I'm in love with an escort - Help me please

[orbital sander]

 

 

 

This board has more than 10 forums. Do all of them focus on the discussion of escort reviews?

 

Many of the men who come here have decades of experience at life, love, and loss. Is utilizing such an incredible resource for a noble cause really such a "funny notion?" Or is it a "funny notion" that some gay men are not always preoccupied with only escort reviews and/or sex 24/7?

 

I find narrow-minded people really narrow-minded.

 

I don't expect this board to be anything other than what it is. But a creative guy can dream.

 

Well Perhaps you can moderate a "confused gay man" forum. It can be right between the "Lounge" and the "Deli" (or maybe between "Escort Travels" and "Fetish Forum"). I cannot wait to see what kind of name calling and bickering will go on in that forum.

 

Dream on "creative guy",

Have a nice weekend.

[+ purplekow]

The idiocy of this whole thread is astounding. The fact that it lies just beneath the "Who Likes Big Nuts" thread is most telling.

I know that good lawyers know when to be quiet. Try it, you may find it helps.

[citylaw1]

There is nothing Catholic about your behavior or lack of sensitivity. You must be the non practicing type that already understands they will going downward not upward in the afterlife.

 

There is nothing Catholic about your presence on a hooker review site either.

[citylaw1]

I know that good lawyers know when to be quiet. Try it, you may find it helps.

 

Some of you fall for some real nonsense on here. When you bathe it in "comfort" and "understanding" it really makes me laugh.

 

How a "purplekow" can pass such judgment, while others offer psych advice, all in a thread that falls below the "big nuts" bonanza tells me a lot.

[jgoo]

It may be a legit issue for the OP or it may be someone getting their jollies. But the way I look at it is that either way I should treat it as if it were legit.

 

Assume for a second that it is legit, then I feel I should give the best help I can to a fellow member of the forum (however masked by anonymity he/she may be) that is in pain and distress. It's about compassion. In this specific case, the advice provided by others of getting professional help is most appropriate in my view.

 

Now assume for a second that it is not legit, I really don't lose anything that matters to me by showing care and/or concern even if I am taken in by it (perhaps some time invested to provide some help). By avoiding attacking the situation as something implausible or is a joke, it shows to others that may want to express their own problems or issues that they can do so freely without fear of such an attack. I would rather err on the side of keeping the door open to others based on treating such topics at face value with concern and seriousness.

 

While this site may not be the appropriate or best place to go with some issues people have, there isn't anything stopping someone from reaching out here for help on something/anything and it may be the only place they feel comfortable going as a first step. So I personally would rather not close the door on anyone, even at the risk of looking like a fool in the eyes of some for being taken in by someone who may have some strange idea as to what they find entertaining.

[RockHard]

Well Perhaps you can moderate a "confused gay man" forum. It can be right between the "Lounge" and the "Deli" (or maybe between "Escort Travels" and "Fetish Forum"). I cannot wait to see what kind of name calling and bickering will go on in that forum.

 

Don't stress your brain, dear. Daddy already calls the Lounge "a place to gather and exchange ideas." Seems like a pretty broad brush stroke to me. The point is, which you clearly missed, as long as cunty curmudgeons are permitted to behave like cunty curmudgeons, no "confused gay man" stands much of chance on this board.

 

And, furthermore, what gay man in his right mind would want to moderate on a board that permits multiple usernames?

 

THAT'S probably the most passive/aggressive, disingenuous comment, I have ever read here, or anywhere else, ever. Without question.

 

Speaking of trolls.

 

In my world, a boner is a dick-head dumb-ass idiot. So the troll name you picked says enough for me. Considering you have only 261 posts, you've certainly have proven here that you've got your troll thing down.

 

You clearly don't know me because I haven't a passive/aggressive bone in my body. So spare me your Lucky treatment and go find another board to slap people with your silly arm chair psychoanalysis. It all reads psycho to me, boner.

 

before someone starts accusing me of having an agenda

 

I hear what you're sayin'. What a shame that almost every post on this board requires a disclaimer. What is the price of bandwidth?

[+ WilliamM]

Don't stress your brain, dear. Daddy already calls the Lounge "a place to gather and exchange ideas." Seems like a pretty broad brush stroke to me. The point is, which you clearly missed, as long as cunty curmudgeons are permitted to behave like cunty curmudgeons, no "confused gay man" stands much of chance on this board.

 

You clearly don't know me because I haven't a passive/aggressive bone in my body. So spare me your Lucky treatment and go find another board to slap people with your silly arm chair psychoanalysis.

 

 

I was surprised by the passive/aggressive comment as well. A little later things got worse when Citylaw1 mentioned that he was Irish Catholic. Someone with apparent close connections to the pope proclaimed that Citylaw1 was going to hell.

 

The Lounge is not the place to discuss serious personal problem, at least not in the middle of a long heat wave.

[+ purplekow]

The Lounge is not the place to discuss serious personal problem, at least not in the middle of a long heat wave.

 

Desperate people look where they can see. Whether they are desperate for help or desperate for entertainment.

 

I would agree that the Lounge is not the best place to discuss serious personal problems but it may be the only place for this person, if indeed this is a truthful post.

i believe people in the Lounge should not risk dismissing a post of this potential severity, when they can only assume it is bogus.

Better to suggest getting reliable help or to say nothing.

Opinions are not facts, ask almost any lawyer.

[jjkrkwood]

I just hope ALL those Nays sayers arent Wrong.....

 

Desperate people that write shit on their Facebook pages hoping someone will HEAR them and pay attention, but everyone thinks its BS... The next thing, we are reading Headlines.

Be a little more open and compassionate UNTIL you are proven wrong.....

[tyro]

I agree. I've seen too many students write things to me (or all over their notebooks) to not pay attention.

 

Has anyone gotten a PM response from dolphin? I sent one but have heard nothing.

T

[RockHard]

I was surprised by the passive/aggressive comment as well.

 

Troll-speak no longer surprises me here. After years of this crap, you learn to swim around it. But, honestly, who wants to put one more asshole on "Ignore?" If the heat gets any hotter, one could end up talking to himself here. Thank goodness I'm leaving soon. I really dislike NYC in the summer.

 

Max understood me, and frankly, that's all that mattered to me on this thread.

[+ FreshFluff]

I'm also wondering if anyone has heard from him. He seems extremely depressed, regardless of the reason. Talking to people here wouldn't preclude him from seeing a therapist.

 

Also, the quality of professional therapists out there is very mixed. That woudn't be an issue if there were some equivalent of Daddy's for therapists. But there isn't; even within the MD review sites, psychiatrists don't get reviewed much. So you're basically going in blind.

[citylaw1]

I'm also wondering if anyone has heard from him. He seems extremely depressed, regardless of the reason. Talking to people here wouldn't preclude him from seeing a therapist.

 

Also, the quality of professional therapists out there is very mixed. That woudn't be an issue if there were some equivalent of Daddy's for therapists. But there isn't; even within the MD review sites, psychiatrists don't get reviewed much. So you're basically going in blind.

 

Apparently Dolphin is swimming to another board.

[+ purplekow]

Apparently Dolphin is swimming to another board.

Or swimming with the fishes Terrible joke Keep the hate mail civil

[citylaw1]

Or swimming with the fishes Terrible joke Keep the hate mail civil

 

Who are you? Fool.

[+ FreshFluff]

I think he's for real. A fake would not have such a detailed list of improvements he wants to make (from the "Ugly" thread).

 

He's hardly the first person to ever fall in love with an escort and hope against hope that he feels the same way.

[BostonPhil]

I think he's for real. A fake would not have such a detailed list of improvements he wants to make (from the "Ugly" thread).

 

He's hardly the first person to ever fall in love with an escort and hope against hope that he feels the same way.

 

I don't want to sound like a dick, has he responded to you yet in private? If not, that is pretty telling. He's been here. He's logged in as recently as a day ago. I was wiling to give benefit of the doubt but it is starting to wreak of arson. He set his fire and keeps coming back to see how it's going.

[maxwellissmart]

I don't want to sound like a dick, has he responded to you yet in private? If not, that is pretty telling. He's been here. He's logged in as recently as a day ago. I was wiling to give benefit of the doubt but it is starting to wreak of arson. He set his fire and keeps coming back to see how it's going.

 

He was actually on 22 minutes ago.

[jjkrkwood]

I don't want to sound like a dick, has he responded to you yet in private? If not, that is pretty telling. He's been here. He's logged in as recently as a day ago. I was wiling to give benefit of the doubt but it is starting to wreak of arson. He set his fire and keeps coming back to see how it's going.

 

He Learned Well !

[BostonPhil]

He Learned Well !

 

Probably from you.

[jjkrkwood]

Probably from you.

 

Most of those kinda threads are ABOUT me, NOT started by Me. (cunty)

[gallahadesquire]

PMing, as of ten seconds ago

[BostonPhil]

PMing, as of ten seconds ago

 

I'm much less skeptical now since he got to the PMs BEFORE I posted my comment.

[jjkrkwood]

PMing, as of ten seconds ago

 

Well, the good news IS that he/she is alive and well ! Perhaps we will get an update ?

[+ FreshFluff]

I don't want to sound like a dick, has he responded to you yet in private? If not, that is pretty telling. He's been here. He's logged in as recently as a day ago. I was wiling to give benefit of the doubt but it is starting to wreak of arson. He set his fire and keeps coming back to see how it's going.

 

I posted that he could contact me, as a few others did, but did not send him a PM.