Is It Unreasonable To Ask An Escort To Dress In A Suit and Tie?

[+ LIguy]

Guys dressed in white shirts,ties,suits or dress slacks really get me going so I won't hire unless an escort agrees to dress for me but unfortunately I seem to get turned down alot. Is this an unreasonable request?..I never try and bargain their fees.Whatever fees they advertise I accept. I will say that I can be somewhat picky on the guys I contact as I mostly look for hairy men with little to no ink and piercings.

[Decatur Guy]

I think a guy in a suit and tie is pretty hot myself. And I don't think it's really that out there as a request at all. Most people own suits. That said, I'm not as beholden to the fetish as you are, and I've actually never requested anyone do that. I'd never let an otherwise hot encounter go by the wayside just because of clothes. But if that is what really turns your crank, it is what it is. But you're going to continue to miss out sometimes, as you see.

[jasoncarter_dfw]

I had this requested of me once for an incall and I had no problem accommodating his request...and it ended up being a pretty hot session! I always have a dark & a light suit drycleaned and ready....you never know when you have to dress up!

 

Guys dressed in white shirts,ties,suits or dress slacks really get me going so I won't hire unless an escort agrees to dress for me but unfortunately I seem to get turned down alot. Is this an unreasonable request?..I never try and bargain their fees.Whatever fees they advertise I accept. I will say that I can be somewhat picky on the guys I contact as I mostly look for hairy men with little to no ink and piercings.

[Diverdan]

It is not unreasonable, and especiallly if they are coming to you at an upscale or luxury hotel, or you are going to an event together where that will be the common dress code, such as to some concerts, dinners, etc. I always discuss this ahead of time, and have never had a problem, but I only do it if the occassion would require it, not on a routine basis... although I too think that a good looking man in a suit and tie can be very HOT...

[jjkrkwood]

Its not an unreasonable request, nor is it unreasonable for the escort to REFUSE. Just as certain things turn you on, you should not assume that just because you are "paying" an escort will accept your offer and requests. Escorts may also have "preferences" and your little "fetish" may not suit him. Each and every person is Free to make their own choices and decisions. If you are tunrned down, move on and seek out others. Eventually you will strike Gold. A lot of guys post "I am picky" but dont feel the escort has a right to be "picky" too. While you may continue to insist that you "respect" escorts, the fact that you may be surprised at getting rejected, which often turns to anger proves that you hold escorts up to different standards that does NOT include the freedom of choice.

[bigvalboy]

I requested a dress shirt, tie and sport coat as part of a fantasy once. He said it was absolutely no problem, but when I arrived he had on jeans and a t-shirt. I continued, but I was disappointed. Don't say yes unless you are professional enough to accommodate the client.

[+ LIguy]

Its not an unreasonable request, nor is it unreasonable for the escort to REFUSE. Just as certain things turn you on, you should not assume that just because you are "paying" an escort will accept your offer and requests. Escorts may also have "preferences" and your little "fetish" may not suit him. Each and every person is Free to make their own choices and decisions. If you are tunrned down, move on and seek out others. Eventually you will strike Gold. A lot of guys post "I am picky" but dont feel the escort has a right to be "picky" too. While you may continue to insist that you "respect" escorts, the fact that you may be surprised at getting rejected, which often turns to anger proves that you hold escorts up to different standards that does NOT include the freedom of choice.

 

Anger? Disrepect? What a dumb answer to a simple question. No wonder you don't get along with many members on this board and YOUR response is one of the reasons I stopped posting on here.

[Mac64]

LIguy I'm with you. The board is here for us to help each other out, not to pontificate and/or try to start a debate or argument on a topic. The nice answer is no it's not unreasonable to ask for an escort to wear a suit and tie. Many will probably oblige, some will not, and at that point it's up to you to choose how important the suit and tie is to you. Happy Hiring!

[bigvalboy]

I have a second thought on this. When thinking about my escort who did not accommodate me, perhaps it is simple for us to think that putting on a suit is not a big deal, but perhaps many of these guys just don't own a suit. Many escorts are young and many social environments are so casual these days, perhaps it is that simple. Some seasoned escorts probably own a suit, but I could see a young escort not owning one. It is possible. When I think back on the evening, I do remember looking in his closet as we dressed to go to dinner. He was not only young, but a very WEHO kinda guy, meaning he was a jeans and T-Shirt kinda guy. He probably didn't own one.

 

I am not sure if they are giving you a reason for turning you down, but in my opinion they owe you an explanation, like "I would love to, but I am afraid I don't own a suit" ....that I could accept.

[+ Travis69]

I have a second thought on this. When thinking about my escort who did not accommodate me, perhaps it is simple for us to think that putting on a suit is not a big deal, but perhaps many of these guys just don't own a suit. Many escorts are young and many social environments are so casual these days, perhaps it is that simple. Some seasoned escorts probably own a suit, but I could see a young escort not owning one. It is possible. When I think back on the evening, I do remember looking in his closet as we dressed to go to dinner. He was not only young, but a very WEHO kinda guy, meaning he was a jeans and T-Shirt kinda guy. He probably didn't own one.

 

I am not sure if they are giving you a reason for turning you down, but in my opinion they owe you an explanation, like "I would love to, but I am afraid I don't own a suit" ....that I could accept.

 

I agree. Casual wear is so acceptable compared to when I was young. Look at the way people dress for church, funerals, work in an office environment or weddings. When I was 8 years old I had sports coats, overcoats, clip-on bow ties. Didn't see that as my nephews were growing up. "Dress up" for them was a nice pair of slacks and shirt.

[down_to_business]

Anger? Disrepect? What a dumb answer to a simple question. No wonder you don't get along with many members on this board and YOUR response is one of the reasons I stopped posting on here.

 

LIguy I'm with you. The board is here for us to help each other out, not to pontificate and/or try to start a debate or argument on a topic. The nice answer is no it's not unreasonable to ask for an escort to wear a suit and tie. Many will probably oblige, some will not, and at that point it's up to you to choose how important the suit and tie is to you. Happy Hiring!

 

+1 That is most definitely a reasonable request and I agree with your comments.

[seeker630]

I have a second thought on this. When thinking about my escort who did not accommodate me, perhaps it is simple for us to think that putting on a suit is not a big deal, but perhaps many of these guys just don't own a suit. Many escorts are young and many social environments are so casual these days, perhaps it is that simple. Some seasoned escorts probably own a suit, but I could see a young escort not owning one. It is possible.

 

I agree. Casual wear is so acceptable compared to when I was young. Look at the way people dress for church, funerals, work in an office environment or weddings. When I was 8 years old I had sports coats, overcoats, clip-on bow ties. Didn't see that as my nephews were growing up. "Dress up" for them was a nice pair of slacks and shirt.

 

I agree. Wearing suits is much less common today, especially among the younger generation.

[SteveEscort]

No it's not unreasonable. I always arrived smart casual unless specified but if it's a formal appointment with fun afterwards like a theatre date I would always wear a suit anyway.

 

You're paying an escort an awful lot of money, make sure you get what YOU want

[+ LIguy]

Thanks for your input,Steve and to most of the other members for their thoughts. I always felt that you you go to an escort to realize a fantasy and the suit n tie thing is my fantasy. I am well aware that many young guys do not have the clothes to wear and that's why I tell them that a dress shirt,tie and dress slacks would be fine. On another note I have never turned down a really hot guy that I was attracted to because he did not want to dress. And yes,some guys do not know how to dress and would come in and hand me their tie and ask me to tie it for them. It kinda broke the moment but it's all good.

I just wanted some input and again I appreciate your thoughts and comments.Little did I know that I was going to get a psych evaluation.

 

No it's not unreasonable. I always arrived smart casual unless specified but if it's a formal appointment with fun afterwards like a theatre date I would always wear a suit anyway.

 

You're paying an escort an awful lot of money, make sure you get what YOU want

[jjkrkwood]

Anger? Disrepect? What a dumb answer to a simple question. No wonder you don't get along with many members on this board and YOUR response is one of the reasons I stopped posting on here.

 

Well I see you are back , although I didnt even notice or CARE you were gone. And the good news is that I am only "one" of the reasons. Now you need to work on the others...... Have a Great weekend

[jjkrkwood]

LIguy I'm with you. The board is here for us to help each other out, not to pontificate and/or try to start a debate or argument on a topic. The nice answer is no it's not unreasonable to ask for an escort to wear a suit and tie. Many will probably oblige, some will not, and at that point it's up to you to choose how important the suit and tie is to you. Happy Hiring!

 

The board is here for people to weigh in on subjects ANYWAY they see fit. There was no argument, no debate just a comment and MY opinion, just like you are giving Yours . If you cant deal with a differing opinion, you dont belong on a public website. And for the record, I did answer the question in the first sentence. Perhaps you need to read and realize the comment included a defense of escorts REFUSING personal requests, which the OP obviously has a problem with or he wouldnt have started THIS thread. "Nice answer" ??? Since when did comments need to be anything BUT honest ??

[bigvalboy]

and to most of the other members for their thoughts.

 

LOL...

 

 

I always felt that you you go to an escort to realize a fantasy and the suit n tie thing is my fantasy.

 

That was always my fantasy also. Call me weird, but I think it is incredibly sexy to take off a man's tie and unbutton his shirt. Damn! I was so disappointed when he opened the door with a t-shirt on. OK, I went in anyway, but it wasn't the same.

 

I am well aware that many young guys do not have the clothes to wear and that's why I tell them that a dress shirt,tie and dress slacks would be fine.

 

I get the whole casual social scene, but I would think that no matter how young, if you are in the business of escorting, a handful of nice proper clothes should be in your closet.

 

 

I just wanted some input and again I appreciate your thoughts and comments.Little did I know that I was going to get a psych evaluation.

 

Well I for one hope that you decide to stick around for awhile..have a good weekend.

[MiamiLooker]

The board is here for people to weigh in on subjects ANYWAY they see fit. There was no argument, no debate just a comment and MY opinion, just like you are giving Yours . If you cant deal with a differing opinion, you dont belong on a public website. And for the record, I did answer the question in the first sentence. Perhaps you need to read and realize the comment included a defense of escorts REFUSING personal requests, which the OP obviously has a problem with or he wouldnt have started THIS thread. "Nice answer" ??? Since when did comments need to be anything BUT honest ??

 

Stop the crocodile tears every time someone disagrees with you. There's no reason to get your granny panties in a wad.

[SteveEscort]

Well I see you are back , although I didnt even notice or CARE you were gone.

 

That's not very nice

[MiamiLooker]

That's not very nice

 

Would you expect anything different from a jjk post?

[robberbaron4u]

Gentlemen, gentlemen, play nicely! I do think a suit and tie to be an inordinate request of an escort. However, in my experience, the suit and tie have gone the way of spats in a many a young man's wardrobe. On rare occasion, I have purchased a suit tie, and, indeed, shoes for an escort that he might present properly in a particular setting, but, not as a "prop" for a "hire".

[gallahadesquire]

Would you expect anything different from a jjk post?

 

Actually, jjk has been pretty mellow of late. That's The first outburst I've heard from him in a long time.

[+ Travis69]

Create a fantasy of taking the escort to buy a suit. Watch him try on a few, pick one, pay for it and take him back to his place to slowly strip him down. Sounds hot!!! Of course we would have to hope the alterations could be done on site and within a short amount of time or the whole fantasy is ruined. Oh well, the idea is hot!

[bigvalboy]

take him back to his place to slowly strip him down. Sounds hot!!!

 

Yes yes yes....damn hot!!! I love to unbutton the shirt a couple of buttons, then take my hand and while the shirt is still partially buttoned, rub my hand on his chest and then grab his nipples...Hey I totally get where LIguy is coming from...

[robberbaron4u]

If you find yourself at Orlando, Adam Michael is the "master" of this routine, and, his wardrobe is replete with a "Tuxedo" suit of clothing.