to deal with the appearance of their clients, but I have a little more respect for him turning down a client who's got self image issues.

 

2. I sometimes wonder if escorts who are basically straight have an easier job of it. They're equally attracted to all their clients, which is to say, not attracted at all; it's all a performance. For gay escorts, on the other hand, their performance is surely effected by the "hotness" of the client. If they can manage to find the client hot, they have a great time and give the client a great experience, but if they can't find chemistry, the job is much more difficult, and the end result suffers.

[maxwellissmart]

Forgive me for taking this thread a little off-topic, but I think there are two interesting things brought up here:

 

1. Marc apparently turned down an appointment with gman because he described himself as ugly. I'm guessing that Marc never saw gman to make that determination for himself. So, in effect, he wasn't turning down a client based on their looks, he was turning down a client based on their self image and/or self confidence. I think that a truly professional escort has to deal with the appearance of their clients, but I have a little more respect for him turning down a client who's got self image issues.

 

I don't care if Marc is a first-class bastard. I've read enough of Debbie Downer's posts to know that if he were to ever contact me, I'd turn him down flat, sight unseen. There's absolutely nothing worse than meeting up with the perpetual sigher who can't be pleased, for any reason. And fortunately for escorts everywhere, Gman isn't hiring anymore.

 

2. I sometimes wonder if escorts who are basically straight have an easier job of it. They're equally attracted to all their clients, which is to say, not attracted at all; it's all a performance. For gay escorts, on the other hand, their performance is surely effected by the "hotness" of the client. If they can manage to find the client hot, they have a great time and give the client a great experience, but if they can't find chemistry, the job is much more difficult, and the end result suffers.

 

Going back to another thread about whether clients could do an escort's job—performance (in bed, anyway) is incredibly hard. And why a client would want some ersatz encounter filled to the brim with pretending is beyond me. I have to convince clients all the time that I've actually had fun—is it really that hard to believe?

[bigvalboy]

The entire world knows Im gay , so for him to say im "Mostly straight" is idiotic.

 

Absolutely true...

 

ANYONE on here who has met me will tell you i NEVER have asked for money upfront.

Im not in my 30's

.

 

True...on both counts. He never even discussed money until I was dressed and getting ready to leave, and it was me who mentioned the money. I even tried tipping him a nice sum, and he emphatically refused. I don't care how many pictures you look at, 30's is just not an age that comes to mind.

 

Also , i love to chat with people , so saying he tried to make small talk with me and i didnt

 

Marc and I and a friend talked non stop for the better part of 6-7 hours. Never once did the conversation drag, not even for a moment.

 

 

Shadowcatzxxx, OperaLover, Bigvalboy have all met me i person

 

 

The bad review could have come from a competitor.

[Marc Dylan]

Forgive me for taking this thread a little off-topic, but I think there are two interesting things brought up here:

 

1. Marc apparently turned down an appointment with gman because he described himself as ugly. I'm guessing that Marc never saw gman to make that determination for himself. So, in effect, he wasn't turning down a client based on their looks, he was turning down a client based on their self image and/or self confidence. I think that a truly professional escort has to deal with the appearance of their clients, but I have a little more respect for him turning down a client who's got self image issues.

 

2. I sometimes wonder if escorts who are basically straight have an easier job of it. They're equally attracted to all their clients, which is to say, not attracted at all; it's all a performance. For gay escorts, on the other hand, their performance is surely effected by the "hotness" of the client. If they can manage to find the client hot, they have a great time and give the client a great experience, but if they can't find chemistry, the job is much more difficult, and the end result suffers.

 

I agree with point 2 very much. As far as point 1, just because I escort does not mean I cant decide who I would like to see. I dont think anyone has to "deal" with anything they are uncomfortable with . I would always rather meet with someone who I can give a good experience, which requires some attraction. As I have said on another thread , age is never a factor for me . I have met great guys of all ages. I have also met guys who I feel I should be paying. My preference is meeting guys who are reasonably HWP, so many guys fit that bill so why should I meet with someone that I would not be able to give a great experience to? I think its very professional to recognize when you cant accomodate the needs of your customer and advise them of that rather than take their money

[Marc Dylan]

Today's review of Mr. Dylan is difficult to comprehend when you read his other reviews, however, I wonder why he did not respond when given the chance. Unfortunately, I will never get the chance to judge his performance for myself because I am not,, on this day or any other day, going to pay an escort $300 much less the $400 the reviewer payed for his experience. More and more escorts list themselves at these levels but I have a hard time believing they get that much.

 

The reviewer did not pay that for his experience because I did not meet with that person.

[RockHard]

Debbie Downer. (Love that.)

 

I like Marc Dylan. I think he's dead on about passive-aggressive treatment here. This board is KNOWN for its passive-aggressive patients.

 

I mean no offense to Gman, but customers with low self-esteem are a royal pain in the ass. If you genuinely don't like yourself or the way you look, and you express extreme unhappiness with it all, how on earth is someone else supposed to find that behavior sexy?

 

Intimacy requires two people to participate. If one sets the scene for utter failure, the team effort (if one ever comes to pass) will also fail.

 

I understand there are a lot of guys out there who think they're ugly and know they are too fat, and they long to have sex with a hot man. But some of these guys manage to find a way to love themselves, and if you do love yourself, a reasonable, decent escort will know how to find you sexy and work with what you have to offer.

 

It would never occur to me to ask an escort if he performs certain acts. I can't imagine having sex determined by a numbered list. Sex should come naturally. If a guy says in his ad that he likes to kiss, then keep your mouth shut and hope that you'll get a taste of his mouth (if he finds your breath sweet and your personality charming). Don't go and fuck things up by providing 100 reasons why kissing you will be a disgusting experience.

 

Nobody wants to love a man who can't love himself. And most escorts don't want to pretend because the money ain't worth all that baggage. Almost always, those self-inflicted obstacles are too difficult to overcome.

[Marc Dylan]

I like Marc Dylan. I think he's dead on about passive-aggressive treatment here. This board is KNOWN for its passive-aggressive patients.

 

I mean no offense to Gman, but customers with low self-esteem are a royal pain in the ass. If you genuinely don't like yourself or the way you look, and you express extreme unhappiness with it all, how on earth is someone else supposed to find that behavior sexy?

 

Intimacy requires two people to participate. If one sets the scene for utter failure, the team effort (if one ever comes to pass) will also fail.

 

I understand there are a lot of guys out there who think they're ugly and know they are too fat, and they long to have sex with a hot man. But some of these guys manage to find a way to love themselves, and if you do love yourself, a reasonable, decent escort will know how to find you sexy and work with what you have to offer.

 

It would never occur to me to ask an escort if he performs certain acts. I can't imagine having sex determined by a numbered list. Sex should come naturally. If a guy says in his ad that he likes to kiss, then keep your mouth shut and hope that you'll get a taste of his mouth (if he finds your breath sweet and your personality charming). Don't go and fuck things up by providing 100 reasons why kissing you will be a disgusting experience.

 

Nobody wants to love a man who can't love himself. And most escorts don't want to pretend because the money ain't worth all that baggage. Almost always, those self-inflicted obstacles are too difficult to overcome.

 

Happy Thanksgiving to you ! Hope you are having a great one. I couldnt have written a better response. Very well said.

[daviddd49]

Dear Marc,

 

Consider me one of those who would enjoy meeting you, client-situation or not. The way you've comported yourself -- particularly in the face of such a horrid review -- has been exemplary.

[Marc Dylan]

Dear Marc,

 

Consider me one of those who would enjoy meeting you, client-situation or not. The way you've comported yourself -- particularly in the face of such a horrid review -- has been exemplary.

 

Awww, well thank you very much. Thats much appreciated . Hey , it comes with the territory tho. I think its sad when people resort to writing fake slanderous reviews , but in the grand scheme of things who really cares. Hopefully you are having a great Thanksgiving. I just finshed making sauce and pasta. Anyhoo, have a great turkeyday.

[jawjateck]

For the few of us among the client population who participate in this forum, we have access to info which allows us to make an appropriate hiring decision with regard to Marc. We can see his ad, ponder his reviews, consider the comments of admirers and detractors, but Marc's posts provide keen insight from which a potential client can decide to hire him or take a pass. This forum continues to serve us well.

[seeker630]

For the few of us among the client population who participate in this forum, we have access to info which allows us to make an appropriate hiring decision with regard to Marc. We can see his ad, ponder his reviews, consider the comments of admirers and detractors, but Marc's posts provide keen insight from which a potential client can decide to hire him or take a pass. This forum continues to serve us well.

 

But it does all come down to trust. At the end of the day, it's all hearsay -we each decide who & when to believe/trust. And that includes the 'public' persona's we see here.

I tend to take people at face value, here & elsewhere - but I'm always aware that what people say & how they act here might not be a true reflection of their complete personality.

 

As an aside - I tend to take Marc at his word because he's said things that are sure to offend a number of people here. I wouldn't hire him because I know he would consider me a less desirable client, but I have no problem with that, since he's been honest about it.

[good ol boy]

I have emailed, texted, and talked on the Marc on the phone. Once we talked on the phone for about 4 hours. We clicked on many topics. He is intelligent, well written, and articulate. He is driven, motivated, and moving in a direction. Here is the catch, I have yet to hire him as we have not been in the same city at the same time. One day in 2013, I am confident that we will meet face to face and I will rent him, hire him, fuck him. After that we may even eat dinner. Maybe he will pay, maybe I will pay, or maybe we will go dutch.

 

In conclusion, gentlemen, I have never encountered someone (pre-meeting) who is more sincere, communicative, and available.

 

Today, I hope you remember to take some time to think about things for which you are thankful.

[jawjateck]

As an aside - I tend to take Marc at his word because he's said things that are sure to offend a number of people here. I wouldn't hire him because I know he would consider me a less desirable client, but I have no problem with that, since he's been honest about it.

 

Exactly, the utility of this forum has allowed you to make a decision that works best for you, and goes far beyond a 2-D rentboy ad which leaves you guessing about compatibility with a provider. Unfortunately, very few providers participate and proffer such candor and clarity, but for each one who does, I pay attention.

 

If the forum devolved into a mere cheering session where favorites are always applauded, and the contrarian perspective is suppressed, this forum wouldn't be worth a damn. I still see its value which I is why I maintain my citizenship here.

[seeker630]

Exactly, the utility of this forum has allowed you to make a decision that works best for you, and goes far beyond a 2-D rentboy ad which leaves you guessing about compatibility with a provider. Unfortunately, very few providers participate and proffer such candor and clarity, but for each one who does, I pay attention.

 

If the forum devolved into a mere cheering session where favorites are always applauded, and the contrarian perspective is suppressed, this forum wouldn't be worth a damn. I still see its value which I is why I maintain my citizenship here.

 

jawja, I don't disagree. My post was intended as a reminder this place is not an infallible source of wisdom. But obviously it has value.

[Walker1]

Well, good or bad, publicity is always good! It is all good-I did look at today's review and linked to his rentboy ad , he sure is one handsome fella!!

[Guy Fawkes]

You always have a chance to respond to the review. Just because it was published doesn't mean that the opportunity has gone away.

 

I applaud the level headed approach that you taking (in private) to address the review. I just responded to your PM before I saw the thread.

 

Sorry I've been busy today fixing a rather amazing "THE GOVERNOR OF WISCONSIN'S ROAST DUCK WITH ORANGE SAUCE" which turned out to be fairly easy to prepare. I was able to Flambé it because of the liqueur, and the look on their faces was amazing.

[JT Brooklyn]

I think Marc has been discussed more than enough on this Forum. He is what he is and his fees are what they are. I believe he has been open and real in his responses to good and bad posts. Basically, take him or leave him. I admire any guy who stands up for himself.

Let's just move on to another person/topic

 

Boston Bill

 

Totally Agree with Bosguy!

[buckguy]

The problem here has been that people have wanted to make him wonderful or terrible and credible posters have weighed-in pro and con. Most people have inconsistencies in their behavior and the only constant is that inconsistencies. He may simply not be for everyone, which is always a problem for the fanboys. He wouldn't be the first and having multiple dimensions of an escort is more informative than just kvelling.

[tyro]

"Kvelling" was a new one on me. Thanks for using it!

T

[operalover21]

Let's face it: there are a lot of small, jealous, bitchy, entitled people in this world. That's what this whole nonsense revolves around. A bunch of people who need to get over themselves. A bunch of us like and appreciate Marc Dylan. A number of us have become his friends and feel grateful for that. I could relate a number of small kindnesses that Marc has done for me after having been a client of his only a few times but it's really no one's business. But he's always considerate and a southern gentleman.

 

But the haters and entitled will never give up. Like cockroaches, they never go away.